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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsFINALLY. I have a surgery date.
For those of you who may not remember the back story, here's a couple of links:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1036153011
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220893845
Apparently, scheduling a surgery takes longer than you might expect. But there are various things that need to happen before scheduling. For instance, the drug I'm on (Tagrisso) needs to be on board for 90 days. I just passed that date a few days ago. Also, an appropriate hospital needs to be on the list (it is.) and the doctor doing the surgery needs to have privileges there, which she does.
I don't yet have a time when the surgery will start. But the day is definitely fixed:
MONDAY, MARCH 16TH, 2026.
There are other small procedures to be done, but this is the important one.
Now, I need to ready myself, my psyche and my body, for this unprecedented surgery. I've never had a surgery like this before and it looks a little scary. All my joint replacements got to be routine. This is not.
As I did before, I will give each response a rec when I've read it.
My love and thanks to all of you!
LuckyCharms
(22,653 posts)You're going to do great!
SheltieLover
(80,483 posts)Healing vibes still flowing to you.
senseandsensibility
(24,978 posts)Your surgery date is close to St. Patrick's Day. May the luck o' the Irish be with you!
Scrivener7
(59,522 posts)That is great news, and I wish you total success. You hang in there.
HAB911
(10,440 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(16,411 posts)Permanut
(8,391 posts)At last, a light at the end of the tunnel. I happen to know that you can do this.
surfered
(13,475 posts)peggysue2
(12,533 posts)You have a mega prayer and blessings group at DU. All those vibes are headed in your direction for a successful surgery and healing outcome.
Take care of yourself.
MizLibby
(396 posts)Solly Mack
(96,943 posts)buzzycrumbhunger
(1,935 posts)I did acute care transcription for 15 years. The fact you have NO lymph node involvement is the biggest thing in your favour. The fact that they're fiddle-farting around to get you to surgery just bolsters your odds. If you were "really" in trouble, you would have been under the knife urgently.
I despise how insurance makes everything such an ordeal (I'm a pharmacy tech now) but I get a good vibe here. I think you've got this, except for the anxiety of waiting for it to be over. 👍
JMCKUSICK
(6,049 posts)The LOVE of so many of us to cushion, comfort and accompany you through this journey.
God Speed CaliforniaPeggy
livetohike
(24,283 posts)thoughts for you and your surgical team
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irisblue
(37,513 posts)You are gonna rock your post op
SheilaAnn
(10,712 posts)BaronChocula
(4,555 posts)Just weeks away.
Clouds Passing
(7,934 posts)malaise
(296,118 posts)niyad
(132,446 posts)successful surgery, and easy and complete recovery and healing.
You might want to hint gently to your team that they REALLLLLLLY do not want me having to come out there!
hugggggs and love
bluestarone
(22,179 posts)We will be like a BLUE WAVE behind you! YOU got this girl!!
Swede
(39,497 posts)You're gonna come through this better than ever.
awesomerwb1
(5,103 posts)I'm sure the surgery will be a complete success.
2naSalit
(102,803 posts)Special list (short) of people who need good energy when I burn sage in the morning.
Dear_Prudence
(1,172 posts)I hope it goes smoothly for you.
Beartracks
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Diamond_Dog
(40,578 posts)I will wish with all my heart that your surgery goes well and you have a full and speedy recovery!!
Dont forget to keep us updated when you can!
GoodRaisin
(10,922 posts)Bettie
(19,704 posts)and that your recovery is full!
lonely bird
(2,943 posts)I hope it goes well and you get good results.
Btw, your surgery is 3 days after my wife is having her hip replaced. The surgeon described the ball is like a square peg in a round hole.
LoisB
(13,030 posts)here. "You got this, Peggy". I will still pray.
Grim Chieftain
(1,739 posts)You are in my thoughts, dear lady. Please keep us posted.
boston bean
(36,931 posts)Figarosmom
(11,997 posts)Is hang in there. You'll get through it okay. I'm sure the doctors know what they are doing. Stay positive and remember everyone is afraid, don't let it take over.
