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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 03:34 PM Mar 2014

Better things to do than picket the Fred Phelps funeral

BY ALEXANDRA PETRI
March 20 at 2:57 pm

On March 19, Fred Phelps of the Westboro Baptist Church passed away in the night. Who will picket the funeral of the man who picketed so many? Let’s hope, no one.

First because there may be no funeral to picket, and second because — well, we’re better than that. I know the urge to celebrate his passing is strong. But as Funny Or Die quipped, “Feels weird to celebrate Fred Phelps’ death considering that sort of thing was basically his favorite hobby.” Instead, let’s celebrate all the good he accomplished in his life — completely inadvertently.

It’s a fitting conclusion to the life of someone who, in the course of committing himself so loudly and grotesquely to hate (it was even on his bumper stickers), wound up proving again and again how much love there was in people. He would show up at a funeral with his family and their hideous signs, and others would rally. Even the KKK showed up. When the KKK Imperial Wizard comments that, compared to you, he is not a “hate-monger,” and says he “thinks that it’s an absolute shame that [the WBC] show up and disrupt people’s funerals” — well, need you say more? It’s like a twist on the old Churchill analogy about Hitler invading Hell.

A lot of people who set out to do good and advance the cause of love don’t accomplish this much. Thank you to Mr. Phelps, in a strange, strange way, for proving us right. Hate is well-publicized, but small. Love was bigger. He showed up with his signs, and people responded with a Wall of Love. He kept achieving the opposite of what he set out to do. He faxed tons and tons of complaints about — they passed a law against fax harassment. He showed up at funerals with his Hateful Signs, and people gathered to shield the mourners, or the Patriot Guard riders showed up, or even the KKK did. He tested our commitment to free speech, even extreme and ugly speech, and — yup, it is still strong.

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Better things to do than picket the Fred Phelps funeral (Original Post) DonViejo Mar 2014 OP
completely ignoring the man is karmic justice steve2470 Mar 2014 #1
No you are absolutely right. CBGLuthier Mar 2014 #2
ignoring another human being completely is like psychic death steve2470 Mar 2014 #3
I have to admit, I had serious thoughts of driving out to Kansas LadyHawkAZ Mar 2014 #4
No need to picket - he will be pricked in hell. nt Democracyinkind Mar 2014 #5
IF you can't say something good, say nothing. Re Mr, Phelps " ". nt Vincardog Mar 2014 #6
Fred Who? Prisoner_Number_Six Mar 2014 #7
To each their own. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #8
I don't love him, don't forgive him. I don't care to emulate him. LiberalAndProud Mar 2014 #10
Expressing anger at him is not "emulating" him. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #11
I mean picketing funerals. LiberalAndProud Mar 2014 #12
I have no intention of doing that despite the close proximity. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #13
Thank him?? LiberalAndProud Mar 2014 #14
Can't. I have to alphabetize my lint collection jberryhill Mar 2014 #9
Juanita Jean has the best idea as how to respond to this death-Ignore Phelps Gothmog Mar 2014 #15

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
2. No you are absolutely right.
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 03:37 PM
Mar 2014

Never speak his name never mourn him never mention him again. His legacy is dust.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
3. ignoring another human being completely is like psychic death
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 03:38 PM
Mar 2014

We would rather be shouted at than completely ignored. Strange but true.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
4. I have to admit, I had serious thoughts of driving out to Kansas
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 03:39 PM
Mar 2014

to be at the party, but nah.

I can't promise that, if I'm ever out that way, I won't take a girlfriend along and go make out on his grave though. And take selfies. And post them on the internet. Because sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.

If people want to put the time and effort into protesting his funeral, I really can't say I blame them.

Behind the Aegis

(54,057 posts)
8. To each their own.
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 03:51 PM
Mar 2014

I personally will not mourn him or "thank" him for jack shit! If people want to love their enemy, they are welcome to it. I will not be joining them.

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
12. I mean picketing funerals.
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 04:00 PM
Mar 2014

If you want to or need to, please do. I think I understand.

I wouldn't be upset if the practice died with him. It won't. And that's the saddest part of his sad life.

Behind the Aegis

(54,057 posts)
13. I have no intention of doing that despite the close proximity.
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 04:09 PM
Mar 2014

But, I will not do as so many articles and posters are suggesting and "thank" him, or mourn is passing as just another lost soul.

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