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TeamPooka

(24,225 posts)
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:18 PM Nov 2013

Abortion isn't a diamond and should not be rare and/or expensive.

It's a standard modern medical procedure and should be available to all women at anytime they want or need one and covered by their insurance.
Regardless of what anyone's religion or moral code thinks.
Period.
The more people talk about it needing to be rare, the more I want to give out free coupons for them at the mall.



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Abortion isn't a diamond and should not be rare and/or expensive. (Original Post) TeamPooka Nov 2013 OP
. gollygee Nov 2013 #1
Well said ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #2
So long as women exit the medical facility sobbing and in need of psychological help... randome Nov 2013 #3
Right, because getting an abortion is so much fun. Dawgs Nov 2013 #4
As birth control becomes available and free with ACA ... frazzled Nov 2013 #5
A mastectomy... Wait Wut Nov 2013 #6
Well that's just crazy talk! Nine Nov 2013 #9
lame...why in the hell should mastectomies be rare? noiretextatique Nov 2013 #19
I don't believe the poster said "treatment for breast cancer' and I get what the poster is saying. ScreamingMeemie Nov 2013 #21
LOL! Wait Wut Nov 2013 #22
as a breast cancer survivor, let me clue you in on a few things noiretextatique Nov 2013 #26
So... Wait Wut Nov 2013 #29
surviving abortions without complications is why many of us fight to keep the choice of legal, uppityperson Nov 2013 #31
I agree. Wait Wut Nov 2013 #33
Diamonds aren't rare and are kept artificially expensive. hobbit709 Nov 2013 #7
/\ /\ /\ This. So, the analogy should be: It is a diamond TalkingDog Nov 2013 #11
Another one! whistler162 Nov 2013 #8
I think most people having sex know where babies come from. Incitatus Nov 2013 #17
one problem: there is no 100% effective birth control method noiretextatique Nov 2013 #18
Is anyone here saying that it shouldn't be available? cleanhippie Nov 2013 #10
Problem is, you have millions of religious idiots dedicating their lives to just that. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #25
Moving the goalposts. No one HERE is saying that. No one. cleanhippie Nov 2013 #35
"Safe, legal and rare" may mean that in this case. But it doesn't *always* mean that. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #36
Gaol posts moved again. cleanhippie Nov 2013 #38
Or just clarifying my point. But okay, you win, I guess. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #40
Not trying to win, just want us all to be factual and consistent. cleanhippie Nov 2013 #43
Understood. My initial comment wasn't referring to DU, but I can see how you assumed that. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #44
As then should vasectomies, yes? LanternWaste Nov 2013 #41
Should vasectomies what? cleanhippie Nov 2013 #42
Providers should be properly compensated One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #12
Abortion shouldn't be rare and you want to hand out coupons.. SomethingFishy Nov 2013 #13
+1 tallahasseedem Nov 2013 #15
the poster didn't mention anything about what you claim noiretextatique Nov 2013 #20
Abortion IS birth control. How is that "twisted"? and who said you had to hand out uppityperson Nov 2013 #32
Diamonds aren't rare. They're just hoarded. WinkyDink Nov 2013 #14
It's cheaper than the costs associated with delivering a child, I would think insurance companies Incitatus Nov 2013 #16
even diamonds are not rare La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #23
Artificially rare, that is. Which makes the excesses of the diamond industry all the more tragic. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #27
Please keep your opinion to yourself.... cbdo2007 Nov 2013 #24
no we are allowed to have intelligent decisions. we aren't allowed to pretend to be prochoice La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #37
Abortion isn't a compassionate conservative and should not be as rare. nt valerief Nov 2013 #28
I think you mercuryblues Nov 2013 #30
Oh gee. 99Forever Nov 2013 #34
Adoption isn't a haircut, either. pnwmom Nov 2013 #39

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
1. .
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:20 PM
Nov 2013

"The more people talk about it needing to be rare, the more I want to give out free coupons for them at the mall."

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
3. So long as women exit the medical facility sobbing and in need of psychological help...
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:22 PM
Nov 2013

...then it's all good.


[hr][font color="blue"][center]There is nothing you can't do if you put your mind to it.
Nothing.
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Dawgs

(14,755 posts)
4. Right, because getting an abortion is so much fun.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:28 PM
Nov 2013

We should want them to be available to all women at anytime, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't want them to be rare.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
5. As birth control becomes available and free with ACA ...
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:30 PM
Nov 2013

it will become more rare.

It should always be available. Accidents happen, even with birth control.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
6. A mastectomy...
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:46 PM
Nov 2013

...is a standard modern medical procedure and should be available to all women at any time they want or need one and covered by their insurance...