Lonestarblue
(13,480 posts)spanone
(141,628 posts)Skittles
(171,717 posts)AND WE ARE HERE FOR YOU
Nevilledog
(55,082 posts)Holding you close in my thoughts.
badhair77
(5,182 posts)Thats a plus and I see it as a good omen. So many well-wishes heading your way, and thats just from me! Sending you the best thoughts, vibes and earnest prayers for you, your medical team and your thorough healing.
canetoad
(20,769 posts)Enjoy the anaesthetic!
diane in sf
(4,246 posts)Whyisthisstillclose
(665 posts)Jim__
(15,222 posts)Buddyzbuddy
(2,630 posts)Get well, be well, think good thoughts.
llmart
(17,623 posts)"This too shall pass". One day it'll be just a memory and you will be able to look at it as just another part of the story of your life. It's easy to say and harder to do, but don't fret too much. You've got this Peggy. We're all rooting for you.
cachukis
(3,938 posts)Ms. Toad
(38,643 posts)sinkingfeeling
(57,835 posts)the window like I did, to be released.
leftstreet
(40,682 posts)dalton99a
(94,133 posts)MLAA
(19,745 posts)friends that care deeply and consider you a DU treasure. 🩷
JohnnyLib2
(11,333 posts)And also with your husband! Love and best wishes from here.
TBF
(36,670 posts)sending all the positive vibes from here in TX!!
gademocrat7
(11,941 posts)Sending you lots of love, prayers and hugs. We are with you on this journey.🤗💙🙏
highplainsdem
(62,156 posts)Sending hugs and healing vibes.
70sEraVet
(5,482 posts)Mz Pip
(28,456 posts)Its scary but fortunately you dont have too long of a wait.
TommieMommy
(2,902 posts)Pacifist Patriot
(25,212 posts)This was surgery number 10. Lots of joint work in my extremities previously but this was them working inside my face. The anxiety was awful and the recovery has been very very different from past procedures.
I will be thinking of you and wishing for a very speedy recovery!
CTyankee
(68,202 posts)Where is the surgery being done?
joanbarnes
(2,120 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(11,143 posts)NNadir
(38,050 posts)...Manhattan Beach DU wonder.
I have in my family, long term cancer survivors and our DU family we all hope to add to that group.
Thank you for sharing with us your status and the strength with which you share it.
Good luck!
hamsterjill
(17,577 posts)I will remind myself to pray for you on Monday, March 16th. That is my practice.
You got this!!!!
1WorldHope
(2,054 posts)MuirHero
(148 posts)rubbersole
(11,223 posts)All the best to you, Ms Peggy.
lark
(26,081 posts)I know what it's like to have something life threatening but have to wait for the right surgeon to be available. While I had to wait the 3 months, I was told that if I fell, I probably died. The reason I had this was because of 2 previous falls, so not like it was likely. Grrr, it made me so mad and it was difficult to get through, but I made it through the difficult surgery and with time and work, had only minor difficulties. Hope you can say the same soon!
Best wish for a great result!!
cate94
(3,102 posts)And prayers your way.
bluescribbler
(2,521 posts)That date will come quicker than you think. Wishing you well.
ohtransplant
(1,498 posts)I don't post often but read yours always! You are of great counsel to many. You know what to do. It's just different when it's ourselves.
You got this. Remember the serenity prayer.
Sending good vibes, prayers, and well wishes your way.
And thank you for all you do. Looking forward to your next post...
murielm99
(32,988 posts)and praying for you.
Torchlight
(6,830 posts)you've handled everything so far with more strength and clarity than most of people I know would. I'm rooting hard for you... youve got this!
popsdenver
(2,307 posts)and in hopes for the best that can be..........
Marthe48
(23,175 posts)One of my friends surgery last summer and she has done so well. Sending you healing thoughts 💪
Laurelin
(897 posts)Take good care of yourself. ❤️
TexLaProgressive
(12,730 posts)You are one of my favorites here, wishing you well and lessening anxiety.
The Wizard
(13,735 posts)Positive attitudes pay dividends.
multigraincracker
(37,651 posts)blogslug
(39,167 posts)❤️ ❤️ ❤️