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BlueWaveNeverEnd

(8,500 posts)
Fri May 24, 2024, 04:43 PM May 24

Republican Ben Baker's daughter, son-in-law shot dead

https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/family/republican-ben-baker-s-daughter-son-in-law-shot-dead/ar-BB1mZJXF

Republican Ben Baker's daughter, son-in-law shot dead

Apolitician from Missouri, US said in a statement Thursday evening that his daughter and son-in-law have been killed by gangs while they were working as missionaries in Haiti.

Ben Baker, who is a Republican member of the House of Representatives, said in a statement: "Most of you know my daughter and son-in-law Davy and Natalie Lloyd are full-time missionaries in Haiti. They were attacked by gangs this evening and were both killed. They went to Heaven together.”
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Ben Baker added: “Please pray for my family we desperately need strength. And please pray for the Lloyd family as well. I have no other words for now.”
His daughter Natalie and son-in-law Davy worked for Missions in Haiti organisation. It said on their post on social media that the couple was ambushed by a gang of three trucks full of men after coming out of the church.

It added that Davy was taken to a house, tied up, and then beaten before the gang stole the group's trucks and all they had.

The charity organisation further stated: “After that gang left the area, another arrived with one member being shot and killed causing them to going into full attack mode.”

The couple sought help using Starlink internet but eventually the gangs continued shooting at the house and they were killed.
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Republican Ben Baker's daughter, son-in-law shot dead (Original Post) BlueWaveNeverEnd May 24 OP
They had no business being there. Insane. #PoisonwoodBible TomDaisy May 24 #1
Awful Awful post... y ou should be ashamed of yourself. Srkdqltr May 24 #5
Agreed BannonsLiver May 24 #17
Why malaise May 24 #19
In reality.... MyOwnPeace May 24 #26
Not much peace in Haiti, not for centuries. Worst ever long wave outcome for a Caribbean island nation. Celerity May 25 #58
They never forgave Haiti fir winning the revolution malaise May 25 #70
Perhaps for the same reason there are outsiders in Gaza. Igel May 25 #69
No,they had no business there Conjuay May 24 #21
THIS malaise May 24 #34
Damn straight! IrishAfricanAmerican May 24 #54
Exactly. Jirel May 24 #8
What do you think is the goddamn prize that they won? SoFlaBro May 24 #29
The stupidest prize of all. Think. Again. May 27 #79
I agree -- they shouldn't have been there. Sky Jewels May 27 #74
WTF? Horrible post. There is a place for missionaries. brush May 27 #78
I am very sorry to read this Delphinus May 24 #2
How horrible. :( 50 Shades Of Blue May 24 #3
How Awful. I have no other words. Srkdqltr May 24 #4
We are doing something there..their weapons and ammunition are coming from the States. Deuxcents May 27 #82
That's really sad. LuvLoogie May 24 #6
Religious missions are only making it worse. Jirel May 24 #9
"Religion is what keeps the poor from eating the rich" - Napoleon maxrandb May 24 #12
Napoleon wasn't remotely an authority on the matter NanaCat May 24 #23
Shhhhhhhh malaise May 24 #20
My condolences to their family and friends MustLoveBeagles May 24 #7
missionaries don't do anything to help. What happened is horrible and sad JI7 May 24 #10
I honestly didn't think any charities were allowing their mcar May 24 #11
Hmmmm RussBLib May 24 #13
Sorry for their deaths. We all need to understand that RELIGION is KILLING people in every country bluestarone May 24 #14
How awful. I'm so sorry for the loss to all of those who loved them. chowder66 May 24 #15
horrible Skittles May 24 #16
Sad story. BannonsLiver May 24 #18
I don't think anyone was grave dancing, just questioning why they were still there. we can do it May 24 #22
The thread is full of grave dancing. former9thward May 24 #36
no... just read above. WarGamer May 24 #43
I'm saving my grave dancing JustAnotherGen May 25 #59
I'm 56 and getting stiff and old, newdayneeded May 27 #84
God's plan HAB911 May 24 #24
Some of the opinions in the answers are really heartless and small minded. Srkdqltr May 24 #25
