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Bluzmann57

(12,336 posts)
Mon Dec 9, 2013, 01:27 PM Dec 2013

Sorry, but I have to brag up my 5 year old step daughter

As some of may or may not know, we are raising a 5 year old Filipina kid and she's a handful. She's turning into an American kid right before our eyes and it's fascinating/frustrating all at once.
Anyway, we attended a Philippine/American Christmas party on Saturday night complete with a visit from S. Claus himself. And we, or was it Santa, had a gift for her along with $5.00 for every child who attended. She was thrilled with her gift, some slippers called "Stompeez" or something like that. I bought 'em, I still don't remember the name. But I regress.
Right before we left for home, she asked me if she could give the $5.00 to help the victims of the typhoon in the Philippines. Well, this brought a smile to the old man's face and I said, "Of course. I'll go up there with you and we can talk to Santa together." She said, "Ok, but I'll talk to Santa myself." We walked up to Santa and she hollered, "Santa!" He replied, "Yes?" She said "Here is money for typhoon people in Philippines." He then thanked her and gave her a big ol' hug. She was ecstatic and stated that it felt good to help other people who were "less lucky" than her. And she is still talking about how she helped out. And I'm as proud as can be. Thank you for indulging me. Peace and Happy Holidays to all of you.

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Sorry, but I have to brag up my 5 year old step daughter (Original Post) Bluzmann57 Dec 2013 OP
Nice story. Thanks! randome Dec 2013 #1
That kid has a good a dad Auggie Dec 2013 #2
That's great! HappyMe Dec 2013 #3
Of course you should be bragging about that! Brigid Dec 2013 #4
Please brag away, she sounds like a great kid! Happyhippychick Dec 2013 #5
please feel free to brag, rightfully, away. we need all the happy, loving, feel-good stories we can niyad Dec 2013 #6
She was ecstatic and stated that it felt good to help other people who were "less lucky" than her Chrom Dec 2013 #7
You have good reason to brag! She sounds like a great munchkin! woodsprite Dec 2013 #8
Brag worthy IMO nt riqster Dec 2013 #9
........ daleanime Dec 2013 #10
Aww. What a thoughful child. myrna minx Dec 2013 #11
What a great kid! Borchkins Dec 2013 #12
It sounds as though you're doing something right! nt No Vested Interest Dec 2013 #13
You have all the right cntrygrl Dec 2013 #14
So sweet, Bluzmann~ Give your daughter a Cha Dec 2013 #15
great kid Liberal_in_LA Dec 2013 #16
What a great little Princess, and... MarianJack Dec 2013 #17
Great story. Great kid. I just wondered if you refer to her as your maddiemom Dec 2013 #18
well legally she's not my kid Bluzmann57 Dec 2013 #20
I'm a step mom, and there's nothing disrespectful about step parents. loudsue Dec 2013 #22
Thanks for clearing that up. In fact, I kind of wondered if she was your wife's maddiemom Dec 2013 #23
Aww...I'm not a kiddie person.. HipChick Dec 2013 #19
Thanks to everyone for all the recs. Bluzmann57 Dec 2013 #21
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
1. Nice story. Thanks!
Mon Dec 9, 2013, 01:29 PM
Dec 2013

[hr][font color="blue"][center]Out there, each night, a billion stars are born and die.
While here, asleep, a billion dreams begin to fly.
[/center][/font][hr]

niyad

(113,280 posts)
6. please feel free to brag, rightfully, away. we need all the happy, loving, feel-good stories we can
Mon Dec 9, 2013, 02:13 PM
Dec 2013

get. thank you for sharing this.

 

Chrom

(191 posts)
7. She was ecstatic and stated that it felt good to help other people who were "less lucky" than her
Mon Dec 9, 2013, 02:16 PM
Dec 2013


Can you make a video of that and put it on youtube so we can send it to the koch brothers

but seriously, I have often thought that rich people in search of happiness through more money, which obviously never works because the jackasses always just want more and they are the unhappiest whiniest bunch out there....if they were to just experience what your daughter did just once, if they could feel that kind of joy at helping instead of hoarding....it could change some lives and the entire world would be a better place because of it.

What if the Walmart kids suddenly felt the joy of giving and started changing lives instead of wrecking lives.

They alone own 40% of the wealth or something.


Thanks for the awesome story- you must be a great parent!

woodsprite

(11,913 posts)
8. You have good reason to brag! She sounds like a great munchkin!
Mon Dec 9, 2013, 02:25 PM
Dec 2013

It's great that she thinks about other people. Encourage that all you can. So many kids I meet at my son's school are all about "me, me, me".

BTW, the Stomp-eez jingle is now stuck in my brain (stomp, stomp, stomp, with Stomp-eez). The person who invented those and Pillow Pets is making a bundle!

cntrygrl

(356 posts)
14. You have all the right
Mon Dec 9, 2013, 08:02 PM
Dec 2013

to 'brag' about your sweet 5 yr old. Bravo to you for, obviously, teaching her to be caring and compassionate.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
17. What a great little Princess, and...
Tue Dec 10, 2013, 07:27 AM
Dec 2013

...I mean that in a VERY GOOD way!

If I amy say so, this also shows what a great job of parenting that you're doing!

PEACE!

maddiemom

(5,106 posts)
18. Great story. Great kid. I just wondered if you refer to her as your
Tue Dec 10, 2013, 11:11 AM
Dec 2013

"step daughter" because she's adopted? Or is she a foster child? Not to criticize, but just wondered why you didn't refer to her as your daughter or adopted daughter.

Bluzmann57

(12,336 posts)
20. well legally she's not my kid
Tue Dec 10, 2013, 11:47 AM
Dec 2013

She's my wifes child and I'm not the biological father. I am, however, daddy and that's way more important.
I mean no disrespect by calling her my step daughter. We haven't even started adoption proceedings yet.

loudsue

(14,087 posts)
22. I'm a step mom, and there's nothing disrespectful about step parents.
Tue Dec 10, 2013, 12:21 PM
Dec 2013

We're just parents that stepped up to the plate, rather than doing the replication thingy. Good on ya, and that great little girl!

maddiemom

(5,106 posts)
23. Thanks for clearing that up. In fact, I kind of wondered if she was your wife's
Tue Dec 10, 2013, 12:25 PM
Dec 2013

biological or adopted child prior to your marriage... and should have said so. Again, not to be critical, since it's not any of my business, but having worked with many kids over many years, it seemed odd that you referred to her as a "step daughter" something that, in some cases, might feel hurtful to the child if you thought of her that way. Sounds as if your wife and her daughter have found a really great guy in you! Best wishes to your family over the Holidays!

Bluzmann57

(12,336 posts)
21. Thanks to everyone for all the recs.
Tue Dec 10, 2013, 11:50 AM
Dec 2013

My kid can be a handful, as any 5 year old can, and this girl is 7000 miles from home so we are being extra careful about certain things we do. But she's a helluva kid and I'm proud of her.

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