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Stargazer99

(3,449 posts)
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 03:35 PM Oct 2025

My friend is losing her home of over 25years due to social security's mistake-how nasty can it get

Because of the SS overpayment a while ago she was having $174 deducted from her SS for payback but now they are deducting $740 per month and her property taxes are $6000 annually. She could make it on the $174 but not now with $740 deduction. That overpayment was not her fault but she is losing her home because of the change in deduction amount. Is there anything she can do?

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My friend is losing her home of over 25years due to social security's mistake-how nasty can it get (Original Post) Stargazer99 Oct 2025 OP
Why are her property taxes so high? Ilsa Oct 2025 #1
Property taxes are in a well desired area so they went up in the years Stargazer99 Oct 2025 #4
Still, make sure she is getting whatever exemptions she is entitled to. W_HAMILTON Oct 2025 #11
There are no exemptions in this area for old age and low income Stargazer99 Oct 2025 #5
What is the zip code where she lives? Or at least county/state? W_HAMILTON Oct 2025 #12
Yes, there seems to be more to the story than we've been told Fiendish Thingy Oct 2025 #19
Got it. It sounds like she may have to downsize or move. Ilsa Oct 2025 #14
The only thing I can think of is for her to call marybourg Oct 2025 #2
Can't hurt to call the ACLU Submariner Oct 2025 #3
I have no idea what she can do but I certainly hope someone knows. This is crazy; from LoisB Oct 2025 #6
How long has she not paid her property taxes? Fiendish Thingy Oct 2025 #7
Washington and the $740 deduction has been recent increase Stargazer99 Oct 2025 #9
If it's a recent increase, then how could she be short funds to pay her taxes? Fiendish Thingy Oct 2025 #16
The current admin has increased her payment on the past overpayments questionseverything Oct 2025 #27
Oof, Washington - No income taxes and everything is paid through Property and Sales taxes haele Oct 2025 #34
This is a tRump change to the previous Biden marybourg Oct 2025 #13
Found this: LoisB Oct 2025 #8
Wish I knew. Maybe take in a renter? mountain grammy Oct 2025 #10
Thank you all! Stargazer99 Oct 2025 #15
Contact local churches and community charities--FAST synni Oct 2025 #17
She must have not noticed the extra deposit for a long time EdmondDantes_ Oct 2025 #18
Can't she just declare bankruptcy 5 times like the orange amphibian turd? maxrandb Oct 2025 #23
Got it, no personal responsibility because Trump doesn't take it EdmondDantes_ Oct 2025 #29
She was paying the money back! maxrandb Oct 2025 #33
I believe you have 3 years (with penalties) before they can take flvegan Oct 2025 #20
Is the tax overdue? What state is this in? How old is she? Has she talked to Gaugamela Oct 2025 #21
Would she consider a GoFundMe? irisblue Oct 2025 #22
Exactly..... a kennedy Oct 2025 #32
I think there is a limit on how much they can withhold Jacoby365 Oct 2025 #24
The payments Timewas Oct 2025 #25
tell her to call Legal Aid Brainstormy Oct 2025 #26
Unsolicited advice. Bread and Circuses Oct 2025 #28
How much was she overpaid and did she know she was being overpaid? madinmaryland Oct 2025 #30
My father was overpaid for three years when he first signed up for Social Security... haele Oct 2025 #35
Reverse mortgage, maybe, if she needs some breathing room. nilram Oct 2025 #31
A reverse mortgage is a horrible idea airplaneman Oct 2025 #36
Worse than I thought. nilram Oct 2025 #37

Ilsa

(63,859 posts)
1. Why are her property taxes so high?
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 03:46 PM
Oct 2025

Isn't she old enough for a big exemption?

Can she sell and downsize?

I hope things work out for her.

W_HAMILTON

(10,096 posts)
11. Still, make sure she is getting whatever exemptions she is entitled to.
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:03 PM
Oct 2025

I know where I live, she would get a homestead exemption as well as an elderly exemption.

If she's getting all that she entitled to and still owes that much in taxes, her home must be worth quite a bit. Have her look into a HELOC or something like that till she can get everything sorted out and budgeted for.

Fiendish Thingy

(22,115 posts)
19. Yes, there seems to be more to the story than we've been told
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:15 PM
Oct 2025

She should qualify for the exemption.

