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ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 09:48 AM Nov 2012

In memoriam: President John F. Kennedy

It's hard to believe we lost our President 49 years ago today, and I can't help thinking how different things would be had he been able to finish even his first term.




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In memoriam: President John F. Kennedy (Original Post) ailsagirl Nov 2012 OP
probably the most quinnox Nov 2012 #1
Yes ailsagirl Nov 2012 #2
Abe Lincoln might give JFK a run for his money, at least for working people coalition_unwilling Nov 2012 #54
Not quite, but certainly very talented indeed Hekate Nov 2012 #80
Very much so. n/t loudsue Nov 2012 #84
I remember...that dreadful day that changed America. Historic NY Nov 2012 #3
A tragic day, H2O Man Nov 2012 #4
That was the day when America changed forever ailsagirl Nov 2012 #5
I was in Mrs. Kloster's English class when we heard the news. I'll never forget; libinnyandia Nov 2012 #6
I was also in class... ailsagirl Nov 2012 #9
I was in the middle of a Spanish test in High School... George II Nov 2012 #19
Biology class here. WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2012 #36
6th grade social studies ashling Nov 2012 #70
I shook his hand in 1960 when he was running for President. It's hard to tell how proud byeya Nov 2012 #7
JFK was the first president that I actually remember in my lifetime, so in my eyes, nobody else We People Nov 2012 #8
You're welcome ailsagirl Nov 2012 #12
I was at a birthday party for a classmate at the time. sheshe2 Nov 2012 #17
Same here.. first President I remember.. nt ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #48
Me, too. Fifth grader at the time. narnian60 Nov 2012 #101
Thank you for the reminder of the date. dixiegrrrrl Nov 2012 #10
Your alternate interpretation of "American Pie" is shared by me coalition_unwilling Nov 2012 #55
McLean made it opaque enough dixiegrrrrl Nov 2012 #62
I listened to the AM-format song (short version) over and over that summer. Then coalition_unwilling Nov 2012 #63
Vincent Always Makes Me Silently Weep. NT WiffenPoof Nov 2012 #79
For those of us old enough to remember Freddie Nov 2012 #11
What this country might have been... ailsagirl Nov 2012 #13
My sister was working at the Dallas Morning News dinger130 Nov 2012 #14
Thank you for posting this. I still feel the grief over what "they" did, truth2power Nov 2012 #15
Next year will be overwhelming - and Nov. 22 falls on a Friday. Faygo Kid Nov 2012 #16
Friday. I was all dressed up for my senior pictures after school. And a play in the city. aquart Nov 2012 #93
President Kennedy was a man of peace. Octafish Nov 2012 #18
I reject this premise YoungDemCA Nov 2012 #57
Essential reading: "JFK and the Unspeakable: Why He Died and Why It Matters," Peace Patriot Nov 2012 #86
Well Then, Let's Get Right To It! triplepoint Nov 2012 #97
Another good one... WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2012 #100
Got a link? Octafish Nov 2012 #92
I got to see President Kennedy with ... bayareaboy Nov 2012 #20
Walter Cronkite announces the news to the nation that JFK has died... pinboy3niner Nov 2012 #21
Still Hard to Look at this Portrait/What a Loss kairos12 Nov 2012 #22
I was a freshman in college. That day, I was MineralMan Nov 2012 #23
I, too, was a freshman in college that day. Buildings full of peole were silent while we watched TV SharonAnn Nov 2012 #26
Good observation about the 50s being over on that day. MineralMan Nov 2012 #41
I once decided to test that. aquart Nov 2012 #96
I came across a website called "The Political Graveyard" ailsagirl Dec 2012 #102
I don't think so. aquart Dec 2012 #103
I was laos a freshman in college druidqueen Nov 2012 #99
I remember this day well..... 49jim Nov 2012 #24
I saw him at the opening of Dulles Airport outside Washington DFW Nov 2012 #25
Holy shit. Those are some memories! aquart Nov 2012 #95
I'll never forget that day. greatauntoftriplets Nov 2012 #27
I was finally able to see the creepy place where they killed him. lonestarnot Nov 2012 #28
I've seen it, too ailsagirl Oct 2013 #104
R.I.P. President Kennedy. Lugnut Nov 2012 #29
I'd just turned fifteen, yet the painful memory remains 49 years later. ancianita Nov 2012 #30
Exactly one week before my sweet 16th birthday mountain grammy Nov 2012 #31
This was 15 months before my birth... Ochsfan Nov 2012 #32
Ignorance is everywhere & people have their way... triplepoint Nov 2012 #89
Thank you for sharing. ThatsMyBarack Nov 2012 #33
K&R. n/t bobthedrummer Nov 2012 #34
he's definitely missed here onethatcares Nov 2012 #35
RIP Mr. President Trailrider1951 Nov 2012 #37
RIP President Kennedy 47of74 Nov 2012 #38
I will never forget that awful day. Lilma Nov 2012 #39
I was in high school Loki Nov 2012 #40
Sigh. ananda Nov 2012 #42
I was a High School Freshman. polmaven Nov 2012 #43
I was born in '65 and named after him n/t ejbr Nov 2012 #44
I was in kindergarten. The teachers were so somber. AmBlue Nov 2012 #45
As a child I reached out and touched him nevergiveup Nov 2012 #46
I was six. I remember this day and the days after ... Auggie Nov 2012 #47
I saw that too Tumbulu Nov 2012 #74
49 years ago today... alterfurz Nov 2012 #49
K&R nt ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #50
My earliest memories are of the funeral liberal N proud Nov 2012 #51
I was in english class--and I remember staring at the pa box in shock--certain that another student niyad Nov 2012 #52
WHO CAN SAY WHAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN? chuckstevens Nov 2012 #53
We might have seen actual nuclear disarmament following JFK's likely re-election - n/t coalition_unwilling Nov 2012 #58
Perhaps the Republicans would not have regained power Freddie Nov 2012 #65
I remember that day slackmaster Nov 2012 #56
I was in my 7th grade class in St. Petersburg, FL when the announcement was made.... OldDem2012 Nov 2012 #59
Thanks for sharing that. Some of my 7th grade class began cheering too. This was in lower SC. nt raccoon Nov 2012 #98
I was at a Roman Catholic School in Tacoma, WA first grade gopiscrap Nov 2012 #60
This thread has made me realize again how thankful I am for my elders on DU. I was just coalition_unwilling Nov 2012 #61
I recall that Jacqueline Kennedy refused to change out of her bloody suit ailsagirl Nov 2012 #64
JFK's assassination was a defining moment of my life Blue_In_AK Nov 2012 #66
Me too ailsagirl Nov 2012 #67
K & R Change has come Nov 2012 #68
I was in 8th grade typing class PlanetBev Nov 2012 #69
I was 7 years old in Catholic school.......... mrmpa Nov 2012 #71
RIP JFK. Third Doctor Nov 2012 #72
Cut down in his prime Canuckistanian Nov 2012 #73
Good night, sir... Aristus Nov 2012 #75
I'm still coming to grips with what we lost when JFK died LongTomH Nov 2012 #76
Junior year in Latin class eridani Nov 2012 #77
To which I would add this rejoinder: coalition_unwilling Nov 2012 #78
And he got killed for that as well. n/t eridani Nov 2012 #90
I was getting my blood test for my marriage license. juajen Nov 2012 #81
Thanks ailsagirl. JFK's murder became the dividing line in the lives of a generation. I was 15. Zen Democrat Nov 2012 #82
I brushed this off when I first read it pscot Nov 2012 #83
reading through these comments defacto7 Nov 2012 #85
Highly recommended: "JFK and the Unspeakable: Why He Died and Why It Matters," Peace Patriot Nov 2012 #87
I remember exactly where I was burrowowl Nov 2012 #88
K & R !!! WillyT Nov 2012 #91
I think it's clear that... ailsagirl Nov 2012 #94
 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
54. Abe Lincoln might give JFK a run for his money, at least for working people
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:04 PM
Nov 2012

