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sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 08:07 PM Apr 2014

A Tale of Two Mothers in America in a Post Racial Society

A tale of two mothers…. The one with red hair on the left, Catalina Clouser decided to get high and drove for 12 miles with her 2 month old baby on the roof of her car..By the time she realized her baby wasn’t in the car, it was too late.. The baby fell off and was found still in his car seat in the middle of busy freeway.. fortunately unharmed…Clouser was just sentenced and got probation..http://nydn.us/1m7ogNE

Meanwhile in the woman on the right Shanesha Taylor was homeless and trying to get her life on better footing. She had a job interview and could not get anyone to watch her kids ages 2 yrs and 6 months , so she left them in the car, with window open and went inside to do her job interview.. This mom was arrested and charged w/ a felony, her kids were taken away.. Both women live in Arizona..http://bit.ly/1l1yKym



http://hiphopandpolitics.com/2014/04/16/tale-two-mothers-america-post-racial-society/

Any questions?

No white privilege here! Move along nothing to see, move along nothing to see here....

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A Tale of Two Mothers in America in a Post Racial Society (Original Post) sheshe2 Apr 2014 OP
Butbutbut... talking about "privilege" isn't helpful because it makes white people uncomfortable! nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #1
It's not helpful because it has FAILED to educate the public. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #12
So how the hell else are we supposed to frame the issue in a simple, understandable way? nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #43
"And simply ignoring racial inequalities is not an option." That is true, TBH. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #46
Okay, fair enough. But I see no reason to abandon a perfectly valid concept just because nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #53
I don't think this supports the position you have been arguing here. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #137
Democrats might lose elections if we discuss this! boston bean Apr 2014 #95
Never knew we on DU had so much power over national politics. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #99
I will be more than happy to have a discussion on race AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #114
Much as calling racism useful for certain people is also quite useful for certain people... LanternWaste Apr 2014 #161
True. And, by the way..... AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #174
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2014 #2
so wrong BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2014 #3
Where was Leonard Smalls when you really needed him? VScott Apr 2014 #4
Not a highway. Igel Apr 2014 #5
What does this post mean? brush Apr 2014 #6
First sheshe2 Apr 2014 #7
Wow!!!!! uponit7771 Apr 2014 #9
What neighborhood was it ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #10
Says 45th Ave and Cholla in the linked local story. sweetloukillbot Apr 2014 #147
Yeah, pretty much, sadly.(I disagree re: the marijuana thing, though) AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #15
Yes Ma'lik Richmond was convicted ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #126
My mistake. nt AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #129
It's understandable. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #132
Fail. Raine1967 Apr 2014 #21
Normally I'd agree with you, but.....I'm afraid it's not about "white privilege".... AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #8
B.S., Your denying that white privilege exists ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #13
Your belief in literal "white privilege" doesn't make it factual, amigo. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #16
Not MY belief ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #18
..... AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #20
Yes ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #34
"Keyword is OPINION." sheshe2 Apr 2014 #35
"Yet your 'OPINION" stands!" Clarify, please? AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #39
Clarification sheshe2 Apr 2014 #55
Okay, never mind. That's what I meant. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #59
Kind of like the Climate change "change "Debate", huh? ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #94
White privilege exists. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #28
Hola Amigo! Raine1967 Apr 2014 #30
There's nothing TO deny. That's the problem, TBH. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #42
What's "weird" about it? And it's not so much about tangible benefits, as all the bad things nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #44
See my other response. nt AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #47
Privilege, in this context, is used to describe a social inequality. herding cats Apr 2014 #74
your argument makes no sense RainDog Apr 2014 #105
.... AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #106
Norm RainDog Apr 2014 #107
You misread me again. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #108
American society is racist RainDog Apr 2014 #116
I have plenty of understanding, thank you. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #118
where are your studies that indicate RainDog Apr 2014 #119
I don't need any studies, btw. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #120
here ya go RainDog Apr 2014 #122
"that's just a quick look to demonstrate that racism is currently an issue in American society"..... AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #125
I am going to assume RainDog Apr 2014 #130
"Trolling"? Not really, TBH. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #134
LOL RainDog Apr 2014 #135
Your choice, I suppose. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #144
for old time's sake, Joe RainDog Apr 2014 #146
And Dr. Avakian has every right to her viewpoint, as you and I do. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #150
It's a term that derives from academia RainDog Apr 2014 #155
How old are you? U4ikLefty Apr 2014 #148
23. But I'm kinda smart beyond my years..... AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #151
With all those ears of experience, how could anyone question your wisdom? U4ikLefty Apr 2014 #153
Did you read the rest of my reply? nt AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #154
... RainDog Apr 2014 #160
And more objective, and have more knowledge of this than the academics... LanternWaste Apr 2014 #162
Woman on the right didn't get any sentence yet. None whatsoever. LisaL Apr 2014 #24
One was arrested and lost custody of her children for GOING TO A JOB INTERVIEW Raine1967 Apr 2014 #32
It doesn't matter where she went. Her children were left in the car unattended. LisaL Apr 2014 #33
I do. Raine1967 Apr 2014 #40
What if the one who left the child on top of the car was driving to the job interview? LisaL Apr 2014 #45
You do realize that this is deadly Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #41
Still not as dangerous as what the other woman did. Or as stupid. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #49
How is it not as dangerous when children can die if left in a hot car? LisaL Apr 2014 #52
Sure it's a pretty bad idea. But compared to leaving a baby seat on the *roof of your car* while nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #58
If she had left the infant on the roof of the car on purpose you might have had a good LisaL Apr 2014 #60
Do you really think she would've done that if she hadn't been out of her mind on God knows nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #62
Do you know that there was already CPS involvement with Shanesha Taylor prior to her leaving the LisaL Apr 2014 #64
I'm not saying she's a great mother. I honestly have no idea. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #66
Did you read why CPS was involved? LisaL Apr 2014 #71
So that makes it alrighty then! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #81
What makes it alrighty? LisaL Apr 2014 #82
It begs the question then, what were the local temperature conditions on that day LanternWaste Apr 2014 #163
I don't think anyone's arguing that leaving the kids in the car was fine and dandy LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #67
I am with you on universal child care. Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #73
Shhhhhh! Vashta Nerada Apr 2014 #72
your right Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #75
I see 2 cases of child endangerment Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #56
But. but .but AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #109
Well, something did happen before these women were charged ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #117
Hahahahahahahaha AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #121
And the defensive and insincere will use profanity ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #123
I am sorry AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #127
Yes, you are ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #131
Hahaahahahahahahaha AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #133
That's not what I said ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #136
I have no reason to believe you AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #141
Might be an easy mistake. I mistook you for sincere last week... LanternWaste Apr 2014 #165
In what way? AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #172
Is my consistency AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #173
"Normally you would agree?" sheshe2 Apr 2014 #17
Normally I agree with you, is what I meant. But for reasons I've outlined, this is an exception. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #19
Was it the same judge Armadotrasgo Apr 2014 #11
Not same Judge; but same county and same court. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #14
This answer should be the end all to every response in this thread. Raine1967 Apr 2014 #23
And it would be if... Egnever Apr 2014 #104
Hmmmm AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #110
Almost as weird as the atypical racial disparity in the prison population. LanternWaste Apr 2014 #166
Did somebody collected over 100 K for Catalina? LisaL Apr 2014 #22
this response makes little sense wrt to the OP. Raine1967 Apr 2014 #25
OP makes claim one woman is treated harsher than the other. LisaL Apr 2014 #26
Actually, there is a LOT to support the claim. Raine1967 Apr 2014 #29
Name one. LisaL Apr 2014 #31
I'm not here to try the case. Raine1967 Apr 2014 #36
Oh I understand what she is saying. LisaL Apr 2014 #38
Make that what she is saying. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #85
So sheshe2 Apr 2014 #79
Why don't you take a look at your own logic first? LisaL Apr 2014 #80
No! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #83
Excuse me? LisaL Apr 2014 #84
Well, rationalizing a thing to force a false equivalence, but certainly not defending it. LanternWaste Apr 2014 #167
That's true. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #51
Not the same. Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #27
So they were both arrested and charged with felonies. Nye Bevan Apr 2014 #37
But what the woman on the left did was far worse. So similar treatment *isn't* fair treatment nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #50
What makes it "far worse?" LisaL Apr 2014 #54
One woman was on drugs and utterly careless, and very nearly got her child killed. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #61
Leaving the children in a car unattended in AZ could lead to them ending up dead. LisaL Apr 2014 #63
I don't dispute that. But even so, I doubt the risk of death is comparable to the other situation. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #65
so if she left them in an oven, you would be good with that then ? Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #68
Of course leaving them in the car is a bad idea - in the middle of summer it could easily have been nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #87
It can get very hot inside the car even if it's not very hot outside. LisaL Apr 2014 #88
Look, she made a big mistake and she's paid for it with an arrest and public humiliation. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #89
She also got 100 k in donations. LisaL Apr 2014 #90
Wait what? Egnever Apr 2014 #124
She's not evil incarnate. But what she did was still worse in my book, in part because it wasn't nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #128
March in the desert Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #98
Well.... one woman made a deliberate, conscious decision to leave her kids in a hot car. Nye Bevan Apr 2014 #57
That does kinda make a difference, TBH. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #171
Racism and White Privilege are factors in today's society...unjust treatement HipChick Apr 2014 #48
It's sickening the disparity in sentencing if you're are White and then Cha Apr 2014 #69
What disparity in sentencing? LisaL Apr 2014 #70
I do not believe some of our DU friends posting here, realize how deadly this is. Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #76
Agreed Egnever Apr 2014 #101
Thank you Cha. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #86
There hasn't been a sentence yet Egnever Apr 2014 #102
They both messed up pretty bad , I don't think race has anything to do with this case oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #77
Shanesha Taylor's case wasn't yet picked by any judge. LisaL Apr 2014 #78
I'm sorry I misunderstood , so the first one do you know if oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #91
did you notice the length of the probation ? Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #111
Put me on the jury ..if see doesn't take a plea oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #112
this child was not so lucky TODAY ! Nobel_Twaddle_III Apr 2014 #113
I wish I did because she would have her children back oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #115
Her children are with family members. LisaL Apr 2014 #143
I don't know but I'm trying not to judge this woman oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #145
Is she actually homeless and unemployed? LisaL Apr 2014 #152
The residence could have been her families or an ex , it doesn't mean she was living there. oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #156
I have no clue how many hours per week her part time job is. LisaL Apr 2014 #157
You would have to know what type of job oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #158
If this isn't damning evidence CFLDem Apr 2014 #92
Apparently, it's not damning enough ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #96
There hasnt been any sentence imposed. Nor has the black woman been found guilty of anything yet. Egnever Apr 2014 #103
Now don't spoil the fun with facts and logic. n/t Skip Intro Apr 2014 #168
K&R n/t Feral Child Apr 2014 #93
I don't see how any conclusion about white privilege can be reached here... Captain Stern Apr 2014 #97
Exactly! AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #169
Wait till the sentencing then you can compare. dilby Apr 2014 #100
But aren't the black children here receiving better protection than the white child? maced666 Apr 2014 #138
How do you know that Shanesha Taylor wouldn't make more "mistakes?" LisaL Apr 2014 #142
"I swear you need a white-privilege-correct manual just to keep up with all this!" AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #170
Obviously you are more popular than I, however, this was the similarity I drew Horse with no Name Apr 2014 #139
I just KnR'ed your thread too Horse with no Name. nt sheshe2 Apr 2014 #140
This is really starting to piss me off oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #149
They both were arrested. dilby Apr 2014 #164
Catalina JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #159