Ilsa

(63,859 posts)
14. Got it. It sounds like she may have to downsize or move.
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:10 PM
Oct 2025

I hate that she has to do that.

marybourg

(13,589 posts)
2. The only thing I can think of is for her to call
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 03:49 PM
Oct 2025

ONE of her Senator’s offices and tell this story to staff.

Submariner

(13,254 posts)
3. Can't hurt to call the ACLU
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 03:49 PM
Oct 2025

and ask if a deduction that cripples you financially like this is legal. If not, how best to fight it.

LoisB

(12,397 posts)
6. I have no idea what she can do but I certainly hope someone knows. This is crazy; from
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 03:55 PM
Oct 2025

$174 to $740 is one heck of an increase. I hope it works out for her.

Fiendish Thingy

(22,115 posts)
7. How long has she not paid her property taxes?
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 03:56 PM
Oct 2025

Missing one year’s payment doesn’t typically result in the immediate seizure of the home, there is usually a late fee assessed, then further due process- what state does she live in?

This $740 deduction must have been going on for a year or more for her to have missed paying her annual taxes- there must be more to the story then you have shared.

Fiendish Thingy

(22,115 posts)
16. If it's a recent increase, then how could she be short funds to pay her taxes?
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:13 PM
Oct 2025

How could she be losing her home if this was a recent increase in the deduction?

Was she paying her taxes before the increased deduction?

There must be more to this story.

questionseverything

(11,589 posts)
27. The current admin has increased her payment on the past overpayments
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 06:04 PM
Oct 2025

The property tax just happen to be a big expense

haele

(15,097 posts)
34. Oof, Washington - No income taxes and everything is paid through Property and Sales taxes
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 08:45 PM
Oct 2025

It sounds like with SSI pulling the additional money, she won't be able to pay up during any grace period the state may give her, and will fall behind even further for the next couple years. Three years of non or partial payments, and they take you to court.
And yeah, there's some property tax exemption for old age - or poverty - on primary residences in Washington State. They'll work with you, but only so much. If your income is being garnished - by the State or the Feds, that is not an excuse for not paying what the State has assessed you to pay.
Even if she sells, she won't end up with enough after the sales tax plus her back property tax to get a smaller place to live, unless she did what my folks did when they retired and the property tax started cutting into their savings; they sold their Ravenna Park house of 35 years and moved to Albuquerque where they could afford to be comfortable in their old age.

mountain grammy

(28,698 posts)
10. Wish I knew. Maybe take in a renter?
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:01 PM
Oct 2025

It's a gamble but sometimes it works out well.

It's scary getting old. You think you have it figured out and bam..

I'm a year younger than trump.. I just want to live to see him dead.

synni

(676 posts)
17. Contact local churches and community charities--FAST
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:13 PM
Oct 2025

If she gets help paying her utilities, then she can use the utility money to put toward her property taxes.

There are also charities like the Salvation Army, and Community Action Partnership.

There may also be a local Agency on Aging, that could help her find the resources she needs.

Also...I was behind in my property taxes for two years, but my house wasn't sold out from underneath me right away. Interest was accruing, but I was able to pay everything off when I got on disability, and received my back pay.

Being late for your taxes does NOT necessarily mean the house will be sold right away. Use that time to get help with utilities, so she can save up enough money to pay the property tax.

That's how I saved my home, and I hope this idea will work for your friend.

EdmondDantes_

(1,398 posts)
18. She must have not noticed the extra deposit for a long time
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:13 PM
Oct 2025

But also spent the extra money. But I agree that it's odd she would be losing her house over a single year's payment. I would suggest reaching out to her local state congressional rep and check for community resources.

maxrandb

(17,174 posts)
23. Can't she just declare bankruptcy 5 times like the orange amphibian turd?
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:55 PM
Oct 2025

Oh, right. Different rules and all that.

Fucking MAGAt dipshits. The ONLY people they require to "live within their means", are those that can barely afford to live.

This person was paying the overpayment back at a reasonable rate. Donnie Dipshit and his Retrumplican ball-lickers in Congress said; "that's not good enough", and her payment increased $600 a month.

That could easily put her in a position to not be able to pay her Quarterly Property Tax and Insurance.

"She must have spent the money"?????