around the world.

Not to take anything away from JFK.

Hekate

(90,712 posts)
80. Not quite, but certainly very talented indeed
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 12:10 AM
Nov 2012

He didn't get enough time....

As for charisma, our current President is pretty charismatic.

H2O Man

(73,558 posts)
4. A tragic day,
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:04 AM
Nov 2012

not only for this nation, but for the world.

I still have all of the NY Times from the next ten days, etc.

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
9. I was also in class...
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:20 AM
Nov 2012

It was 11:30 am (thereabouts) on the west coast when we heard. One minute I was looking forward to the weekend and the next was utterly stunned to hear the news.

I'll never forget.

George II

(67,782 posts)
19. I was in the middle of a Spanish test in High School...
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:02 AM
Nov 2012

...it was suspended and we were all sent home. In the Manhattan subway station we had no idea of what happened, but there were rumors that "the President was shot".

1-1/2 hours later I got home and walked in the front door, my father was home and my parents were crying. I knew then.

I promised myself that I wouldn't study for that test given the interruption, and wound up getting a grade of 32 when it was resumed 2 weeks later. I didn't regret not studying.

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
36. Biology class here.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:42 AM
Nov 2012

Sophomore in high school. Like all of us back then, we'll never forget what we were doing.

Except Poppy Bush...he couldn't remember.

ashling

(25,771 posts)
70. 6th grade social studies
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 09:51 PM
Nov 2012

My mom was crying when I got home.

My mom was the Den Mother for my Cub Scouts pack and we had served as honor gaurds for him when he had visited Houston a month or so before.

 

byeya

(2,842 posts)
7. I shook his hand in 1960 when he was running for President. It's hard to tell how proud
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:10 AM
Nov 2012

Irish Americans were of him.

We People

(619 posts)
8. JFK was the first president that I actually remember in my lifetime, so in my eyes, nobody else
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:20 AM
Nov 2012

has replaced that first image in my mind.

That is right - it's doubly tragic what happened, since the world may have been very different had he lived.

With all that goes into preparing for and observing an early Thanksgiving, today's date didn't even sink in until your post. Sad as it always it, thanks for posting the reminder and the beautiful portrait.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
17. I was at a birthday party for a classmate at the time.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:58 AM
Nov 2012

It was a very sad day for our Country

It was the day that America wept.

Peace to all on this day of Thanksgiving.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
55. Your alternate interpretation of "American Pie" is shared by me
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:12 PM
Nov 2012

somewhat (and much appreciated).

