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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsRusty Just Diagnosed With Multiple Myeloma
Well 2025 just keeps on giving -- it's hard to stay positive when the hits just keep on comin'. Lost my brother in December '24, my ex (with whom I had a speaking relationship and 3 children) passed from pancreatic cancer in August. Now my husband, whose gurl I am, was just diagnosed with MM. At age 76 the treatment options are more limited, and we're still waiting to hear how the hematologist/oncologist wants to approach this. Add all the economic and political garbage under which we're being buried and it's almost too much.
I almost wish '25 could be over and '26 start with some good news, but I don't want to wish away any time at this point.
Hoping for the best for all of us in the days, weeks, months and years ahead.
LuckyCharms
(22,146 posts)Please try to stay strong.
mr715
(3,147 posts)With you. I am nobody, but I am nobody with you by your side.
a kennedy
(35,537 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)💕💕💕💕💕
malaise
(293,997 posts)SheltieLover
(78,092 posts)cachukis
(3,736 posts)democrank
(12,365 posts)Were here for you.
irisblue
(37,033 posts)Deuxcents
(25,937 posts)Grim Chieftain
(1,405 posts)Sending best wishes to you and your husband.
Beacool
(30,504 posts)I wish your Rusty the best. I hope that they can find an effective treatment for him. Stay strong and think positive!!
mercuryblues
(16,223 posts)Been in remission for 3-1/2 years.
It wasn't easy. If you want some tips or have questions, PM me.
We are all here for you.
canetoad
(20,379 posts)Keep strong.
surfered
(12,258 posts)Good luck to you both.
summer_in_TX
(4,063 posts)A very good place to go if you can.
A friend with an aggressive kidney cancer that had metastasized was treated there about 5 years ago by the research doctor who had just completed a drug trial on the latest. She's still here with no recurrence.
I hope that for your husband, rustysgurl. I'm so sorry that this has come on top of all the grief you have been dealing with. Will keep him and you in my prayers. 🙏
Jilly_in_VA
(14,036 posts)My friend's mom was sent there with the same ailment (MM) at 70 and she's still going. I think it's been 4 years now. Take heart, rustysgurl, and rusty too!
HeartsCanHope
(1,547 posts)calimary
(89,270 posts)Its got to be so painful, both literally AND figuratively.
Maybe it just means youll be spending WAY more of your ever more precious time strengthening your bonds and your love for each other. One of you gets a head start on building a Rainbow Bridge for the other of you. And eventually, youll both dance across it together.
radical noodle
(10,504 posts)Mr. Noodle's mother lived to be 90 years old and was diagnosed with MM at about the same age Rusty is. One of the meds she was treated with was Thalidomide. She had few side effects from the treatments she got and was fairly active until the last year of her life. I hope Rusty does well and you can both see many more years together. I'm sure there are better treatments now than there were then. She was diagnosed about 28 years ago.
Nanjeanne
(6,526 posts)new treatments. I will DM you with some information and if you want to talk p,ease reach out to me.
JMCKUSICK
(5,396 posts)I'm in a similar boat with my friend Rory, and please, as you said, treasure that time and try to find ways to travel this road arm in arm.
LoisB
(12,526 posts)NNadir
(37,493 posts)OddMom20
(62 posts)and Rusty, and hoping you both can capture a bit of peace amidst all of the chaos.
TygrBright
(21,317 posts)Cancer treatments have come a long way since my Granpere had MM in the 1980s - hang in there, stay strong, and remember this community's got you.
lovingly,
Bright
SuzyandPuffpuff
(441 posts)And SHIT! 2025 sucks ... good folks like Yu don't deserve any of this. I'm sorry. Love and warmth to you all
mwmisses4289
(3,498 posts)MineralMan
(150,804 posts)I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts.
twodogsbarking
(17,872 posts)People can live longer. Thinking of you.
barbtries
(31,203 posts)life can be so unfair
Nevilledog
(54,737 posts)denvine
(846 posts)That is a whole lot on your plate. Sending positive and healing thoughts your way.
DarthDem
(5,448 posts)I've heard there are some promising new strategies for managing MM lately. Sending best wishes and hugs your way!
GentryDixon
(3,136 posts)My twin was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I live 800 miles away from her, so it's not easy for me to support her in her journey.
I hope your Rusty responds well to his treatment.
Cancer sucks!
Trueblue Texan
(4,256 posts)Clouds Passing
(7,386 posts)A tough one for me too healthwise. I am still able to walk though, this is good!
bluestarone
(21,589 posts)Wishing you, and your family some future good news. Hang in there Girl.
pat_k
(12,772 posts)littlemissmartypants
(32,651 posts)Evolve Dammit
(21,588 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,830 posts)I hope for some good news from you soon.
PCIntern
(28,072 posts)MM is vastly more treatable now than it was even just a few years ago. Somewhat interestingly, dentists were often the first to diagnose it because on X-ray there were distinctive anomalies on the radiograph.
Best of everything to Rusty, you, and your family.
PC
IbogaProject
(5,689 posts)I hope an easy enough treatment option materializes for Him and You.