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snowybirdie

(6,574 posts)
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 06:10 AM Oct 2025

It's Hitting home

Just heard from my ex-daughter in law. My grandson came home from school yesterday fearful and not wanting to return. You see, this tall handsome kid with three Irish-American grandparents, looks "Mexican" as he said. Yes he resembles his maternal grandfather! A very handsome gentleman whose family was in Texas before it was a state! The Irish roots only go back to the turn of the last century. ICE came to his town and pulled people out of his school. He's afraid, and his very waspish name might not keep him from being challenged and detained. We're scared. No way to stop this. No one to trust. The fact that his dad served this country for a decade and was Special Forces means nothing! We can't let down the protest! Please don't let them win!

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It's Hitting home (Original Post) snowybirdie Oct 2025 OP
Enough is enough! Hope22 Oct 2025 #1
Omg! So frightening. Joinfortmill Oct 2025 #2
You think it is frightening for a person with that background? Bluetus Oct 2025 #24
I beg your pardon? I responded to the post. I never implied anything remotely related to your statement. Joinfortmill Oct 2025 #29
My reply was not directed at you specifically Bluetus Oct 2025 #30
What have we done Easterncedar Oct 2025 #3
Check Activist HQ for Indivisible posts. usonian Oct 2025 #13
Thanks Easterncedar Oct 2025 #15
"No way to stop this." OldBaldy1701E Oct 2025 #4
It's good to see that Ice agents are only targeting hardened criminals - murderers, rapists, drug dealers, etc. Gimpyknee Oct 2025 #5
I know, right? (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Oct 2025 #6
I have some in-laws that are tfg supporters multigraincracker Oct 2025 #7
Saturday October 18. No Kings! Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2025 #8
My uncle, a good looking guy Farmer-Rick Oct 2025 #9
I can get dark in the sun too LittleGirl Oct 2025 #19
I have a mixed race granddaughter who Brainstormy Oct 2025 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author 58Sunliner Oct 2025 #11
Somehow we must stop this descent into madness. Clouds Passing Oct 2025 #12
how in the world is that school allowing those iced assholes into the building? orleans Oct 2025 #14
It was a high school snowybirdie Oct 2025 #17
i can't imagine having that insanity going on when my kid was in school orleans Oct 2025 #18
Trump's ICE-hole brown shirt army keeps getting bolder and bolder. patphil Oct 2025 #16
About 20 years ago my oldest daughter got pulled over on cksmithy Oct 2025 #20
My kids were the opposite pfitz59 Oct 2025 #25
I've been fighting hard since my parents moved south during a Klan revival Warpy Oct 2025 #21
Have your ex dil get a certified copy of his birth certificate to carry and then a state id questionseverything Oct 2025 #22
Government sponsored intimidation with random acts of violence and incarceration always works. Aussie105 Oct 2025 #23
Sending good vibes your way. 💖 Dave Bowman Oct 2025 #26
Yeah a lot of Italians like me Figarosmom Oct 2025 #27
Hispanics need to send a message cerebrate2006 Oct 2025 #28

Bluetus

(2,335 posts)
24. You think it is frightening for a person with that background?
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 10:02 PM
Oct 2025

How frightening is it for people with recent Hispanic roots who are here perfectly legally?

Joinfortmill

(20,168 posts)
29. I beg your pardon? I responded to the post. I never implied anything remotely related to your statement.
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 05:51 AM
Oct 2025

Bluetus

(2,335 posts)
30. My reply was not directed at you specifically
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 09:30 AM
Oct 2025

I am sorry if it seems that way. What I am saying is that this is a story where a person who thinks they should be untouchable because they mostly have the right family bloodlines, is now rightly concerned they will be sucked into the ICE machine because they look too Hispanic. If that happens, there is every possibility the young man could never see his family again. That concern is real, and we all pray this does not happen.

I am simply pointing out that while that is a distinct possibility, given how American politicians are allowing this ICE Gestapo to operate, there are millions of people here perfectly legally, who are much more at risk. For them, it isn't just anxiety that they look too Hispanic. They have to change their daily activities and take daily precautions to try to avoid this Gestapo, which has already kidnapped, imprisoned, and deported thousands of people who had every right to be here, with no due process at all.

Easterncedar

(5,585 posts)
3. What have we done
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 07:45 AM
Oct 2025

Yes. We must keep fighting. I just got told about an indivisible ICE response training next Tuesday. Everyone who can should be looking for that. Community is what we need to focus on. We need to link arms and not let them isolate anyone through fear.

OldBaldy1701E

(10,275 posts)
4. "No way to stop this."
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 08:02 AM
Oct 2025

Bullshit.

There is just 'no way to stop this' without getting our hands dirty.

And, it appears that we don't want to do this.

I just hope the tipping point gets here before we lose it all.

 

Gimpyknee

(1,025 posts)
5. It's good to see that Ice agents are only targeting hardened criminals - murderers, rapists, drug dealers, etc.
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 08:27 AM
Oct 2025

multigraincracker

(37,025 posts)
7. I have some in-laws that are tfg supporters
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 08:34 AM
Oct 2025

Two tall blond basketball playing boys are brainwashed. The mother is half Mexican and it’s like they don’t realize it. Cracks me up, but I don’t say any thing.

Farmer-Rick

(12,494 posts)
9. My uncle, a good looking guy
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 08:51 AM
Oct 2025

Who had women lining up even in his old age, would get very dark in the summer. When we were in Puerto Rico, the Puerto Ricans would come up to him and speak in Spanish. He knows very little Spanish. When he would tell them that, they would not believe him. They swore he was Puerto Rican.