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
1. Butbutbut... talking about "privilege" isn't helpful because it makes white people uncomfortable!
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 08:10 PM
Apr 2014

And I knew a white guy once who was really really poor! So there's no white privilege!

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
12. It's not helpful because it has FAILED to educate the public.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:35 PM
Apr 2014

This has already been explained by myself and some others time and time again, why "white privilege" has failed, as a teaching tool or anything else to help educate the general public.

And this is coming from someone who used to believe in it myself, when I wasn't as knowledgeable about socio-political realities as I am now; I was also, at that same time, a hardcore Obama critic.(This was before I joined DU, of course, but it really shouldn't matter all that much). So that should *really* tell you something, shouldn't it?

That truth was hard for me to accept at first, but I *did* eventually come around to it.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
43. So how the hell else are we supposed to frame the issue in a simple, understandable way?
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:54 PM
Apr 2014

And simply ignoring racial inequalities is not an option.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
46. "And simply ignoring racial inequalities is not an option." That is true, TBH.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:00 AM
Apr 2014

But there are better ways...and no, "White Privilege" is not at all understandable to most ordinary folks. When they think of that, they think of money and hard political power.....something that even most whites don't have, and we are the "norm" for Pete's sakes!

Here, I found this comment by ShariC on Jezebel that kinda sums up the problem(though not perfectly, TBH), but more importantly, how it can be explained:

Some commenters think white people don't want to think deeply about "white privilege" (which is a misnomer - not experiencing unfair negative treatment is not "privilege" - that word conveys benefits above and beyond the norm). It's not that they don't want to think it, but that the reality is too difficult for them to effectively inhabit. It's the same reason why someone who has never done any drugs can't understand what it's like to be a drug addict or how an atheist can't understand how someone can believe religious texts as if they were facts. It's hard for anyone who fully understand what its like to live in another person's skin.
...

So, don't conclude ones white skin means they don't understand, but try to know that it is hard for most to understand because you really can't know what it is to be someone in a particular culture unless you can have a similar experience. It's not willful ignorance. It's just the limits of human perception and the capacity to really internalize another person's reality.





nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
53. Okay, fair enough. But I see no reason to abandon a perfectly valid concept just because
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:05 AM
Apr 2014

some find it difficult to understand.