Usually, the song is taken to refer to the deaths of Buddy Holly, Richie Valens and the Big Bopper (Father, Son and Holy Ghost). I, however, like to interpret it to refer to the deaths of JFK, MLK, Jr., and RFK.

http://understandingamericanpie.com/vs6pg2.htm

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
62. McLean made it opaque enough
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:42 PM
Nov 2012

we can hear different meanings
but yes, like you, I was in a time and place in which the deaths of JFK, MLK, Jr., and RFK had monumental, life changing meaning.
Esp., I think, because MLK was killed in April '68, and RFK was killed a month later...the message was pretty clear.
And American Pie was released in '71.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
63. I listened to the AM-format song (short version) over and over that summer. Then
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:47 PM
Nov 2012

bought the album and listened to the long version until I had worn out the vinyl.

McClean said in an interview that the success of 'AP' ruined him as a songwriter. He was being far too hard on himself, imo, as anyone who could write 'AP' and 'Vincent' has earned a spot in the songwriters' hall of fame, imo.

Freddie

(9,267 posts)
11. For those of us old enough to remember
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:23 AM
Nov 2012

Even of they were little kids at the time (I was 7) the date Nov. 22 will always have a special, sad significance. What this country might have been.

dinger130

(199 posts)
14. My sister was working at the Dallas Morning News
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:36 AM
Nov 2012

and remembers the motorcade going by. She was surprised at how quickly secret service/FBI? swarmed the building and the surrounding area where she worked.

I was a teenage girl on vacation in Florida....a shocking time.

truth2power

(8,219 posts)
15. Thank you for posting this. I still feel the grief over what "they" did,
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:44 AM
Nov 2012

killing JFK, and later MLK and RFK, just so real equality and social justice would be stillborn in this country. All our leaders....gone.

I was a young mother with an infant daughter. I was feeding her lunch when I heard it on the radio. Will never forget.

I wish I believed in Hell, for those responsible should surely spend eternity there.

Faygo Kid

(21,478 posts)
16. Next year will be overwhelming - and Nov. 22 falls on a Friday.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:49 AM
Nov 2012

As it did then. The memories are astonishing for those of us old enough to recall.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
93. Friday. I was all dressed up for my senior pictures after school. And a play in the city.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:43 AM
Nov 2012

Those Twelfth Night tickets with the date clearly marked remained in my wallet until it was stolen years later.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
18. President Kennedy was a man of peace.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:59 AM
Nov 2012

JFK kept us out of war, despite the best efforts of the hawks.
JFK worked to make ALL Americans equal under law, despite the best efforts of racists in his own party.
JFK led America to a New Frontier and the moon, what had long been thought impossible.

His successors have largely led the nation in other directions.

Thank you for remembering, ailsagirl.

Peace Patriot

(24,010 posts)
86. Essential reading: "JFK and the Unspeakable: Why He Died and Why It Matters,"
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:00 AM
Nov 2012

by James Douglass, 2008, Orbis/Maryknoll Books.

You really need to read this. It's a tough read, especially for those of us who lived through it, because it takes you through all the details of the assassination and all the meandering, confusing misdirection and coverup that occurred. But it is a very lucid and enlightening expose of the crime, and, more than this, Douglass provides brilliant and original research on WHY JFK was killed--that he was in the process of becoming "a man of peace," defied and evaded the CIA with backchannel contacts with the Soviet Union's leader, Krushchev, and began forging an alliance for the elimination of nuclear weapons and the END of the "Cold War" (and all the proxy wars).

This CHANGE in JFK occurred as a result of the Cuban Missile Crisis, wherein the entire Joint Chiefs of Staff, the CIA and the MIC were telling him to NUKE Russia while the U.S. had missile superiority. He thought they were insane. It changed his whole outlook, gazing like Dante in the Circles of Hell, at nuclear annihilation of an entire people with hundreds of thousands of casualties on our east coast. He wouldn't do it. He couldn't do it. And they killed him for that and tried to throw the blame on Russia, to get "the communists" wiped out in retaliation. (LBJ gave them Vietnam instead.)

Meticulous documentation of all this in Douglass' book. Brilliant book. And he leaves "why it matters" pretty much up to the reader. Ain't it obvious? The SAME kinds of people--our militarists and war profiteers--are still in charge. Change "communists" to "terrorists" and ask yourself, who benefits from this endless state of war?

It STILL matters--and the reason is that JFK had chosen a peaceful path, in defiance of all of them. He wasn't perfect. He made mistakes. He started out as a "Cold Warrior." He lived in the confusion of poor communications (in those days), disinformation from his own intelligence agency, and other problems, surrounded by militarists in a culture of rabid "anti-communism" within the government. But he DID change. He was ABLE TO change and see much farther than those around him. He did some dramatic things--the Russian wheat deal, the Nuclear Test Ban Treaty and more--to further his (and Krushchev's!) quest for world peace. They saw that he would be re-elected (and possibly fulfill his vow to "smash the CIA into a thousand pieces&quot . They viewed him as a "traitor" and they killed him for it.

Douglass' book is utterly convincing on this point--on WHY he died; also, on who did it (he nails the CIA as far up as operations chief Richard Helms) and other points, such as the purpose of misdirection to Russia. JFK would NOT have been assassinated if he had not been--or, rather, if he had not been in the process of becoming--"a man of peace." He was going to take the whole country in that direction. They knew this. They stopped him. And then, as LBJ said, shortly after the assassination, "Now they can have their war." (He was speaking of the CIA and Vietnam.)

Please read Douglass' book before you reach any conclusions about the JFK assassination. You may not agree (although I think you will). But he speaks to your very point, eloquently and convincingly, based on a decade of research and analysis.

