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Ichingcarpenter

(36,988 posts)
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:46 AM Mar 2014

Fred Phelps on the edge of death? 'god hates fags' guy

From his son's facebook



I’ve learned that my father, Fred Phelps, Sr., pastor of the “God Hates Fags” Westboro Baptist Church, was ex-communicated from the “church” back in August of 2013. He is now on the edge of death at Midland Hospice house in Topeka, Kansas.

I’m not sure how I feel about this. Terribly ironic that his devotion to his god ends this way. Destroyed by the monster he made.

I feel sad for all the hurt he’s caused so many. I feel sad for those who will lose the grandfather and father they loved. And I’m bitterly angry that my family is blocking the family members who left from seeing him, and saying their good-byes.

I just got off the phone with Nate and he confirmed what he had written. The rumors had been flying for several weeks, he said, but after a conversation with some of his fellow “excommunicated” family members, he found out that the rumors were true. He elaborated on that final line, too, saying that the Phelps family is now blocking anyone who is no longer with the church from seeing him, including Fred’s sons, daughters, nieces, and nephews.

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2014/03/15/fred-phelps-founder-of-the-god-hates-fags-westboro-baptist-church-is-on-the-edge-of-death/

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Fred Phelps on the edge of death? 'god hates fags' guy (Original Post) Ichingcarpenter Mar 2014 OP
This seems to be the real thing. MuseRider Mar 2014 #1
It will be a very good thing for Kansas! He brought so much negativity onto Kansas. Hopefully RKP5637 Mar 2014 #59
I don't think the church will fade away soon wercal Mar 2014 #63
I was born and raised in Topeka and know the family. MuseRider Mar 2014 #69
They are a pox on society and I will dance every time one dies. PeaceNikki Mar 2014 #82
I am not much of a grave dancer BUT MuseRider Mar 2014 #86
Sadly, yes, I think you are quite correct. Thanks for your summary. It is chilling such RKP5637 Mar 2014 #103
I stand corrected on Shirley Phelps wercal Mar 2014 #104
Thanks for the update! n/t RKP5637 Mar 2014 #105
We're kind of on 'Phelps Death Watch' here in Topeka...so I keep checking the news. wercal Mar 2014 #106
Agree. Heidi Mar 2014 #93
I have nothing nice to say. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #2
I always felt that way about Jerry Foulmouth. Bohunk68 Mar 2014 #10
I'd pour Roundup all over his grave just to make sure a single blade of grass never grew. Auntie Bush Mar 2014 #32
Roundup only lasts a year or so jmowreader Mar 2014 #92
Well said!! newfie11 Mar 2014 #22
Fred is a bigot, but as far as I know not racist. wercal Mar 2014 #60
Agree... yuiyoshida Mar 2014 #66
I have something nice to say: It couldn't happen to a nicer guy. n/t RebelOne Mar 2014 #72
Good Riddance HangOnKids Mar 2014 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author SidDithers Mar 2014 #44
why was he excommunicated ? and isn't he in charge of the church JI7 Mar 2014 #4
I imagine, in his old age, he became vulnerable to the vultures he had spawned and cultivated. (nt) Heidi Mar 2014 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author Brickbat Mar 2014 #27
Shirley Phelps Roper Jamastiene Mar 2014 #78
His funeral should be interesting Ichingcarpenter Mar 2014 #5
Who wants to picket? redwitch Mar 2014 #31
The real story is the why and how of his ex-communication Buddha2B Mar 2014 #6
Yeah, that's what I'm wondering too. MH1 Mar 2014 #36
Heart? What heart? Nika Mar 2014 #45
Welcome to DU, Buddha2B! calimary Mar 2014 #46
I hope his funeral is peaceful. Just like the ones he helped ruin should have been, Gravitycollapse Mar 2014 #8
Amen. delta17 Mar 2014 #21
Welcome to DU, delta17! calimary Mar 2014 #47
I don't know if it really is the high ground. delta17 Mar 2014 #81
Too soon? jmowreader Mar 2014 #9
I think you read that wrong. Bohunk68 Mar 2014 #11
I didn't read it wrong jmowreader Mar 2014 #13
The part I don't get is "the church" preventing members who left or were kicked out from Thor_MN Mar 2014 #15
I had to read it 2 or 3 times littlewolf Mar 2014 #18
I wondered that also but with the kind of bull they teach just getting sick was enough to condemn jwirr Mar 2014 #24
Pardon the irreverence here, but your comment just about made me spit my tea all over my screen! calimary Mar 2014 #50
