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pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 01:25 AM Mar 2013

The bad news: the 76 year old Catholic pope, like the rest of the Vatican, opposes gay marriage.

Surprise, surprise.

The good news: rank and file Catholics don't much care. Here in WA, Catholic voters were more likely to vote for gay marriage than voters overall, so Catholics were instrumental in passing the measure.

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The bad news: the 76 year old Catholic pope, like the rest of the Vatican, opposes gay marriage. (Original Post) pnwmom Mar 2013 OP
Oh he opposed other things too. See link below Tx4obama Mar 2013 #1
So he is opposed to it. Can he stop it? People have a right to their own beliefs...at least no one kelliekat44 Mar 2013 #21
so you're saying Skittles Mar 2013 #2
Yes, they do. And so do right-wing Catholics who oppose the Church's pnwmom Mar 2013 #3
then WHY Skittles Mar 2013 #6
Because we don't expect the Church to be perfect any more than we expect that from anyone else. pnwmom Mar 2013 #7
If you conflate perfection with not despising gay people...Well, that's a problem. Gravitycollapse Mar 2013 #9
Catholics are MUCH more likely to support gay marriage than the public overall. pnwmom Mar 2013 #10
Yeah I get that. It's unfortunate that the leader of their faith is such an asshole. Gravitycollapse Mar 2013 #11
Then why did you make that comment about Catholics and despising gay people? pnwmom Mar 2013 #12
I was commenting on the Church and Church doctrine. Gravitycollapse Mar 2013 #13
The Church includes more than a billion members, only a tiny fraction pnwmom Mar 2013 #14
perfect? Skittles Mar 2013 #15
Catholics are LESS homophobic than the average American voter -- by far. pnwmom Mar 2013 #16
done here Skittles Mar 2013 #17
The Church comprises ALL its members, not just the hierarchy. And the laity are not employees. pnwmom Mar 2013 #19
like talking to a wall Skittles Mar 2013 #20
Thank You MoclipsHumptulips Mar 2013 #18
I don't get that either. If you realize most of what a religion teaches is b.s., what's the point? Arugula Latte Mar 2013 #43
my guess is they are simply unable to leave Skittles Mar 2013 #44
The same reason you voted for Obama in 2008 Renew Deal Mar 2013 #30
in 2008 Obama was homophobic misgogynist? Skittles Mar 2013 #39
He was anti-marriage equality Renew Deal Mar 2013 #42
Yeh, I don't get that at all. Whisp Mar 2013 #37
I think they don't think they have an alternative Skittles Mar 2013 #40
In 4 years he'll be 80. I see another Pope very soon. Lint Head Mar 2013 #4
I've already heard speculation that he might be a "bridge" pope. pnwmom Mar 2013 #5
But does that really help with reform? AngryOldDem Mar 2013 #24
What makes you think anybody in the Vatican wants reform? CanonRay Mar 2013 #28
Yea? Well fuck him and the homophobic horse he rode in on. cliffordu Mar 2013 #8
I wonder if the new pope Ichingcarpenter Mar 2013 #22
That's a damn good question! LuvNewcastle Mar 2013 #25
Hah! He could get away with 1000 posts just fine, by flying just under the radar. Quantess Mar 2013 #26
Good point ..... oldhippie Mar 2013 #36
The Catholic Church has always opposed homosexuality ZOB Mar 2013 #27
My sentiments exactly CanonRay Mar 2013 #29
Agreed. Apophis Mar 2013 #41
I think that's what gets lost in all this. AngryOldDem Mar 2013 #23
My opinion on the new pope... Javaman Mar 2013 #31
Your analysis may be spot-on. Laelth Mar 2013 #32
One thing is for sure... Javaman Mar 2013 #35
What's the difference between the Pope and Fred Phelps? Bluenorthwest Mar 2013 #33
THANK YOU Skittles Mar 2013 #46
Excellent post. Great points. Very true....Locking. nt Zorra Mar 2013 #47
His opinion on that will matter almost as much as his opinion on contraception! yellowcanine Mar 2013 #34
The bigger problem the Catholic Church has is with the lack of women priests. yellowcanine Mar 2013 #38
This is why there will never be an American pope WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #45
 

kelliekat44

(7,759 posts)
21. So he is opposed to it. Can he stop it? People have a right to their own beliefs...at least no one
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 04:51 AM
Mar 2013

can stop you from having "beliefs." Can he really stop a gay marriage? Hell, the catholic church is opposed to divorce but can't stop it from happening.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
6. then WHY
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 02:31 AM
Mar 2013

be a part of an institution that openly practices and teaches sexism, homophobia, over-population, etc.? WHY?

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
7. Because we don't expect the Church to be perfect any more than we expect that from anyone else.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 03:15 AM
Mar 2013

But, for those who stay, the good outweighs the bad.

