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Behind on this subject..but has Fani denied affair? Saw (Original Post) Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 OP
I don't see why she should. EndlessWire Jan 2024 #1
She is not talking and good on her, she will speak through the courts on the subject Bev54 Jan 2024 #2
Bad things about Democrats. Kingofalldems Jan 2024 #3
The lack of denial troubled me Jarqui Jan 2024 #4
I doubt she will be able to avoid recusal by February 1st at the rate this is unraveling. nt kelly1mm Jan 2024 #5
I hope it doesn't come to that Jarqui Jan 2024 #13
She is a very smart and capable lawyer. She should have seen the ethical minefield she was kelly1mm Jan 2024 #15
One of my best friends is a prosecutor Jarqui Jan 2024 #16
I agree these things happen (frequently). What happens when it is (hopefully self) reported kelly1mm Jan 2024 #18
Need more info from Fani ,, Jarqui Jan 2024 #26
The Twitter blow up is (I assume) because of the interview in 2020 where she said she kelly1mm Jan 2024 #29
The statements are in multiple tweets Jarqui Jan 2024 #36
well that goes with being on social media in 2024. By now one as smart as Ms Willis has kelly1mm Jan 2024 #38
Her own tweet? That's fair but Jarqui Jan 2024 #45
That for sure is true! But it is not a good look in hindsight to say there should be no romantic kelly1mm Jan 2024 #47
indefensible in the court of public opinion (if true) Jarqui Jan 2024 #50
Agree..people get horny. Working and living around each other. Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #22
FWIW dpibel Jan 2024 #27
Thanks. Stand corrected. Too bad media doesnt make that clearer. Nt Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #39
They apparently have been friends for some time Jarqui Jan 2024 #33
Thanks for digging that all up J ! Part of this is Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #37
It's not difficult to continue. FYI: Wade's mother traveled with them on the trip so she apparently... brush Jan 2024 #6
What about the ethics of having a relationship with an employee (or contractor) you supervise? This is kelly1mm Jan 2024 #9
Work relationships happen. They're consesual adults. See post 38. brush Jan 2024 #10
Post 38? Do you think supervisors should date their direct reports? Do you think the power dynamics kelly1mm Jan 2024 #11
I don't think we should just succumb to the obvious trump team rat-fucking. brush Jan 2024 #12
For some reason many here will scream when it happens in the business world ripcord Jan 2024 #14
In general, no... but... Happy Hoosier Jan 2024 #20
I agree that the case against President Trump and his associates will (and should) go on. The kelly1mm Jan 2024 #21
You missed that hiring after affair? If true Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #24
The affair of the SP's soon to be ex-wife? Immaterial to the (probable) ethics kelly1mm Jan 2024 #30
I agree. Just trying to understand all the pieces of this. Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #32
Yikes B. Are you in GA? Inside info :) Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #25
Hmmmm. Seems like a natural impulse to deny. But Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #7
Hmmmmmm. Kingofalldems Jan 2024 #8
Is there a crime involved here? LeftRightLeft Jan 2024 #17
Youve got to be kidding! Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #19
Well..... LeftRightLeft Jan 2024 #28
The crime is tenuous SYFROYH Jan 2024 #31
Thats the theoretical and I think far fetched basis for a crime. The real issue here is the ethics kelly1mm Jan 2024 #35
Exactly. Not sure anyone ever mentioned the crime word. Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #40
Like I said, it's tenuous and I agree the COI in the realtionship AND SYFROYH Jan 2024 #44
So spending money you've earned dpibel Jan 2024 #42
Spending money on the government supervisor who gave you the money as a part of a work assignment could be. SYFROYH Jan 2024 #43
Becoming lovers after he was hired would also be an ethics violation in my state, which is not GA so I am not positive kelly1mm Jan 2024 #49
The "Me Too" movement has basically disentegrated as far as I can tell. LeftRightLeft Jan 2024 #53
Mr Wade is certainly dedicated to the case MichMan Jan 2024 #23
Good to know because he's being accused of not being qualified Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #34
Ouch! Those 24-hour days stick out. He might have worked that to meet deadlines, but Silent Type Jan 2024 #48
You believe he is overbilling, eh? dpibel Jan 2024 #51
That is the fear, yes FBaggins Jan 2024 #55
His mom went with them... Think. Again. Jan 2024 #41
She was on the first flight with them FBaggins Jan 2024 #54
Case of century, and we get this AVOIDABLE distraction. Silent Type Jan 2024 #46
No reason to. This is (at worst) an ethics issue. Ms. Toad Jan 2024 #52
Wow. Top Fani ally says Prosecutor shouid drop out Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2024 #56

EndlessWire

(6,562 posts)
1. I don't see why she should.
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 10:46 PM
Jan 2024

It's just Donald effing around trying to get out of his legal problems. He doesn't actually have defenses to anything he is indicted for, so all he has left is this.