K & R for visibility! LeftofObama Mar 2014 #12
How can the church block visitation to someone they excommunicated? eShirl Mar 2014 #14
it's not even a church, onethatcares Mar 2014 #17
that sounds like a church. eShirl Mar 2014 #20
Yep, that's what many have become, hate clubs for hate fests with cult behavior. n/t RKP5637 Mar 2014 #28
If he's hospitalized, most likely one of the remaining church members has power of attorney. jeff47 Mar 2014 #61
It looks like Fred found out what happens when you feed people a steady diet of hate. herding cats Mar 2014 #16
i can't Pass the Peace in this case -- that would make me a liar. nt xchrom Mar 2014 #19
If true it sound to me like the fight over the estate has already begun before he is dead. Greed jwirr Mar 2014 #23
Can't say as I hate to see this bigot go madokie Mar 2014 #25
Don't forget to flush the toilet! Sorry, I have no sympathy for some scum! n/t RKP5637 Mar 2014 #26
So maybe now, what is left of his twisted family will evaporate too...they will Jefferson23 Mar 2014 #29
I wonder if this "Church" qualifies for tax free income? Auntie Bush Mar 2014 #35
I found this: Jefferson23 Mar 2014 #37
It's a big, hate-filled scam sweetloukillbot Mar 2014 #38
Is that true? They have sued people? Auntie Bush Mar 2014 #53
They've sued many people. It's how the members of the church make their living. jeff47 Mar 2014 #62
Is his family going to picket his funeral? jsr Mar 2014 #30
PERFECT! WinkyDink Mar 2014 #49
Good. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #33
Since old Fred learned no lessons this go 'round, kaiden Mar 2014 #34
I would imagine the "church" is trying to keep non-church members flvegan Mar 2014 #39
My mom always said if you have nothing kind to say about someone, uncommonlink Mar 2014 #40
Your mom never knew Fred Phelps jmowreader Mar 2014 #94
Sadly, I do not believe there is reward or punishment after death. MineralMan Mar 2014 #41
Phelps' death is a reward to the living. I'll dance like Michael Jackson on that grave. PeaceNikki Mar 2014 #42
The best is he will be away from the living. To me, death is death, one gets one chance in life, and RKP5637 Mar 2014 #58
I hope that he is in *excruciating* pain for a long time. PeaceNikki Mar 2014 #43
Can't happen soon enough. WinkyDink Mar 2014 #48
Some people in life are just evil F's and I say good riddance to them. n/t RKP5637 Mar 2014 #57
Is it wrong that I'm smiling? LiberalElite Mar 2014 #51
Nope, I don't think so, I'm LMAO and smiling! n/t RKP5637 Mar 2014 #56
I know this probably won't happen... Hell, I'm not sure I could do it TlalocW Mar 2014 #52
"Any man's death diminishes me" Paladin Mar 2014 #54
Massive picketing of his funeral? Crunchy Frog Mar 2014 #55
Apropos! Cooley Hurd Mar 2014 #65
I'm not a grave dancer, and got my ass kicked when I asked for decorum... Cooley Hurd Mar 2014 #64
But his legacy of hate will live on. nt WhiteTara Mar 2014 #67
Good. Iggo Mar 2014 #68
"I did not attend his funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I approved of it." -Mark Twain LeftyMom Mar 2014 #70
+1. (nt) Paladin Mar 2014 #77
I want to cheer and clap Tree-Hugger Mar 2014 #71
"If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; Zorra Mar 2014 #73
+1000 LongTomH Mar 2014 #83
My attitude towards the WBC can be summed up in one phrase: Rocknrule Mar 2014 #74
Rest in piss, Freddy. (And you will be if I ever make it to your grave site.) 11 Bravo Mar 2014 #75
I hope he gets a nice tanning bed in Hell shenmue Mar 2014 #76
He was ex-communicated from his own church? maddezmom Mar 2014 #79
I think we should mourn for a life wasted in hatred! LongTomH Mar 2014 #80
You know, I feel for the son nadinbrzezinski Mar 2014 #84
I wonder if his church will protest his funeral nt arely staircase Mar 2014 #85
K & R tea and oranges Mar 2014 #87
He's in for a terrible surprise. Tierra_y_Libertad Mar 2014 #88
when i first saw the OP onethatcares Mar 2014 #89
Kick! Heidi Mar 2014 #90
Say a prayer for him. Octafish Mar 2014 #91
Death is not an end Ichingcarpenter Mar 2014 #95
Fred is about to find out MFM008 Mar 2014 #96
May his passing be easy Gothmog Mar 2014 #97
hate group of the century Liberal_in_LA Mar 2014 #99
As the father of a LGBT daughter, I have issues with group Gothmog Mar 2014 #100
My give a shit meter is now broken Aerows Mar 2014 #98
Why Phelp yourself, Fred Blue Owl Mar 2014 #101
If I were the believing sort, I'd have something to say when he finally passes: backscatter712 Mar 2014 #102

