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madamesilverspurs

(15,801 posts)
Sun Sep 8, 2013, 04:32 PM Sep 2013

Neighbors

Our dates had been gone from the table for several minutes when we heard someone say there was something going on outside. My friend and I got up and followed others out the door.

A small crowd had gathered in the parking to watch one of the guys as he sat atop his wife pummeling her. I recognized the couple, they lived on my block and had a reputation for a very stormy marriage. But for me, that reputation was no reason to stand by and watch as she took a beating.

Sadly, my date was one of the men speaking to the guy, saying stuff like, “Man, you promised you wouldn’t do this any more” and “You need to stop.” They stood there yapping at him, hands in pockets, as he continued to pound away.

My friend and I stepped in, high heels and all, and pulled him off her; he was drunk enough that his effort to swing at us sent him sprawling on the pavement. She was bleeding and barely conscious, both eyes were blacked, but we were able to help her stand so we could put her in a car for the ride to the hospital. My date just shrugged his shoulders and explained that he hadn’t wanted to “interfere” in their marriage; next time he called I hung up on him.


That was many years ago, but for some reason I've been thinking about it this week...

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Neighbors (Original Post) madamesilverspurs Sep 2013 OP
Thanks for stepping up and stepping in. MineralMan Sep 2013 #1
I have never witnessed such a thing, you and your friend not only did the right thing, it was a Jefferson23 Sep 2013 #2
Is this supposed to be a metaphor having to do with Syria? Electric Monk Sep 2013 #3
Pretty much I'd say. Gidney N Cloyd Sep 2013 #4

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
2. I have never witnessed such a thing, you and your friend not only did the right thing, it was a
Sun Sep 8, 2013, 04:40 PM
Sep 2013

brave act. You do not know with certainty how an abusive drunk will respond..or retaliate later.

Cheers and your date afraid of running interference, what a schmuck..good riddance.


K&R

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