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From his son's facebook
Ive learned that my father, Fred Phelps, Sr., pastor of the God Hates Fags Westboro Baptist Church, was ex-communicated from the church back in August of 2013. He is now on the edge of death at Midland Hospice house in Topeka, Kansas.
Im not sure how I feel about this. Terribly ironic that his devotion to his god ends this way. Destroyed by the monster he made.
I feel sad for all the hurt hes caused so many. I feel sad for those who will lose the grandfather and father they loved. And Im bitterly angry that my family is blocking the family members who left from seeing him, and saying their good-byes.
I just got off the phone with Nate and he confirmed what he had written. The rumors had been flying for several weeks, he said, but after a conversation with some of his fellow excommunicated family members, he found out that the rumors were true. He elaborated on that final line, too, saying that the Phelps family is now blocking anyone who is no longer with the church from seeing him, including Freds sons, daughters, nieces, and nephews.
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2014/03/15/fred-phelps-founder-of-the-god-hates-fags-westboro-baptist-church-is-on-the-edge-of-death/
MuseRider
(34,109 posts)Nathan has written to quite a few of us around the area letting this out. I just read this myself not a few minutes ago.
RKP5637
(67,108 posts)his church, if one can call it that, might well fade into history.
wercal
(1,370 posts)Shirley Roper Phelps has long been positioned as the heir, and she has been the public mouthpiece for the group for around ten years now.
When I see the 'protesting' on the sidewalk, I see more kids (teens and very young kids) than ever before. Around five years ago, they lost a huge lawsuit...but that was overturned, so they've still got money. Looking at the property viewer around their 'compound', I can see that they have been buying up houses and expanding - imagine the position a homeowner is in....nobody will buy your house because its next to this group, so you end up selling it to them.
I live in Topeka, and I don't know any of the group. And I have never met anybody who knows any of the group. They are not out about town working to make ends meet. Instead they stay at the compound and rely on donations from around the nation to operate. As long as people are willing to give them money, they aren't going anywhere.
MuseRider
(34,109 posts)I went all through school with Fred Jr., even part of university and know his wife as well.
They have been doing this kind of stuff since the kids were in grade school, it just went from one thing to the other until they stopped getting attention then they moved to something else outrageous.
It is Shirley Phelps Roper, she is a daughter not a daughter in law. I don't know what she will do because I don't know if the rest of the clan will follow her.
They work throughout the community, always have. The have at least one law firm. They work in our corrections department, they have in the past and may still work with family services. They are out and about all the time as citizens. Their kids attend public school.
They do get donations but they have also sued a whole lot of people and towns and won. They have sucked a lot from Topeka over the years as the city actually tried to stop them but got sued for their attempts. They do get donations. They all work.
I hope beyond anything that they fall apart after his death. I always thought he was terrifying as a kid. Now I know what was going on there and he was terrifying. His family was brutalized beyond anything most of us will ever know. I hope after his death that they come out from under the fear and try to at least live lives that do not destroy others. Shirley is a tiny little woman, I can't imagine she will wield as much terror as the old man did. All this is speculation.
As happy as I am to say I no longer live in Topeka I live close enough to see these creeps every time I go to town, every time I play a concert or attend something like that. I have spent a lifetime afraid of these people because of how they have hurt friends and family, I have spent a lifetime hating every one of them in spite of trying not to actually work up a good hate.
I just want them gone and quiet.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)I am so sorry what they have done to Topeka. It must be awful to have to deal with them on a regular basis.
MuseRider
(34,109 posts)my own opinion of Fred is that he hates lots of things but uses the things that get him the most publicity no matter who it hurts just to make himself feel valid. Like his civil rights work, he took the cases then settled them mostly out of court and made the most of the settlement himself. How the rumor ever got started that he was a good civil rights attorney is beyond me. It should be obvious to everyone by now that his schtick is not about anything more than getting himself attention. His first act out of seminary, if I recall correctly, was to set up a revival tent in Salt Lake City in front of the temple to convert Mormons.