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
1. This seems to be the real thing.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:49 AM
Mar 2014

Nathan has written to quite a few of us around the area letting this out. I just read this myself not a few minutes ago.

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
59. It will be a very good thing for Kansas! He brought so much negativity onto Kansas. Hopefully
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:27 AM
Mar 2014

his church, if one can call it that, might well fade into history.

wercal

(1,370 posts)
63. I don't think the church will fade away soon
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:57 AM
Mar 2014

Shirley Roper Phelps has long been positioned as the heir, and she has been the public mouthpiece for the group for around ten years now.

When I see the 'protesting' on the sidewalk, I see more kids (teens and very young kids) than ever before. Around five years ago, they lost a huge lawsuit...but that was overturned, so they've still got money. Looking at the property viewer around their 'compound', I can see that they have been buying up houses and expanding - imagine the position a homeowner is in....nobody will buy your house because its next to this group, so you end up selling it to them.

I live in Topeka, and I don't know any of the group. And I have never met anybody who knows any of the group. They are not out about town working to make ends meet. Instead they stay at the compound and rely on donations from around the nation to operate. As long as people are willing to give them money, they aren't going anywhere.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
69. I was born and raised in Topeka and know the family.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 12:44 PM
Mar 2014

I went all through school with Fred Jr., even part of university and know his wife as well.

They have been doing this kind of stuff since the kids were in grade school, it just went from one thing to the other until they stopped getting attention then they moved to something else outrageous.

It is Shirley Phelps Roper, she is a daughter not a daughter in law. I don't know what she will do because I don't know if the rest of the clan will follow her.

They work throughout the community, always have. The have at least one law firm. They work in our corrections department, they have in the past and may still work with family services. They are out and about all the time as citizens. Their kids attend public school.

They do get donations but they have also sued a whole lot of people and towns and won. They have sucked a lot from Topeka over the years as the city actually tried to stop them but got sued for their attempts. They do get donations. They all work.

I hope beyond anything that they fall apart after his death. I always thought he was terrifying as a kid. Now I know what was going on there and he was terrifying. His family was brutalized beyond anything most of us will ever know. I hope after his death that they come out from under the fear and try to at least live lives that do not destroy others. Shirley is a tiny little woman, I can't imagine she will wield as much terror as the old man did. All this is speculation.

