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He touched my heart.
After Ann Coulter referred to President Obama as a retard in a tweet during Monday night's presidential debate, Special Olympics athlete and global messenger John Franklin Stephens penned her this open letter:
Dear Ann Coulter,
Come on Ms. Coulter, you aren't dumb and you aren't shallow. So why are you continually using a word like the R-word as an insult? I'm a 30 year old man with Down syndrome who has struggled with the public's perception that an intellectual disability means that I am dumb and shallow. I am not either of those things, but I do process information more slowly than the rest of you. In fact it has taken me all day to figure out how to respond to your use of the R-word last night. I thought first of asking whether you meant to describe the President as someone who was bullied as a child by people like you, but rose above it to find a way to succeed in life as many of my fellow Special Olympians have. Then I wondered if you meant to describe him as someone who has to struggle to be thoughtful about everything he says, as everyone else races from one snarkey sound bite to the next. Finally, I wondered if you meant to degrade him as someone who is likely to receive bad health care, live in low grade housing with very little income and still manages to see life as a wonderful gift. Because, Ms. Coulter, that is who we are and much, much more. After I saw your tweet, I realized you just wanted to belittle the President by linking him to people like me. You assumed that people would understand and accept that being linked to someone like me is an insult and you assumed you could get away with it and still appear on TV. I have to wonder if you considered other hateful words but recoiled from the backlash. Well, Ms. Coulter, you, and society, need to learn that being compared to people like me should be considered a badge of honor. No one overcomes more than we do and still loves life so much. Come join us someday at Special Olympics. See if you can walk away with your heart unchanged.
A friend you haven't made yet,
John Franklin Stephens
Global Messenger
Special Olympics Virginia
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)Berlum
(7,044 posts)madaboutharry
(40,209 posts)be either ignored or responded to with another cruel retort.
Mr.Bill
(24,284 posts)the letter was written for him and he is being used by liberals for their own political agenda.
OldHippieChick
(2,434 posts)JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)What an exceptional young man John Franklin Stephens is!
Julie
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)It will be ignored by the Coulter.
Arkansas Granny
(31,515 posts)lark
(23,097 posts)Something shills like her will never understand, sad shallow bitch that she is.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)Scuba
(53,475 posts)1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)I didn't say that. I was pointing out that you just can't seem to help bashing a Democrat.
But to answer your initial question ... Yes, it appears that Mr. Stephens has addressed this with Mr. Emanuel.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)" holding feet to the fire", it was a gratuitous swing at a Democrat. Plain and simple. Own it and move on.
druidity33
(6,446 posts)Do you feel the need to defend every D? Quite frankly there are a few we could allow to move to the Party where they belong (Libertarian, Moderate Repub, Nazi, etc) Pointing out that Rahm was an asshole that used the EXACT word being condemned here should be analogous. Instead because he's a D and close with PBO he's given a pass... not by me!
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)well ... Yes. I do feel the need to defend Democrats from having years old matters, dragged out against them, for the purpose of taking a swipe at a Democrat.
BTW, I would be equally defensive of someone raising years old matters, when it is complete unrelated to a post other than to just take a swipe at a republican ... if I were EVER inclined to say anything anything in defense of a republican. But I'm not, nor will I ever be, inclined to defend or rehabilitate a republican.
I disagree ... I don't care what party any Democrat "should" belong to; so long as, while in office they caucus and vote Democratic.
Yes. Emanuel made an a$$hole statement ... one of many ... for which he was taken to task for, when they were made. He was not given a pass ... and raising it 2 years later, is nothing more than a Bash-a-Democrat move.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)who had a "D" after his name.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)a beautiful post, a positive thread and you you shit all over it rather than start your own thread.
Quick note to you...we get it already....after the 1000th time. You don't have to treat the balance of the posters on DU as Ann treats the POTUS.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)"My! What a beautiful day!"
"You think so? Well, my Hemorrhoids were drooping 2 years ago. I just thought I'd bring that up."
cui bono
(19,926 posts)Wow.
With Dems like him we don't need Republicans.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)I'm just not attacking a Democrat ... in a thread that puts a republican in their place ... on a site called DEMOCRATICunderground.
I can see now one can get that confused these days.
A Simple Game
(9,214 posts)1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)QuestForSense
(653 posts)And he deserves to be bashed every bit as much as the icky Ann Coulter.
progressoid
(49,988 posts)yurbud
(39,405 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)countmyvote4real
(4,023 posts)Right on.
The_Commonist
(2,518 posts)Maybe it's time to make Coultarded an insult.
lsewpershad
(2,620 posts)has been coultarded by this young man.
dem in texas
(2,674 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)malthaussen
(17,193 posts)Aldo Leopold
(685 posts)slumcamper
(1,606 posts)Mike Daniels
(5,842 posts)No? Big surprise.
yurbud
(39,405 posts)blood libel."
lark
(23,097 posts)A Dem uses the word, Palin lashes out very vocally and in a high profile manner as to the Dems heartlessness. Total hypocrite as are most R's in office.