And especially, the many good people like Joe Biden, Justice Sotomayor, the "nuns of the bus," etc.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
10. Catholics are MUCH more likely to support gay marriage than the public overall.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 03:30 AM
Mar 2013

If that's the issue you most care about, then you should be singling out non-Catholics for your criticism.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
12. Then why did you make that comment about Catholics and despising gay people?
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 03:35 AM
Mar 2013

If you "get that."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/08/catholics-gay-marriage-support_n_2835847.html

The Quinnipiac University poll found 54 percent of Catholics support same-sex marriage while just 38 percent are opposed, compared to a 47-43 percent margin among all American voters.

Pope Francis is 76 years old. How many 76 year olds, inside and outside the Catholic Church, do you think support gay marriage?

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
13. I was commenting on the Church and Church doctrine.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 03:41 AM
Mar 2013

Which makes explicit it's vehement hatred of homosexuality.

But let's be real here. When you take on the label "Catholic," you are accepting the identity associated with Catholicism. And you damn well better get use to the fact that people anticipate your support of the institution from which you derive such an identity.

If I say I'm a member of the Latter Day Saints, I am identifying with the LDS as an institution. And with that comes the burden of explaining why I would continue to identify with such filthy liars and bastards.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
14. The Church includes more than a billion members, only a tiny fraction
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 03:50 AM
Mar 2013

of whom are members of the hierarchy you hate.

I don't identify with filthy liars and bastards, but I do admire Catholics like Joe Biden and the "nuns on the bus."

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
15. perfect?
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 03:57 AM
Mar 2013

I don't eat at Chik-Fil-A because I find their homophobic practices offensive, yet I am just supposed to respect it here? And *PLEASE* STOP NAMING PEOPLE; I would ask them the same question

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
16. Catholics are LESS homophobic than the average American voter -- by far.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 04:01 AM
Mar 2013

If that's your big issue, you should be criticizing non-Catholics instead.

In my state gay marriage wouldn't have passed without the Catholic vote. And the same trend holds nationwide.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/08/catholics-gay-marriage-support_n_2835847.html

The Quinnipiac University poll found 54 percent of Catholics support same-sex marriage while just 38 percent are opposed, compared to a 47-43 percent margin among all American voters.

Pope Francis is 76 years old. How many 76 year olds, inside and outside the Catholic Church, do you think support gay marriage?

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
17. done here
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 04:02 AM
Mar 2013

I'm sure most of the workers at Chik-Fil-A are not homophobic but I refuse to help support THE BUSINESS

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
19. The Church comprises ALL its members, not just the hierarchy. And the laity are not employees.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 04:05 AM
Mar 2013

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/08/catholics-gay-marriage-support_n_2835847.html

The Quinnipiac University poll found 54 percent of Catholics support same-sex marriage while just 38 percent are opposed, compared to a 47-43 percent margin among all American voters.

 
18. Thank You
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 04:02 AM
Mar 2013

from the outside looking in here.

I say thank you for this question/post Skittles.

And I say there is no reason at all.

None.



Again Skittles, thanks, you mean a lot.







 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
43. I don't get that either. If you realize most of what a religion teaches is b.s., what's the point?
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 12:01 PM
Mar 2013

And if you want to do "good" in the world, you don't need a church. Volunteer at a food bank, clean cages at an animal shelter, help kids to read, pull invasive plants, whatever -- no church needed. And then you won't be supporting and enabling an institution that crushes women and gays and increases poverty by preventing people from using contraception.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
44. my guess is they are simply unable to leave
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 06:08 PM
Mar 2013

due to pressure from family & community - it is sad but that is a big part of religion

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
37. Yeh, I don't get that at all.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 10:02 AM
Mar 2013

If the leader of your faith represents all the faithful of the church on earth, represents God in fact, iirc.

And he is a bigoted asshole but you don't really have to follow his lead, even though God said he is speaking for God himself.

I don't get it. If a Church does not represent you why be in the church?

There has to be much more to it, maybe it's just the 'I'm a member of a big assed club' thing? Maybe it's the Masses and stuff - they can be pretty impressive - all that pomp and stuff.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
40. I think they don't think they have an alternative
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 11:35 AM
Mar 2013

that's what they are expected to be so that is what they are

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
5. I've already heard speculation that he might be a "bridge" pope.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 02:24 AM
Mar 2013

And that wouldn't be a terrible thing.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
24. But does that really help with reform?
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 05:26 AM
Mar 2013

I don't want to see another Pope John XXIII, who may institute some changes only to have them undermined by his successors.

The Church needs someone who can serve long term if any head way is to be made in cleaning up this mess.

As a former Catholic I'm interested to see how this all plays out. The Church is truly at a crossroads.

CanonRay

(14,101 posts)
28. What makes you think anybody in the Vatican wants reform?
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 08:00 AM
Mar 2013

I don't see any positive indications. The insiders spend their lives in ease and luxury, being catered to and cared for. Why change? Changing the Catholic Church is harder than turning the Titanic.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
8. Yea? Well fuck him and the homophobic horse he rode in on.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 03:21 AM
Mar 2013

The clowncar of organized religion needs to be fumigated.

