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My mom was freshman college, she was a big fan of his. She shocked and upset because this date was her birthday. She told me, she always had frame of JFK on her desk at her dorm. She was 19 years old.
barnabas63
(1,214 posts)unblock
(52,243 posts)OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)In fact my grandpa often tells me of the time he was taking my mom to her doctor for a check-up and hearing the news while in the waiting room.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)JohnnyLib2
(11,212 posts)elleng
(130,929 posts)to synagogue for community 'mourning.'
tledford
(917 posts)Freddie
(9,267 posts)LeftInTX
(25,359 posts)redwitch
(14,944 posts)Very bewildering for a 7 year old. I remember many details of that day.
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)met him on June 6, 1962 he was going to West Point and us young kids on a bus for a class trip....we screamed so much he stopped the limo and came on the bus. It was very confusing after meeting him in person....another person in my young life died.
marlakay
(11,470 posts)I will never forget the day. In second grade, they put the flag down at school and when I got home both of my parents were crying. They loved him.
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)vilify
(102 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)Flashmann
(2,140 posts)A week before......
Control-Z
(15,682 posts)I remember my mom standing and weeping in front of the TV. She was 27 and died in June the following year. Kind of strange, I've alway felt a kind of connection with the Kennedy kids because of the loss.
HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)Sorry you lost your Mom so young. Peace to you and hugs from a stranger who understands.
Control-Z
(15,682 posts)How kind of you. I only hope your understanding is not through any personal experience of your own.
HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)How else would I know what you went through? PEACE and some light and a bit of laughs.
Skittles
(153,164 posts)I was six too; I was living in England and really do not remember the assassination, but I remember not much later the sympathy I felt for Caroline and John, and even Oswald's daughter who I believe was our age. My sympathy to you too.
underthematrix
(5,811 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)I've been unable to separate that from my birthday, so it's always been sad. I usually don't chime in on these threads. too painful. My dad died a few months later. And so it goes.
ArcticFox
(1,249 posts)Betsy Ross
(3,147 posts)Last semester of junior high. Announced over the PA. Sat on the 'senior lawn' and cried.
PoliticalBiker
(328 posts)My mom told me I cried when I saw on tv that the president was killed
no_hypocrisy
(46,116 posts)I didn't understand what a president was, but I knew that a little girl exactly my age had her daddy killed. That made me cry.
Canuckistanian
(42,290 posts)I was just back from Kindergarten and watching the soap opera with my mom. She was ironing.
Then, the TV show halted and Walter Cronkite came on.....
dog_lovin_dem
(309 posts)I was home from school sick, watching soaps with my Mom...Walter Cronkite broke in with the news. I remember my Mom crying uncontrollably...one of my earliest kodak memories, unfortunately.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)oldhippydude
(2,514 posts)senior in high school... got the news via the school pa system..
LoisB
(7,206 posts)collective stupor for a while then went home crying; boys, girls, teachers...
oldhippydude
(2,514 posts)got kicked out of school for talking in study hall several hours later... had to have my folks sign me in the next monday... i guess i was one of the first to come out of the collective stupor..
Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)Mrs. McCafferty's fourth-period English class.
frogmarch
(12,153 posts)I was watching the soap "The Edge of Night" when Walter Cronkite broke in to say JFK had been shot. My mom and I stayed glued to the TV and later heard Cronkite deliver the awful news that the president was dead.
I was also watching when Oswald was shot.
Jazzgirl
(3,744 posts)She was crying because she knew the truth wouldn't be know for a long time if ever.
txwhitedove
(3,928 posts)gblady
(3,541 posts)an announcement came over the intercom as well.....
the choir director didn't drop a beat.
RomneyLies
(3,333 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Even my WW2 vet dad was upset, despite his being like Archer Bunker. My mom loved the Kennedys.
As much as I despised bush jr, I'd get anxious whenever a special news report was announced. A President is that important.
vaberella
(24,634 posts)southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)made the announcement. I was in shock and afraid. My parents were upset and we all cried and went to church to say a pray and light a candle for the president and his family. I remember seeing him in Italy in a motoracde in Naples. The people were waving with happiness to see our president. My dad yelled out hey President Kennedy and he turned and saw him and waved. My Italian Grandmother even had a picture of the Pope and President Kennedy hanging on her wall. My grandmother never had been to the USA but she loved our president. My mother was pregnant at the time and when my brother was born in 1964 she named him after the president. Yes that day many young people learned that life could be taken away in a minute. I couldn't sleep and I kept worrying about the children. So much on my mind for a 15 yr old to think about. I will never forget it. It was like yesterday. It is kind of sad because I haven't heard it mentioned much on tv about it. Outside of Chris Matthews who wrote a book about him. It is out in paperback. By the way it really is a good book.