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
95. Democrats might lose elections if we discuss this!
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:16 AM
Apr 2014

I'm being sarcastic, of course. But repeating something I've seen posted here.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
99. Never knew we on DU had so much power over national politics.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 04:54 PM
Apr 2014

Hell, I assume if we actually did, we wouldn't be sitting here arguing on the Internet.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
114. I will be more than happy to have a discussion on race
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:26 PM
Apr 2014

WHEN a sentence is handed down. Until such time as we have comparable results, racism is useful for certain people trying to push certain cultural memes.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
161. Much as calling racism useful for certain people is also quite useful for certain people...
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 04:18 PM
Apr 2014

Much as calling racism useful for certain people is in itself, also quite useful for certain people...

(six of one, half a dozen of the other...)

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
174. True. And, by the way.....
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 05:29 PM
Apr 2014

I don't think we'll find any genuine user on here who is willing to deny that social disparities still exist. But as I've pointed out, what good has this "white privilege" meme actually done in the overall scheme of things? Sadly, anyone who's been paying attention knows the answer: Zilch. Zip. Zero.

Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Igel

(35,304 posts)
5. Not a highway.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 09:42 PM
Apr 2014

Residential neighborhood that went into a decent decline about 10 years ago. I've been in the other part of it, on the east side of 43rd (which is a bit of a "highway&quot many times. Brother and his wife used to live there before bailing 5 years go.

And the verdict is viewed with a bit of shock by those who've noticed. Father had been stoned and driving with the kid in the car prior to the incident, almost got them killed.

The incident also happened a couple of years ago. No real incidents since then.

Good try, though. Better than the last attempt to show the identicality of apples and quince.


More telling would have been the consequences if what should have happened to the young Latina-American woman did--having her kid placed in protective services--had happened. That would have been precisely ... Nothing. No defenders. No outcry. No attempt at fundraising to help her. Everybody would have said, "Yup, that's about right."

Except perhaps those who say that marijuana has no bad effects, but makes people good and reasonable. (And forgetful, but in this case it's probably a combination of things that made the young woman race off.)

brush

(53,778 posts)
6. What does this post mean?
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 09:47 PM
Apr 2014

It's all over the map. So you think there was no disparity in the treatment the two women got in the AZ. justice system?

Is that what you're saying?

If not, what?

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
7. First
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:20 PM
Apr 2014
"Good try, though. Better than the last attempt to show the identicality of apples and quince."


What the hell does this mean?

Thank god it wasn't a highway! Does that make it okay that she drove 12 miles with her child on top of the car! WOW! OMG! Your lack of outrage is pretty disgusting.

As for her being Latina? Link please, I could not find one.

Your post is word salad and very hard to follow.
 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
10. What neighborhood was it ...
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:33 PM
Apr 2014

I didn't see it mentioned in the article; but I'm pretty familiar with Phoenix. Also, in Arizona, the term "Highway" is pretty much the same as "street."

Good try? I think the point was well made.

sweetloukillbot

(11,023 posts)
147. Says 45th Ave and Cholla in the linked local story.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:21 AM
Apr 2014

I grew up in that neighborhood and went to school at that intersection - it's a two-lane residential street that ends at the canal a couple blocks away - although it is about a 1/2 mile from a larger 4-lane street. Honestly she probably hit a speed hump that threw the kid off the roof...

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
15. Yeah, pretty much, sadly.(I disagree re: the marijuana thing, though)
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:39 PM
Apr 2014

There are some real disparities in the justice system. That is undeniable. But it sure as hell doesn't add up to "white privilege", that's for sure. Because there's poor white people who get screwed over, too.....and even a few People of Color who manage to get a pretty lenient deal(I'm afraid I'll have to mention the Steubenville case, because one of the accused happened to be a black guy.....as far as I can tell, he was never convicted, along with his teammates). So these problems are just so much more complex than what "white privilege" is able to cover.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
8. Normally I'd agree with you, but.....I'm afraid it's not about "white privilege"....
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:28 PM
Apr 2014

Because it doesn't exist. Not in a literal sense, anyway.

Though it's definitely true that the woman on the right did get a harsher sentence than she had deserved and the woman on the left got it too easy. I'm just not convinced that race necessarily played any role in even the Taylor case, let alone the Clouser incident.



 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
13. B.S., Your denying that white privilege exists ...
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:37 PM
Apr 2014

doesn't make it so.

Though it's definitely true that the woman on the right did get a harsher sentence than she had deserved and the woman on the left got it too easy.


MUST ... AVOID ... THE ... OBVIOUS!

What would convince you of what you refuse to acknowledge ... despite all evidence?
 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
18. Not MY belief ...
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:44 PM
Apr 2014

the opinion of sociologists that have researched and written peer reviewed studies on the topic. Non-amigo. ... Why do "non-racist" white folks think that sh!t is okay?

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
20. .....
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:47 PM
Apr 2014

the opinion of sociologists that have researched and written peer reviewed studies on the topic.


Keyword is OPINION. One that you happen to share.

Why do "non-racist" white folks think that sh!t is okay?


What's wrong with what I said?
 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
34. Yes ...
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:34 PM
Apr 2014

Opinions informed by study; as opposed to an opinion informed by a stubborn desire to preserve that which you do not believe exists, not fight to preserve, never the less.

What's wrong with what I said?


Amigo? Are you Hispanic? Were we speaking Spanish? Come on, mannnn!

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
35. "Keyword is OPINION."
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:36 PM
Apr 2014

1StrongBlackMan

"Not MY belief ...

the opinion of sociologists that have researched and written peer reviewed studies on the topic. Non-amigo. ... Why do "non-racist" white folks think that sh!t is okay?"


Yet your 'OPINION" stands!


sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
55. Clarification
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:07 AM
Apr 2014
"Normally I'd agree with you, but.....I'm afraid it's not about "white privilege"....

Because it doesn't exist. Not in a literal sense, anyway.


Though it's definitely true that the woman on the right did get a harsher sentence than she had deserved and the woman on the left got it too easy. I'm just not convinced that race necessarily played any role in even the Taylor case, let alone the Clouser incident."


White Privilege does not exist according to you!

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
59. Okay, never mind. That's what I meant.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:09 AM
Apr 2014

BTW, if you want more details, I wrote a reply to nomorenomore08 with a really good comment somebody made on Jezebel. I can repost it if you'd prefer.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
94. Kind of like the Climate change "change "Debate", huh? ...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:10 AM
Apr 2014

The opinion of the 2% of Koch-paid researchers equals the opinion of the other 98% of climatologists.

Or better yet, like in the Economic "Debates" where the opinion of a journalist (with a bachelors degree in Hotel Management) is to be equal to the opinion of a economics Nobel Prize Laurate holding, PhD ...

It's kind of like that, huh?

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
28. White privilege exists.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:26 PM
Apr 2014

I know that because I am white.

I also know males are more privileged in society and the work force. I know that because I am a woman. So in some ways I am privileged, as a women I lose that status.

Those are facts....amigo~

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
30. Hola Amigo!
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:30 PM
Apr 2014

The OP blows me away.

Let's look at the repercussions.

I think that says it all.

privilege exists. --> people are actually denying this?

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
42. There's nothing TO deny. That's the problem, TBH.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:53 PM
Apr 2014

You can acknowledge that disparities still exist in American society without going into this whole "white privilege" weirdness.