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
100. Another good one...
Tue Nov 27, 2012, 11:03 PM
Nov 2012

"Best Evidence" by David Lifton (?) I read it back in the 80's and although it has been denigrated by some, I think it had an awful lot of interesting points. His main point was that the conspirators knew that the assassination would be investigated by politicians who were basically lawyers, who always look for the "best evidence". In this case, it was JFK's body. His claim was that the body was altered before the official autopsy. He also tends to point to the CIA...JFK's threat to smash it, it's (CIA) horrible intel on Cuba (no air cover needed) which led directly to the Bay of Pigs debacle, and his decision that "If Vietnam wants democracy, they're going to have to get it themselves." He was preparing to bring everyone home, soldiers and advisers, by Christmas of 1963. He was shot less than a month later.

And as I mentioned in my earlier post, George H.W. Bush, who actually was IN Dallas that horrible day, can't remember what he was doing at the time. Which has got to make him the only person living at the time who can't. The bastard.

bayareaboy

(793 posts)
20. I got to see President Kennedy with ...
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:04 AM
Nov 2012

about 100,000 other folks at UC Berkeley. I think that was in 1961. I think I was in the 7th grade.

The next year I got to hand a shovel to Herbert Hoover when he broke ground for a Boy's Club.

Who was I more impressed by, Hmm?

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
23. I was a freshman in college. That day, I was
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:14 AM
Nov 2012

leaving the dorm for my Biology 101 survey class lecture, and heard the news of the shooting on the TV in the dorm's lounge area. I watched for a few minutes, and then went to the lecture hall, where the class was already in session. I walked down to the front of the class, interrupted the prof, and announced that President Kennedy had been shot in Texas, and that the news was just coming in.

The professor dismissed the class immediately, and everyone headed for places where there were TVs. The dorm lounges, rec center areas, and every public area with a TV were jammed the rest of the day, as we waited for more news.

It was definitely another time. Dorm residents weren't even allowed to have TVs in their rooms. There were no computers, so the only place we could find out what was going on were in public areas. A strange silence was maintained in all of those places as we all waited for information. It was a bad day.

SharonAnn

(13,776 posts)
26. I, too, was a freshman in college that day. Buildings full of peole were silent while we watched TV
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:25 AM
Nov 2012

or listened to the radio. It was stunning.

Up until then, we were still living in the "50's". The "60's" really began with that assassination and so many things changed.

There was no longer the safety we had assumed was America.

As we've noticed before, the victims are nearly always (except perhaps for George Wallace), people on the political left who are killed.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
41. Good observation about the 50s being over on that day.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:52 AM
Nov 2012

I agree. The next year, I dropped out of college and joined the budding counterculture for a while.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
96. I once decided to test that.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:39 AM
Nov 2012

It was after a spate of small plane crashes that were amazingly convenient for the right. I combed Google for mentions of politically-connected small plane fatal crashes and made a little chart. I was stunned.

My little amateur list show only Democrats gong down in flames EXCEPT for one four-year period in which only Republicans crashed and burned. After which Democrats were once again unsafe to fly.

The fours years in which Republicans crashed coincided with the one-term presidency of George H. W. Bush.

I thought that was damned odd.

I wish someone would try to repeat my fumbling research and see if my findings looked as they did because I missed things I didn't know how to search for.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
103. I don't think so.
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 11:04 AM
Dec 2012

I recall a lot of separate searches, not one site. But I wouldn't trust my memory on that, either.

druidqueen

(62 posts)
99. I was laos a freshman in college
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 09:55 AM
Nov 2012

I was 16 and was a student at Laydcliff College ( a small catholic liberal arts college for women- - - I only stayed there for one year & then transferred to another college) in Highland Falls, NY......the campus of Ladycliff adjoined West Point....I was in French class that afternoon and the professor was called out of the class and came in crying - he was a Hungarian refugee. Our campus, because of its proximity to West Point was put under military lockdown. We were finally permitted to go home on that Sunday. I had tickets to a Smothers Brothers concert on the Saturday night (the 23rd) at West Point. The concert was cancelled and then was rescheduled for the following May...great concert....I came to understand why they were so anti-war....their father, a West Point graduate, was a killed in Korea. Istill wonder what might have been....

P.S. Jim Douglass' book is fantastic....a MUST read.

49jim

(560 posts)
24. I remember this day well.....
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:15 AM
Nov 2012

I was in 9th grade and everyone was crying when they heard the news. Hard to believe it was 49 years ago and it's still pretty fresh in my memory. Also the 13th anniversary of my father's passing.

DFW

(54,403 posts)
25. I saw him at the opening of Dulles Airport outside Washington
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:24 AM
Nov 2012

I still have a photo of him autographed and made out to me "with best wishes" on my 11th birthday in March 1963. My dad was able to get it done for me because Pierre Salinger was a neighbor of ours at the time. I still have that photo in its original frame from 1963 in my living room.

On Friday, November 22, 1963, we were in Friday afternoon assembly at my school in Washington, DC, when a teacher came in, sought out Bobby Kennedy Jr. and his older brother Joe. We all wondered what was going on, but no one told us. After assembly, I took a bus downtown, as I sometimes drove home with my dad, whose office was in the National Press Building at 14th and F Streets.

