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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsRusty Just Diagnosed With Multiple Myeloma
Well 2025 just keeps on giving -- it's hard to stay positive when the hits just keep on comin'. Lost my brother in December '24, my ex (with whom I had a speaking relationship and 3 children) passed from pancreatic cancer in August. Now my husband, whose gurl I am, was just diagnosed with MM. At age 76 the treatment options are more limited, and we're still waiting to hear how the hematologist/oncologist wants to approach this. Add all the economic and political garbage under which we're being buried and it's almost too much.
I almost wish '25 could be over and '26 start with some good news, but I don't want to wish away any time at this point.
Hoping for the best for all of us in the days, weeks, months and years ahead.
LuckyCharms
(22,447 posts)Please try to stay strong.
mr715
(3,375 posts)With you. I am nobody, but I am nobody with you by your side.
a kennedy
(35,796 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)💕💕💕💕💕
malaise
(295,181 posts)SheltieLover
(79,583 posts)cachukis
(3,851 posts)democrank
(12,508 posts)Were here for you.
irisblue
(37,314 posts)Deuxcents
(26,474 posts)Grim Chieftain
(1,589 posts)Sending best wishes to you and your husband.
Beacool
(30,512 posts)I wish your Rusty the best. I hope that they can find an effective treatment for him. Stay strong and think positive!!
mercuryblues
(16,343 posts)Been in remission for 3-1/2 years.
It wasn't easy. If you want some tips or have questions, PM me.
We are all here for you.
canetoad
(20,643 posts)Keep strong.
surfered
(12,936 posts)Good luck to you both.
summer_in_TX
(4,116 posts)A very good place to go if you can.
A friend with an aggressive kidney cancer that had metastasized was treated there about 5 years ago by the research doctor who had just completed a drug trial on the latest. She's still here with no recurrence.
I hope that for your husband, rustysgurl. I'm so sorry that this has come on top of all the grief you have been dealing with. Will keep him and you in my prayers. 🙏
Jilly_in_VA
(14,257 posts)My friend's mom was sent there with the same ailment (MM) at 70 and she's still going. I think it's been 4 years now. Take heart, rustysgurl, and rusty too!
HeartsCanHope
(1,629 posts)calimary
(89,711 posts)Its got to be so painful, both literally AND figuratively.
Maybe it just means youll be spending WAY more of your ever more precious time strengthening your bonds and your love for each other. One of you gets a head start on building a Rainbow Bridge for the other of you. And eventually, youll both dance across it together.
radical noodle
(10,562 posts)Mr. Noodle's mother lived to be 90 years old and was diagnosed with MM at about the same age Rusty is. One of the meds she was treated with was Thalidomide. She had few side effects from the treatments she got and was fairly active until the last year of her life. I hope Rusty does well and you can both see many more years together. I'm sure there are better treatments now than there were then. She was diagnosed about 28 years ago.
Nanjeanne
(6,555 posts)new treatments. I will DM you with some information and if you want to talk p,ease reach out to me.
JMCKUSICK
(5,829 posts)I'm in a similar boat with my friend Rory, and please, as you said, treasure that time and try to find ways to travel this road arm in arm.
LoisB
(12,802 posts)NNadir
(37,824 posts)OddMom20
(64 posts)and Rusty, and hoping you both can capture a bit of peace amidst all of the chaos.
TygrBright
(21,350 posts)Cancer treatments have come a long way since my Granpere had MM in the 1980s - hang in there, stay strong, and remember this community's got you.
lovingly,
Bright
SuzyandPuffpuff
(500 posts)And SHIT! 2025 sucks ... good folks like Yu don't deserve any of this. I'm sorry. Love and warmth to you all
mwmisses4289
(3,845 posts)MineralMan
(151,076 posts)I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts.
twodogsbarking
(18,361 posts)People can live longer. Thinking of you.
barbtries
(31,283 posts)life can be so unfair
Nevilledog
(54,982 posts)denvine
(851 posts)That is a whole lot on your plate. Sending positive and healing thoughts your way.
DarthDem
(5,458 posts)I've heard there are some promising new strategies for managing MM lately. Sending best wishes and hugs your way!
GentryDixon
(3,141 posts)My twin was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I live 800 miles away from her, so it's not easy for me to support her in her journey.
I hope your Rusty responds well to his treatment.
Cancer sucks!
Trueblue Texan
(4,369 posts)Clouds Passing
(7,801 posts)A tough one for me too healthwise. I am still able to walk though, this is good!
bluestarone
(21,998 posts)Wishing you, and your family some future good news. Hang in there Girl.
pat_k
(13,133 posts)littlemissmartypants
(32,808 posts)Evolve Dammit
(21,713 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,858 posts)I hope for some good news from you soon.
PCIntern
(28,221 posts)MM is vastly more treatable now than it was even just a few years ago. Somewhat interestingly, dentists were often the first to diagnose it because on X-ray there were distinctive anomalies on the radiograph.
Best of everything to Rusty, you, and your family.
PC
IbogaProject
(5,796 posts)I hope an easy enough treatment option materializes for Him and You.