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BeyondGeography

(39,386 posts)
Mon May 13, 2013, 09:58 AM May 2013

Officer Is Reunited With Suicidal Man He Talked Down From The Golden Gate Bridge Eight Years Ago





A San Francisco man who almost took his life eight years ago by jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge has been reunited with the hero who saved his life.

Kevin Berthia was perched on the iconic bridge ready to take a fatal leap on March 11, 2005, when he heard the voice of California Highway Patrol officer Kevin Briggs calling out to him from above.

Over 60 life-changing minutes, Briggs managed to convince Berthia, as he has done with hundreds of suicidal men and women, to climb back over the rail and give life another shot. Since that significant day Berthia hasn't looked back and is now happily married with two children.

...'I didn't know what I was going to feel, or how I was going to react,' he said. 'But when I first saw him, he walked up me and I just shook his hand. It felt like I had known this man my whole life. The nerves weren't there. It was just two old friends being reunited.'

As he presented Briggs with the award, Bertha explained how grateful he was for Briggs' help and urged others to seek help, insisting they could too get better and life a fulfilled life.

'I didn't want him to try and stop me but now I'm glad he did,' he told the crowd. 'All I can say is that I am truly grateful. You gave me an opportunity to live.'

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2323468/Kevin-Berthia-Emotional-reunion-suicidal-man-hero-police-officer-Kevin-Briggs-talked-Golden-Gate-Bridge.html



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Officer Is Reunited With Suicidal Man He Talked Down From The Golden Gate Bridge Eight Years Ago (Original Post) BeyondGeography May 2013 OP
What a nice "Good News" story. Laurian May 2013 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author KinMd May 2013 #2
I'm reminded of something I've read.... KinMd May 2013 #3
Another diminution of the concept of "hero". xtraxritical May 2013 #4
I'm just stunned by remarks like that. nolabear May 2013 #6
Well said, nolabear Patiod May 2013 #8
There's always one BeyondGeography May 2013 #9
What normal human being would not try to talk someone out of suicide? It takes a "hero"? xtraxritical May 2013 #10
Maybe I need to know your definition of "hero." nolabear May 2013 #11
Someone who actually dove in the water to save him. xtraxritical May 2013 #15
That he didn't deserve to have it. But he chose it nolabear May 2013 #19
That was beautifully put ... Summer Hathaway May 2013 #28
to do that over and over? yes. it takes a hero cali May 2013 #12
So all police that put on the uniform are heros? xtraxritical May 2013 #16
Stop already BeyondGeography May 2013 #17
Ok, last try, it was his job. Occasionally things worked out well. xtraxritical May 2013 #25
Watch the clip in the article BeyondGeography May 2013 #35
It's nothing to do with image, heroism is "awarded" by feeling. sibelian May 2013 #33
The guy who made the film "The Bridge" didn't. Starry Messenger May 2013 #22
Huh? There are many types of courage Yo_Mama May 2013 #14
Oh, for fuck's sake. nt awoke_in_2003 May 2013 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl May 2013 #26
When you're at an awards ceremony celebrating the many lives you've saved, you can decline the honor NBachers May 2013 #29
You really sound like someone who is bitter because your life hasn't amounted to much... TheBlackAdder May 2013 #30
Related Story Here: WillyT May 2013 #5
K&R abelenkpe May 2013 #7
What a hopeful, decent story Yo_Mama May 2013 #13
This is what the police should be known for. n-t Logical May 2013 #18
Wonderful News.. thanks BG! n/m Cha May 2013 #20
Wonderful story! No taser involved! Liberal_in_LA May 2013 #21
It is good to see... awoke_in_2003 May 2013 #24
good news & some police do deserve awards. Sunlei May 2013 #27
I like good news. LWolf May 2013 #31
How horrible. reflection May 2013 #32
What a wonderful story! JNelson6563 May 2013 #34

Response to BeyondGeography (Original post)

KinMd

(966 posts)
3. I'm reminded of something I've read....
Mon May 13, 2013, 10:29 AM
May 2013

And whoever saves a life, it is considered as if he saved an entire world.

- Mishnah Sanhedrin 4:5; Babylonian Talmud Tractate Sanhedrin 37a

nolabear

(41,993 posts)
6. I'm just stunned by remarks like that.
Mon May 13, 2013, 12:47 PM
May 2013

Why would that be your first response to an act of compassion and the kind of responsibility that most people would never assume? I just don't get it.