Stellar
(5,644 posts)The streets of Chicago were as quite as they ever could be. Every home and apt building I past by was listening to the radio or TV of the event.
It seemed no one could get past that dreadful experience. We were all waiting for some one to wake us up from such a terrible dream.
WillyT
(72,631 posts)Had come home from the 3rd Grade to eat lunch...
Found mom crying uncontrollably on the couch...
With the TV on...
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)BlueCaliDem
(15,438 posts)I vividly recall the next few days and the funeral. I was watching TV with my dad and we saw Oswald get shot. Dad got very angry about that and when I asked why he said, "Now we'll never know what really happened."
DURHAM D
(32,610 posts)Sophomore in college. I was listening to the radio and heard the first report. I walked down the hall of my apartment and asked my roommate if she heard it. We both agreed it was probably a joke but not at all funny. Right after that they announced "This is not a prank or a joke the President has been shot". We immediately got dressed and ran 5 blocks to the student union to watch on tv.
The entire campus was in collective shock. My college announced they would not be canceling classes for the funeral on Monday so naturally we gathered on the lawn in front of the administrative building that weekend to protest. They never did officially relent but many of the professors joined the students in protest and no classes were held on the 22nd.
During the following week we decided to pool our money and buy a tv. None of us had a car so we walked to the store and brought it home in a wagon we borrowed from the kid next door.
greatauntoftriplets
(175,742 posts)Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)I have very vivid memories of that day. I had arrived early for my 1:20 English class & a girl in my class arrived in tears, carrying a transistor radio. JFK had been shot but was not yet dead. We spent the class period listening to the radio. I went to my next class, and the instructor dismissed us.
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)Just back from Japan.
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)Had to learn about this the hard way....in school.
leveymg
(36,418 posts)three years earlier.
I was riding my Dad's shoulders in a big crowd of people. It was a sunny but chilly day in Connecticut, where we had just moved from the City. A recall a man with a nice smile reach up and shake my hand. My parents told me later it was the man who would be elected the 35th President.
Danmel
(4,915 posts)PrBelvr
(19 posts)I was going home from school to get lunch money. I got home and my mom was watching the tv. She was crying quietly. The news was that JFK was just shot.
byeya
(2,842 posts)rzemanfl
(29,565 posts)Not Me
(3,398 posts)That was a time before the uber-partisan environment that Karl Rove has brought to America.
As an aside, about 10 years ago, we were sitting at the table at my (now late) Dad's house, when one of my Repub brothers brought up Clinton/Lewinsky and then went into Teddy Kennedy and Chappaquiddick. I watched my father, in the course of about ten seconds, become enraged. He pounded his fist on the table and said, "Don't you EVER talk about the Kennedy family like that in my house. NO ONE FAMILY has EVER given as much to this country when they didn't need to as the Kennedy's. And I would urge you to remember where you came from."
To this day, I have never been more proud of my Dad.
coalition_unwilling
(14,180 posts)public service) with "Other Priorities" Cheney or "J'iame Paris" Romney or that AWOL MoFo who shall go unnamed.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)But I spent reading Shlesinger's book on it when I was nine.
Tx4obama
(36,974 posts)coalition_unwilling
(14,180 posts)my Dad, who worked at Western Union back when it did more than transfer money, was getting teletype updates faster than the radio or TV. He was calling my Mom during the day with updates as they came in over the wire.
My Mom (since passed) was working at the Smithsonian Annex (?) in Boston or Cambridge when JFK was a Senator. He came there to give a speech. My Mom said she was sitting in the balcony and at one point it seemed to her that JFK looked directly at her and smiled that brilliant smile. She said right then she knew she would vote for him for anything from that point onward. Dad had no comment!
Tx4obama
(36,974 posts)I was sitting on the floor in front of the TV and she was sitting in my grandpa's chair crying.
One of my earliest memories.
coalition_unwilling
(14,180 posts)my Dad to rent one the week of the first moon landing\moon walk in 1969.
So I was spared the funeral procession (although I have since watched video of it many times).