As I walked into the building, I saw huge headlines in the tabloids sold outside saying "JKF SLAIN." I thought it was just another "the Martians have landed" headline, only in poorer taste than usual. When I got up to my Dad's office, the phone was ringing off the hook, and he had three calls going at once. In between conversations, I told him what I had seen downstairs, and he confirmed it was no hoax, but true.

An era came to an end right then and there.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
95. Holy shit. Those are some memories!
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:53 AM
Nov 2012

Get them down on paper or video. For your descendants. Details are everything and details are what history loses first.

 

lonestarnot

(77,097 posts)
28. I was finally able to see the creepy place where they killed him.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:29 AM
Nov 2012

Visiting there left me depressed for days and thinking about what could have been.

ancianita

(36,061 posts)
30. I'd just turned fifteen, yet the painful memory remains 49 years later.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:31 AM
Nov 2012

RIP, President Kennedy. Oliver Stone is right. This anniversary date of his murder is the day that the military-industrial-espionage complex showed itself to be Americans' number one domestic enemy by murdering its commander-in-chief. I never trusted Arlen Specter again after he proffered his "single bullet theory" for leaders of the Warren Commission to dupe The People with. I'm glad he's dead. I never trusted Lyndon Johnson, either; no amount of civil rights legislation redeemed him for his complicity. Everyone knew they were both evil weasels. All National Archives records about this 'event' won't be completely opened until 2017, when all the guilty will likely be dead. I'd just turned fifteen, yet the painful memory remains 49 years later.

mountain grammy

(26,623 posts)
31. Exactly one week before my sweet 16th birthday
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:31 AM
Nov 2012

I remember.. can any of us that were here ever forget? I'm now crying.. time to get up and get our Thanksgiving together. This year we are thankful, grateful and relieved that the right wing of the conservative party hasn't managed a total takeover of our country in the last 49 years, but they sure have more power than they should.

Ochsfan

(25 posts)
32. This was 15 months before my birth...
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:34 AM
Nov 2012

but in reading the various histories, especially James Douglass' JFK & The Unspeakable, I've been given a sense of the enormity of the loss.

For anyone who has never heard this, prepare to weep:


 

triplepoint

(431 posts)
89. Ignorance is everywhere & people have their way...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:36 AM
Nov 2012

Last edited Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:13 AM - Edit history (5)


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And the night comes again to the circle studded sky
The stars settle slowly, in loneliness they lie
'Till the universe explodes as a falling star is raised
Planets are paralyzed, mountains are amazed
But they all glow brighter from the brilliance of the blaze
With the speed of insanity, then he dies.

In the green fields a turnin', a baby is born
His cries crease the wind and mingle with the morn
An assault upon the order, the changing of the guard
Chosen for a challenge that is hopelessly hard
And the only single sound is the sighing of the stars
But to the silence and distance they are sworn

So dance dance dance
Teach us to be true
Come dance dance dance
'Cause we love you

Images of innocence charge him go on
But the decadence of destiny is looking for a pawn
To a nightmare of knowledge he opens up the gate
And a blinding revelation is laid upon his plate
That beneath the greatest love is a hurricane of hate
And God help the critic of the dawn.

So he stands on the sea and shouts to the shore,
But the louder that he screams the longer he's ignored
For the wine of oblivion is drunk to the dregs
And the merchants of the masses almost have to be begged
'Till the giant is aware, someone's pulling at his leg,
And someone is tapping at the door.

To dance dance dance
Teach us to be true
Come dance dance dance
'Cause we love you

Then his message gathers meaning and it spreads across the land
The rewarding of his pain is the following of the man
But ignorance is everywhere and people have their way
Success is an enemy to the losers of the day
In the shadows of the churches, who knows what they pray
For blood is the language of the band.

The Spanish bulls are beaten; the crowd is soon beguiled,
The matador is beautiful, a symphony of style
Excitement is ecstatic, passion places bets
Gracefully he bows to ovations that he gets
But the hands that are applauding are slippery with sweat
And saliva is falling from their smiles

So dance dance dance
Teach us to be true
Come dance dance dance
'Cause we love you

Then this overflow of life is crushed into a liar
The gentle soul is ripped apart and tossed into the fire.
First a smile of rejection at the nearness of the night
Truth becomes a tragedy limping from the light
All the (canons|heavens) are horrified, they stagger from the sight
As the cross is trembling with desire.

They say they can't believe it, it's a sacrilegious shame
Now, who would want to hurt such a hero of the game?
But you know I predicted it; I knew he had to fall
How did it happen? I hope his suffering was small.
Tell me every detail, I've got to know it all,
And do you have a picture of the pain?

So dance dance dance
Teach us to be true
Come dance dance dance
'Cause we love you

Time takes her toll and the memory fades
but his glory is broken, in the magic that he made.
Reality is ruined; it's the freeing from the fear
The drama is distorted, to what they want to hear
Swimming in their sorrow, in the twisting of a tear
As they wait for a new thrill parade.

The eyes of the rebel have been branded by the blind
To the safety of sterility, the threat has been refined
The child was created to the slaughterhouse he's led
So good to be alive when the eulogy is read
The climax of emotion, the worship of the dead
And the cycle of sacrifice unwinds.

So dance dance dance
Teach us to be true
Come dance dance dance
'Cause we love you

And the night comes again to the circle studded sky
The stars settle slowly, in loneliness they lie
'Till the universe explodes as a falling star is raised
Planets are paralyzed, mountains are amazed
But they all glow brighter from the brilliance of the blaze
With the speed of insanity, then he died.

