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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsRusty Just Diagnosed With Multiple Myeloma
Well 2025 just keeps on giving -- it's hard to stay positive when the hits just keep on comin'. Lost my brother in December '24, my ex (with whom I had a speaking relationship and 3 children) passed from pancreatic cancer in August. Now my husband, whose gurl I am, was just diagnosed with MM. At age 76 the treatment options are more limited, and we're still waiting to hear how the hematologist/oncologist wants to approach this. Add all the economic and political garbage under which we're being buried and it's almost too much.
I almost wish '25 could be over and '26 start with some good news, but I don't want to wish away any time at this point.
Hoping for the best for all of us in the days, weeks, months and years ahead.
LuckyCharms
(21,500 posts)Please try to stay strong.
mr715
(2,614 posts)With you. I am nobody, but I am nobody with you by your side.
a kennedy
(35,212 posts)Hekate
(100,132 posts)💕💕💕💕💕
malaise
(292,351 posts)SheltieLover
(76,270 posts)cachukis
(3,630 posts)democrank
(12,082 posts)Were here for you.
irisblue
(36,694 posts)Deuxcents
(25,391 posts)Grim Chieftain
(1,162 posts)Sending best wishes to you and your husband.
Beacool
(30,500 posts)I wish your Rusty the best. I hope that they can find an effective treatment for him. Stay strong and think positive!!
mercuryblues
(16,155 posts)Been in remission for 3-1/2 years.
It wasn't easy. If you want some tips or have questions, PM me.
We are all here for you.
canetoad
(20,112 posts)Keep strong.
surfered
(11,223 posts)Good luck to you both.
summer_in_TX
(4,023 posts)A very good place to go if you can.
A friend with an aggressive kidney cancer that had metastasized was treated there about 5 years ago by the research doctor who had just completed a drug trial on the latest. She's still here with no recurrence.
I hope that for your husband, rustysgurl. I'm so sorry that this has come on top of all the grief you have been dealing with. Will keep him and you in my prayers. 🙏
Jilly_in_VA
(13,786 posts)My friend's mom was sent there with the same ailment (MM) at 70 and she's still going. I think it's been 4 years now. Take heart, rustysgurl, and rusty too!
HeartsCanHope
(1,518 posts)calimary
(88,908 posts)Its got to be so painful, both literally AND figuratively.
Maybe it just means youll be spending WAY more of your ever more precious time strengthening your bonds and your love for each other. One of you gets a head start on building a Rainbow Bridge for the other of you. And eventually, youll both dance across it together.
radical noodle
(10,474 posts)Mr. Noodle's mother lived to be 90 years old and was diagnosed with MM at about the same age Rusty is. One of the meds she was treated with was Thalidomide. She had few side effects from the treatments she got and was fairly active until the last year of her life. I hope Rusty does well and you can both see many more years together. I'm sure there are better treatments now than there were then. She was diagnosed about 28 years ago.
Nanjeanne
(6,494 posts)new treatments. I will DM you with some information and if you want to talk p,ease reach out to me.
JMCKUSICK
(4,983 posts)I'm in a similar boat with my friend Rory, and please, as you said, treasure that time and try to find ways to travel this road arm in arm.
LoisB
(12,278 posts)NNadir
(37,226 posts)OddMom20
(59 posts)and Rusty, and hoping you both can capture a bit of peace amidst all of the chaos.
TygrBright
(21,282 posts)Cancer treatments have come a long way since my Granpere had MM in the 1980s - hang in there, stay strong, and remember this community's got you.
lovingly,
Bright
SuzyandPuffpuff
(393 posts)And SHIT! 2025 sucks ... good folks like Yu don't deserve any of this. I'm sorry. Love and warmth to you all
mwmisses4289
(3,155 posts)MineralMan
(150,565 posts)I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts.
twodogsbarking
(17,515 posts)People can live longer. Thinking of you.
barbtries
(31,105 posts)life can be so unfair
Nevilledog
(54,710 posts)denvine
(843 posts)That is a whole lot on your plate. Sending positive and healing thoughts your way.
DarthDem
(5,441 posts)I've heard there are some promising new strategies for managing MM lately. Sending best wishes and hugs your way!
GentryDixon
(3,122 posts)My twin was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I live 800 miles away from her, so it's not easy for me to support her in her journey.
I hope your Rusty responds well to his treatment.
Cancer sucks!
Trueblue Texan
(4,171 posts)Clouds Passing
(6,869 posts)A tough one for me too healthwise. I am still able to walk though, this is good!
bluestarone
(21,084 posts)Wishing you, and your family some future good news. Hang in there Girl.
pat_k
(12,663 posts)littlemissmartypants
(31,502 posts)Evolve Dammit
(21,438 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,793 posts)I hope for some good news from you soon.
PCIntern
(27,957 posts)MM is vastly more treatable now than it was even just a few years ago. Somewhat interestingly, dentists were often the first to diagnose it because on X-ray there were distinctive anomalies on the radiograph.
Best of everything to Rusty, you, and your family.
PC
IbogaProject
(5,574 posts)I hope an easy enough treatment option materializes for Him and You.