As happy as I am to say I no longer live in Topeka I live close enough to see these creeps every time I go to town, every time I play a concert or attend something like that. I have spent a lifetime afraid of these people because of how they have hurt friends and family, I have spent a lifetime hating every one of them in spite of trying not to actually work up a good hate.

I just want them gone and quiet.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
82. They are a pox on society and I will dance every time one dies.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:31 PM
Mar 2014

I am so sorry what they have done to Topeka. It must be awful to have to deal with them on a regular basis.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
86. I am not much of a grave dancer BUT
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:44 PM
Mar 2014

my own opinion of Fred is that he hates lots of things but uses the things that get him the most publicity no matter who it hurts just to make himself feel valid. Like his civil rights work, he took the cases then settled them mostly out of court and made the most of the settlement himself. How the rumor ever got started that he was a good civil rights attorney is beyond me. It should be obvious to everyone by now that his schtick is not about anything more than getting himself attention. His first act out of seminary, if I recall correctly, was to set up a revival tent in Salt Lake City in front of the temple to convert Mormons.

Because of his use of other people, their lives and the hatred he spread that caused so much death, worry, fear and destruction to any group but mainly and mostly LGBT citizens I will dance like a fool when he is gone. I feel terribly sorry for him and for his family (only for the torture they put themselves through) but that sorrow is NOTHING compared to the sorrow I feel for those he relentlessly attacked for his own publicity.


RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
103. Sadly, yes, I think you are quite correct. Thanks for your summary. It is chilling such
Mon Mar 17, 2014, 10:55 AM
Mar 2014

hatefulness thrives and is so profitable to them.

Behind the Aegis

(53,956 posts)
2. I have nothing nice to say.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:50 AM
Mar 2014

I feel for his family, but beyond that I have nothing but contempt for that man. May he meet G-d, and may She be a big BLACK JEWISH LESBIAN!

Bohunk68

(1,364 posts)
10. I always felt that way about Jerry Foulmouth.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 05:23 AM
Mar 2014

That when he got to where he was going, he would find out that G-d looked a lot like Tina Turner in lace stockings, high heels, and carrying a loooooong bullwhip in her hands. For this POS, I would gladly piss on his grave, just to keep the grass growing, doncha know.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
32. I'd pour Roundup all over his grave just to make sure a single blade of grass never grew.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:26 AM
Mar 2014

I too feel for his ex-communicated family...but why in the world do they even want to see that evil man except to wish him a speedy trip off of this earth? GR
(good riddance)

jmowreader

(50,557 posts)
92. Roundup only lasts a year or so
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:17 PM
Mar 2014

Considering it's Fred, do the biblical thing and plow about a ton of rock salt into the soil.

wercal

(1,370 posts)
60. Fred is a bigot, but as far as I know not racist.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:43 AM
Mar 2014

Often I have seen the cult on the side of the road, signs in hand....and there would be minorities in the group.

He was a champion for civil rights early in his life, before he decended into his anti-gay quest. He was so politically active on civil rights that candidate Al Gore visited him in the late 80s (do a Google image search and you can find the photo op).

He seems to discount any other religion that has shown any type of mercy to AIDS victims, so he probably doesn't like jews though.

So the 'black jewish lesbian' would really be a 'jewish lesbian' to scare him.

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
66. Agree...
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 12:03 PM
Mar 2014

I am not sure there will be many tears when he is gone. They might sing "ding dong the witch is dead" however...

Response to HangOnKids (Reply #3)

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
7. I imagine, in his old age, he became vulnerable to the vultures he had spawned and cultivated. (nt)
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 04:15 AM
Mar 2014

Response to JI7 (Reply #4)

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
78. Shirley Phelps Roper
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:19 PM
Mar 2014

has been in charge of the church for a while now.