I remember everything about that day. Saw Oswald shot on TV too. Ugh.
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)I was in Geometry class when Mother Superior came on over the PA. I think was probably the only time any of us teenage girls really prayed and MEANT it.
My school was near Macy's Herald Square and I walked home. It was mind boggling to see all the people in the streets opening crying and hugging total strangers.
When I got home, Mom met me at the door crying. She had been baking me a birthday cake with all the bowls and ingredients strewn all of the place. We both sat down in front the TV and just watched the News Reports. That cake never got finished.
My birthdays were never the same again for many, many years afterward.
Sugarcoated
(7,724 posts)She was born in 1963, and she always had a fascination with the Kennedy's, especially Jackie.
I was 2 at the time, btw.
northoftheborder
(7,572 posts)Living in Texas, I was totally aware of the irony of Dallas being the place of assassination. Hugely conservative, hating of JFK and his wife, large billboards blasting "Impeach Earl Warren", was the Dallas of the era. And it was mostly because of the civil rights movement and the Kenndys' sympathy with it. Also, being Catholic helped fuel the vitriol.
Edited to add where I was when it happened:
I was at home watching my favorite Soap Opera, "As the World Turns", when Walter Cronkite came on with the terrible news.
Panasonic
(2,921 posts)and my mom still has the Chicago Tribune (I think) headline of JFK being killed.
City Lights
(25,171 posts)I will never forget watching Jon Jon salute his father's casket.
Kaleva
(36,307 posts)It's one of my earliest memories and while I don't recall seeing Jon-Jon salute, I do remember watching the funeral on tv as my mother also watched and ironed clothes.
Rhiannon12866
(205,417 posts)My reading group was allowed to go to the school library by ourselves, were told to be quiet and not to run. I ran into my brother there, delivering a note from his teacher, and he acted like I didn't exist. Apparently the gym coach had a free period and he heard the announcement on the radio that the president had been shot. He told the 6th grade teacher who told the librarian and we overheard. We ran back to our classroom at the other end of the school, don't imagine we were quiet at all. We told the teacher and he ran out to find out more and the rest of the day was strange.
We were let out of school early soon after that, remember half of the kids in the school sitting on the floor in the gym, waiting for our buses to arrive. The next few days were quite surreal, no school and we had the television on all the time. I learned the word "grimace," when I saw Lee Harvey Oswald shot on live TV.
I remember telling my mother and she said she couldn't stand anymore. Everyone was sad and scared and visibly upset, including my parents, though I know they voted for Nixon. Things were different back then, everyone was inconsolable.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)I was in 5th grade. Someone called our teacher, Mrs. Price, down to the principal's office. We all sat looking at each other wondering what was going on.
When she came back, she was crying. She told us our President had been shot and was dead.
We People
(619 posts)come back from either lunch or recess and another student came into the room to tell us. I don't think our teacher had returned to the classroom yet.
I'll never forget waiting outside with other students for the bus and another 5th grader from another class was gleeful and rejoicing about it. I was totally shocked at his reaction, since everyone else was still sadly stunned. It was so disrespectful and I had never seen anyone celebrate the death of another person, especially of someone as important as our president.
It was one of the first few realizations I had experienced in my life that all human beings don't have the same values, they don't always react the same way, and that some persons may even hate the people that you admire or love. It seemed especially ugly that it was coming from a child, but I figured it was something he learned from his parents.
PuppyBismark
(594 posts)I got home and came back Sunday and the school was in shock. I remember it like it was yesterday.
When JFK was elected, my high school math teacher said "Well, we lived under a democratic president before, I guess we can do it again." She kept me out of national honor society when I questioned what she was teaching an brought in the guidance counselor, a math teacher, as my expert witness. For some reason, we just never got along after that.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)waiting for him to do something painful ( dentist's were always painful back then).
He hurried in and said the appointment was canceled ( whooopeee!)
because the President had been shot ( whaaaa???)
and I sat in the chair for a few minutes waiting for the dental assistant to take off the paper towel thingy
and then walked home.
We always walked back then, had no car, it was about 1.5 city blick miles, and I was struck by how hushed everything was in the street. I remember everything seemed very surreal.
Came home to the tv on, the folks always watched CBS news. That is when it really hit me.
We all just sat, dazed, for hours, watching the news before and after Cronkite's announcement that he was dead.