Because of his use of other people, their lives and the hatred he spread that caused so much death, worry, fear and destruction to any group but mainly and mostly LGBT citizens I will dance like a fool when he is gone. I feel terribly sorry for him and for his family (only for the torture they put themselves through) but that sorrow is NOTHING compared to the sorrow I feel for those he relentlessly attacked for his own publicity.
RKP5637
(67,108 posts)hatefulness thrives and is so profitable to them.
wercal
(1,370 posts)Per this article, she is on the outs, and a new group of 'elders' is in power.
http://cjonline.com/news/2014-03-17/elders-excommunicate-phelps-after-power-struggle-call-kindness-within-church
RKP5637
(67,108 posts)wercal
(1,370 posts)Nt
Behind the Aegis
(53,956 posts)I feel for his family, but beyond that I have nothing but contempt for that man. May he meet G-d, and may She be a big BLACK JEWISH LESBIAN!
Bohunk68
(1,364 posts)That when he got to where he was going, he would find out that G-d looked a lot like Tina Turner in lace stockings, high heels, and carrying a loooooong bullwhip in her hands. For this POS, I would gladly piss on his grave, just to keep the grass growing, doncha know.
Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)I too feel for his ex-communicated family...but why in the world do they even want to see that evil man except to wish him a speedy trip off of this earth? GR
(good riddance)
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)Considering it's Fred, do the biblical thing and plow about a ton of rock salt into the soil.
newfie11
(8,159 posts)wercal
(1,370 posts)Often I have seen the cult on the side of the road, signs in hand....and there would be minorities in the group.
He was a champion for civil rights early in his life, before he decended into his anti-gay quest. He was so politically active on civil rights that candidate Al Gore visited him in the late 80s (do a Google image search and you can find the photo op).
He seems to discount any other religion that has shown any type of mercy to AIDS victims, so he probably doesn't like jews though.
So the 'black jewish lesbian' would really be a 'jewish lesbian' to scare him.
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)I am not sure there will be many tears when he is gone. They might sing "ding dong the witch is dead" however...
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)You know the rest....
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JI7
(89,249 posts)so how does that happen ?
Heidi
(58,237 posts)Response to JI7 (Reply #4)
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Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)has been in charge of the church for a while now.
That is the big news to me, that he was excommunicated. I really want to know how that happened and why. I don't really care if the man lives or dies. His family is just as venomous and poisoned with hate as he is/was. So, whether he lives or dies isn't really news to me. The news to me was that they excommunicated him. I wonder why.
Ichingcarpenter
(36,988 posts)is all I have to say
redwitch
(14,944 posts)Me! Me! I want to protest that it took so long.
The first time I heard about Fred was when his grandson designed the website for the church. With a clock that counts how many days Matthew Shepherd has spent in hell.
If there is a hell it is not Matthew who will spend eternity there.
Buddha2B
(116 posts)Wow, what a nutty bunch. Even he didn't scape the wrath of the church he helped create.
Did he have a change of heart?
MH1
(17,600 posts)Almost all the responses here seem to assume he's still the same hate-filled scumbag who started that "church" but who knows, maybe the reason he was kicked out was that he began to see the error of his ways? We don't know, maybe it was some other reason, but we should at least allow for the possibility until facts are known ... which they might never be.
Nika
(546 posts)The creep is as cold as ice.
calimary
(81,267 posts)Glad you're here! People like this guy just astound me. The hate. Just astounding. Hatred. In the name of the Lord. The evil and hurt and pain and agony that people like him have caused - that is astounding as well. And shocking. And a national disgrace.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)delta17
(283 posts)This is a good opportunity to show the world that normal, decent people don't behave like that.
calimary
(81,267 posts)Good to have you with us! I'm torn on this one. Your point is a very good one. But as a liberal Dem who feels as though her face has been stomped on just a few times too many, I'm kinda slow coming to the "let's rise above it and be nice" position. Sometimes I wonder if we shouldn't respond with the kerosene enema approach the teabaggers take. I'm really torn. From all the postmortems I've seen on the Florida race this past week, I'm wondering if Ms. Sink was too soft, too conciliatory - "oh, we'll fix it" about the Affordable Care Act
when perhaps she should have come out swinging, with the proverbial knife clenched between her teeth, and fire in her words. She sure didn't fire up the base much with "be nice."