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)a complete waste of DNA - heartless, soulless POS.
LynneSin
(95,337 posts)Someone from MSNBC tweets an actual truth even if it was 'offensive' and they get put thru the ringer. Let's face it, we all know that right-wingers are going to send out disgusting tweets about that Cheerio commercial because god forbid *gasp* the couple in question in biracial.
Yet Ann Couter uses the R-word in such a way to show her ignorance and bully a group of people and she'll still get guest spots not just on Faux News but Bill Maher's show too.
What's up with that?
When will the RNC and Faux news insist on never working with Ann Coulter again?
RVN VET
(492 posts)Heartless, greedy, dishonest and hateful.
Of course, she could surprise us all. Taking heed of the invitation, she may attend the Special Olympics and be so moved by the participants and their supporters that she'll come away changed, compassionate, and caring.
(OK, OK, I'm just funning ya. She will either take no note of the letter at all or make an R-word reference to its author the next time she appears on FOX.)
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)"Tick tock the game is locked
And nobody else can play."
Only democrats get punished. Pukes own the game.
Hekate
(90,667 posts)My heart was so touched by this.
calimary
(81,222 posts)MAN! What an elegant response! This deeply thoughtful 30-year-old gentleman has more class than she'd ever have if she lived to be a thousand.
Dear God - and he signs his comment "A friend you haven't made yet." MAN! I have to bookmark this so I can find it to remind myself about the art of rising above it.
BRAVO, Mr. Stephens! BRAVO!!!!!!!!!
radiclib
(1,811 posts)If Coulter reads this (which she won't) and was an actual human being (which she isn't) she would be deeply shamed (which she is incapable of) and would have her heart (which she doesn't have) changed.
niyad
(113,279 posts)UtahLib
(3,179 posts)by an intelligent, generous and forgiving young man. Coulter demonstrates, every time she opens her mouth that she is, indeed, one of the most shallow people on this earth with very few, if any, redeeming qualities, whatsoever.
ashling
(25,771 posts)In his last line, Stephens totally underestimates her capacity for evil.
A.C. has no heart
Philly Cowboy
(35 posts)"Up Yours female dog in heat" comment I have seen in a long time.
Mr. Stephens, your are a master of deep though and words and should consider a run for congress.
niyad
(113,279 posts)Gothmog
(145,168 posts)Coulter has not been getting the attention she craves and so has been making even dumber statements than normal. The statement in the OP was dumb and the response to Coulter's statement was brilliant. Thanks for sharing
dhill926
(16,337 posts)Eloquent and to the point. Bravo. Would love to see if Coulter responds .not holding breath, as I too love life.
Richard D
(8,754 posts)But, despite that, a great letter.
napkinz
(17,199 posts)Ann Coulter defended calling President Obama a "retard," saying "screw them" to critics of her tweet on Thursday.
Speaking on Alan Colmes' Fox News Radio show, Coulter said that she had no regret over using the word because she wasn't referring to someone with a disability.
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When Holmes said that some people believe the word "retard" is as much a slur as the "n-word," Coulter dismissed her critics as the "word police."
Oh, screw them, she said. Thats what they feel I do? I feel theyre being authoritarian bullying victims.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/26/ann-coulter-retard_n_2022621.html
deutsey
(20,166 posts)She's a completely vile and reprehensible person...it speaks volumes about the sad state of our society that she's rewarded so handsomely for being so.
hibbing
(10,098 posts)Her and her ilk have no qualms about using that word. I am really surprised she hasn't used the N word in regard to the president. Little Rush certainly has come as close as one possibly can. Gotta wear that cross too because you are a good Christian.
Peace
matt819
(10,749 posts)Because Ann Coulter and her fellow travelers on the right are nothing less than sociopaths. They lack the capacity for empathy and care only for themselves.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Ann doesn't deserve attention, she hasn't earned it.
pansypoo53219
(20,974 posts)Skittles
(153,156 posts)his message is really to all people who toss around the word "retard" as a noun
babylonsister
(171,059 posts)drives me crazy. There are so many words in the English language to use instead of that one.
Skittles
(153,156 posts)when I was growing up I used to kick the asses of the little snots who called him that
niyad
(113,279 posts)of us, seeing such generosity and kindness in action.
OnlinePoker
(5,719 posts)Why are you posting it now like it just happened?
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)...since no link was provided. I hadn't noticed until you mentioned it.
TYY
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)babylonsister
(171,059 posts)FB and loved the letter. Is that okay with you?