He's got a a very British last name and there are even mountains in Kentucky with his last name. His family has a long history in Kentucky. But no Hispanic blood.

He passed away 6 years ago. He would have punched out any ICE agent who would lay hands on him. He was a very nice guy but if you wanted a fight with him or lay hands on him, you would not do well.

Sooo, do you think every Puerto Rican in the States is being snatched up? I suspect they are victims of this crap too.

LittleGirl

(8,951 posts)
19. I can get dark in the sun too
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 01:26 PM
Oct 2025

I’m 50% Italian so dark greying hair, bad eyes, short middle aged (hopefully), woman. Will I get tackled?

Response to snowybirdie (Original post)

orleans

(36,686 posts)
14. how in the world is that school allowing those iced assholes into the building?
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 10:34 AM
Oct 2025

is this a high school or elementary school?

where is security? do they come inside with their guns?

this is stunning!

(can't the school call the police? maybe i'm being naïve but ... ?)

snowybirdie

(6,574 posts)
17. It was a high school
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 11:55 AM
Oct 2025

And near where there are many ICE stationed near Chicago. But now every latin kid is fearful they're next. What has this nation become!!???

orleans

(36,686 posts)
18. i can't imagine having that insanity going on when my kid was in school
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 01:26 PM
Oct 2025

i might have kept her home for awhile -- i'd be fearful too--for her and everyone else

i don't understand why they can just go into a school--especially in illinois -- and think they're going to take kids (no matter if the kids are 18 or underage). how is this legal?

i'd try to contact pritzker's office (you might want to give that a try since you have more details than i do)

so sorry this happened/is happening.

patphil

(8,737 posts)
16. Trump's ICE-hole brown shirt army keeps getting bolder and bolder.
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 11:27 AM
Oct 2025

We don't need millions of people protesting on October 18th, we needs 10's of millions.
My greatest fear is that Trump is trying to provoke incidents that will justify a national emergency, and eventually martial law.
He doesn't want there to be an election in 2026, and will do anything he can to justify calling off the election.
The best route we have now is a huge presence in the streets on 10/18.
We need to send a message to all those Republicans in Congress that the tide is turning against them, and they need to make a choice; either democracy or fascism.
And, we need to let them know that fascism isn't a choice we'll accept.

cksmithy

(428 posts)
20. About 20 years ago my oldest daughter got pulled over on
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 02:45 PM
Oct 2025

her way to Morro Bay, CA on highway 1. She has black/brown hair and an olive complexion due to her great grandmother being 100% Sicilian. She had a Raiders Nation bumper sticker or decal on her Chevy Tahoe with tinted windows. She was not speeding or done anything wrong except looking like a Mexican American driving a new car. Anyway, they checked her out, she has a very English married surname, and they let her go on her way. When they got back home, the decal came off and she got highlights for her hair. She didn't want to experience that again. She said at the time, "I was profiled."

Both of my daughters have been asked if they were adopted by their friends, I have blond hair, green eyes and very fair skin. My daughters inherited eye color and complexion from husband's Sicilian side of the family. Lots of their friends and teachers always assumed they were people of color, just because they tan super fast. Teachers were shocked when I showed up for teacher conferences or back to school nights.

I am glad my daughters aren't school age now. They are both mothers and have children who do not look like they just got off the boat from Sicily.

pfitz59

(12,344 posts)
25. My kids were the opposite
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 12:50 AM
Oct 2025

Blond, green-eyed with fair skin. Their mother is a short dark Sicilian. She was asked many times if the boys were hers.

Warpy

(114,410 posts)
21. I've been fighting hard since my parents moved south during a Klan revival
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 03:30 PM
Oct 2025

The parents were merely frosty but those Klanner kids were nothing short of brutal. I survived and so will your grandson. Of course I left Dixie like I was shot out of a cannon as soon as I could and will never live there again.

However, tell your grandson he will have a great time starting in his mid 30s or so looking up all those cleft headed bully boys to see what they've done with their lives. It's very gratifying and becomes even more so as time goes on.

questionseverything

(11,610 posts)
22. Have your ex dil get a certified copy of his birth certificate to carry and then a state id
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 05:00 PM
Oct 2025

To prove he is the name on the bc

My granddaughter has some Hispanic blood and keeping her bc and id with her makes me feel better and her feel less scared

Good luck 🍀

Aussie105

(7,660 posts)
23. Government sponsored intimidation with random acts of violence and incarceration always works.
Thu Oct 2, 2025, 06:18 PM
Oct 2025

It shows how low the country has sunk.

I'm always astounded that there are so many who want to be active ICE agents.
Where did they learn to hate so much?
Are they all white supremacists?
Do they not have spouses and parents who object to them joining the American Gestapo?

Figarosmom

(9,870 posts)
27. Yeah a lot of Italians like me
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 02:12 AM
Oct 2025

And my daughter feel the same. There are Germans, British, Welsh that look Mexican too. And now that the Supremes said yes to racial profiling everyone with dark hair is in jeopardy of at least having a day or two ruined by detention. And who's to say it won't happen over and over again?

cerebrate2006

(36 posts)
28. Hispanics need to send a message
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 02:54 AM
Oct 2025

55% of Hispanic voters in Texas voted for the a-hole in 2024. That ICE is now dragging kids out of schools because they look Mexican is not at all unexpected by most of us on DU, but it has to be a shock to the people whose kids are living in fear even though they are more American than most ICE agents. Hispanics need to send an unmistakeable message in November 2026 that this will not stand.

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