I sam SOOO fucking over this shit.

Fundamentalists are killing us all.

Believe what you will, but keep your fucking faith out of my way.

I'll do the same for you.


Word.

Ichingcarpenter

(36,988 posts)
22. I wonder if the new pope
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 05:00 AM
Mar 2013

would be allowed to post on DU considering his stances on homosexuality, abortion, contraceptives etc.....LOL

LuvNewcastle

(16,844 posts)
25. That's a damn good question!
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 05:34 AM
Mar 2013

People are cheering on someone who we wouldn't even allow to associate with us on this board. Thanks for putting things into perspective.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
26. Hah! He could get away with 1000 posts just fine, by flying just under the radar.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 05:36 AM
Mar 2013

We've seen it done before.

 

ZOB

(151 posts)
27. The Catholic Church has always opposed homosexuality
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 07:24 AM
Mar 2013

...and they're entitled to their beliefs.

I think it's pretty unrealistic to expect a pro-LGBT Pope. It's sort of like condemning a pro-choice Pope. You're just never going to see one, because it's in opposition to the core beliefs of Catholicism.

The rest of us are free to simply not be Catholic.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
23. I think that's what gets lost in all this.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 05:19 AM
Mar 2013

Yes, the Vatican itself and the Corporate Roman Catholic Church are corrupt cesspools. That's why, I think, most Catholics choose to ignore what comes out of Rome in favor of their own spirituality and common sense. Rome realizes this, and also realizes that it's powerless to stop it, hence these ever-increasing lurches to the far right in an effort of reestablish its authority.

To get respect you have to earn it. And over the past several decades (if not longer) the RCC has done precious little to do that with its flock.

Gay marriage, use of contraceptives, etc. -- I think it's been pretty well borne out that a majority of Catholics share mainstream opinions on these, despite what the Vatican says.





Javaman

(62,525 posts)
31. My opinion on the new pope...
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 09:04 AM
Mar 2013

I think he's been selected for the sole purpose of being a "cleaner". Lots of stuff was going down when ratzo handed in his papers. If anyone had been following the bizarre recent antics of the pope and his crew, you would know that there is something rotten in Denmark.

As a result, when you want something to be fixed, you bring in the Jesuits. On top of that, he's someone from the "outside" (not really but more outside than the others).

While all will appear as "business as usual", there will be a lot of "fixing" of things left over from the last several popes that was "kicked down the road" for someone else to deal with.

This is why, as I stated in another post, there would never ever be an American pope or another Italian pope (for a least a very long time) An American pope is a long shot. Too unpredictable. An Italian pope would continue with the same old same old and nothing would get fixed.

They needed to find a "cleaner" someone that a core of people at the center of the church could trust to take names and kick ass.

So over the next few years you will see various bishops, cardinals, least of all priests, etc be reassigned or retired.

My prediction is: this guy will serve for about 7 to 10 years, then a young (50 to 60 year old) pope will be selected and it will be someone who while it will appear to be the type to follow traditional catholic doctrine, but will actually be the one to institute real reform.

The church realizes that they can't continue on the path they are going. They are losing market share aka parishioners year on year and there are less and less new priests in the pipeline. They have to do something but that something can't happen now until all the obvious corruption is dealt with, because instituting any reform now will knock out any remaining support with the long time followers in a heart beat. By the time Francis moves on, a large portion of the aging devotees, will have also passed on, paving the way for reform, even if those reforms are pretty small.

Just my two cents.

Full disclosure, I'm an Atheist that was brought up catholic, while I don't believe in god or organized religion of any sort, the catholic church is still a fascinating topic for discussion.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
32. Your analysis may be spot-on.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 09:47 AM
Mar 2013

I certainly don't disagree. As a lapsed Catholic, I share your distant interest in the Church's workings. The Cardinals are not stupid, and they know the RCC is in trouble. Something must be done. Whether it's this Pope or the next who reforms the Church remains to be seen, but something must be done. There are not enough new Priests to sustain the religion.

-Laelth

Javaman

(62,525 posts)
35. One thing is for sure...
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 10:02 AM
Mar 2013

the church works very slowly.

You might be right when you say, "Whether it's this Pope or the next who reforms the Church remains to be seen"

It might not even be the next pope or even the one after that.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
33. What's the difference between the Pope and Fred Phelps?
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 09:53 AM
Mar 2013

The 'rank and file members' who are not homophobic and anti woman need to tell that to their church leadership, not to those who criticize the leadership. If regular members were constantly informing the Pope that they reject his bullshit, regular members would be known and evidenced supporters of equality. As long as they remain 'in the closet' nodding along with the hateful leadership one minute and then denying all the dogma when asked about the ignorance and bigotry then next they just seem like folks who say and do whatever makes them feel good about themselves.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
38. The bigger problem the Catholic Church has is with the lack of women priests.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 10:03 AM
Mar 2013

The patriarchy thing isn't cutting it anymore for many women and the majority of faithful Catholics are women. Therein lies the rub.

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