That is the big news to me, that he was excommunicated. I really want to know how that happened and why. I don't really care if the man lives or dies. His family is just as venomous and poisoned with hate as he is/was. So, whether he lives or dies isn't really news to me. The news to me was that they excommunicated him. I wonder why.

redwitch

(14,944 posts)
31. Who wants to picket?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:24 AM
Mar 2014

Me! Me! I want to protest that it took so long.



The first time I heard about Fred was when his grandson designed the website for the church. With a clock that counts how many days Matthew Shepherd has spent in hell.

If there is a hell it is not Matthew who will spend eternity there.

Buddha2B

(116 posts)
6. The real story is the why and how of his ex-communication
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 04:00 AM
Mar 2014

Wow, what a nutty bunch. Even he didn't scape the wrath of the church he helped create.

Did he have a change of heart?

MH1

(17,600 posts)
36. Yeah, that's what I'm wondering too.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:40 AM
Mar 2014

Almost all the responses here seem to assume he's still the same hate-filled scumbag who started that "church" but who knows, maybe the reason he was kicked out was that he began to see the error of his ways? We don't know, maybe it was some other reason, but we should at least allow for the possibility until facts are known ... which they might never be.

calimary

(81,267 posts)
46. Welcome to DU, Buddha2B!
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:44 AM
Mar 2014

Glad you're here! People like this guy just astound me. The hate. Just astounding. Hatred. In the name of the Lord. The evil and hurt and pain and agony that people like him have caused - that is astounding as well. And shocking. And a national disgrace.

calimary

(81,267 posts)
47. Welcome to DU, delta17!
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:49 AM
Mar 2014

Good to have you with us! I'm torn on this one. Your point is a very good one. But as a liberal Dem who feels as though her face has been stomped on just a few times too many, I'm kinda slow coming to the "let's rise above it and be nice" position. Sometimes I wonder if we shouldn't respond with the kerosene enema approach the teabaggers take. I'm really torn. From all the postmortems I've seen on the Florida race this past week, I'm wondering if Ms. Sink was too soft, too conciliatory - "oh, we'll fix it" about the Affordable Care Act… when perhaps she should have come out swinging, with the proverbial knife clenched between her teeth, and fire in her words. She sure didn't fire up the base much with "be nice."

I dunno. I just don't know. REALLY torn. Your suggestion exemplifies the moral high ground. And FAR more noble. But sometimes I've found that taking the high road leads you straight off a cliff.

delta17

(283 posts)
81. I don't know if it really is the high ground.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:29 PM
Mar 2014

Fred Phelps loves attention, any attention. I actually think he would want a circus at his funeral, to keep his name in the papers after he is gone. A quiet, lonely burial would be more fitting for such a miserable person.

I do agree that the nice, compromising political style needs to go. Thanks for the welcome, by the way!

jmowreader

(50,557 posts)
9. Too soon?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 05:19 AM
Mar 2014

"Fred Phelps’ Death Prompts Westboro Baptist Church To Protest His Funeral"

Read more: http://www.duffelblog.com/2012/09/fred-phelps-dies-westboro-baptist-church-plans-to-protest-funeral/#ixzz2w7EnGAlq

But seriously: what kind of a piece of shit do you have to be to get excommunicated from your own "church"?

jmowreader

(50,557 posts)
13. I didn't read it wrong
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 06:18 AM
Mar 2014

From Nathan Phelps:

“I’ve learned that my father, Fred Phelps, Sr., pastor of the “God Hates Fags” Westboro Baptist Church, was ex-communicated from the “church” back in August of 2013. He is now on the edge of death at Midland Hospice house in Topeka, Kansas."

Fred excommunicated Nathan in 1980.

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
15. The part I don't get is "the church" preventing members who left or were kicked out from
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 06:27 AM
Mar 2014

seeing the hate mongerer that they also kicked out. So they kicked Fred to the curb, yet still are trying to control who sees him?