I must say, hearing Walter Cronkite say those words was a powerful shock.He really was "the most trusted man in America". National News casts back them were very serious intelligent shows, no silly blather back and forth like today.
For those who were NOT around at that time, let me share that a very common feeling in the country was a MASSIVE sense of loss of leadership. "What will we do without him?" was the overall concern, there was not, in the first few days, any sense of Johnson stepping in, but a huge sense of JFK being gone.
We felt concern for Mrs. Kennedy and the children and the extended family.
JFK was, to most of us blue collar families, a very large and inspiring public figure, back in a time when Presidents were looked up to as powerful people and much was expected of them.
I still feel the sadness as I type this.....
coalition_unwilling
(14,180 posts)sense of the familiar and mundane intersecting with the absurd and surreal.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)" familiar and mundane intersecting with the absurd and surreal."
is actually a good description of much of my life...
aaaaaa5a
(4,667 posts)whatchamacallit
(15,558 posts)We had a housekeeper for a short period when both my parents were working. I believe her name was Betsy, and she was very sweet. 11/22/63, I got off the school bus, breezed through the front door, and the first thing I encountered was Betsy sitting on the fireplace stoop, weeping inconsolably. I froze in place and asked her what was wrong. She turned to me, tears streaming down her face, and choked out "Child, they killed the president". It was shocking to hear, but what really got me was the depth of her sorrow. I had never seen anyone that sad before. It was my first sense of how important JFK was to the nation.
RC
(25,592 posts)yellerpup
(12,253 posts)I thought the world would end.
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)madamesilverspurs
(15,805 posts)The halls at school were full of students crying, some softly, some sobbing loudly. No one was not crying.
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watercolors
(1,921 posts)We campaigned for him while we were in college. I remember knocking on doors in the cold, we were in college on GI bill with 2 children. It was such a shock!
longship
(40,416 posts)I delivered the Detroit News. The paper had to be reprinted, so we waited a while before the trucks delivered the papers. The headline in the Detroit News that day was Kill Kennedy, the weirdest headline I ever saw. Kinda pissed me off.
Half the people on my delivery route were in tears. Myself, I was completely numb.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)ChazII
(6,205 posts)NewsCenter28
(1,835 posts)Response to nmbluesky (Original post)
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RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Scruffy Rumbler
(961 posts)Grew up in a world where the Warren Report was considered hogwash. My father and his brother were both engineers and no way believed the single bullet theory... or as I was taught it, 'the magic bullet' theory.
PDJane
(10,103 posts)Found the report, stayed home to watch.
I'd been sort-of politically aware before that. Was definitely aware after that. And no, I don't believe the official version of that, either.
There were too many people who really didn't want the progressive agenda that Kennedy was moving towards.
onethatcares
(16,168 posts)n/t
11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)Still Sensible
(2,870 posts)in the third grade.
UnrepentantLiberal
(11,700 posts)My mom choked up when we were at a restaurant a few years ago and she was talking about the brilliant people in his administration.
I don't remember JFK's funeral but I remember RFK. I think of the train and his flag draped coffin every time I hear The Battle Hymn of the Republic.
I was born the night of the Altamont concert.
Silver Swan
(1,110 posts)I was in study hall in high school, they put the radio news on the intercom.
I at first misheard "Dallas" as Venice," and I was certain that if the President was assassinated in Europe it would cause a war.
So I was actually relieved when I understood it was Dallas.
They did not dismiss school early, but everyone was somber on the school bus home.
In fact, everyone was somber for the following week.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)RKP5637
(67,109 posts)GoCubsGo
(32,084 posts)I was born a few days after he was inaugurated.
HowHasItComeToThis
(3,566 posts)broiles
(1,367 posts)I was 23 and so excited.
Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)If I recall correctly, he was in Houston the day before or maybe two days before, which is where I lived.
broiles
(1,367 posts)ProudProgressiveNow
(6,129 posts)In church when I heard...
liberal N proud
(60,335 posts)Faygo Kid
(21,478 posts)Seventh grade history class. More next year.
Mojorabbit
(16,020 posts)and remember it and the television coverage of it. I was raised Catholic and they passed out little cards at mass with his picture on it.
flor-de-jasmim
(2,125 posts)dinger130
(199 posts)I just turned 14.
Brewinblue
(392 posts)no memory of the event. I do have vague memories of the LBJ/Goldwater election, and vivid memories of RFK's death, though none of MLK's which was only 2 months prior. Weird how our memories work from when we are young.