--Phil Ochs, Crucifixion

Note:
Phil said that he wrote this song about JFK and "hero killing in general". He later said that it was about Christ, RFK, JFK, and MLK Jr.

onethatcares

(16,169 posts)
35. he's definitely missed here
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:40 AM
Nov 2012

imagine where we'd be without a "lone gunman" or the warren commission report.

His family was wealthy but somehow he touched the heart of the American spirit.

R.I.P. President John F. Kennedy.

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
38. RIP President Kennedy
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:45 AM
Nov 2012

One of the greatest President's in the past 100 years, murdered by his own country.

Lilma

(132 posts)
39. I will never forget that awful day.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:47 AM
Nov 2012

I was on my way to Latin class when the news spread in the hallway. We were all stunned. My next class was Algebra, the teacher was crying so hard --we didn't have class. The days ensuing we just a horrible nightmare.

Loki

(3,825 posts)
40. I was in high school
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:48 AM
Nov 2012

On my way from lunch to my fifth hour class. Saw the teachers gathered in the hall and some were crying. The principal came over the loudspeaker and announced that President Kennedy had been shot and had died. I remember feeling lost and wanting to be home with my parents. The ride home on the bus was silent except for some talking in very hushed murmers. My mom and dad were home in front of the television and that's where we stayed for the next three days. It was a dark, cold time. Then we lost MLK and Bobbie. I really didn't think we would survive these horrors as a country, and I hope that we never go through that experience again. Watching Lincoln last week, it brought back that gut wrenching feeling that those of us who lived through those dark days felt. Never again, never again.

ananda

(28,865 posts)
42. Sigh.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:55 AM
Nov 2012

You know, even in my bigoted 1960 white Baptist Dallas neighborhood, Kennedy won a little door to door election me and my neighbor friends conducted.. meaning that he was so charming that even some of the bigots would vote for him. Even my usually Republican, business-minded dad voted for him. Kennedy had a way of getting people to believe in hope and happy endings.. except that bubble was burst in a big way on that Black Friday in November 63. I was sitting in my sophomore high school class in Druid Hills (south South Oak Cliff area of Dallas) around 1pm when an announcement came over the loud speaker that Kennedy had been shot. We all went to the auditorium/chapel to wait it out. I sat with a classmate and we prayed the rosary until the final announcement came around 3pm that he was dead and we were all sent home.

I managed to get copies of Look and Life magazines, the newspaper, and a special booklet which I still have. When I look at them, I get such a weird feeling, the whole thing was so surreal and in some ways unreal, with the way it all went down afterwards, the police and jail incompetence in Dallas for instance, Officer Tippett being shot, Jack Ruby killing Oswald, and so on.

The broadcast news at the time was very classy, especially Cronkite. We were glued to the tv for days, and the funeral was so touching and symbolic. Joseph Campbell explained it for me on The Power of Myth, and I so appreciated that because at age 15, I didn't know what everything meant. Also, around 1984, I went to a Camelot Symposium at SMU where a panel of Kennedy cabinet members and newspeople spoke on the Kennedy admin: Sargent Shriver, Roger Hillsman, Ted Sorenson, David Halberstam, and others. That was truly great, and my mom's friend and I got to go on stage afterwards to meet and greet, especially memorable being shaking hands with Shriver while mom's friend gushed on and on about how much she admired Eunice. Shriver was very gracious and.. ermm.. tolerant at her gushing, let us say, lol.

Anyhow, the sixties, that was some decade for violence against our brave wonderful leaders: JFK, RFK, MLK Jr. I don't know that we've ever really recovered to this day, but Johnson did his best, greatly, to move the nation forward in the Kennedy-liberal spirit. We could use another spirit like that now!

polmaven

(9,463 posts)
43. I was a High School Freshman.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:56 AM
Nov 2012

I had been chosen to be an "office pagette" during 3rd period, and was, with a friend, running errands for the office personnel.

I was actually on the second floor when my Civics teacher came by and told me the news. I went back down and my friend and I were invited into the principal's office to follow the events on TV. We were in there when the announcement came that the president had died.

I looked at Principal Barry, and saw that he was crying as well as the rest of us. It was stunning. It is a moment in time I will never, ever forget.

AmBlue

(3,111 posts)
45. I was in kindergarten. The teachers were so somber.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 12:08 PM
Nov 2012

It was a scary sad day I'll never forget. How I loved my President and his beautiful children.

nevergiveup

(4,762 posts)
46. As a child I reached out and touched him
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 12:09 PM
Nov 2012

as he walked by me at a campaign rally in Springfield Illinois in 1960. I remember it as if it were yesterday. He will always live in my heart.

alterfurz

(2,474 posts)
49. 49 years ago today...
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 12:30 PM
Nov 2012

...during the single phys ed hour of the semester devoted to "hygiene" (what they used to call sex education), Coach was nervously trying to explain the facts to the embarrassed boys when the announcement came over the P.A. That ended the discussion, and Coach never again revisited the topic. Which may help explain certain subsequent aspects of my love life.

liberal N proud

(60,335 posts)
51. My earliest memories are of the funeral
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 12:37 PM
Nov 2012

Don't recall what my parents reactions were to the tragedy, they might have kept that hidden from us, but I remember the funeral on TV.

niyad

(113,329 posts)
52. I was in english class--and I remember staring at the pa box in shock--certain that another student
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 12:41 PM
Nov 2012

had gotten to the box and was playing a very sick game. It was surreal--classes were not cancelled, but nobody got anything done. I spent the rest of the day in the school library, stunned, as were all my classmates.

the world changed that day, and NOT for the better. jfk, mlk, and rfk--imagine what our world would look like today.