You can..... MyOwnPeace May 24 #27
These were not the first people killed in this governmental overthrow Conjuay May 27 #80
Good post RazorbackExpat May 27 #81
Such a sad thing for us all to lose ANYONE to violence. Think. Again. May 24 #28
Bullshit post TexasDem69 May 24 #33
I do actually... Think. Again. May 24 #37
It happened at a church. A Haitian was also killed. Haiti is crazy right now. Americans shouldn't be there. LeftInTX May 24 #39
Yes, I agree with all of that... Think. Again. May 24 #41
I doubt if that was why they were killed. The mission runs a school and group home. LeftInTX May 24 #42
I have no idea why they were killed... Think. Again. May 24 #44
What if they were working for the UN? Often UN workers get killed in conflicts. Even vaccine workers get killed. LeftInTX May 24 #45
You do realize that the UN.... Think. Again. May 24 #46
What does the Taliban think? That's what matters. LeftInTX May 24 #47
Is that relevant somehow... Think. Again. May 24 #48
This couple was murdered and you are blaming the couple for their own deaths because you say they LeftInTX May 24 #49
Please don't falsely attribute a quote to me that I did not make.... Think. Again. May 24 #50
You are the one who brought that up in response to the OP. LeftInTX May 24 #51
yes, THAT was my response, my response was NOT what you quoted as my response. Think. Again. May 24 #52
Seems to be a pattern, eh? Brenda May 25 #60
Yeah, it seems creating division among DUers... Think. Again. May 25 #62
Right. Brenda May 25 #63
Sure we do. Voltaire2 May 25 #64
Not true (at least for me and others), see post 57 Celerity May 25 #71
Does not matter. When people loose loved ones Srkdqltr May 27 #83
This is Awful, But.... Deep State Witch May 24 #30
Serving as missionaries. LisaL May 24 #31
Haiti has been hell for Haitians for generations, at this point. AnrothElf May 24 #32
I hope the Bakers reflect on the misery guns cause dickthegrouch May 24 #35
You are correct - Many of the guns JustAnotherGen May 25 #61
Jamaica now... guns are being smuggled in from America BlueWaveNeverEnd May 25 #65
So now we're turning this tragedy into a call to ban guns? TexasDem69 May 27 #88
It's odd. Patton French May 24 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author dalton99a May 24 #40
Let this one go Wifes husband May 24 #53
Horrendous Freethinker65 May 24 #55
Our church growing up suppoted Hatian missionaries. czarjak May 25 #56
So much horror and sadness. niyad May 25 #57
Weird... I don't see any of the grave dancing in this thread that people keep mentioning. AnrothElf May 25 #66
some consider statements of "missionaries shouldnt go there" as victim blaming BlueWaveNeverEnd May 25 #67
Any criticism of christianity gets angry responses, and in this case Voltaire2 May 25 #68
Really, is that it? Patton French May 26 #72
Nobody cheered their assassination. Voltaire2 May 27 #73
The word missionary always makes my skin crawl. ananda May 27 #75
Peace and condolences to their loved ones. Dulcinea May 27 #76
I hope now it is obvious why migrants come to the United States and seek asylum. They could be killed at any minute Walleye May 27 #77
Thoughts and prayers.... Sogo May 27 #85
Just an add on: I think missionaries sometimes leftyladyfrommo May 27 #86
The missionary's mission was to offer themselves as sacrificial lambs for the slaughter, they must be euphoric. msfiddlestix May 27 #87

malaise

(270,677 posts)
19. Why
Fri May 24, 2024, 06:33 PM
May 24

What were they doing in Haiti?
People were told to leave ages ago. The Haitian people need to be left in peace.

MyOwnPeace

(16,988 posts)
26. In reality....
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:24 PM
May 24

there’s no peace to be had there. There’s o country that has the stomach to do what needs to be done.

Celerity

(44,499 posts)
58. Not much peace in Haiti, not for centuries. Worst ever long wave outcome for a Caribbean island nation.
Sat May 25, 2024, 04:02 AM
May 25

The essence of white systemic socio-economic racism and brutally invasive power fangs sunk deep into a country.

The whole topic makes me weep and rage.

Igel

(35,522 posts)
69. Perhaps for the same reason there are outsiders in Gaza.
Sat May 25, 2024, 06:22 PM
May 25

Maybe to tend to the poor, the ailing. Maybe try to help in some way.

