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Wed Dec 19, 2012, 12:43 AM Dec 2012

John Paulk, the ex gay fraud continues

For those who aren't in the know, John Paulk became a poster child for ex gays with he, and his ex lesbian wife, appearing on the cover of Newsweek. That was in 1999. In September 2000, Paulk was found in a gay bar and forced to resign from his position. Fast forward 12 years. John Paulk is now living in Portland with his wife and running a catering service complete with a bunch of good looking young men. It became a favorite of the Portland gay community. Well I let Truth Wins Out bring the story home.

As the Paulk family’s star fell in Colorado Springs and they were eased out of the spotlight they needed a fresh start. They found one in Portland, Oregon, where John had previously lived while he attended the local “ex-gay” ministry, Portland Fellowship. A credit to his ingenuity, John quickly reinvented himself as a chef and started Mezzaluna, an upscale catering business.

In the beginning, the company was endorsed by Focus on the Family. However, having such anti-gay friends could make enemies in a liberal and pro-gay city like Portland. It wasn’t long before Paulk understood his customer base and unveiled a new marketing strategy — hiring attractive male models to serve gourmet refreshments at posh house parties. Needless to say, this tactic appealed to many upper crust gay men who procured Mezzaluna’s services.

In December, Dan Burrell, an attractive young man, was approached by John Paulk at 24 Hour Fitness and offered a position within the company.

“He said I fit a certain aesthetic image that he was looking for and asked me if I wanted to work for him,” said Burrell. “It didn’t feel right…my instinct was telling me that something wasn’t right. I just had to find out and experience it.”

Dan describes a bizarre, yet, at times, mutually beneficial relationship where he was “supposed to be his arm candy” accompanying John to catering gigs and nights out on the town.

“Him and I both admitted to one another one night that we were both using one another,” said Burrell, who expressed regret over the situation and said he wished he had lived in truth. “However there is no amount of money that could justify someone touching me personally.”

And was John gay?

“He definitely was interested in men,” Burrell explained. “Was interested in having a relationship with me. I didn’t want a relationship with him. I wanted to simply work for him. But not be in a relationship with him…We’d have good days if he didn’t put his hands on me. Which he sometimes had issues with. He’d put his hands on me and I’d politely step back and reject him….He was obviously making comments all the time. Sexual comments about me…It was grounds for a sexual harassment lawsuit, like, if I really wanted to push it. I really don’t care to. I don’t want his money.”

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read more and see videos
http://www.truthwinsout.org/news/2012/12/32488/

Dispicable lying scum.

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John Paulk, the ex gay fraud continues (Original Post) dsc Dec 2012 OP
ummyoung guy worked for "him" but "don't want his money". did he work free? nt msongs Dec 2012 #1
Once the young man earned it via legal work it became his dsc Dec 2012 #2
kick dsc Dec 2012 #3
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