 

chuckstevens

(1,201 posts)
53. WHO CAN SAY WHAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN?
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:02 PM
Nov 2012

Speculative history is consider by many historians to be a stupid exercise and massive waste of time. However, every year on Nov 22 and June 5, I still lament how much better the nation and world might have been had history gone differently.

* If JFK had not be murdered in 1963 and/or RFK had lived and gone on to win the White House in 1968, thousands of young Americans might not have needlessly died in the jungles of Vietnam in what amount to an international pissing
contest.

* There would not have been a reemergence of Richard Nixon and the creation of such cynicism about government after the abuse of power in the Watergate Affair and a young Dick Cheney and Karl Rove might not have gotten a start in their pathological lust for power.

* There might not have been Reaganomics, scapegoating unions, and a mentality that "Greed is Good".

* It is unlikely that 911 would have occurred and thus, there would not have been a George W Bush lying us into an immoral war in the Middle East and deregulating everything.

In the melancholy words of Aurthur Schlesinger Jr., "Who can say what might have been?"

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
58. We might have seen actual nuclear disarmament following JFK's likely re-election - n/t
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:17 PM
Nov 2012

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Freddie

(9,267 posts)
65. Perhaps the Republicans would not have regained power
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 02:10 PM
Nov 2012

Imagine if Reagan had not destroyed America with his anti-union screed, "supply side" economics and the rise of the Religious Right. Hurts to think about it.

OldDem2012

(3,526 posts)
59. I was in my 7th grade class in St. Petersburg, FL when the announcement was made....
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:18 PM
Nov 2012

....over the pa system. Almost immediately most of the class exhibited various stages of shock and grief, but about a quarter of the class began cheering and applauding the President's death. The rest of the day was a complete blur.

When I talked with my Dad later that night about what I had experienced at school, he explained that Florida had several military bases and just about all of the personnel hated JFK. He reasoned that most if not all of those kids in class were from military families. He also explained that Florida had a large Cuban-American population that also hated JFK. In short, lots of people wanted him dead.

That was my first real exposure to an underlying seam of right-wing hatred that has helped me identify people like that over the last 49 years. The faces have changed over the years, but the hatred is still just as strong as it has always been.

Farewell, Johnny....we barely got to know you.

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
60. I was at a Roman Catholic School in Tacoma, WA first grade
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:20 PM
Nov 2012

the announcement came at about 1130am right before..the nun lined us up and we immediately went to the church as a school body to pray...No lunch that day. After they announced he died, we prayed for about a half hour and then they dismissed school. Those who could walk home (lots less liability in those days) we sent home, busses were called in and those who had to get rides from carpools and parents were told to wait in the lunch room while lunch was served to them.

I remember being very sad, the spring before I was living in Frankfurt and Kennedy had come to Berlin. My family and I took a flight toi Berlin very early that morning and saw him. # months later I was in Tacoma and my parents pulled me out of school to see him appear in Tacoma at Cheney Stadium.

We had just come to Tacoma and didn't have a tv, so right after the radio announcement my parents had gone to a radio and tv store to rent a tv for the week. We got so enamored with the tv after the assassination coverage the rest of the week that we wound up buying a tv thus we slid into being culutrated as Americans.

THis was the first news item in my life that I cognizant of. The ensuing coverage of the the murder of Oswald, the lying instate and the funeral itself, let deep impressions upon me...as an older child I began to study Kennedy and fell in love with his founding of the Peace Corps and while not serving with them, became a misiionary teacher in Hong Kong and have spent my adult career in service work.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
61. This thread has made me realize again how thankful I am for my elders on DU. I was just
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 01:20 PM
Nov 2012

a little boy of 4 when it happened and I remember nothing of the time. But seeing and reading the memories here has made me feel like I was actually present there.

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
64. I recall that Jacqueline Kennedy refused to change out of her bloody suit
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 02:01 PM
Nov 2012

because, as she said, "I want them to see what they have done." She had always maintained right up to her death that "Jack" was the love of her life. How poignant, and appropriate, that she was buried in Arlington, next to President Kennedy and the two infants they lost.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
66. JFK's assassination was a defining moment of my life
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 02:18 PM
Nov 2012

Recognition of the date was my first thought this morning.

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
67. Me too
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 02:47 PM
Nov 2012

My cats awoke me at some ungodly hour (5:00 am) to be fed, and afterward, I didn't go back to bed until I posted this thread--it was something I just had to do.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
69. I was in 8th grade typing class
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 07:48 PM
Nov 2012

I can still remember it like it was yesterday. All weekend long, there was funeral music playing on one end of the dial to the other.

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
71. I was 7 years old in Catholic school..........
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:09 PM
Nov 2012

Father Walsh, who was newly ordinated came into my 2nd grade class. He asked us to kneel and then blessed us and we were told to go home. He and the pastor went to every classroom & did the same to each.

I walked home and saw so many adults on the street corners, in front of bars and stores all talking, some with radios. When I got home, Mom was there with the TV on listening to the news. My Dad came home about 2 hours later, he hugged mom and all 4 of us kids.

