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NJ waitress in anti-gay note flap let go from job (Original Post) CatWoman Dec 2013 OP
Good 47of74 Dec 2013 #1
If she perpetrated the hoax (and it appears she did) etherealtruth Dec 2013 #2
NJ Waitress Returning Wounded Warrior Donations, Is Now an Ex-Waitress CatWoman Dec 2013 #3
Clearly, this woman's character leaves a lot to be desired etherealtruth Dec 2013 #6
I think she may have mental health issues Skittles Dec 2013 #7
I don't know what her issues are .... etherealtruth Dec 2013 #8
it's makes little sense Skittles Dec 2013 #9
Thanks for posting a link to the story davidpdx Dec 2013 #20
There is enough of this kind of bigotry/hate for real, so no need to manufacture it. Hoyt Dec 2013 #4
Since the customers didn't do anything rudolph the red Dec 2013 #10
Actually, some customers do -- usually those from the white wing, Christian bunch. Hoyt Dec 2013 #11
If she made this up then shame on her. hrmjustin Dec 2013 #5
Terrible. jessie04 Dec 2013 #12
Well that blew up in her face, didn't it? n/t Skip Intro Dec 2013 #13
She brought that on herself. n/t backscatter712 Dec 2013 #14
fraud for financial gain beachbum bob Dec 2013 #15
notice she eerily resembles CatWoman Dec 2013 #16
I smelt a rat from the beginning of this story. Nye Bevan Dec 2013 #17
I wondered the same thing. NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #19
I wonder if fraud charges will be filed. NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #18

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
6. Clearly, this woman's character leaves a lot to be desired
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 02:13 PM
Dec 2013

I suppose it is a good thing that she is very unskilled at perpetrating fraud. Jeeze of Pete ... some people

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
8. I don't know what her issues are ....
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 02:37 PM
Dec 2013

... but, agree that she has issues.

I can't fathom actions like this ....?

Skittles

(153,193 posts)
9. it's makes little sense
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 02:39 PM
Dec 2013

she had issues in the military, and here she did something that could and most certainly would be easily disproved

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
20. Thanks for posting a link to the story
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 11:56 PM
Dec 2013

I remember reading about this a few weeks ago and being torn about what really happened. Once the TV station got involved and the couple produced bank statements, the whole thing started to unravel.

Here is the statement from the restaurant's Facebook page:

The Gallop Asian Bistro has taken seriously the allegations made by Ms. Dayna Morales, and those made against her. Despite news reports to the contrary, this is not a simple, straight-forward matter and we have conducted our own internal investigation. The results of that investigation are inconclusive as to exactly what happened between Ms. Morales and the customers that night. However, in light of the investigation and recent events, both Ms. Morales and Gallop Asian Bistro have made a joint decision that Ms. Morales will no longer continue her employment at our restaurant. We wish her well in the future.

Overall, this has been an unfortunate incident for Gallop Asian Bistro, our employees, and our customers. We are dedicated to providing excellent Asian cuisine and superior service. We have the utmost faith in our management and staff and we welcome the opportunity to serve our customers.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
4. There is enough of this kind of bigotry/hate for real, so no need to manufacture it.
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 02:09 PM
Dec 2013

Hope she learns from this, and maybe customers might be a little more sensitive too. Hope this ends well for everyone.

 

rudolph the red

(666 posts)
10. Since the customers didn't do anything
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 02:57 PM
Dec 2013

wrong, it really shouldn't be very difficult for them to be a little more sensitive.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
17. I smelt a rat from the beginning of this story.
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 04:51 PM
Dec 2013

My main question was, even if the customers were bigots, how on earth did they know she was a lesbian? I can't recall ever being aware of the sexual orientation of my server in a restaurant.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
19. I wondered the same thing.
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 04:55 PM
Dec 2013

How many customers sit and around and wonder if their server is a lesbian?

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