Get him, Fani!

Bev54

(10,070 posts)
2. She is not talking and good on her, she will speak through the courts on the subject
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 10:48 PM
Jan 2024

Firstly these accusations are highly suspect and she did speak in her request to quash the subpoena of her, saying she has nothing to add on their divorce. The ex screwed around on him, not the other way around and at the time they both agreed the marriage was over. I am happy she is saying nothing right now, will wait and see what this is all about but she is not going to give these sucker republicans the satisfaction.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
4. The lack of denial troubled me
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 10:59 PM
Jan 2024

I'm waiting for the facts and evidence.
Probably will have to wait until February court hearing if she doesn't recuse before.

What has come in so far could make it difficult for her to continue.

I will not pass judgement until we hear from Fani and get all the facts.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
13. I hope it doesn't come to that
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:44 PM
Jan 2024

I like Fani and I respect her.
She is been a good, capable DA from what I've seen.

Put yourself in her shoes: facing off against Trump is like confronting the Devil himself. He is one ruthless, racist, nasty MF who hates women having power over him.
She's endured all kinds of attacks in court, in the media, on the net, in the GA legislature and in Congress. She, her staff and the court have endured all kinds of death threats.
She didn't blink. She didn't waver.

If she met someone during this horrific fight of her career, who cared about her and propped her up when she inevitably would get knocked down or overwhelmed by the craziness, well good for him.
So we're supposed to be so judgemental to deny her that when the accused pays women $130,000 to have sex with him behind his wife's back?

When they can't win in the courts, they have to kill the messenger.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
15. She is a very smart and capable lawyer. She should have seen the ethical minefield she was
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:49 PM
Jan 2024

walking into and chosen not to start a relationship with one of her direct reports. This is a clear violation of my state's (not GA) judicial branch ethics rules and, at minimum gives the appearance of impropriety. Your position is the empathetic one. Ethics rules and courts are not traditionally known for empathy.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
16. One of my best friends is a prosecutor
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 12:12 AM
Jan 2024

He said this is like what happens in offices. (paraphrased) "People get horny. I've seen it many times. It shouldn't affect the case."

She may well have to recuse. I understand that.

I've been in some tough situations against powerful or nasty people. Bad enough it was unsafe to stay at my home or I had to buy some guns and involve the police, etc. But I had a partner who had my back in every way. It made me much stronger, gave me something bigger than me to fight for and helped me in a big way to get through it.

I try to put myself in her shoes. She's in a situation a million times worse than I ever was. With no partner - no one to get her back emotionally and every other way? One could easily argue this insane situation pushed her into that guy's arms.

If you've ever been in a tough situation, it is not hard to have some empathy.
I too doubt courts will have much empathy but I would be there arguing that in this case, they should.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
18. I agree these things happen (frequently). What happens when it is (hopefully self) reported
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 12:17 AM
Jan 2024

is one of the two involved get moved so there is no longer a supervisor/supervised issue. One judge was in a relationship with his court reporter so she was assigned to another judge and was no longer his direct report. Later he was named administrative judge (they were married at this time) so she had to move to the scheduling office which is supervised by the elected clerk of court in my jurisdiction. It is taken seriously in my state.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
26. Need more info from Fani ,,
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 12:53 AM
Jan 2024

Does someone have to recuse if they go out for drinks after work?
Or they have a one night stand they would prefer to keep quiet?
Maybe they became friends - do friends have to recuse? And later it became romantic (if it ever did)

I think most if not all jurisdictions take it seriously.

My friend mentioned it would have been bad if she was sleeping with the judge (obviously)

Right now, she is getting ripped to pieces on twitter and that will probably sustain until after the hearing in February.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
29. The Twitter blow up is (I assume) because of the interview in 2020 where she said she
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:02 AM
Jan 2024

would fire anyone in her office in a relationship with a supervised employee? And that she would never date anyone in her office to avoid sexual harassment lawsuits?

Yeah funny about that videotape .........

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
36. The statements are in multiple tweets
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:20 AM
Jan 2024

Any garbage that can be used to disparage her and then some

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
38. well that goes with being on social media in 2024. By now one as smart as Ms Willis has
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:28 AM
Jan 2024

got to understand that the internet is forever ......