...and they should be rare. A medical procedure is not something anyone should look forward to and steps should be taken, including research and education, to make all medical procedures rare.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
21. I don't believe the poster said "treatment for breast cancer' and I get what the poster is saying.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 05:16 PM
Nov 2013

With research and advances, it would be awesome if the procedure (not treatment for breast cancer) became rare.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
22. LOL!
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 05:20 PM
Nov 2013

So true! We shouldn't try to prevent breast cancer so that we can make sure every woman has the need to have a mastectomy!

MORE MASTECTOMIES!!!!

In fact, we should make ALL cancer prevention ILLEGAL!!! Then, we'll toss sex education out of schools so that we can have MORE abortions!!! Woot!

Speaking of lame...let's do away with education ALL TOGETHER because it creates MORE SCIENCY PEOPLE!!! They want to PREVENT this crap! Can you believe that?!!/1?

I'm so glad there are people like you that totally GET THAT!!!

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
26. as a breast cancer survivor, let me clue you in on a few things
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 06:45 PM
Nov 2013

1) science has no clue about what causes cancer, so preventing it...well, they are pretty clueless about that too. and honestly, there is a lot of variance on how breast cancer is treated.
2) if you are unlucky enough to get breast cancer, mastectomy is thankfully available for those who need it.
3) education is great, but see #1. in the case of breast cancer in women, there are some things that might lessen your risk of developing it, but please see #1 again.
4) i'm all for funding research, e.g., the kind that lead the Genentech's Oncotype DX test., which saved me from chemo. still, that test is not yet standard, and it should be. too many women are doing chemo needlessly because they are not offered that test.
but see #1...again...for the reality of where we are now in terms of breast cancer.
and yes...your comparison is still lame.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
29. So...
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 06:52 PM
Nov 2013

...you think that we should discontinue all research to make the need for mastectomies rare?

Hey, I'm happy you survived. I have three friends and the wife of a friend that survived as well. I also have 5 friends that survived abortions. One of them...just barely. At 20 years old she was told she will never be able to have children. I'd like those instances to be rare. As rare as the need for any cancer treatments.

Medical procedures are great, when necessary. I'd like to see the day when the need for them is rare. You think that's lame? Good for you. I'm sick of people pretending not to understand what's being said. The need for some to just be obstinate is not my game...it is, in fact...lame.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
31. surviving abortions without complications is why many of us fight to keep the choice of legal,
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 07:10 PM
Nov 2013

hygienic medical abortions accessible rather than only backalley abortions that have killed and sterilized too many.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
33. I agree.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 07:40 PM
Nov 2013

That's not the point I was trying to make. But, I couldn't agree more. Unfortunately, too many people are trying to pick a fight over a single word. I didn't say I don't want them accessible, affordable, legal or safe. I would just like to see the day when abortions are rare. More funding for Planned Parenthood and other women's health organizations, education, research, healthier lifestyles, mental health treatments...all of these things could help reduce the need for abortions.

I've been put into the situation of having to make a choice when I was 17 years old and living on the street. I was emotionally immature and had zero support. The thousands of teens that are making this choice today are going through the exact same emotionally charged decision. The rest of us can sit back and talk about how it's only a medical procedure, a clump of cells, how it should be easy and affordable and safe, but it isn't easy for a lot of these young women. It's terrifying. The other option is even more terrifying. I want these young women (and men) to receive the planning and education they deserve. I want them all to live happy, stress free lives. If an abortion becomes necessary, I want them to get counseling if they need it without fear of reprisals. If they choose to not terminate, I want them to receive counseling if they need it without fear of reprisals.

I'm not just thinking about a woman's right to choose. I'm thinking of the individual. Each woman has her own story. I don't think it's wrong to wish that none of these women ever had to make that choice. That every young woman is free to pursue an education, career, and plan a family in her own time frame. Not be forced to make a possibly life altering decision in a few weeks. So, I will say it again...I hope to live to see the day when abortions are rare.

Hey, I read somewhere that teen pregnancies are down in the US. That means abortions just became a little more rare. See what I did there?

TalkingDog

(9,001 posts)
11. /\ /\ /\ This. So, the analogy should be: It is a diamond
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 06:27 PM
Nov 2013

Which means there are a lot of poor people suffering and dying, practically enslaved, so rich white men can control things.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
8. Another one!
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:57 PM
Nov 2013

Yup better to not educate people on how to have safe sex and have woman decide to have a invasive procedure than the opposite.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
18. one problem: there is no 100% effective birth control method
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 05:08 PM
Nov 2013

so all the education in the world won't make the need for abortion disappear. there are also reasons, other than birth control failure, for the necessity of abortion. we do need more and better education, and abortion.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
10. Is anyone here saying that it shouldn't be available?
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 06:08 PM
Nov 2013

Or is this just another misrepresentation of what people mean here when they say it should be "rare"?