I dunno. I just don't know. REALLY torn. Your suggestion exemplifies the moral high ground. And FAR more noble. But sometimes I've found that taking the high road leads you straight off a cliff.
delta17
(283 posts)Fred Phelps loves attention, any attention. I actually think he would want a circus at his funeral, to keep his name in the papers after he is gone. A quiet, lonely burial would be more fitting for such a miserable person.
I do agree that the nice, compromising political style needs to go. Thanks for the welcome, by the way!
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)"Fred Phelps Death Prompts Westboro Baptist Church To Protest His Funeral"
Read more: http://www.duffelblog.com/2012/09/fred-phelps-dies-westboro-baptist-church-plans-to-protest-funeral/#ixzz2w7EnGAlq
But seriously: what kind of a piece of shit do you have to be to get excommunicated from your own "church"?
Bohunk68
(1,364 posts)The son was excommunicated, not Fred.
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)From Nathan Phelps:
Ive learned that my father, Fred Phelps, Sr., pastor of the God Hates Fags Westboro Baptist Church, was ex-communicated from the church back in August of 2013. He is now on the edge of death at Midland Hospice house in Topeka, Kansas."
Fred excommunicated Nathan in 1980.
Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)seeing the hate mongerer that they also kicked out. So they kicked Fred to the curb, yet still are trying to control who sees him?
littlewolf
(3,813 posts)to make sure I understood it. shesh
jwirr
(39,215 posts)him in their eyes
calimary
(81,267 posts)"What kind of a piece of shit do you have to be to get excommunicated from your own 'church'?"
Made me LAUGH!!!!!
And the whole "church" thing. Definitely deserves to be put in quotes. THAT is a "church"? You put God into THAT?
"Church" my ass.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)Even though I'm an atheist this smiley comes to mind...
eShirl
(18,491 posts)I know they're family, but how do their wishes cancel out the other family members' rights?
onethatcares
(16,168 posts)it's a bunch of hate filled assholes running around acting like they are god.
Someone should file a lawsuit claiming emotional distress for their actions and take all they have.
Now that would be fair play in my book.
eShirl
(18,491 posts)RKP5637
(67,108 posts)jeff47
(26,549 posts)And as a result, they get to tell the hospital who gets to see Fred and who doesn't. If he's hospitalized.
If he's not hospitalized, he's living in the church's compound, and they have the same rights as any property owners to exclude others.
herding cats
(19,564 posts)Eventually they regurgitate it right back up on you. How fitting that he was excommunicated from his own church of hate in the end.
As to his death and the family blocking other family members from saying their goodbyes, well, that's just sad for the family members who are being abused.
xchrom
(108,903 posts)jwirr
(39,215 posts)will out. I will not say I am sorry for any of them.
madokie
(51,076 posts)the world will be a better place when he does cross the line between life and death. just my opinion
RKP5637
(67,108 posts)Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)give up their alleged church.
Can you imagine being the child of one these people...that is tragic.
Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)Just wondering!
Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Westboro_Baptist_Church
sweetloukillbot
(11,023 posts)They're tax free as a church, and they're all lawyers. They set up situations where people try to deny them their first amendment rights (picketing funerals and such), then they sue. And when they win, they claim the religious exemption to avoid taxes.
Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)Some smart journalist will research that group and expose them for what they are, a hate group and take away their tax exempt status.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Well, made their living. Cities and states stopped blocking their protest efforts, so the lawsuit stream has dried up.
jsr
(7,712 posts)Vashta Nerada
(3,922 posts)The world will be a better place without him.
kaiden
(1,314 posts)may he come back as a burkha-clad woman living under Taliban rule in Afghanistan. With Dick Cheney.
flvegan
(64,407 posts)from visiting, lest Fred rescind his hate in a bit of deathbed clarity and remorse, and speak against what he created with those monsters he calls family. Something like that might be devastating, though I don't know why he was "ex-communicated" from the entity.