Using her own tweets against her is not what I would consider garbage. I do think it is meant to disparage her and then some but come on, it was her own tweets!

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
45. Her own tweet? That's fair but
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:46 AM
Jan 2024

For every one of those, there are a 1,000 that are ugly, awful and not fair.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
47. That for sure is true! But it is not a good look in hindsight to say there should be no romantic
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:49 AM
Jan 2024

relationships in the DA's office and that she would not do so on twitter and then ......... this.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
50. indefensible in the court of public opinion (if true)
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 02:22 AM
Jan 2024

It looks bad but I like to get all the facts to be sure.

If there is substance to the speculation, she may try to recuse.
But the court hearing will probably have to take place, etc.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
22. Agree..people get horny. Working and living around each other.
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 12:42 AM
Jan 2024

But...*supposedly* affair took place before she hired him. Per credit card records his ex-wife brought to light and then boom he was hired. Would 100% like someone to explain this. However, 100% agree trump probably behind it some how some way. He's desperate and this is the supposed slam dunk.

dpibel

(2,852 posts)
27. FWIW
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 12:57 AM
Jan 2024
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100218609730

He was hired in 2021.

Receipts are for 2022 and 2023.

For those who want to be horrified by all this, that's no matter.

But it's still a fact that the receipts produced so far postdate the hire.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
33. They apparently have been friends for some time
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:17 AM
Jan 2024

They did not know each other in 2017 when Wade and his wife determined irreconcilable differences.

He helped Willis as a judge (he had been a judge too). She served as a judge 2019-2020
He helped her transition team to the DA office in Jan 2021.
She began the Trump case Feb 10, 2021
He was involved with the Grand Jury for the Trump case that began in Jan 2022. I'm not sure how much he was involved before that.

These bank statements are in 2022-2023 - AFTER he was leading the Grand Jury looking into Trump et al
Sept 2022



Oct 2022

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April 2023



so those do not jive with
"But...*supposedly* affair took place before she hired him. Per credit card records his ex-wife brought to light and then boom he was hired. "

But maybe I haven't seen all the 'incriminating' statements
 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
37. Thanks for digging that all up J ! Part of this is
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:27 AM
Jan 2024

An ex-wife's anger that she supposedly didn't know he'd be rich enough to afford such trips.

brush

(53,840 posts)
6. It's not difficult to continue. FYI: Wade's mother traveled with them on the trip so she apparently...
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:07 PM
Jan 2024

approves of the relationship between her son who has been SEPARATED from his wife for TWO years, and Ms Willis.

Mr. Wade has moved on but apparently his soon-to-be ex is jealous of the high-profile and famous, new woman in his life and is trying to cause mischief. It won't work or affect the case.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
9. What about the ethics of having a relationship with an employee (or contractor) you supervise? This is
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:21 PM
Jan 2024

a clear violation of the ethics rules in my state judiciary (not GA) and in a major financial tech firm I worked for. I thought one of the main takeaways of the Me Too movement was that relationships between supervisors and supervised was inherently coercive?

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
11. Post 38? Do you think supervisors should date their direct reports? Do you think the power dynamics
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:40 PM
Jan 2024

of an employer/employee relationship make dating direct reports inherently coercive? Do you think policies in mid to large size organizations that prohibit such relationships are wrong. Wasn't one of the main takeaways from the Me Too movement that relationships between supervisors and direct reports were, at best, highly problematic?

I really don't think these concepts disputed, at least among the left at least .....

brush

(53,840 posts)
12. I don't think we should just succumb to the obvious trump team rat-fucking.
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:43 PM
Jan 2024

And it's different than the majority of the me_too cases.

ripcord

(5,519 posts)
14. For some reason many here will scream when it happens in the business world
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:47 PM
Jan 2024

But when it happens in public service they think it is no big deal.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
21. I agree that the case against President Trump and his associates will (and should) go on. The
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 12:40 AM
Jan 2024

ethics issues (basically HR) here may lead to the DA/SP having to recuse themselves from the case or, if they refuse, having the Court, assuming it finds an appearance or impropriety, change venue to effectively strip the DA/SP of jurisdiction.