Also, think about this for a second: the word "privilege" in and of itself implies, whether intentionally or not, that a group enjoys benefits above and beyond a norm. But have "white" people ever been anything but the "norm" in this country? That is to say, have "whites" ever been anything but the majority in America? The answer to both is obvious, TBH: no. It never has been.

Now, to be fair, we could theoretically probably make exceptions for countries such as South Africa, for instance, in which both the most common cultures and most numerous people were Black(so they were part of the norm, and not "whites", in S.A.'s case.): "Whites" were never the majority at any time.
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nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
44. What's "weird" about it? And it's not so much about tangible benefits, as all the bad things
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:58 PM
Apr 2014

(like incarceration) that are less likely to happen to you if you belong to a relatively favored group.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
74. Privilege, in this context, is used to describe a social inequality.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:49 AM
Apr 2014

Such as the use of 'wealth privilege' is used to point out how those of more wealth enjoy the benefits of their wealth in society in ways those without wealth cannot, or how 'first world privilege' is used to describe those who enjoy the benefits of living in a developed country vs. those who do not. It's actually not dissimilar to your use of "disparities" to describe social inequality, really. It's just the result of more in depth study that the word has come to be applied. It's not in anyway something a person should be taking offense from. It's simply a descriptor used to clarify the meaning of what is taking place. There have been many a scholarly article written about various social privileges.

I've seen arguments over this use on the internet before. They confuse me. No sociologist is attacking those who live in a first world, are Christian, of the country in questions majority race, heterosexual, male, etc. by using the word. It's simply a way of pointing out the social inequality taking place in the world today. It's been observed certain groups enjoy more privileges than others in specific regions of the world. Social privilege exists, it's just a fact. Not unlike how climate change exists. What people would be able to debate is what the causes are, not the fact that these things are. That's a waste of energy, and counterproductive in my opinion.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
105. your argument makes no sense
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 06:30 PM
Apr 2014

you talk about the issue of group privilege, then claim such privilege doesn't exist because the privilege is geared toward a majority of the population.

so what?

it's really about institutional racism - which most certainly does exist. I'm not talking about this particular case.

One way people have demonstrated this is when they have used the same resume with different names. Names that were identified with black culture on resumes resulted in a more negative view of the applicant than when that same resume was presented with one identified with white culture.

That's an example of white privilege.... the assumption that whiteness makes someone more qualified.

This same idea was demonstrated in blind orchestra auditions regarding male privilege. When musicians auditioned for positions in orchestras behind curtains, so that their genders were unknown, females gained more seats on an orchestra. When auditioning where gender was apparent, more females are judged as less talented musicians than males.

In both of these studies - none of those making evaluations assumed gender or race informed their opinions - but results demonstrated that simply being considered black, or simply being considered female had negative impacts on people's options for jobs, for their perceived competence, etc.

I don't know why anyone here argues about the idea of whether or not white or male privilege exists since both have been demonstrated repeatedly via studies regarding the same.

Whether a white or male INDIVIDUAL has experienced the same benefit from white privilege is immaterial regarding the issue of whether or not such benefit exists.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
106. ....
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 06:44 PM
Apr 2014

you talk about the issue of group privilege,


Umm.....it looks like you misread what I wrote. Read it again, please. Several times if you need to.



One way people have demonstrated this is when they have used the same resume with different names. Names that were identified with black culture on resumes resulted in a more negative view of the applicant than when that same resume was presented with one identified with white culture.




This same idea was demonstrated in blind orchestra auditions regarding male privilege. When musicians auditioned for positions in orchestras behind curtains, so that their genders were unknown, females gained more seats on an orchestra. When auditioning where gender was apparent, more females are judged as less talented musicians than males.


Okay, but that's not actual privilege. If anything, it's the exact OPPOSITE of privilege. To be truthful, most people aren't going to understand an argument that is supposedly the opposite of how it reads. And although it seems that you don't mean it in the *literal* sense, here's the (huge!) problem; it seems rather clear by now that a lot, maybe even most, of your fellow "white privilege" proponents *do* take it literally. Believe me, I've seen this problem unfold more times than I can possibly count them all.

Maybe it seems I'm being a little bit of a hard-ass to people sometimes and I do apologize for that. But I can assure you that I have perfectly reasonable and altruistic reasons for pointing out what I have.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
107. Norm
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 06:52 PM
Apr 2014

means, in the context of sociology, "the informal understandings that guide a society's behavior."

To say that white privilege doesn't exist because American society is racist is a circular argument.

eta - your claim that my examples are not example of white or male privilege is simply wrong. both examples indicate privilege granted made by assumptions of race or gender.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
108. You misread me again.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 07:38 PM
Apr 2014


To say that white privilege doesn't exist because American society is racist is a circular argument.


I never said or implied American society as a whole was racist(WTF?); and it actually isn't by and large. Although that doesn't mean that racism isn't still a problem, because it is.
For a comparison, many Muslims in the Middle East are not at all anti-Semitic. But anti-Semitism does remain a serious problem in a large number, if not most, of these nations. And likewise, many Israelis have no real hatred towards Palestinians. But anti-Palestinian bigotry & discrimination, including the systemic kind as well as the individual type, does still remain even today.

So obviously, it's more complex than just "X society is Y(racist/sexist/etc.), therefore, Z". As a student of history, I'd understood this on at least a basic level even when I subscribed to "white privilege" theory once upon a time. But now that I have moved on, I have been able to gain an an even significantly greater, (and much more nuanced, for that matter) understanding.



RainDog

(28,784 posts)
116. American society is racist
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:53 PM
Apr 2014

anyone who disputes this has little to no knowledge of past or current history, and maybe even a lack of understanding about the very term "racist society."

but please tell me how your study of history has indicated that America is not a racist society.

fwiw - to note an overarching political and social reality is not to say every single person within a society is racist, or that people do not try to address the racism that is part of the cultural atmosphere within a society in which someone lives, and which they breathe in, without thought, but simply b/c it is all around them, like the air...if the majority of history and law and the application of the law demonstrates racism that repeats itself with variations generation after generation - that's a racist society...and I don't say that as an accusation toward any person - just as an acknowledgement of culturally available facts that demonstrate bias against, in this case, African Americans in the United States.

France is a racist society, even though it was the first to agitate for the end of all slavery, and even though African Americans in the past - and present - often find French society less racist than American. If you talked to immigrants from Algeria, etc. you would know about this racism more than you would as a African-American visiting that nation.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
118. I have plenty of understanding, thank you.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 09:49 PM
Apr 2014
but please tell me how your study of history has indicated that America is not a racist society.


Modern America isn't a racist society by and large; that's actually pretty obvious just by looking around. By the same token, it is also true, however, that social disparities do remain a problem, and not just racism, but sexism and even basic prejudices(culture, economic status, etc.) as well.

and I don't say that as an accusation toward any person


I believe you, but TBH, it does seem clear that you have too much of a black-and-white view on things. And yes, standards do change. Standards have gotten higher over time. But in all honesty, the reality is far more complex than just whether or not a society is racist or not racist(besides, where does one draw the line, anyway?). You may have a few people who are racist, and some who are not; but you will also have many who could be persuaded one way or the other; this has always been true, at least to varying extents, for every society, West or East.

