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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsYep, she is one very wise Latina.
Can you guess who said this?Quiet pragmatism, of course, lacks the romance of vocal militancy. But I felt myself more a mediator than a crusader. My strengths were reasoning, crafting compromises, finding the good and the good faith on both sides of an argument, and using that to build a bridge. Always, my first question was, what's the goal? And then, who must be persuaded if it is to be accomplished? A respectful dialogue with one's opponent almost invariably goes further than a harangue outside his or her window. If you want to change someone's mind, you must understand what need shapes his or her opinion. To prevail, you must first listen...
I know this kind of approach doesn't work with people like the Republicans who have made a strategic decision to oppose. But then shouting at them doesn't change their mind either. All it does is fill the emotional needs of the shouter. And the end result is the same. Stalemate.
SNIP:
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http://immasmartypants.blogspot.com/2013/01/can-you-guess-who-said-this.html
northoftheborder
(7,574 posts)DollarBillHines
(1,922 posts)She was interviewed by Michael Krasney and it was just wonderful.
FYI, it rebroadcasts at 10PM PST.
sheshe2
(83,933 posts)AngryOldDem
(14,061 posts)It's a must-read.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)DollarBillHines
(1,922 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)My father had a good friend who was an attorney and he had a little plaque on the front of his desk. It went something like:
It is just and equitable to all parties? Have all points been considered? Is everyone in agreement?
Not flashy, not bravado, not a winner and loser but all win something they need and are satisfied. We don't have time for the winner take all routine anymore as we all need each other to survive. JMHO.
sheshe2
(83,933 posts)Your (JMHO)...
Slow and Steady wins the race every damn time!
Cha
(297,731 posts)her on the Supreme Court! And, that Pres Obama found two women he wanted with Elena Kagan, to help balance out the preponderance grumpy ol men.
sheshe2
(83,933 posts)Last edited Tue Jan 29, 2013, 12:01 PM - Edit history (1)
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Shankapotomus
(4,840 posts)I ever saw was in nyc where the protestors were holdings signs against the Chinese government's aggression in Tibet but were completely silent otherwise. In a city where everything is loud, it was very moving and, I think, way more effective than yelling and screaming.