I remember watching the TV for the next few days up to and including the funeral, just mesmerized with what was happening.

Canuckistanian

(42,290 posts)
73. Cut down in his prime
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:41 PM
Nov 2012

We'll never know what he could have achieved.

One thing's for sure. We'll never see his like again soon.

Thanks for posting, ailsagirl

LongTomH

(8,636 posts)
76. I'm still coming to grips with what we lost when JFK died
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:49 PM
Nov 2012

His speech at American University:



Part 2:



I also remember, that in his last few weeks of life, he asked Premier Nikita Khrushchev to work with the US in the exploration of space, and that, Premier Khrushchev finally accepted. Where might we be in the exploration of the solar system if President Kennedy and Premier Khrushchev had been allowed work together?

eridani

(51,907 posts)
77. Junior year in Latin class
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:10 PM
Nov 2012

Announcement came over the PA that we should assemble in the auditorium. The principal gave us the news, and led us in prayer. No TVs in the school, but we got a radio broadcast. My sense of optimism, the sense that all of us together could make the world a better place, died that day. Not that I've given up--still raging against the dying of the light--just with a sense of the total indeterminacy of any outcomes.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
78. To which I would add this rejoinder:
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:19 PM
Nov 2012

"I have not lost faith. I'm not in despair, because I know that there is a moral order. I haven't lost faith, because the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice."

Martin Luther King, Jr. "Why I Am Opposed to the War in Vietnam" (1967) -- Speech at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta, Georgia (April 30, 1967)

http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Martin_Luther_King,_Jr.

juajen

(8,515 posts)
81. I was getting my blood test for my marriage license.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 12:13 AM
Nov 2012

My wedding was held the next week, and, even in Birmingham, Alabama, all were in mourning. I couldn't have a band play at my Bridesmaid luncheon and all the store windows were draped in black with a photo of JFK in the middle of the shroud. It was so sad and I will never forget it. Then for our honeymoon, we adjourned to New Orleans, where the streets were full of a lot of sadness and suspicions. Weird and scary, somewhat. But, we were so innocent, we did not find out that we were in a dangerous place to be until later. Ah, the innocence of youth.

Zen Democrat

(5,901 posts)
82. Thanks ailsagirl. JFK's murder became the dividing line in the lives of a generation. I was 15.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:00 AM
Nov 2012

I haven't gotten over it. I do remember that after Jack Ruby killed Oswald, nobody and I mean nobody thought the lone gunman theory was plausible. When the Warren Commission Report came out it was kind of shocking that they had wrapped it up so neatly with NO addiitional information that didn't square with one loner kills the president in view of the Dallas police department, and this loner killer is himself killed by a loser strip-joint operator, this time in the basement of the Dallas jail handcuffed to a couple of policemen. People were distracted to accept the "let's just agree to accept that we'll never know the truth" theory. There are holes in everybody's stories. Sets of "facts" that cannot be reconciled. What bothers me are the slick presentations that commercial media put forth to false-educate young people about this-or-that meaningless aspect of conspiracy theory, but ignoring the weight of evidence that this was blatant and clumsy political assassination. Clumsy enough that it received a clumsy cover-up as well. I trust that forensic advances will eventually reveal more information. In the meantime, that White House portrait says it all. I hope we have younger generations of people who are not willing to get over it, or let it go.

pscot

(21,024 posts)
83. I brushed this off when I first read it
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:01 AM
Nov 2012

But I've been thinking about it all day. It was like a bright promise held out to us, then jerked away in the ugliest way imaginable. I don't believe history pivots around certain events, but it had that feel. Still does.

Peace Patriot

(24,010 posts)
87. Highly recommended: "JFK and the Unspeakable: Why He Died and Why It Matters,"
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:30 AM
Nov 2012

by James Douglass, 2008, Orbis/Maryknoll Books.

This is a profoundly healing book, especially for those who lived through it. It is not just a reiteration of all the awful details of the assassination, nor just a brilliant crime book (who did it?). It is also a brilliant treatise on the culture of militarism that infected our country then and still infects it--a culture so sick that hundreds of thousands of casualties on our own east coast was considered "acceptable" and ADVOCATED, in order to annihilate Russia, and that conspired to and murdered the president because he wouldn't agree and took another path (diplomacy, peace). This militarism is still with us, casually slaughtering hundreds of thousands of people in Iraq, without the slightest regard for their innocence, and is now drone-assassinating people all over the world, without the slightest regard for the rule of law--summary executions without benefit of trial, and with lots of "collateral damage."

It's a book full of understanding of then and now. He doesn't much go into now. He leaves it to us to see it for ourselves. But he so thoroughly documents how and why JFK was killed, that it heals the souls of those who mourn JFK--or healed mine, in any case--and sets you on your feet NOW, for a good, hard look at things NOW. It's like doing rehab, I guess. No more illusions. No more hiding. Face reality!

Great book!

Peace

burrowowl

(17,641 posts)
88. I remember exactly where I was
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:35 AM
Nov 2012

classes were cancelled and everyone went out to talk and cry, the girls from Juarez had to stay at shool that day because Mexico had closed the border in case the person who killed JFK might try to flee the county.

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
94. I think it's clear that...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:48 AM
Nov 2012

John Fitzgerald Kennedy, Dr. Martin Luther King, and Senator Robert Francis Kennedy are never far from our thoughts.



And many thanks to all who shared their thoughts with us on this special day.

Peace

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