Conjuay

(1,525 posts)
21. No,they had no business there
Fri May 24, 2024, 06:53 PM
May 24

Every culture that has existed for the last two thousand years has been destroyed by missionaries "preaching the word"

Their people have been slaughtered, their culture overrun.Mind you own damned business - your religion is a constant flow of contradictions and is A GUILT BASED con. Christianity has not been the panacea promised.

Sky Jewels

(7,317 posts)
74. I agree -- they shouldn't have been there.
Mon May 27, 2024, 11:19 AM
May 27

There is nothing more arrogant than missionaries imposing their STUPID fucking stories on other cultures.

Srkdqltr

(6,574 posts)
4. How Awful. I have no other words.
Fri May 24, 2024, 04:48 PM
May 24

Haiti is an awful place right now. Can't anything be done? Why aren't we doing something there?

LuvLoogie

(7,157 posts)
6. That's really sad.
Fri May 24, 2024, 04:52 PM
May 24

Good intentions are often left to to pick up the pieces of centuries of colonialism. One can hold faith and spread love, but Haiti is not a clean slate. NGOs can't fix the failures of government.

 

NanaCat

(2,332 posts)
23. Napoleon wasn't remotely an authority on the matter
Fri May 24, 2024, 07:18 PM
May 24

Given how abusive he was to the lower ranks when he was a leader.

What keeps the poor from eating the rich is giving them political and economic legs to stand on. Religion is the very last institution that brings the people what they really need. In fact, religion, and christianity in particular, always--ALWAYS--instigates and escalates class warfare to serve its own agenda.

JI7

(89,387 posts)
10. missionaries don't do anything to help. What happened is horrible and sad
Fri May 24, 2024, 05:16 PM
May 24

but they weren't doing anything to help by going there as missionaries.

mcar

(42,688 posts)
11. I honestly didn't think any charities were allowing their
Fri May 24, 2024, 05:19 PM
May 24

people into Haiti now. I know several volunteers who were called home last year and have never been able to return.

My sympathy to the families.

bluestarone

(17,373 posts)
14. Sorry for their deaths. We all need to understand that RELIGION is KILLING people in every country
Fri May 24, 2024, 05:27 PM
May 24

RELIGION is partially what is destroying our country, and i believe EVERY COUNTRY. It's a FACT. We need to keep religion OUT of our politics, or we will face the same problem the holy land is facing today.

newdayneeded

(1,976 posts)
84. I'm 56 and getting stiff and old,
Mon May 27, 2024, 12:45 PM
May 27

But if trump drops dead I'll do Micheal Jackson's "Billie Jean" solo dance to the step on donny's grave.

Srkdqltr

(6,574 posts)
25. Some of the opinions in the answers are really heartless and small minded.
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:19 PM
May 24

You don't like religion OK I get that. I have no use for it either but some of the posts are just unnecessarily heartless and just downright mean. I"m ashamed for some on here. The people died real people say, it's a shame so sorry and leave it at that not attack the dead or their religion. We have no clue why they were there and it isn't up to us to judge anyway.
Some people on DU have really become rather nasty . Can I say heartless enough??

MyOwnPeace

(16,988 posts)
27. You can.....
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:32 PM
May 24

and it would be correct. I don’t think it is a far step from that to what some want regarding the ‘immigration problem.’

Conjuay

(1,525 posts)
80. These were not the first people killed in this governmental overthrow
Mon May 27, 2024, 12:00 PM
May 27

BUT THEY SEEM TO BE THE ONLY ONES THAT PEOPLE ARE TALKING ABOUT.
That folks, is the real disgraceful behavior I see here.




Think. Again.

(10,085 posts)
28. Such a sad thing for us all to lose ANYONE to violence.
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:33 PM
May 24

And perhaps taking advantage of people's traumatic circumstances to attempt to indoctrinate them into one's own beliefs should be given a second thought.

LeftInTX

(26,270 posts)
39. It happened at a church. A Haitian was also killed. Haiti is crazy right now. Americans shouldn't be there.
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:04 PM
May 24

They were killed by violent gangs. I really don't think religion had anything to do with this. Haiti is one of the most Christian countries in the western hemisphere. (96% of the population).


Think. Again.

(10,085 posts)
41. Yes, I agree with all of that...
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:18 PM
May 24

...but why did you say my post about being missionaries (and therefore attempting to indoctrinate people into one's own belief system) is bullshit?