If there was any really solid example of a truly racist society overall(in which a majority of people actually profess real hatred and/or solid feelings of racial superiority & open approval of the smashing down of "others&quot , perhaps the most extreme example would probably be Nazi Germany, in which the majority of people actually did truly approve of Hitler's violent crackdown on Jewish denizens and others whom they thought "undesirable&quot which later led to the Holocaust, as we all know.). Croatia under the Ustashe would be a close second. And a less extreme, but still awful example would be that of South Africa(Australia before WWII might count as well, but that's kind of debatable), which very well could have gone down the Croatian route themselves at any point(it's quite fortunate that they didn't, honestly!).





RainDog

(28,784 posts)
119. where are your studies that indicate
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 09:56 PM
Apr 2014

modern American society is not racist by and large?

I have never seen a study that demonstrates this. However, to make the statement, I would assume you have evidence to back you up.

Otherwise, you're just making a statement with no evidence to support your claim.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
120. I don't need any studies, btw.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 10:12 PM
Apr 2014

Of course, if you have any studies of your own, I'd like to see them, so I may gain a better understanding of where your opinion is coming from, even if none of them are at all likely to disprove my points(pretty much every legitimate study out there would actually back me up, btw).

Because the truth is, my opinion is based on factual observations & real world experience. I don't claim to be omniscient or anything (I know I'm not!) but I do know that what I have said is factual overall; that much is undeniable.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
122. here ya go
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:05 PM
Apr 2014
ACLU Report: The War on Marijuana in Black and White
http://www.aclu.org/billions-dollars-wasted-racially-biased-arrests

STAGGERING RACIAL BIAS
Marijuana use is roughly equal among Blacks and whites, yet Blacks are 3.73 times as likely to be arrested for marijuana possession.


and more about it here:

http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2013/06/marijuana_and_race_aclu_finds.html

Blacks are nearly four times more likely to be arrested for marijuana possession than whites – even though usage rates are comparable, according to a report issued today by the American Civil Liberties Union.

Marijuana enforcement has unfairly targeted black people, said the report, entitled “The War on Marijuana in Black and White.”

The racial disparity in marijuana arrests has markedly increased in the last 10 years, the ACLU found. Although black people are 3.7 times more likely to be arrested for possession than white people, blacks are now 30 times more likely to to be arrested for the drug in the counties with the widest disparities, they found.


The private prison industry benefits from this racism - but doesn't create it - that is being done by LEOs - even AFTER reforms for stop and frisk in places like Chicago, for instance, as was noted here recently.

Higher Profits Explain Why There Are More People of Color in Private Prisons

http://billmoyers.com/2014/02/07/higher-profits-explain-why-there-are-more-people-of-color-in-private-prisons/


The law is applied in a racist manner and contributes to stereotypes and, worse, denies access to education for those who are TARGETED by stop-and-frisk and labeled, early, by such an arrest for such a nothing offense that contributes to the continuation of a cycle of racism in this nation. This needs to stop. Now.



Sentencing disparities from the crack era - that have just recently been corrected for the racial bias that created those laws in the 1980s. The Fair Sentencing Act - to address racism - https://www.aclu.org/fair-sentencing-act

How many white professors do you think get arrested for trying to open their front doors?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/20/henry-louis-gates-jr-arre_n_241407.html

The number of black men stopped for "driving while black" has no comparison among whites in this nation - it doesn't happen. You can find tons of examples of famous people who have dealt with this - including one excellent writer, Ta-Nehisi Coates, who has written about his own experiences, and those of others.

There is no comparison for "shopping while black" for white people, but numerous examples of the same, every day, for African-Americans.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/07/barneys-racist_n_4225710.html

In a 2007 Gallup survey, 47 percent of black people surveyed said they are not treated equally by retailers. More than one-quarter of those surveyed felt they were targeted because of their race while shopping in the last 30 days.

Racial profiling lawsuits against major retailers have made headlines across the country. In 2005, Macy's paid New York state a settlement of $600,000 after the attorney general found that the majority of people detained at a sampling of Macy's stores were black and Latino -- a disproportionately high number compared with the percentage of minorities shopping at the stores.

A few years earlier, store employees at a national retail chain admitted that they were instructed to follow black customers around the store and avoid giving them large shopping bags.

http://abcnews.go.com/WhatWouldYouDo/story?id=7131333


A scholarly look at that issue here: http://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/2646965?uid=2&uid=4&sid=21103885772487



In jobs -

http://www.techyville.com/2012/11/news/unemployed-black-woman-pretends-to-be-white-job-offers-suddenly-skyrocket/

http://jezebel.com/5822293/man-takes-fake-white-name-to-test-job-discrimination

This isn't limited to a few examples - http://www.nber.org/digest/sep03/w9873.html

In total, the authors responded to more than 1,300 employment ads in the sales, administrative support, clerical, and customer services job categories, sending out nearly 5,000 resumes. The ads covered a large spectrum of job quality, from cashier work at retail establishments and clerical work in a mailroom to office and sales management positions.

The results indicate large racial differences in callback rates to a phone line with a voice mailbox attached and a message recorded by someone of the appropriate race and gender. Job applicants with white names needed to send about 10 resumes to get one callback; those with African-American names needed to send around 15 resumes to get one callback. This would suggest either employer prejudice or employer perception that race signals lower productivity.

The 50 percent gap in callback rates is statistically very significant, Bertrand and Mullainathan note in Are Emily and Greg More Employable than Lakisha and Jamal? A Field Experiment on Labor Market Discrimination (NBER Working Paper No. 9873). It indicates that a white name yields as many more callbacks as an additional eight years of experience. Race, the authors add, also affects the reward to having a better resume. Whites with higher quality resumes received 30 percent more callbacks than whites with lower quality resumes. But the positive impact of a better resume for those with Africa-American names was much smaller.


http://craigeisele.wordpress.com/2012/02/23/subtle-racism-still-very-prevalent-in-society-today/

A study conducted by San Francisco State University Professor Alvin Alvarez identified everyday racism as “subtle, commonplace forms of discrimination, such as being ignored, ridiculed or treated differently.” Explains Alvarez, a counseling professor, “These are incidents that may seem innocent and small, but cumulatively they can have a powerful impact on an individual’s mental health.”

Alvarez's study is also mentioned here: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/04/100401085344.htm

Annie Barnes further illuminates the matter in her bookEveryday Racism: A Book for All Americans. She identifies such racism as a “virus” of sorts exhibited in the body language, speech and isolating attitude of racists, among other behaviors. Due to the covertness of such behaviors, victims of this form of racism may struggle to determine for certain if bigotry is at play.


In a study done by the Entman-Rojecki Index of Race and Media, 89% of Black women in movies are shown swearing and acting in offensive behavior while only 17% of White women are portrayed in this manner. From "Interracial Communication: Theory Into Practice, published in 2014.