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)perhaps you could add the date to your OP? You are misleading people - thinking she said this this week.
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)WTF?
RL
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)please excuuuuuuse me for living.
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)What would be the motive to "mislead" DU about this thread?
What would the OP possibly gain by misleading?
And what would be lost to the world without you coming to the rescue?
Why do people always need to shit on nice threads?
RL
brett_jv
(1,245 posts)The thread is, in fact, 'misleading' AFA the timing of it goes. An uncareful reader would likely think that this was written in response to a tweet from Ann after the most recent SOTU (rather than after the 2012 Presidential Debate, when it actually happened).
That is true regardless of whether Babylon 'meant' to mislead, which I'd strongly guess she did not.
Just sayin'
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)Thanks for answering for the other poster...
RL
Vashta Nerada
(3,922 posts)Spirochete
(5,264 posts)he might just as well have saved his ink. Such insightful writing is just wasted on a cementhead like Ann Coulter.
proudretiredvet
(312 posts)Why would anyone say something this stupid? The letter is right she is smarter than this. Or at least I thought so. I do not agree with her but I didn't think she was a bully.
SmittynMo
(3,544 posts)is the scum of the earth. Why anyone gives her recognition for anything is beyond me.
kentuck
(111,088 posts)Bravo!!!
Stellar
(5,644 posts)however, she won't get it. Her heart won't let her get it.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)there is no way I could respond so rationally to the likes of Coulter.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)John Franklin Stephens. Sir.
CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)That is her basic defense.
So if I say she resembles feces that is OK as she is, of course, not really feces, she merely resembles feces.
Jesus Malverde
(10,274 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)BeyondGeography
(39,370 posts)xfundy
(5,105 posts)I want to send this to a family member who would never accept anything from "demoncrats" or libruls.
babylonsister
(171,059 posts)Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/26/ann-coulter-retard_n_2022621.html
I can't believe people here don't remember this from when it happened.
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)Before someone else makes a nice comment about a nice letter.
Geez.
RL
brett_jv
(1,245 posts)Quick, exaggerate more!
There are (likely) some people, believe it or not, that wouldn't want to forward old news to everyone they know as if it were, you know, news, and may appreciate the heads-up. I know that I do, myself.
Nothing wrong with somebody raising the alert (even, gasp, TWICE) that the OP is misleading (NOT that it was intentional!).
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)Awwwwww.
RL
Iwillnevergiveup
(9,298 posts)I'm so proud of him and how he wrote.
WinstonSmith4740
(3,056 posts)I teach Health & PE, and in my role as a PE teacher, I'm the co-teacher for our Special Needs kids. If you've never had the opportunity to work directly with these kids, you've missed out on something very wonderful. Their capacity for love is amazing; they are simply "differently abled", and all most of them want is to just simply be considered "normal" like everyone else. And as tough as some of our kids can be, they support these special kids 100%. Yeah, there are some that are kind of jerks, but hey, they are still teen-agers. They're allowed.
So Ann Coulter can bite me. She's a fucking mean-spirited, nasty bitch and nothing else.
mstinamotorcity2
(1,451 posts)Ice Princess. That travels with bodyguards. Matter of fact, they all do. The Beckster, Annie the Giraffe, Helmet head Hannity, Rush Limpdick, and Raunchy O'Reily. You know as much shit as they talk they should travel alone. But we all know they can't.
TroglodyteScholar
(5,477 posts)But this letter was just brilliant.
While staying fairly gracious, it demonstrates perfectly that being a "normal" (sorry if there's a better word) like Coulter doesn't automatically make her stronger, smarter, wittier, nor more rational than those she hurts with her words.
It must really burn her up to have her foolishness called out by a...well, you know.
Bravo, Mr. Stephens.
brett_jv
(1,245 posts)And I LOVE IT.
What a wonderful and heartwarming letter.
Thank you John, for reminding the whole world exactly why we shouldn't denigrate others through the careless use of hurtful words and stereotyping.
You are THE MAN, and A HERO, and despite her ill-gotten (i.e. through nothing but hate) riches, Ms. Coulter is barely worthy of shining the shoes of a man such as yourself.
Don't you ever forget that!
A Friend You Haven't Met Yet,
Brett
Theyletmeeatcake2
(348 posts)Feels compelled to give a dignified reply to this piece of shit from this piece of shit... Well done and I wish him the best in the future
nikto
(3,284 posts)Coulter...Not so much.
Theyletmeeatcake2
(348 posts)She is one dumb fucker.....just look for her YouTube clip on trying to convince someone that Canada did go to the Vietnam War....typical of this evil shill!!!
nilesobek
(1,423 posts)Are you really going to own and stay with this one? She should apologize and recognize it for the bigotry it is.
bucolic_frolic
(43,146 posts)No offense, John, but she just doesn't have any heart.