Might also be devastating to have one of the miscreant followers of that entity dislodge a brain cell and actually think about what they're doing and realize the stupidity of it all.
uncommonlink
(261 posts)then don't say anything at all.............................................
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)There are lots of people who need to be called out on their evil. Phelps is one of them.
MineralMan
(146,308 posts)So, his legacy of evil will not lead to justice for this vile person.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)RKP5637
(67,108 posts)IMO he was one evil F, the world will be better without him, and I say good riddance.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)RKP5637
(67,108 posts)LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)RKP5637
(67,108 posts)TlalocW
(15,382 posts)But when the old man does kick off, it would send a message if people did show up at his funeral with signs that said, "We Forgive You, Fred," and other similar messages.
But like I said... I'm not sure I could do it.
TlalocW
Paladin
(28,257 posts)John Donne obviously never met Fred Phelps, Sr.......
Crunchy Frog
(26,587 posts)Cooley Hurd
(26,877 posts)You fucking REAP what you sow!
Cooley Hurd
(26,877 posts)...when Reagan died. But fuck this asshole...
WhiteTara
(29,715 posts)Iggo
(47,552 posts)LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)Paladin
(28,257 posts)Tree-Hugger
(3,370 posts)Part of me wants to say, "haha, fucker!" and hope he dies in agony. Part of me hopes that Matthew Shepard himself will meet Fred at the pearly gates, and close them on him. Part of me wishes I believed in an actual hell with the devil and shit and that Fred burns there.
But, that's not how I personally roll (and no judgment to who feel differently, as expressed in this thread). I am more in line with this article:
http://thegaychristian.com/fred-phelps-lets-picket-funeral-love/
Zorra
(27,670 posts)for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God, whom he has not seen."
~ John 4:20
Phelps
"Wherever your treasure is, there will your heart be also"
Matthew 6:21
Gollum
Love the quotes......and the facepalm!
Rocknrule
(5,697 posts)Don't feed the trolls
11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)shenmue
(38,506 posts)maddezmom
(135,060 posts)LongTomH
(8,636 posts)Phelps is, at the end of his life, a bitter old man, dying alone. Perhaps you can say he deserves it; but, we should try to have some compassion.
Edited to add: I agree with Kaiden (reply#34). Phelps obviously learned no lessons in this life; he'll have to work off his bad Karma over several lives.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)but I know empathy. something that Fred Phelps is not capable off.
arely staircase
(12,482 posts)tea and oranges
(396 posts)It's times like these that I'm almost sorry to be an atheist...
Fred's death will help end the hateful bigotry he "preached". Perhaps future generations will be astonished that such a person lived & prospered in the 21st Century.
I'm curious to see if the hate can outlive him. The one daughter (whose name I refuse to remember), the one who called David Pakman "Jewboy" when Pakman interviewed her, always seems pretty adamantly nasty.
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)onethatcares
(16,168 posts)I thought it was about that ex presidential candidate that is pushing reverse mortgages.
sheeesh, I gotta get a life.
Heidi
(58,237 posts)Octafish
(55,745 posts)God loves everybody.
Ichingcarpenter
(36,988 posts)Death is not an end, but a beginning. Specifically, the beginning of an eternity of black nothingness.
MFM008
(19,808 posts)If God hates fags or not.
Gothmog
(145,241 posts)Forgive our trespasses as we forgive the trespasses of others.
As a father of a LGBT daughter, I have issues with this group
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Gothmog
(145,241 posts)However, I will leave judgment to G-d
Aerows
(39,961 posts)It is lodged so firmly past "not at all" that I don't know what to do with it. I shook it a few times, but no, it's still stuck way past "don't give a shit".
Nothing gives me more joy than to see those who are so absolutely sure what their makers intend than those that meet him for themselves and find out they are doomed.
Blue Owl
(50,373 posts)n/t
backscatter712
(26,355 posts)"THANK GOD FOR DEAD PHELPS!"
Hey, do unto him as he would do unto you...