Tuscaloosa, Alabama is going back to segregation- http://www.theatlantic.com/features/archive/2014/04/segregation-now/359813/

anyway, that's just a quick look to demonstrate that racism is currently an issue in American society. You have an opinion not informed by facts, iow.
 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
125. "that's just a quick look to demonstrate that racism is currently an issue in American society".....
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:40 PM
Apr 2014

Okay, and I never actually argued against that, btw. However, though, none of these links prove any *literal* "white privilege", however, nor do they prove that society as a whole is racist, even if they do prove, by the same token that social disparities do still exist.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
130. I am going to assume
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:44 PM
Apr 2014

you are doing a form of trolling, perhaps, and not that you lack the ability to understand the concepts you claim don't exist.

Maybe your problem is that you simply don't understand what you're talking about.

Anyone who reads this back-and-forth, however, who is not being intentionally obtuse will understand quite clearly that racial discrimination faced by one group and not another is the very definition of white privilege at its worst.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
134. "Trolling"? Not really, TBH.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:54 PM
Apr 2014

BTW, I'm not offended or anything, just so you know. It's just not factual, that's all.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
144. Your choice, I suppose.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 12:59 AM
Apr 2014

(BTW, since you went there, that study actually seems to apply quite well to your end of the argument. Because you've failed to provide any evidence of literal white privilege. Period.)

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
146. for old time's sake, Joe
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:19 AM
Apr 2014
White privilege is a set of advantages and/or immunities that white people benefit from on a daily basis beyond those common to all others. White privilege can exist without white people's conscious knowledge of its presence and it helps to maintain the racial hierarchy in this country.


https://www.mtholyoke.edu/org/wsar/intro.htm

examples here: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4837583
 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
150. And Dr. Avakian has every right to her viewpoint, as you and I do.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:22 AM
Apr 2014

But again, I'm more objective than some others. But again, look at the overall results; outside the "choir" it hasn't done well in terms of educating the general public. And we as progressives CAN do better. We have to if we want to win the fight for America's soul, as it were.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
155. It's a term that derives from academia
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:47 AM
Apr 2014

It wasn't initially meant to educate the general public - it was meant to provide a way for people to understand concepts by viewing them from a particular perspective...that racism is not simply in individual acts, but also in cultural constructs that perpetuate racism. If you are a white person, and racism doesn't directly impact you, you are often blind to the ways it is expressed - while those who experience this racism understand from experience.

The use of "privilege" as a verb is used within that same context. Sometimes people in academia use familiar words in somewhat unfamiliar ways to make people have to think about an issue. Sometimes they do it to indicate in-group/out-group - which is why I don't like jargon in general unless it applies to specific concepts unique to a field of study for the purpose of discussing something related to that field. But that's the way it's done, whether I like it or not.

It's jargon-y - which is why I don't generally use it, apart from speaking to the choir on DU who uses it quite often. But we're here with the understanding that we support the same goals, as expressed by the Democratic Party - including creating a more level playing field as part of that overall goal - and that applies to anyone of any gender, creed, color, or economic group.

The only people I have even seen who object to the term "white privilege" are people on DU - but the people I am friends with would have no problem accepting the term and understanding how it is practiced in the U.S., and most of them know the term - it's just not one that used - racism is more likely used because it's more to the point.

As far as privilege goes - in any society, those who have positions of privilege are less likely to understand the experience and/or environment of those who do not have it. This holds true for a variety of situations. Again, there are studies that demonstrate those with "privilege" are ignorant about the reality of the lives of those who aren't, often.

So we'll just chalk it up to that, and not to trolling.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
151. 23. But I'm kinda smart beyond my years.....
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:27 AM
Apr 2014

I don't mean to come across as a total know-it-all, though; TBH, my analysis is based on years of observations, studying of history, and even personal experience(you're talking to a former "white privilege" adherent, by the way). I don't claim to be perfect, and frankly, I'm really not. But I do try to be as objective as possible, and what my observations are telling me is that "white privilege" sadly hasn't done all that well as a teaching tool to describe very real socioeconomic inequities faced by minorities, for the general public at large. That isn't something I can just ignore, even if some others here do seem to be genuinely unaware of the problem.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
162. And more objective, and have more knowledge of this than the academics...
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 04:34 PM
Apr 2014

"But I'm kinda smart beyond my years..."

And more objective, and have more knowledge of this than the academics... you certainly tell us that, but I have little evidence to date to validate these statements, or to give your subjective premises lacking any sources or citations any more warrant than that of any other bit of bumper-sticker branding.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
24. Woman on the right didn't get any sentence yet. None whatsoever.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:17 PM
Apr 2014

And people collected over 100K for her.
So, what evidence do you have that one was treated harsher than the other?

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
32. One was arrested and lost custody of her children for GOING TO A JOB INTERVIEW
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:33 PM
Apr 2014

you seriously do not see the difference?

maybe you should read the links.

Really, get some onto on the backstory. You look really uninformed.


LisaL

(44,973 posts)
33. It doesn't matter where she went. Her children were left in the car unattended.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:34 PM
Apr 2014

There is no law that says you can leave your children in car if you need to go to a job interview.
Do you not understand that?

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
40. I do.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:48 PM
Apr 2014

Is there a law that says heehaw let's leave a kid on top of a car?

You really need to check your thought process.

You are defending the woman on the left and slamming the hell out of the woman on the right.

seems to me that you are making the op's point.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
45. What if the one who left the child on top of the car was driving to the job interview?
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:59 PM
Apr 2014

Would it be o'key then?
So maybe you should check your thought process.
And I am not defending any of them.

Nobel_Twaddle_III

(323 posts)
41. You do realize that this is deadly
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:48 PM
Apr 2014

• Child vehicular heat stroke deaths for 2012: 33
• Child vehicular heat stroke deaths for 2011 : 33
• Child vehicular heat stroke deaths for 2010: 49
• Child vehicular heat stroke deaths for 2009: 33

http://www.kidsandcars.org/heatstroke.html

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
58. Sure it's a pretty bad idea. But compared to leaving a baby seat on the *roof of your car* while
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:08 AM
Apr 2014

driving down a highway at (most likely) considerable speed? And having the baby seat fall off and sit there in the middle of the road where anyone could hit it and kill the kid instantly?

How are those in the same ballpark, even?

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
60. If she had left the infant on the roof of the car on purpose you might have had a good
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:09 AM
Apr 2014

argument. As it wasn't on purpose, you got none.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
62. Do you really think she would've done that if she hadn't been out of her mind on God knows
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:13 AM
Apr 2014

what substance(s)? I'm not anti-drug as a general rule, but some people really can't handle themselves responsibly.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
64. Do you know that there was already CPS involvement with Shanesha Taylor prior to her leaving the
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:14 AM
Apr 2014

kids in a car?

"According to police, Child Protective Services already had an open case involving Taylor's youngest son..."

http://www.azcentral.com/story/laurie-roberts/2014/04/11/shanesha-taylor-arizona-child-abuse/7565687/

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
66. I'm not saying she's a great mother. I honestly have no idea.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:17 AM
Apr 2014

But CPS visits do tend to skew toward certain economic and racial groups, even if many such visits are indeed justified.

