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sheshe2

(83,933 posts)
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 07:41 PM Jan 2013

Yep, she is one very wise Latina.

Can you guess who said this?

...I had my doubts that linking arms, chanting slogans, hanging effigies, and shouting at passersby were alway the most effective tactics. I could see that troubling the waters was occasionally necessary to bring attention to the urgency of some problem. But this style of political expression sometimes becomes an end in itself and can lose potency if used routinely. If you shout too loudly and too often, people tend to cover their ears...
Quiet pragmatism, of course, lacks the romance of vocal militancy. But I felt myself more a mediator than a crusader. My strengths were reasoning, crafting compromises, finding the good and the good faith on both sides of an argument, and using that to build a bridge. Always, my first question was, what's the goal? And then, who must be persuaded if it is to be accomplished? A respectful dialogue with one's opponent almost invariably goes further than a harangue outside his or her window. If you want to change someone's mind, you must understand what need shapes his or her opinion. To prevail, you must first listen...

I know this kind of approach doesn't work with people like the Republicans who have made a strategic decision to oppose. But then shouting at them doesn't change their mind either. All it does is fill the emotional needs of the shouter. And the end result is the same. Stalemate.


SNIP:

Perhaps now you understand why President Obama picked her as his first appointment to the Supreme Court. They came from very different backgrounds, but learned some of the same lessons.



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DollarBillHines

(1,922 posts)
3. I heard a remarkable interview with her on KQED this morning
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 07:49 PM
Jan 2013
http://www.kqed.org/

She was interviewed by Michael Krasney and it was just wonderful.

FYI, it rebroadcasts at 10PM PST.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
5. Good advice in life. No quick ego gratification, remember the goal is what's good for all.
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 08:15 PM
Jan 2013

My father had a good friend who was an attorney and he had a little plaque on the front of his desk. It went something like:

It is just and equitable to all parties? Have all points been considered? Is everyone in agreement?

Not flashy, not bravado, not a winner and loser but all win something they need and are satisfied. We don't have time for the winner take all routine anymore as we all need each other to survive. JMHO.



Cha

(297,731 posts)
8. Very wise Latina, she.. so appreciate that we have
Tue Jan 29, 2013, 02:35 AM
Jan 2013

her on the Supreme Court! And, that Pres Obama found two women he wanted with Elena Kagan, to help balance out the preponderance grumpy ol men.

sheshe2

(83,933 posts)
9. First Hispanic...Third Woman ever Appointed. Think about that!
Tue Jan 29, 2013, 06:01 AM
Jan 2013

Last edited Tue Jan 29, 2013, 12:01 PM - Edit history (1)

The first Hispanic and third woman appointed to the United States Supreme Court, Sonia Sotomayor has become an instant American icon. Now, with a candor and intimacy never undertaken by a sitting Justice, she recounts her life from a Bronx housing project to the federal bench, a journey that offers an inspiring testament to her own extraordinary determination and the power of believing in oneself.

Here is the story of a precarious childhood, with an alcoholic father (who would die ...
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http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/my-beloved-world-sonia-sotomayor/1111808718

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
11. One of the most moving protests
Tue Jan 29, 2013, 09:32 AM
Jan 2013

I ever saw was in nyc where the protestors were holdings signs against the Chinese government's aggression in Tibet but were completely silent otherwise. In a city where everything is loud, it was very moving and, I think, way more effective than yelling and screaming.

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