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We all want to be good Democrats, right? Well, I'm a very good Democrat so I think I can help. I'm not saying I'm the goodest Democrat, but I am gooder than most.
Let me give you some background. I became a man the day Alan the Horse Ameche took it in from one yard out to......
Hold on. That's someone else......
What I meant to say is: I have been a Good Democrat since 1978 when at five years old, I played the role of cute onlooker as my parents overturned what could only be called a Jim Crow law. The law was being used to keep my mother - who just so happened to be a woman oddly enough -from running for elected office in my town. (And, for the record, it was Democrats who were keeping her off the ballot, but we were good Democrats and won the day). Her case is fairly important. I discovered it in law school and still look it up from time to time. It goes through periods were it is cited a lot - often when Republican-dominated state legislatures start getting obnoxious with voting laws.
Since then, I have been a gooder Democrat. I vote. I support campaigns. I try to get to know my representatives. (My former Senator - a good Democrat - knew me my name at one point and talked about his son's college decision once. My alma mater was chosen). As a "good Democrat," I believe I have wisdom to share. So, I'm sharing it.
1. All politics is local. One of the goodest Democrats said that. If you really want to change the political process, you can't bitch about the president and you can't suddenly decide to support some insane candidate in a presidential primary. You need to be responsible for building the bench. If you live in a small town, run for local office. There is no one whose beliefs line up with you better than yourself. If you live in a larger town, get involved in choosing council members, mayors, etc. I currently live in Texas - a state that makes a lot of DUers throw up in their mouths. Yet, my congress person is Shelia Jackson Lee and my mayor is a Progressive Lesbian who just got married. I like to think that I live in a beach head.
2. Vote for the most liberal Democrat that can win. A Republican said something like that and I stole it. But it's a good idea. Shelia Jackson Lee can win my district. She cannot win a Senate seat here. This is not something that can be argued. Kos may think that replacing Democrats who agree with him on 60 percent of the issues with Republicans who agree with him on 0 percent of the issues is a good thing, but I do not. We are not in a parliamentary system and you cannot force change as a sizable minority. You need to win elections and hold a majority to govern, and even then, it is difficult. My current favorite Democrat is Elizabeth Warren. But she would not beat Ted Cruz in a state-wide election here. We need to use some strategy and develop some tolerance for those who will support a lot of our ideas but not all of our ideas.
3. It is easier to change the ideas of people who agree with you on a lot of things than the ideas of people who agree with you on nothing. In 1992, I was a Freshman in college. It was my first real exposure to LGBT people, let alone LGBT politics. And it was a little overwhelming. The campus LGBT group (and I'm vaguely aware that this acronym is now out of favor but I'm 40 and have kids and I can't keep up with this stuff) had what they called a "Gay Jeans" day. All you had to do was wear jeans to show support. I - a good Democrat then and now - wore Dockers. Today, I would slap that punk. But I evolved. And I was capable of evolving because I was a good Democrat. So, purity tests are destructive.
4. Just because someone is not passionate about your pet issues does not make them the enemy. People are busy and can only invest so much time in so much. My #1 issue at the moment is economic inequality. To me, the very fate of the nation is at stake if we don't start seeing a course correction on this issue. My #2 issue is healthcare reform. If your issue is the NSA, I'm mostly on your side (with maybe a few differences) but it is not an issue I am dedicating time to at the moment. I'm not a full-time activist. We need to accept a very basic economic fact: not everybody can do everything. Maybe if I work on mine and you work on yours, we could, like, build a better world or something.
5. Acting like an asshole just means that you are an asshole. I got news for you: you are not Bill Hicks. (I've got more news for you: If Bill Hicks were alive today, he would probably be making regular drunken calls to Alex Jones's show but that's for another post). You are not. You are not Hunter S. Thompson. You are not George Carlin. You are not the warrior poet leading the new revolution. If you so happen to become the warrior poet leading the new revolution, you can then become an asshole - and in the words of Crash Davis - the press will think you are colorful. Until that moment, you are a crank on a message board or blog and you aren't changing anything. Effecting change in politics means being political. Get some manners.
leftstreet
(36,108 posts)Jesus
djean111
(14,255 posts)theboss
(10,491 posts)Glad you honed in on one potentially lazy word choice there. Because that is really what I was hoping people would do.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Why?
gcomeau
(5,764 posts)you read that entire thing and decided the part that warranted comment was some nitpick over terminology???
leftstreet
(36,108 posts)But the lecturers usually avoid characterizing working class efforts to acquire food, shelter, healthcare, security for their loved ones, etc as a 'pet issue'
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)and it is the OP's pet issue, so I don't know why you want to attack him. It's my pet issue as well.