Lugnut
(9,791 posts)It is a day I'll never forget.
John1956PA
(2,654 posts)I was in second grade in a Catholic elementary school where all of the pupils seemed to feel a bond with President Kennedy as we knew he was Catholic. It was about 2:00 PM. The radio feed over the P. A. speaker reported that the President had been shot as he rode in a motorcade in Dallas, Texas, and that he was in critical condition. Later on, a second radio feed announced that the President had died. We were horrified and stunned.
coalition_unwilling
(14,180 posts)a P.A. for little children to hear (at least not without some grief counselors available).
LeftInTX
(25,359 posts)Chemisse
(30,813 posts)And children's feelings were not as important to adults as they are now.
MFM008
(19,814 posts)He passed by and waved at me from his limo. My dad was stationed in VA. I still remember the flags on the car front, and I probably reminded him of Caroline, so he waved.
Demonaut
(8,918 posts)lob1
(3,820 posts)Riley18
(1,127 posts)Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)and my third grade teacher who I am sure was a Republican was visibly shaken and teary eyed. Republicans - at least most of them -were different then.
Xipe Totec
(43,890 posts)But I knew even then the horrible loss this represented for the world, for the United States, and for Mexico.
He was a beloved friend to Latin America and his death was felt deeply.
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)left is right
(1,665 posts)Classroom windows faced the flagpole. We noticed flag at halfmast. Teacher explained the significance of the lowered flag, although I already knew why flags were lowered. Then came the announcement over the PA system. Some parents started arriving to take their kids home. Walkers were released early.
madinmaryland
(64,933 posts)Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)I didn't hear about the assassination at school and my mom told me about it when I got home.
liberalmuse
(18,672 posts)JHB
(37,160 posts)Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)I remember that day like it was yesterday.
Trajan
(19,089 posts)and:
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)topic of conversation as I became more aware of my world.
beac
(9,992 posts)his assassination (along w/RFK's and MLK's) are my strongest memories from grade school.
MichaelSoE
(1,576 posts)MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)cheriemedium59
(212 posts)but I don't remember it. Apparently we were at my Grandmother's house and
everyone was crying.
arthritisR_US
(7,288 posts)kevinmc
(3,001 posts)Jazzgirl
(3,744 posts)We got out of school early. I went home. My aunt was there and she was standing in front of the TV crying. I cried too. Such a horrible memorable day.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)me she just heard it over the radio. She was allowed to have a radio at her job. I told my supervisor, who met with other managers and they brought in a TV an hour later into our department so we could watch the events as they unfolded. It was a sad, sad day for everyone.
cheriemedium59
(212 posts)dipsydoodle
(42,239 posts)I'm UK but that was a sad day for the whole world.
murray hill farm
(3,650 posts)And I still fight the tears when I think of it. It was devastating to all of us and for our country. It was a terrible time...impossible to describe.
Walk away
(9,494 posts)It was devastating.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)LVdem
(524 posts)Chemisse
(30,813 posts)And she was an ice lady!
It was a big deal in my life. There was nothing on tv except news about it, for weeks, so I watched it all. I watched Jackie at the funeral, with her hat and black veil. I saw Jack Ruby shoot Oswald on live tv.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)What a horrible day.
PEACE!
newfie11
(8,159 posts)I was in the 10grade in Morgan Hill California. The teacher told us the president had died and we were all sent home from school
ladjf
(17,320 posts)today. nt
LaydeeBug
(10,291 posts)corneliamcgillicutty
(176 posts)baby son. I remember it like it happened yesterday. Husband came home all excited because older woman whose house he had sold gave him a beautiful marble top table--an antique. I told him about our president and we both cried. I looked at the underneath side of the marble piece and the number "22" was etched in the marble--couldn't believe it. Still have the table. While campaigning, JFK came to a shopping center where I worked my part time job. It was a cold rainy day and we all went outside to see him--what a thrill it was! Two weeks later Nixon came to the same place. It was a lovely sunny day and none of us bothered to even look out the door.
virgdem
(2,126 posts)heard the news in 6th grade home room and we were all let out early right after the announcement. A day I will never forget as long as I live-forever seared into my memory.
louis c
(8,652 posts)get the red out
(13,466 posts)She has always told me how she cried so much that day.
