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RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 08:44 AM Mar 2013

How to Die in Oregon--great documentary on physician assisted death.

Came out in 2011 and caught it on HBO this weekend.

Sometimes hard to watch--especially if someone close to you died from a terminal illness. My husband (age 46) is 6 years in remission from Stage 3 head and neck cancer---he was given a 50/50 chance survival rate.

I support it 100%, and cried several times during it---one man was denied treatment by insurance (I think it was state) because his prognosis wasn't good, but they would cover the cost of the drugs for him to kill himself.

It's legal in only 3 states--Oregon, Washington and Montana.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1715802/

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How to Die in Oregon--great documentary on physician assisted death. (Original Post) RiffRandell Mar 2013 OP
Thanks for the rec polly7--I usually don't kick my own threads but this RiffRandell Mar 2013 #1
You're very welcome. polly7 Mar 2013 #3
Thanks for the links. RiffRandell Mar 2013 #4
K&R nt Mnemosyne Mar 2013 #2
It was a very good documentary MuseRider Mar 2013 #5
It haunted me too. RiffRandell Mar 2013 #6
So sorry about your Mother. MuseRider Mar 2013 #7
Thanks. RiffRandell Mar 2013 #8
Shouldn't we have liberty in death ? olddots Mar 2013 #9

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
1. Thanks for the rec polly7--I usually don't kick my own threads but this
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:33 AM
Mar 2013

was a great film on a very important issue.

I can't believe it's not legal in more states---especially liberal ones (Cali, New England).

I want to do more research to see if it's been on ballots in other states and which ones.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
3. You're very welcome.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:17 AM
Mar 2013

I'm in Canada and don't know much about the laws regarding this in the U.S., but believe the option and means to end one's life in a humane manner should be available everywhere. My Dad died by violent suicide a little over two years ago. I know he would have chosen any other way if it were available, not even really for himself ... but for us. Nobody should have to make the agonizing decision to end it that way, we do better for our terminally ill animals. (If you have time, you might find these interesting ... Gloria Taylor, a woman with ALS, who fought here to win the right to physician assisted death. http://www.cbc.ca/fifth/2012-2013/2012/10/the-life-and-death-of-gloria-taylor.html And Sue Rodriguez' fight in 1993. http://www.cbc.ca/fifth/givedeathahand/timeline.html It also gives mention to Oregon's Dying With Dignity Act)

My very best wishes for continued good health for your husband!



RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
4. Thanks for the links.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:35 AM
Mar 2013

Will definitely check them out. ALS is horrible---one man in the film had it and chose to die with dignity. I was crying because he and his wife were being interviewed and she was crying and she respected his decision but it's so hard on her because they were together for so long and she couldn't imagine life without him.

Before it was made legal, one woman's husband had brain cancer, underwent several surgeries and was in (I believe) his early fifties and the illness took such a toll people thought he was eighty. He made her promise that no one should suffer like him, so she got very involved and was the last signature on the petition--she wanted to be. Eventually it passed.

My sister is living in Kamloops at the moment, and my nephew arrived there last night to visit and ski.

I'm very sorry about your Dad.

MuseRider

(34,108 posts)
5. It was a very good documentary
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:39 AM
Mar 2013

but it is at times tough to watch. It has haunted me ever since I saw it. It has made me angry most of that time that we don't all have that choice. We should. We have lost so many rights and choices that the time is coming we just may get that choice, seems one they might like us all to have.

Haunting, sad, informative and compassionate. Should be seen by lots of people and the movement to allow us this final right should begin.

MuseRider

(34,108 posts)
7. So sorry about your Mother.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 11:13 AM
Mar 2013

It is hard, lost both my parents and my brother. All of them far too young to die. Hang in there. It is very hard but you can find a lot of support here if you need extra.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
9. Shouldn't we have liberty in death ?
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:10 PM
Mar 2013

Thanks for the links I too have neck & throat cancer which they say is gone but who knows---- in the 21st.century I think its time to allow people the dignity of the right to die with no phony moral superstitions getting in the way .
Why do the holier than thou types want to keep those in pain under their masochistic guilt trip ?

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