In many jurisdictions, including mine for sure (not GA). judicial ethics rules preclude romantic relationships between supervisor and supervised That is the main problem here. The motion to dismiss makes some rather wild claims that the DA is choosing to press more cases so as to keep paying the SP that she is/was in a relationship with and, by extension, she is getting a benefit of alleged lavish vacations with him paid for (indirectly) with DA funds. That is the 'basis' of the motion to dismiss, which I think is going nowhere. The ethics issues are much more problematic.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
30. The affair of the SP's soon to be ex-wife? Immaterial to the (probable) ethics
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:07 AM
Jan 2024

violation of having a relationship with one of your direct reports. He could have been a life long bachelor, it does not matter that he is technically married. it is that she supervises him.

I don't understand why after the me too movement so many here on the left seem to have an issue with the simple concept of 'don't get in a relationship with those you supervise'!

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
7. Hmmmm. Seems like a natural impulse to deny. But
Fri Jan 19, 2024, 11:08 PM
Jan 2024

Surely surely she knows that. Hmmmm. What's at stake is Democracy as we know it. Thought GA case was the most cut and dried among them all.

SYFROYH

(34,183 posts)
31. The crime is tenuous
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:09 AM
Jan 2024

but starts off that she hired her lover and he kicked back the funding in the form of vacations together

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
35. Thats the theoretical and I think far fetched basis for a crime. The real issue here is the ethics
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:20 AM
Jan 2024

violation of being in a relationship with one of your direct reports. That is specifically barred by my state's (not GA) judicial branch ethics rules. Thus the appearance of impropriety may lead to a recusal by the DA/SP and if they refuse, possible change of venue to another GA county.

SYFROYH

(34,183 posts)
44. Like I said, it's tenuous and I agree the COI in the realtionship AND
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:46 AM
Jan 2024

receiving gifts could be easier to prove.

dpibel

(2,852 posts)
42. So spending money you've earned
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:37 AM
Jan 2024

is now "kicked back the funding"?

Also, there's no evidence I know of that they were lovers before he was hired (assuming, arguendo, that the allegations of a romantic relationship are true).

SYFROYH

(34,183 posts)
43. Spending money on the government supervisor who gave you the money as a part of a work assignment could be.
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:43 AM
Jan 2024

Could be.

I work for the State of Georgia who hires people and I would never accept a significant gift from the people I hire (outside of the office white elephant gift exchange).

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
49. Becoming lovers after he was hired would also be an ethics violation in my state, which is not GA so I am not positive
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:54 AM
Jan 2024

that it would be there but likely. It is simply that you cannot be in a relationship with someone you supervise.

This is not that hard of a concept, especially post me too movement.

I am astonished that this seems to be a foreign concept here in allegedly left leaning DU. It is like me too never happened .....

 

LeftRightLeft

(23 posts)
53. The "Me Too" movement has basically disentegrated as far as I can tell.
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 09:49 PM
Jan 2024

Due to more than a little bit of sham accusations.

It had so much potential.

MichMan

(11,962 posts)
23. Mr Wade is certainly dedicated to the case
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 12:45 AM
Jan 2024

Even working around the clock when necessary. Don't often see that these days

Silent Type

(2,937 posts)
48. Ouch! Those 24-hour days stick out. He might have worked that to meet deadlines, but
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:52 AM
Jan 2024

at least make it look plausible on billing statements for the trial of the century.

FBaggins

(26,757 posts)
55. That is the fear, yes
Sun Jan 21, 2024, 09:04 AM
Jan 2024

Last weekend she claimed (to God oddly enough) that she hired three special prosecutors and paid them all the same.

But it appears that his hourly compensation is almost double the other two and they’ve billed a little over 1/10th as much as he has.

It does raise questions.

Think. Again.

(8,367 posts)
41. His mom went with them...
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 01:33 AM
Jan 2024

...is there any reason people are assumimg they're lovers and not just long-time family friends or have some other connection?

FBaggins

(26,757 posts)
54. She was on the first flight with them
Sun Jan 21, 2024, 08:56 AM
Jan 2024

Reportedly - she flew back (or to another destination) two days later while they went on a cruise together.

So, yes… it looks like more than a long time family friend.

Ms. Toad

(34,086 posts)
52. No reason to. This is (at worst) an ethics issue.
Sat Jan 20, 2024, 03:39 AM
Jan 2024

It should have zero impact on the case against Trump.

If he's the best, then she should hire him.

If she hired him for reasons other than quality - how on earth does that prejudice Trump?

Personally, I think this is a motion the judge should dismiss on briefs alone. No reason to hold a hearing, since the claims are so far removed from any potential prejudice to Trump that it is silly to pander to Trump's muck stirring.

(And I've been mostly on the end of explaning why the court really is obligated to take most of what Trump files seriously.)

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