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
24. I wondered that also but with the kind of bull they teach just getting sick was enough to condemn
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:03 AM
Mar 2014

him in their eyes

calimary

(81,267 posts)
50. Pardon the irreverence here, but your comment just about made me spit my tea all over my screen!
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:52 AM
Mar 2014

"What kind of a piece of shit do you have to be to get excommunicated from your own 'church'?"

Made me LAUGH!!!!!

And the whole "church" thing. Definitely deserves to be put in quotes. THAT is a "church"? You put God into THAT?

"Church" my ass.

eShirl

(18,491 posts)
14. How can the church block visitation to someone they excommunicated?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 06:23 AM
Mar 2014

I know they're family, but how do their wishes cancel out the other family members' rights?

onethatcares

(16,168 posts)
17. it's not even a church,
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 06:37 AM
Mar 2014

it's a bunch of hate filled assholes running around acting like they are god.

Someone should file a lawsuit claiming emotional distress for their actions and take all they have.

Now that would be fair play in my book.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
61. If he's hospitalized, most likely one of the remaining church members has power of attorney.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:46 AM
Mar 2014

And as a result, they get to tell the hospital who gets to see Fred and who doesn't. If he's hospitalized.

If he's not hospitalized, he's living in the church's compound, and they have the same rights as any property owners to exclude others.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
16. It looks like Fred found out what happens when you feed people a steady diet of hate.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 06:33 AM
Mar 2014

Eventually they regurgitate it right back up on you. How fitting that he was excommunicated from his own church of hate in the end.

As to his death and the family blocking other family members from saying their goodbyes, well, that's just sad for the family members who are being abused.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
23. If true it sound to me like the fight over the estate has already begun before he is dead. Greed
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 08:59 AM
Mar 2014

will out. I will not say I am sorry for any of them.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
25. Can't say as I hate to see this bigot go
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:06 AM
Mar 2014

the world will be a better place when he does cross the line between life and death. just my opinion

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
29. So maybe now, what is left of his twisted family will evaporate too...they will
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:16 AM
Mar 2014

give up their alleged church.

Can you imagine being the child of one these people...that is tragic.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
37. I found this:
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:46 AM
Mar 2014
In response to WBC's announcement that they would picket the vigil for victims of the December 14, 2012 Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting, several petitions to the White House (using the We the People system) have been submitted, calling on the President to legally recognize WBC as a hate group, revoke its tax exemption for religious organizations, and to ban protests at funerals and memorial services.[206] One petition, backed by the hacktivist group Anonymous, was submitted the day of the shootings, and reached more than 75,000 signatures within two days.[207]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Westboro_Baptist_Church



sweetloukillbot

(11,023 posts)
38. It's a big, hate-filled scam
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:05 AM
Mar 2014

They're tax free as a church, and they're all lawyers. They set up situations where people try to deny them their first amendment rights (picketing funerals and such), then they sue. And when they win, they claim the religious exemption to avoid taxes.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
53. Is that true? They have sued people?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:55 AM
Mar 2014

Some smart journalist will research that group and expose them for what they are, a hate group and take away their tax exempt status.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
62. They've sued many people. It's how the members of the church make their living.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:48 AM
Mar 2014

Well, made their living. Cities and states stopped blocking their protest efforts, so the lawsuit stream has dried up.

kaiden

(1,314 posts)
34. Since old Fred learned no lessons this go 'round,
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 09:35 AM
Mar 2014

may he come back as a burkha-clad woman living under Taliban rule in Afghanistan. With Dick Cheney.

flvegan

(64,407 posts)
39. I would imagine the "church" is trying to keep non-church members
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:14 AM
Mar 2014

from visiting, lest Fred rescind his hate in a bit of deathbed clarity and remorse, and speak against what he created with those monsters he calls family. Something like that might be devastating, though I don't know why he was "ex-communicated" from the entity.

Might also be devastating to have one of the miscreant followers of that entity dislodge a brain cell and actually think about what they're doing and realize the stupidity of it all.