I guess she should have used Donnie Dipshit as an example, and used the overpayment to smurf, chip dump it in crypto, bought some bogus front companies, skim it off a charity, or participate in shady money transfer schemes.

Hell, she might even get a pardon, or an ambassadorship.

EdmondDantes_

(1,398 posts)
29. Got it, no personal responsibility because Trump doesn't take it
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 06:58 PM
Oct 2025

That's no way to go through life. And yes she obviously doesn't have the money so it went somewhere. If my bank accidentally deposited a bunch of extra money in my account I don't get to keep it.

Yes it sucks Trump accelerated the time for repayment, but in the end, you can only control what you can control. The OP's friend can't control Trump's actions. But they can control their own.

maxrandb

(17,174 posts)
33. She was paying the money back!
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 07:31 PM
Oct 2025

The 174 was deducted from her Social Security every month, through an agreement her country made with her to recoup the overpayment.

She gets foreclosed on, it impacts her neighbors property values, not to mention the support she was providing to her community through property taxes, the folks who work at the insurance company, the stock clerks at the local grocery store where she shops, the farmers that grow the food she can no longer afford.

If she were a fucking billionaire that defrauded the shit out of people, the MAGAts would argue "give 'em a break, they're job creators".

WTF do you think this women, spending her money in the economy, isn't?

flvegan

(65,810 posts)
20. I believe you have 3 years (with penalties) before they can take
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:19 PM
Oct 2025

a home because of failure to pay property taxes (in Washington). With that level of income, your friend should qualify for legal aid. Something to look into. Best of luck to them!

Gaugamela

(3,255 posts)
21. Is the tax overdue? What state is this in? How old is she? Has she talked to
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 04:38 PM
Oct 2025

the municipal tax office? They might have suggestions. Off the bat she could call her state representative. There are also organizations that advocate for seniors — you could google in your area. She could start a gofundme.

Jacoby365

(516 posts)
24. I think there is a limit on how much they can withhold
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 05:08 PM
Oct 2025

percentage-wise, from each check. I imagine she checked into that?

Timewas

(2,650 posts)
25. The payments
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 05:26 PM
Oct 2025

The reimbursment payment is negotiable, she needs to make an appointment and try work out a deal with them.. Sad part is it used to be they could not take more than 10% but now they can take the entire check unless it is SSI in which case they are still restricted to 10%

Bread and Circuses

(1,595 posts)
28. Unsolicited advice.
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 06:06 PM
Oct 2025

Please don’t let her to do anything rushed.

The facts seem to be murky. Her monthly income is down due to the need to pay back taxes? No information about how much the back taxes are and how long she’s been paying them back. Perhaps, she didn’t deduct enough to pay her taxes and now she has overdue taxes and penalty to be paid.

if she owns her own home, she should NOT sell. Talk to a family member and accountant. There’s equity in there, she’s scared and may panic. Please guide her to appropriate resources to help with food banks, etc.

It would be absurd for anyone to tell her to sell her house if she owes several thousands in back taxes.


It sounds like she has no savings ? No family or relatives who can give her a loan ?

haele

(15,097 posts)
35. My father was overpaid for three years when he first signed up for Social Security...
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 09:04 PM
Oct 2025

Don't know how or why they glitched it in 2003, but it took them around three years to bring his allotment back down to what it should have been; he was given the option to pay back at around $50 a month or pay a lump sum of almost $2800.
He didn't know he was getting more money, between what they told him he was supposed to be getting and the COLAs.
There were also a couple years over the past 20 in which there was a COLA increase between 3% and 6%, and it could be easy to not to notice that the $120 increase a month really should have been $60, because one would think they didn't need to check the Government's math.

nilram

(3,473 posts)
31. Reverse mortgage, maybe, if she needs some breathing room.
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 07:25 PM
Oct 2025

But there's many other better suggestions in this thread. This is very much a last resort.

airplaneman

(1,373 posts)
36. A reverse mortgage is a horrible idea
Sun Oct 12, 2025, 02:59 PM
Oct 2025

You can easily owe as much as you borrowed in 6 years. Default rate is 18%. They can make you buy an expensive insurance policy including earthquake and flood coverage. Probably the worst way to borrow money.

nilram

(3,473 posts)
37. Worse than I thought.
Sun Oct 12, 2025, 03:38 PM
Oct 2025

I hope the problem gets solved with one of the other fine suggestions.

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