Carolina
(6,960 posts)Very sad day, very great loss for this nation.
union_maid
(3,502 posts)Was in math class, when it came over the intercom. It was so unbelievable. Spent the next few days watching everything unfold on TV, with the rest of the nation. It was a terrible, terrible time. And things kind of seemed to go right downhill from there, too.
shanti
(21,675 posts)I also saw the assassination of Oswald by Ruby live on tv.
TXDemoGal
(59 posts)Mom reports that a photographer was at the house taking portraits when she heard.
Speck Tater
(10,618 posts)murielm99
(30,741 posts)I was in typing class. We typed on those old style typewriters that made so much noise. When the p.a. came on, someone had to get the teacher's attention so we could listen. They played the radio over the p.a. We heard them announce when he was taken to the hospital. We heard them say he had been shot in the head. When the announcer said that, the meanest boy in the whole school, who sat in front of me, put his head down and cried.
They announced his death about a minute before the bell rang. I walked to my geometry class only a few doors away. There was no talking in the halls. I heard only the opening and closing of lockers, and the sound of footsteps. Our geometry teacher spoke a bit about leadership, and about how sometimes the good die young. A few minutes later, they sent us home.
I saw my geometry teacher recently. He was a guest at my husband's fiftieth high school reunion, along with his wife, our art teacher. We talked about that day. None of us have ever forgotten. He asked me if I remembered anything else he said, because he was in shock and did not recall much. That was all I could say.
I was in church with my family when Oswald was shot. The church was more crowded than I had ever seen it. We saw the replay of Oswald's shooting more times than I care to remember.
Those were dark times.
GeorgeGist
(25,321 posts)Today is my oldest daughter's B-day.
jdadd
(1,314 posts)Graybeard
(6,996 posts)I was in a wheelchair in the Hospital. Watched the entire thing on the ward TV. From the first Bulletin that broke into regular programming to the murder of Oswald 'live' and then the funeral in D.C.
chloes1
(88 posts)I have a great deal of sympathy for folks born on Sept 11th of any year...
Hekate
(90,704 posts)... Where, at about 9:30 in the morning Hawai'i time, JFK's death was confirmed. School was not canceled, tho some cut class. Very subdued. Stunned. Later in the day, we had full school assembly in the courtyard around the flagpole, where it was made official, and where Steve Cariaga, best trumpeter in the school band, played Taps while the flag was lowered to half staff. Tears.
This was Hawai'i, where needless to say JFK's support of integration was not a subject of controversy. Later on we heard rumors that Someplace in some Southern state cheers were heard in Some school. Rumors -- and who knows what validity, except it is certain that there were those who wanted him dead. And one succeeded.
My dad was not given to emotional displays, but he sat in his chair softly pounding its arm and saying "Damn, damn, damn," over and over. Blue collar, ex-Catholic, Irish -- well, didn't the Kennedys touch us all.
I spent the next 3 days glued to the tv. I kept telling myself, "Remember this, it will never happen in your lifetime again." And then, of course, it did.
They were the shining ones. Don't ever let anyone tell you different. A family of such wealth and privilege, that gave themselves so unstintingly to public service -- no matter the complexities, the shades of gray, the stains that have emerged -- don't, don't forget the good that was done, and was begun to be completed by others. Integration, the Peace Corps, international diplomacy....
Ah, well. You know it's for us to carry on -- now, as it was then.
Hekate
in tears
whathehell
(29,067 posts)"They were the shining ones. Don't ever let anyone tell you different. A family of such wealth and privilege, that gave themselves so unstintingly to public service -- no matter the complexities, the shades of gray, the stains that have emerged -- don't, don't forget the good that was done, and was begun to be completed by others. Integration, the Peace Corps, international diplomacy."
Beautiful, and so true.
My experience and memories are probably very similar to yours, because, even though I was three years behind you,
I'm also from an Irish Catholic blue collar family, so I know exactly how you and your dad felt.
My dad was so heartbroken that, twenty years later, he couldn't even bring himself to look through a book "Remembering Camelot"
that I'd bought that Christmas of 1983.
BlueMan Votes
(903 posts)6 months older than Obama was.
ncgrits
(916 posts)pinto
(106,886 posts)In school that day in Massachusetts. There must of been some buzz among school staff. A vice principal opened our classroom door, caught the teacher's eye, nodded, made the gunshot to the head hand gesture and left.
Everything stopped. There was a simple announcement. President Kennedy has been killed. Everyone go home.