 

uncommonlink

(261 posts)
40. My mom always said if you have nothing kind to say about someone,
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:14 AM
Mar 2014

then don't say anything at all.............................................

jmowreader

(50,557 posts)
94. Your mom never knew Fred Phelps
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:24 PM
Mar 2014

There are lots of people who need to be called out on their evil. Phelps is one of them.

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
41. Sadly, I do not believe there is reward or punishment after death.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:15 AM
Mar 2014

So, his legacy of evil will not lead to justice for this vile person.

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
58. The best is he will be away from the living. To me, death is death, one gets one chance in life, and
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:23 AM
Mar 2014

IMO he was one evil F, the world will be better without him, and I say good riddance.

TlalocW

(15,382 posts)
52. I know this probably won't happen... Hell, I'm not sure I could do it
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:53 AM
Mar 2014

But when the old man does kick off, it would send a message if people did show up at his funeral with signs that said, "We Forgive You, Fred," and other similar messages.

But like I said... I'm not sure I could do it.

TlalocW

 

Cooley Hurd

(26,877 posts)
64. I'm not a grave dancer, and got my ass kicked when I asked for decorum...
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 12:00 PM
Mar 2014

...when Reagan died. But fuck this asshole...

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
71. I want to cheer and clap
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:07 PM
Mar 2014

Part of me wants to say, "haha, fucker!" and hope he dies in agony. Part of me hopes that Matthew Shepard himself will meet Fred at the pearly gates, and close them on him. Part of me wishes I believed in an actual hell with the devil and shit and that Fred burns there.

But, that's not how I personally roll (and no judgment to who feel differently, as expressed in this thread). I am more in line with this article:

http://thegaychristian.com/fred-phelps-lets-picket-funeral-love/

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
73. "If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar;
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:40 PM
Mar 2014

for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God, whom he has not seen."
~ John 4:20



Phelps


"Wherever your treasure is, there will your heart be also"
Matthew 6:21

Gollum


LongTomH

(8,636 posts)
80. I think we should mourn for a life wasted in hatred!
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:26 PM
Mar 2014

Phelps is, at the end of his life, a bitter old man, dying alone. Perhaps you can say he deserves it; but, we should try to have some compassion.

Edited to add: I agree with Kaiden (reply#34). Phelps obviously learned no lessons in this life; he'll have to work off his bad Karma over several lives.

tea and oranges

(396 posts)
87. K & R
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:46 PM
Mar 2014

It's times like these that I'm almost sorry to be an atheist...

Fred's death will help end the hateful bigotry he "preached". Perhaps future generations will be astonished that such a person lived & prospered in the 21st Century.

I'm curious to see if the hate can outlive him. The one daughter (whose name I refuse to remember), the one who called David Pakman "Jewboy" when Pakman interviewed her, always seems pretty adamantly nasty.

onethatcares

(16,168 posts)
89. when i first saw the OP
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:04 PM
Mar 2014

I thought it was about that ex presidential candidate that is pushing reverse mortgages.


sheeesh, I gotta get a life.

Ichingcarpenter

(36,988 posts)
95. Death is not an end
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:28 PM
Mar 2014

Death is not an end, but a beginning. Specifically, the beginning of an eternity of black nothingness.

Gothmog

(145,241 posts)
97. May his passing be easy
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 04:58 PM
Mar 2014

Forgive our trespasses as we forgive the trespasses of others.

As a father of a LGBT daughter, I have issues with this group

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
98. My give a shit meter is now broken
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 06:22 PM
Mar 2014

It is lodged so firmly past "not at all" that I don't know what to do with it. I shook it a few times, but no, it's still stuck way past "don't give a shit".

Nothing gives me more joy than to see those who are so absolutely sure what their makers intend than those that meet him for themselves and find out they are doomed.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
102. If I were the believing sort, I'd have something to say when he finally passes:
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 10:39 PM
Mar 2014

"THANK GOD FOR DEAD PHELPS!"

Hey, do unto him as he would do unto you...

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