Do you disagree that the ultimate goal of missionaries is to "convert" people, otherwise known as indoctrination?

Or do you disagree that the people of Haiti are currently going through a trauma that makes them vulnerable to people looking to take advantage of that trauma to achieve that goal of indoctrination?

LeftInTX

(26,270 posts)
42. I doubt if that was why they were killed. The mission runs a school and group home.
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:24 PM
May 24

If the government isn't providing basic services then often missionaries fill the void.

Think. Again.

(10,085 posts)
44. I have no idea why they were killed...
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:36 PM
May 24

...but I do know that

" (when) the government isn't providing basic services then often missionaries fill the void."

...is doublespeak for

"...taking advantage of people's traumatic circumstances to attempt to indoctrinate them into one's own beliefs ..."

LeftInTX

(26,270 posts)
45. What if they were working for the UN? Often UN workers get killed in conflicts. Even vaccine workers get killed.
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:39 PM
May 24

UN condemns brutal killing of eight polio workers in Afghanistan

https://news.un.org/en/story/2022/02/1112612

Should we blame the vaccine workers for their own death because Afghan men think vaccines are a "colonial conspiracy".

Think. Again.

(10,085 posts)
46. You do realize that the UN....
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:52 PM
May 24

...is not a religious organization looking to indoctrinate people to build their "donation" base, right?

LeftInTX

(26,270 posts)
49. This couple was murdered and you are blaming the couple for their own deaths because you say they
Fri May 24, 2024, 11:05 PM
May 24

are "exploiting Haitians".

Think. Again.

(10,085 posts)
50. Please don't falsely attribute a quote to me that I did not make....
Fri May 24, 2024, 11:16 PM
May 24

What I wrote was...

"Such a sad thing for us all to lose ANYONE to violence.

And perhaps taking advantage of people's traumatic circumstances to attempt to indoctrinate them into one's own beliefs should be given a second thought."

Thank you.

LeftInTX

(26,270 posts)
51. You are the one who brought that up in response to the OP.
Fri May 24, 2024, 11:19 PM
May 24

A missionary couple was killed and that was your response.

Brenda

(1,134 posts)
60. Seems to be a pattern, eh?
Sat May 25, 2024, 07:19 AM
May 25

Your first response was spot on. No one deserves to die like they did but there comes a point when people have to take responsibility for their own actions. They were either absurdly naive or thought themselves untouchable in their religious bubble. There is no common sense involved when a young white couple goes into the middle of desperate, violent, historically abused Haiti and expects a good outcome.

Think. Again.

(10,085 posts)
62. Yeah, it seems creating division among DUers...
Sat May 25, 2024, 07:31 AM
May 25

...is more important than considering any of the opinions expressed by DUers.

Brenda

(1,134 posts)
63. Right.
Sat May 25, 2024, 07:44 AM
May 25

Black and white thinking is never good. But the gaslighting, putting words in people's mouths thing is just so blatant.

Nice to see you!

Voltaire2

(13,689 posts)
64. Sure we do.
Sat May 25, 2024, 08:46 AM
May 25

They were there to indoctrinate people into their religion. It’s literally their mission statement.

Celerity

(44,499 posts)
71. Not true (at least for me and others), see post 57
Sat May 25, 2024, 07:13 PM
May 25
to niyad

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100218974769#post57

So much horror and sadness.

After reading some of the comments about missionaries upthread, I went to check out the organization the three victims were with, Missions in Haiti. Founded by Davy Lloyd's parents some 20+ years ago with this breathtakingly arrogant statement "thousands malnourished, uneducated, and doomed to hopeless lives without christ."

Srkdqltr

(6,574 posts)
83. Does not matter. When people loose loved ones
Mon May 27, 2024, 12:21 PM
May 27

Real people say something like "sorry for your loss" or some other condolence. Then shut up, rather than slapping them in the face by saying the dead were too religious, didn't belong there or any other way to demean the victim.

Deep State Witch

(10,610 posts)
30. This is Awful, But....
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:56 PM
May 24

Why were they still in Haiti? Didn't the State Department tell all Americans to evacuate months ago?

 

AnrothElf

(923 posts)
32. Haiti has been hell for Haitians for generations, at this point.
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:08 PM
May 24

It's interesting what Americans choose to "care" about, isn't it?

dickthegrouch

(3,227 posts)
35. I hope the Bakers reflect on the misery guns cause
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:33 PM
May 24

And change their stance on allowing anyone to have one.