We walked our usual routes to our houses in stunned silence. Everything stopped.
kaiden
(1,314 posts)Zoeisright
(8,339 posts)The only thing I remember is that cartoons weren't on and I was sad.
greendog
(3,127 posts)PufPuf23
(8,785 posts)They had us all go to cafeteria / assembly room where there were several large B&W TVs.
The school called our parents or in my case grandmother to go home early.
Later I saw Oswald shot and the funeral live on TV.
WiffenPoof
(2,404 posts)While JFK was an incredible loss, I recall RFK's death as an event I will never forget.
Paige
HooptieWagon
(17,064 posts)I loved JFK...knew nothing about politics then, but thought it was awesome he skippered a PT boat. PT 109 was the first adult book I read. I was heartbroken when he was killed, and wrote a letter of condolence to Jackie, as only a 6yo can. Recieved a nice, signed thankyou card in reply. My mom still has it.
demwing
(16,916 posts)DuckBurp
(302 posts)I was in Junior High School. I remember our English teacher announcing it to the class. None of the classes taught anything for the remainder of the day. We all just sat around and talked.
R. Daneel Olivaw
(12,606 posts)Lydia Leftcoast
(48,217 posts)My junior high school had two lunch periods, and I had first lunch. After lunch, I was in math class, and the geography teacher, who had second lunch and had been listening to the radio in the teachers' lounge, came in and told us that Kennedy had been shot.
A few minutes later, the office started broadcasting CBS radio over the school intercom. We just listened in stunned silence until the announcement came that JFK was dead. Several kids burst into tears.
We students and the teacher just sat there. We didn't know what to do. Obviously we couldn't continue with class. Then we heard the principal's voice over the intercom telling us that we would be going home and that those who needed school buses should wait outside.
I walked the three blocks home, two hours early. As I walked into the house, I said something like, "Mom, they let us out early because Kennedy got killed." Well, she already knew. She hadn't been watching TV, but one of my brothers was home with the flu and lying on the couch watching some daytime show when the news came on.
I remember several moments of the TV coverage. I didn't see Oswald get shot (we were in church, except for my brother, who was still sick, so he told us the news.)
We watched the funeral on Monday, and I remember thinking that the Cardinal who officiated at the ceremony talked like W.C. Fields. (Strange the things you remember.) All kinds of world leaders attended: Hailie Selassie of Ethiopia and Charles DeGaulle of France are two I remember recognizing.
Our church (my father was a Lutheran pastor) held a memorial service that day. My dad had voted for Nixon, but he felt that the death of a president should transcend party lines and be marked with solemnity.
kimbutgar
(21,155 posts)Our heads down on the desk and pray. I think she didn't want us to see her cry. Then she led us in a prayer for him. I remember seeing my dad cry for the first time while he was watching tv the day of the funeral.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)Irishonly
(3,344 posts)I remember the whole school was called to the auditorium and the TVs were on. The principal told us President Kennedy had been shot. We stayed there until a parent could pick us up from school. My mom worked at a Catholic hospital. I remember her feeling terrible for Sister Zita. When Sister Zita heard the news she went to the chapel to pray. She stayed for a couple of days in prayer and didn't find out he died until after her vigil.
tandot
(6,671 posts)in second grade at a Catholic school. Our principal came on on the PA system and had us all pray for him ,,,,but he did die and we were all so devastated. Then I was home and watched Oswald shot on live TV, that was yet another horror.
Neutrino_603
(33 posts)My mother appeared at our classroom door with the school secretary, the two of them sharing looks of teary eyed distress. l was being taken out of class early & wondering why. On our way out, while at the school office, l stood by quietly as l overheard my mother, the very upset administration & staff all talking about the news, the president had been shot in Dallas. School buses were arriving, lining up out front. There was a very sad, tense vibe throughout the school lobby. Other parents began to appear, all equally distressed, upset. l began to wonder if we were going to get hit by an atom bomb, this being the era of 'duck & cover' taking a prominent place in our classroom's curriculum.
A very sad, confusing period. Later in the week sitting crosslegged on the floor in front of the tv watched a grimacing fat man shoulder his way onto the tv screen to shoot Lee Harvey Oswald in the stomach. l'll never forget the look of agony explode across Oswald's face.
l got my mittens, hat & coat on, walked out the backdoor to sit in waist deep frosty grass under an old apple tree and just stared ...