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
81. So that makes it alrighty then!
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:30 AM
Apr 2014

She didn't do it on purpose.

She was high on drugs and did not do it on purpose! Therefore you are indeed giving her a pass! OMFG!

My head hurts here at your convoluted logic!

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
82. What makes it alrighty?
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:33 AM
Apr 2014

And don't make false statements about what I said. I haven't said it's o'key or that she needs a pass.
If it were up to me she'd be going to prison.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
163. It begs the question then, what were the local temperature conditions on that day
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 04:36 PM
Apr 2014

It begs the question then, what were the local temperature conditions on that day, at that specific time and in that area?

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
67. I don't think anyone's arguing that leaving the kids in the car was fine and dandy
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:19 AM
Apr 2014

it certainly wasn't, although there's a whole discussion there about the need for universal child care that needs to be had- again.


 

Vashta Nerada

(3,922 posts)
72. Shhhhhh!
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:40 AM
Apr 2014

We're supposed to be outraged over these sensationalistic stories!

Or something.



People leave dogs in hot cars and people here are reporting stories on how stupid/inconsiderate the dog owner was. But leaving kids in a car on a hot day? OMG, that's like, okay, or something.

Nobel_Twaddle_III

(323 posts)
56. I see 2 cases of child endangerment
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:07 AM
Apr 2014

This is not about going to an interview. This is about leaving children in a car. How many hours can you sit in a car in Scottsdale.

http://www.kidsandcars.org/heatstroke.html

When case to goes to trial, and she does not get 18 years minus the age of the youngest child probation.
Then we can discus why that is.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
109. But. but .but
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 07:54 PM
Apr 2014

How do we know it is white privilege? How do we know something else was not going on BEFORE these women were charged that altered the situation in the way we are looking at it? All I am saying is how do we know, how do we know????? Why are you so quick to rush to judgement on white privilege? Sound familiar? It is your freaking argument for the bully on the bus situation with the young black girl and the young white boy.....In that case we had evidence in the form of video to prove what we were seeing. In this case we have no evidence it is white privilege, and YET you WONT ACCEPT ANYTHING other than white privilege. How ironic that when the races are reversed, you are ready to believe without a doubt.............How freaking pathetic and obvious on your part.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
117. Well, something did happen before these women were charged ...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 09:20 PM
Apr 2014

400 years of US brand white supremacy.

In this case we have no evidence it is white privilege, and YET you WONT ACCEPT ANYTHING other than white privilege.


Uh, yeah I do ... 400 years of US Brand white supremacy.

But relax AnalystInParadise EmotionDenial ... you are way to angry about racial issues. Maybe you should analyze that?
 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
121. Hahahahahahahaha
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 10:32 PM
Apr 2014

hahahahahaha

I am not angry at all, I am consistent, you seem to be the one that can't see reality for what it is. But like I always say, keep trying to sway people with your false reality bullshit, the weak and gullible will believe you.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
123. And the defensive and insincere will use profanity ...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:35 PM
Apr 2014

to make their non-angry, but consistent non-points.

It is clear that my non-privileged reality, as a Black man in this racist nation, is different from your privileged existence.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
131. Yes, you are ...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:47 PM
Apr 2014

whatever race you claim to be ... know, non-white agents of white supremacy, in fact, practice the same racism as their white benefactors.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
133. Hahaahahahahahahaha
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:52 PM
Apr 2014

Oh man....you are hilarious. So even though I am not white, you are classifying me as white. Keep it up. Keep it up.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
136. That's not what I said ...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:59 PM
Apr 2014

I classify your defense of white supremacy as being an agent of white supremacy, regardless of what race you claim to be on this anonymous message board.

BTW, what do you analyze? Please tell me it's numbers; not people or facts.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
141. I have no reason to believe you
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 12:44 AM
Apr 2014

are in fact strong or a black man then? Is that what you are saying? Because I generally believe people when they tell me something about themselves.

It is ironic though that for the crime of not agreeing with you, I must not be authentically the race or ethnicity I claim to be. That's really rich coming from you.

As for what I do, I am a Senior All Source Intelligence Analyst and SME (Subject Matter Expert) for the U.S. Army concerning Russian military doctrine and Order of Battle. I am retired military and now work for the private sector in the Defense Contracting business, my particular client at this time is the 1st AD G-2 at Fort Bliss, Texas. Before that I was the Senior Analyst for North Korean military doctrine and Order of Battle at Fort Shafter, HI.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
165. Might be an easy mistake. I mistook you for sincere last week...
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 04:39 PM
Apr 2014

"Are you mistaking me for white?"

Might be an easy mistake. I mistook you for sincere last week-- which now appears to be a pretty inaccurate perception on my part.

How very stereo-typical of me too...

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
17. "Normally you would agree?"
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:43 PM
Apr 2014

So what is abnormal about these two cases that you cannot agree?

You are "afraid" it's not about white privileged?

I am afraid that you are very wrong in your assumption.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
19. Normally I agree with you, is what I meant. But for reasons I've outlined, this is an exception.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 10:45 PM
Apr 2014

Hope that clears things up.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
23. This answer should be the end all to every response in this thread.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:16 PM
Apr 2014

(although I suspect that there will be people who will make it all about the judge)

White Privilege is is right here in this very OP.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
104. And it would be if...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 05:39 PM
Apr 2014

there was actually a verdict and sentencing in the case of the woman who left her kids in the car.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
110. Hmmmm
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 07:58 PM
Apr 2014

same county, same court, different judge, different crime.........How weird with a different judge and a different crime there is a different charge....That is like Twilight Zone Bizarro Dude. I mean what other proof of racism do you need? Different crime, different charge....weird......Like that has not ever happened....how odd......man...weird......Is the sarcasm evident yet? I hope so.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
166. Almost as weird as the atypical racial disparity in the prison population.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 04:41 PM
Apr 2014

"How weird with a different judge and a different crime there is a different charge..."

Almost as weird as the atypical racial disparity in the prison population. Twilight Zone weird, huh?

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
22. Did somebody collected over 100 K for Catalina?
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:13 PM
Apr 2014

I am just curious as to why you claim one was treated harsher than the other, considering all the public sympathy and money collection was for Shanesha Taylor that women accused of child abuse/neglect normally don't get.
Furthermore we don't yet know what Shanesha Taylor's sentence is going to be, and if she will get any prison time.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
25. this response makes little sense wrt to the OP.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:18 PM
Apr 2014

should someone collect money to make it all equal?

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
26. OP makes claim one woman is treated harsher than the other.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:19 PM
Apr 2014

Yet there is no evidence to support that claim.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
29. Actually, there is a LOT to support the claim.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:27 PM
Apr 2014

it's all right there in the OP.

It's pretty clear cut from reading the OP and the link provided. It's white privilege.