Unless they become part of the solution, they will remain part of the problem.

And yes I understand this didn’t happen in gun-crazy amerkkka. Odds are the guns were manufactured here.

JustAnotherGen

(32,310 posts)
61. You are correct - Many of the guns
Sat May 25, 2024, 07:20 AM
May 25

Come from America.

When Haiti’s gangs shop for guns, the United States is their store
https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2024/04/05/haiti-gangs-american-guns/

O’Neill said last week it was “incredible” that “weapons and bullets are still going to the gangs, mostly from the United States.”

“There’s got to be much, much more vigorous enforcement of the arms embargo by everybody, but certainly the United States,” he said, “because if the gangs don’t have guns or bullets, they lose their power.”

The influx of U.S. guns to criminals is a growing problem across the Caribbean.


It's been a problem in Mexico too.



TexasDem69

(2,075 posts)
88. So now we're turning this tragedy into a call to ban guns?
Mon May 27, 2024, 06:40 PM
May 27

Despite the 2d Amendment? I question your priorities, grasp of the Constitution and understanding of how our government works

Patton French

(831 posts)
38. It's odd.
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:52 PM
May 24

Some people who are dancing on those poor souls’ graves are the same ones decrying the lack of aid in Gaza. Whatever you think of their beliefs, they were in Haiti to provide aid to people in need. They were there at great personal sacrifice to help other human beings. I’m sure the people they helped were grateful. Aren’t we comforted when people help other people? Good grief. And just wow.

Response to BlueWaveNeverEnd (Original post)

Wifes husband

(66 posts)
53. Let this one go
Fri May 24, 2024, 11:30 PM
May 24

The man's daughter and son-in-law were killed. It is inappropriate to make snotty comments about religion or politics at a time like this, even if they may or not be accurate.

His daughter and son-in-law were doing what they thought was a good thing, and are dead.

Condolences are in order.

Let this one go

niyad

(114,984 posts)
57. So much horror and sadness.
Sat May 25, 2024, 03:30 AM
May 25

After reading some of the comments about missionaries upthread, I went to check out the organization the three victims were with, Missions in Haiti. Founded by Davy Lloyd's parents some 20+ years ago with this breathtakingly arrogant statement "thousands malnourished, uneducated, and doomed to hopeless lives without christ."

 

AnrothElf

(923 posts)
66. Weird... I don't see any of the grave dancing in this thread that people keep mentioning.
Sat May 25, 2024, 01:13 PM
May 25

Maybe because I've ignored all those posters for other reasons, so I can't see those threads?

Voltaire2

(13,689 posts)
68. Any criticism of christianity gets angry responses, and in this case
Sat May 25, 2024, 04:38 PM
May 25

as these people got killed,, outrage. People generally don't see christian privilege as they swim in a christian sea.

Patton French

(831 posts)
72. Really, is that it?
Sun May 26, 2024, 08:58 PM
May 26

This isn’t about Christianity. These people had fed hundreds of needy women and children over years. The fact that many here are cheering their assassination is disheartening.

Voltaire2

(13,689 posts)
73. Nobody cheered their assassination.
Mon May 27, 2024, 08:19 AM
May 27

And the literal mission statement of this mission is to convert people to their religion. That is what they are trying to do, anyone fed is also proselytized.

ananda

(29,032 posts)
75. The word missionary always makes my skin crawl.
Mon May 27, 2024, 11:21 AM
May 27

They creep me out.

Maybe they creeped out people over there too.

Walleye

(31,463 posts)
77. I hope now it is obvious why migrants come to the United States and seek asylum. They could be killed at any minute
Mon May 27, 2024, 11:28 AM
May 27

leftyladyfrommo

(18,907 posts)
86. Just an add on: I think missionaries sometimes
Mon May 27, 2024, 02:57 PM
May 27

believe so strongly in their religion that they start to believe that God will protect them.
That's really naive and it is dangerous.

msfiddlestix

(7,302 posts)
87. The missionary's mission was to offer themselves as sacrificial lambs for the slaughter, they must be euphoric.
Mon May 27, 2024, 03:17 PM
May 27

no, I won't be offering "prayers". Next thing we'll be reading is a 'go fund me" to end up being spent on Baker's next election campaign.


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