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)and school was dismissed for the day. Just goes to show how times have changed. They just assumed someone would be home to welcome the kiddies home. I was much more affected by RFK's death. I was not quite 13, was 20 miles away from the Ambassador Hotel and had just watched the victory speech. A minute later, they were announcing he had been shot. Less than 5 years after his brother and only a few months after MLK's assassination. Stunned doesn't even begin to cover it.
Jamaal510
(10,893 posts)ashling
(25,771 posts)RIP
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Hard to imagine, but everyone was truly shocked and affected and upset....even kids.
I don't think kids care that much these days, do they?
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)They played the radio over the PA system. I don't think anybody got out of their seats. I saw the fifth grade girls walking down the hall crying.
I was at summer orchestra music camp at Baylor University in Waco, TX, when bobby kennedy was shot. We all gathered round a TV set in the living room of the girls' dorm we were staying in.
Behind the Aegis
(53,959 posts)My parents were 12. I was 6 years away,
me b zola
(19,053 posts)...
DiehardLiberal
(580 posts)I'll never forget the shock and everyone crying. My father had taken me to his acceptance speech at the LA Coliseum and it was amazing. My parents were fantastic Democrats and I'm grateful for their open-minded upbringing. Kennedy was so beautiful.
I read 11/22/63 recently and thought it was amazing how Stephen King brought back that time and how much we wish we could change history. Recommended!
tularetom
(23,664 posts)And an engineering student on the GI bill.
My daughter was 1 day old on the day Kennedy was shot.
susanna
(5,231 posts)I was born plus three years, minus one day from his assassination. My family were Kennedy lovers. I've never forgotten. Every year on my birthday I think of him and what he did for the world.
on edit: tried to make sense.
susanr516
(1,425 posts)We lived in Dallas at that time. I remember watching a couple of the students lower the flag to half-mast.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)All the adults were shocked and crying.
Paladin
(28,262 posts)proud2BlibKansan
(96,793 posts)Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)and a junior in high school....I'll never forget that day. My brother came to the door of my history class and made the announcement. Our teacher ran out of the room to verify...and returned with the grim report.
kskiska
(27,045 posts)I didn't get a chance to vote for him, since the voting age then was 21. I would have, though.
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)... who refused to act as if anything should disrupt our day, made us go "back to work, children!"
When my mother picked me up from school that afternoon, one look on her face told me another story, which a 9 year old does not well comprehend, but which has moved me to seek truth and justice for all of more mature adult life.
For those interested to catch up, keep up with this link:
DollarBillHines
(1,922 posts)Long story
cherish44
(2,566 posts)My mother was a senior in high school and she said they announced it over the intercom and sent everyone home from school that day. Everyone was crying she said.
H2O Man
(73,558 posts)bluedigger
(17,086 posts)DearHeart
(692 posts)Terra Alta
(5,158 posts)TexasBushwhacker
(20,192 posts)I was in 1st grade. My mother kept me out of school and took me downtown to see the motorcade. We met up with my dad and he put me on his shoulders. It was one of those cool sunny days we have in Texas in the fall. I didn't have much understanding of what a president was, but my mother pointed JFK out as the limo drove by and I remember his hair looked red in the sunshine.
The next day, when he was shot in Dallas, I was back in school. Someone came in and whispered in my teachers ear and she looked shocked. We got out at 2 and I walked home. My mother was watching the TV and crying. I asked her why and she told me the President had been shot, but that didn't really mean much to me. I wanted to watch the Mickey Mouse Club like I always did and asked to change the channel. She told me it wasn't on and I was really confused.
johnsolaris
(220 posts)Hi,
I was ten yrs. old at the time & in 5th grade, We had just moved to Dallas 5 weeks earlier. I remember listening to my parents discussing us skipping school that day to take us downtown to see the President. They decided against it, since we were so new to our school & it might not go over well.
Looking back now, I am glad we did not go downtown to see the President.
Kablooie
(18,634 posts)But I never was good with numbers.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)Science Geek
(161 posts)Of course, I don't remember the event, but I've certainly heard about it from many people who do.
My partner is 8 years older than I and remembers the nuns at his school weeping and some boy who said something glib and a nun going off on him and having to be physically restrained by the other sisters due to severity the thrashing she was unloading on this boy. That made quite an impression on my partner as a young boy, you'd have to hear him tell the story...
He said that when the boy was next seen at school, after a few days, he had two black eyes and stitches in his lip.