The reason I call it a "pet" issue?
Because, pretty clearly, a whole lot of people on DU do not care that much about it.
Oh, every now and then a thread about it may make the greatest page with 100 recs, but the rest of the time this group spends talking about and arguing passionately about - other issues. Issues that they clearly care more about - hence their interest in arguing about and discussing them.
For some people it seems to be far more important to slam the Tin Man to the ground (symbollically at least) so the rest of us chant like the cowardly lion "I do believe in rape culture. I do believe in rape culture. I do. I do. I do." Any supposed concern they have about income inequality takes a seat well to the back of THAT priority.
But the Tin Man does not even post here any more. http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x681832
gcomeau
(5,764 posts)...as their NUMBER ONE issue, but you just kind of ignored that part now didn't you?
theboss
(10,491 posts)That's what I wrote.
Jesus Christ. There are so many people on this board who are not happy unless they are indignant.
Control-Z
(15,682 posts)Economic inequality is not a pet issue. It is his pet issue. There is a difference.
My pet issue is abortion rights. Though, I'd hardly call abortion rights a pet issue.
theboss
(10,491 posts)Top priority? Not an adjective
Primary issue? Then I would be accused of making ________ a "secondary issue."
Control-Z
(15,682 posts)Not when people just really want to start a fight.
RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)Who would have thought bush could act as Texas governor and then become the POTUS? Miracles can happen in Texas. Don't sell Texas short. Giving up on Texas when you are a Texan? I wouldn't go there.
The only real way to change Texas is to get radical. A radical Liberal Left agenda is a great lever anywhere you go in the USA. It just needs to be exercised more. No pain no gain, they say. Well, I've been pained and I've made gain. It works.
theboss
(10,491 posts)I called myself part of the beach head.
Either I am a terrible terrible writer or everyone here reads things through some kind of decoder glasses.
RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)There was a lot of: "Can't happen here'
theboss
(10,491 posts)Julian Castro on the other hand....well.......
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)Actually I think many of those are good points, especially number 4.
I don't agree about electability though.
Although being able to vote in a primary is kinda rare anyway. I thought it was kinda funny. Because I got behind the first guy who filed. Six months later other people filed, and I did NOT research to see which one of the five agreed more with me. I stayed with the guy I was with.
He lost anyway, so it did not make much difference.
I have supported the defeat of dinos, and not seen that do much good.
Lieberman lost, but then won as an independent, but then did not run for re-election. I supported the defeat of Boswell, but now think Fallon kinda shot himself, and by extension ME, in the foot. And now that district has a Republican incumbent since 2012.
I guess we may win it in 2014. Hard to tell how progressive our candidate is though. She sure can raise money though.
At the State Senate level, we worked to defeat an incumbent dino, and then won the general election only to lose in 2012. Who knows though, our dino may have lost in 2008. He came close to losing in 2004.
So it is hard to tell how much good that does. And Republicans have been winning, with the bloodbath of 2010 and then the purging of the moderates in 2012. Hard to tell what 2014 is looking like.
Whiskeytide
(4,461 posts)... Here I was reading this post, chuckling a little and marveling at how this guy gets it. A voice of reason in a sea of acrimonious stupidity of late. Finally someone understands that we're Democrats. Big tent and all - taking the side of the less fortunate, reaching out a helping hand to others, standing in solidarity with people who might be different but are generally like-minded, and working toward making things better for everyone in every way we can manage to do so....
...Then the comments started. Holy shit!!!!!!!!
No TB. You are not a terrible writer. Some people, however, are terrible understanders.
theboss
(10,491 posts)And for that, I apologize. I will no longer care about anything.
warrprayer
(4,734 posts)... the Alpha and the Omega, the Wizard of Oz, and Underdog all roled into one. I am miracle ingredient Z-87.
'5. Acting like an asshole just means that you are an asshole. I got news for you: you are not Bill Hicks. (I've got more news for you: If Bill Hicks were alive today, he would probably be making regular drunken calls to Alex Jones's show but that's for another post). You are not. You are not Hunter S. Thompson. You are not George Carlin. You are not the warrior poet leading the new revolution. If you so happen to become the warrior poet leading the new revolution, you can then become an asshole - and in the words of Crash Davis - the press will think you are colorful. Until that moment, you are a crank on a message board or blog and you aren't changing anything. Effecting change in politics means being political. Get some manners."