 

xtraxritical

(3,576 posts)
15. Someone who actually dove in the water to save him.
Mon May 13, 2013, 06:15 PM
May 2013

What would you have said if the policeman had not done his job?

nolabear

(41,993 posts)
19. That he didn't deserve to have it. But he chose it
Mon May 13, 2013, 06:55 PM
May 2013

As do others. I think someone who saves a life or goes out of their way to make lives worth living at cost to themselves are heroes. Doesn't have to be risk of death. To have failed and lost that man, as he well may have lost others, comes at a cost. Most people won't take that chance, of trying and failing. He did. That, to me, is heroic.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
28. That was beautifully put ...
Tue May 14, 2013, 02:54 AM
May 2013
"Most people won't take that chance, of trying and failing. He did. That, to me, is heroic."

To me, too. Very well said.
 

cali

(114,904 posts)
12. to do that over and over? yes. it takes a hero
Mon May 13, 2013, 04:01 PM
May 2013

and many, many normal people wouldn't even begin to know how to do it. He does heroic, soul grinding work for the benefit of others.

 

xtraxritical

(3,576 posts)
16. So all police that put on the uniform are heros?
Mon May 13, 2013, 06:16 PM
May 2013

The mealy political correctness here is discouraging.

BeyondGeography

(39,386 posts)
17. Stop already
Mon May 13, 2013, 06:30 PM
May 2013

You are completely tone-deaf, righteously fixated on a point so narrow it is non-existent, because you are hoping to make a larger point, which is equally bogus.

Did this cop do heroic work? Ask the people he saved. Their opinion might be somewhat more valuable than yours. And if that doesn't work (this is really for a broader audience than you; you are hopeless), ask yourself how many workdays you've had like this, o noble keyboard warrior:

'During my career I've encountered numerous suicide attempts on the Golden Gate Bridge. Of those attempts, I've only lost one person. It's something you never forget.

BeyondGeography

(39,386 posts)
35. Watch the clip in the article
Tue May 14, 2013, 09:59 AM
May 2013

He talked to one jumper for seven hours in the cold until the person climbed back over the rail. He is phenomenal at his job and goes to extraordinary lengths to save lives. Most people call that heroism.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
33. It's nothing to do with image, heroism is "awarded" by feeling.
Tue May 14, 2013, 08:49 AM
May 2013

It's a feeling that is inspired, not a category requiring definition. There isn't an "appopriate" or "innappropriate" definition of things like heroism! It's not an attempt to manage public perceptions, it's an expression of an emotion!

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
22. The guy who made the film "The Bridge" didn't.
Mon May 13, 2013, 09:24 PM
May 2013

Several of us found out an old friend of ours had killed himself jumping off the GG bridge because that asshole had filmed it without calling for help.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
14. Huh? There are many types of courage
Mon May 13, 2013, 04:08 PM
May 2013

For most people, confronting this type of situation over and over again would be a psychic horror, and I'm sure this guy feels the pressure.

There are cancer nurses who are heroes for grabbing a few minutes at the end of their busy shifts to sit and talk for a few minutes with a frightened, desperate patient.

There are hospice nurses who are heroes for coming to know and suffer with their dying patients and their families OVER AND OVER AGAIN.



Response to xtraxritical (Reply #4)

NBachers

(17,149 posts)
29. When you're at an awards ceremony celebrating the many lives you've saved, you can decline the honor
Tue May 14, 2013, 03:49 AM
May 2013

Be all modest and "aw shucks" and like that

Diminish the value of the lives saved, to the very people who are still living them.

TheBlackAdder

(28,226 posts)
30. You really sound like someone who is bitter because your life hasn't amounted to much...
Tue May 14, 2013, 03:52 AM
May 2013

yet.

There's still time to correct that. It's your choice as to which path you continue to take.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
13. What a hopeful, decent story
Mon May 13, 2013, 04:03 PM
May 2013

I'm so glad his life has turned around, and I think it's great that the two could meet again on such a happy note.

Also, to be fair it is the side of a policemen's activities that we rarely see discussed in the media, yet they do a surprising amount of this type of thing and they tend to do it very well.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
31. I like good news.
Tue May 14, 2013, 08:31 AM
May 2013

Thank you.

I wish there had been a Kevin Briggs on the bridge when my beloved aunt jumped in '72.

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