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
25. Problem is, you have millions of religious idiots dedicating their lives to just that.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 06:43 PM
Nov 2013

So the rest of us need to push back against these assholes, rhetorically and otherwise.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
35. Moving the goalposts. No one HERE is saying that. No one.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 09:31 PM
Nov 2013

But you knew that already.

And if education and contraception are widespread and effectively used, abortions SHOULD be quite rare.

That's what it means when you hear "safe, legal, and rare" here.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
36. "Safe, legal and rare" may mean that in this case. But it doesn't *always* mean that.
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 11:31 PM
Nov 2013

Oftentimes it means expressing disapproval of abortion without having the stones to actually say so outright. Maybe not on DU, but certainly in the wider world. And "the wider world" is what I'm thinking about here, mostly. I wasn't criticizing DU'ers specifically.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
43. Not trying to win, just want us all to be factual and consistent.
Wed Nov 13, 2013, 09:09 PM
Nov 2013

Neither of which have your posts been.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
44. Understood. My initial comment wasn't referring to DU, but I can see how you assumed that.
Wed Nov 13, 2013, 10:07 PM
Nov 2013

Not that I really mind being corrected when I misstate things.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
41. As then should vasectomies, yes?
Wed Nov 13, 2013, 08:19 PM
Nov 2013

"education and contraception are widespread and effectively used, abortions SHOULD be quite rare...."

As then should vasectomies, yes?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
42. Should vasectomies what?
Wed Nov 13, 2013, 09:08 PM
Nov 2013

Pretty sure that vasectomies fall under "contraception", of which there are many forms available.

IOW, what is your point?

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
12. Providers should be properly compensated
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 06:30 PM
Nov 2013

Insurance should cover it (ACA req?) but it will cost whatever is proper compensation for the facility and professionals required to properly do the work. That may or may not meet an arbitrary definition of expensive. It's out of pocket costs that should be low.

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
13. Abortion shouldn't be rare and you want to hand out coupons..
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 06:44 PM
Nov 2013

Really?

You want to hand something out? Hand out planned parenthood pamphlets or condoms.

Why in the fuck would you want to teach people to use abortion as a form of birth control?
That's just twisted. Regardless of what your religion or moral code thinks. Period.

Oh and BTW nice post. Way to join in the hunt to find new ways to divide up liberals. Now I can't just be pro choice I have to want to hand out abortion coupons at the mall..


I hope women have all the access they need, and never have to use it.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
20. the poster didn't mention anything about what you claim
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 05:13 PM
Nov 2013

"teach people to use abortion as a form of birth control" that is. nor did s/he say you need to pass out coupons at the mall.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
32. Abortion IS birth control. How is that "twisted"? and who said you had to hand out
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 07:14 PM
Nov 2013

coupons at the mall?

I hope women have all the access they need or want and would never presume to judge them as to why they "want" or "need" an abortion.

Incitatus

(5,317 posts)
16. It's cheaper than the costs associated with delivering a child, I would think insurance companies
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 07:30 PM
Nov 2013

would want to cover at least some of it. Or maybe the future customer is worth more. California lets nurse practitioners perform abortions now that should help lower the cost. Hopefully more states will follow.

cbdo2007

(9,213 posts)
24. Please keep your opinion to yourself....
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 06:09 PM
Nov 2013

we are only allowed to be pro-choice with no intelligent discussion here at DU, a discussion forum.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
37. no we are allowed to have intelligent decisions. we aren't allowed to pretend to be prochoice
Wed Nov 13, 2013, 11:14 AM
Nov 2013

when really we are not.

mercuryblues

(14,531 posts)
30. I think you
Tue Nov 12, 2013, 07:02 PM
Nov 2013

should join the Girl Scouts. I hear you can get a free abortion with 6 boxes of thin mints and there is a golden coupon in one box of Peanut butter patties for a lifetime supply.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
39. Adoption isn't a haircut, either.
Wed Nov 13, 2013, 12:04 PM
Nov 2013

Ideally, it would be rare because women would have access to effective and affordable contraception and healthcare; and most woman would rather not have to go through the procedure if they could avoid an unplanned or complicated pregnancy.

But it should always be the woman's choice and be safe, affordable, and accessible.

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