It's about acknowledging it exists. I think this is a pretty powerful example. I choose to not look at things with a myopic view. the big picture is was matters here.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
31. Name one.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:31 PM
Apr 2014

Both of the women were arrested and charged. There is no sentence yet for Shanesha Taylor. Her case hasn't gone to trial. Public collected a large amount of money for her (and none for Catalina, I presume).
Yet the claim is that Shanesha was the only treated more harshly? So, what is the evidence of that?

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
36. I'm not here to try the case.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:40 PM
Apr 2014

you appear to be unable to understand wheat the OP is saying.

I understood it. You seem to want to three a needle to disprove the OP's point. It's almost as if you want to deny the idea of White Privilege. You don't deny that, I hope.

I ask that you at LEAST give some credence to aha the OP is getting at.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
38. Oh I understand what she is saying.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:43 PM
Apr 2014

Last edited Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:51 AM - Edit history (2)

But what she is saying is not supported by any evidence. Furthermore, given the amount of public sympathy Shanesha Taylor has been given, including a large amount of money collected for her, but not for Catalina, the claim makes no sense whatsoever to me.

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
79. So
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:20 AM
Apr 2014

You are starting a fund for Catalina now LisaL?

You believe that she was treated unfairly because no one raise funds for a woman that left her two month old child on the top of her car? She was stoned out of her mind and drove 12 effing miles before she realized her baby was not in the car.The CHILD FLEW OFF THE TOP OF THE CAR! The child landed on the highway, for the grace of God that child lived.

And yes I am yelling here! WTF are you defending!? Your logic is warped.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
80. Why don't you take a look at your own logic first?
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:30 AM
Apr 2014

You are defending someone who left her kids in a car unattended.
In AZ.
You do realize that kids left in hot cars die every year, or don't you?
You are also claiming disparity in two cases even though there has been no sentencing or trial in Taylor's case.
Why is that?

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
83. No!
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:42 AM
Apr 2014

You take a keen look at your logic first!

Pointing fingers....you defend a woman high as a kite leaving her child on top of her car.

You do realize that children die when left on top of a car when their mother drives down the highway for 12 fricking miles not realizing they had not strapped said child safely into the back seat. The baby flew off the top of that car!

She got parole. Parole?

White effing privilege! Yes indeed.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
84. Excuse me?
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:44 AM
Apr 2014

I don't defend a woman who left her child on top of her car.
Of course it's dangerous to leave children on tops of cars.
It's also dangerous to leave children unattended inside cars.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
167. Well, rationalizing a thing to force a false equivalence, but certainly not defending it.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 04:43 PM
Apr 2014

Well, rationalizing a thing to force a false equivalence, but certainly not defending it.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
51. That's true.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:03 AM
Apr 2014

Although, TBH, I suspect a lot of that sympathy probably came because because Mrs. Taylor was in a really bad situation, and was having a lot of trouble with unemployment, etc.; I do acknowledge she really dropped the ball on that. But I understand why there's more sympathy for her than Mrs. Clousen.

Nobel_Twaddle_III

(323 posts)
27. Not the same.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:20 PM
Apr 2014

Perhaps you would like to revisit this after the second case goes to court.
Case 2 has yet to go to trial.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
37. So they were both arrested and charged with felonies.
Wed Apr 16, 2014, 11:41 PM
Apr 2014

The woman on the left was sentenced to 16 years probation; the woman on the right has not yet been convicted of anything, let alone sentenced.

Sorry, not seeing the "privilege" here.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
50. But what the woman on the left did was far worse. So similar treatment *isn't* fair treatment
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:03 AM
Apr 2014

in this particular case.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
61. One woman was on drugs and utterly careless, and very nearly got her child killed.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:11 AM
Apr 2014

The other was poor and desperate and had no one to watch her kids, so what was she supposed to do? Leaving her kids in the car was a bad idea, of course - no one disputes that - but she was faced with a nearly impossible situation.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
63. Leaving the children in a car unattended in AZ could lead to them ending up dead.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:13 AM
Apr 2014

No matter for what reason.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
65. I don't dispute that. But even so, I doubt the risk of death is comparable to the other situation.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:16 AM
Apr 2014

Not to mention this woman wasn't on drugs and was actually trying to do something with her life.

Nobel_Twaddle_III

(323 posts)
68. so if she left them in an oven, you would be good with that then ?
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:20 AM
Apr 2014

because she decided to do that, and it was an interview after all.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
87. Of course leaving them in the car is a bad idea - in the middle of summer it could easily have been
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 02:09 AM
Apr 2014

fatal, but this was March. The oven comparison is a little silly, honestly.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
88. It can get very hot inside the car even if it's not very hot outside.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 02:11 AM
Apr 2014

From what has been reported, temperature inside the car when children were found was at 100 degrees.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
89. Look, she made a big mistake and she's paid for it with an arrest and public humiliation.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 02:16 AM
Apr 2014

100 degrees is uncomfortable, at the least, but not likely to kill even a small child in a short period of time.

Sorry, I still don't think what she did was as egregious as the other woman. We'll have to agree to disagree.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
90. She also got 100 k in donations.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 02:30 AM
Apr 2014

100 degrees might not be likely to kill a small child, but that temperature inside the car was when police showed up to save the children. So if they weren't discovered how high could the temperature have gotten by the time she came back from her interview?

"Taylor was arrested after returning to the car, which was about 45 minutes after police were called."

http://www.firstcoastnews.com/story/news/crime/2014/03/22/kids-hot-car-job-interview/6730039/

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
124. Wait what?
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:39 PM
Apr 2014

The one woman is evil incarnate because she was stoned and forgot her child was on the roof but the other who intentionally left them to bake just made a mistake?
















nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
128. She's not evil incarnate. But what she did was still worse in my book, in part because it wasn't
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 11:43 PM
Apr 2014

born of sheer desperation.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
57. Well.... one woman made a deliberate, conscious decision to leave her kids in a hot car.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:08 AM
Apr 2014

The other woman forgot that the car seat was on top of the car.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
171. That does kinda make a difference, TBH.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 05:26 PM
Apr 2014

At least namely that the other woman actually genuinely forgot that the baby seat was on top of the car.....

HipChick

(25,485 posts)
48. Racism and White Privilege are factors in today's society...unjust treatement
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:01 AM
Apr 2014

is one reason, for high number of incarcerated blacks...next question

Cha

(297,213 posts)
69. It's sickening the disparity in sentencing if you're are White and then
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:28 AM
Apr 2014

again if you're Black.

The poor homeless Mom who was going to a job interview and had no one to watch her kids.. and she ends up losing them!

As for the Mom who left her baby on the roof because she was "high".. she was damn lucky the poor thing wasn't killed!

A petition calling for leniency for Shanesha Taylor ..

https://www.change.org/petitions/bill-montgomery-drop-the-child-abuse-charges-against-shanesha-taylor#share

Fundraiser for Shanesha..
http://www.youcaring.com/help-a-neighbor/shanesha-taylor-fundraiser/153519

Thanks she for shining some light on this~





LisaL

(44,973 posts)
70. What disparity in sentencing?
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:34 AM
Apr 2014

There was no sentencing or trial yet in the Taylor's case.
Both of these women are lucky their children are not dead.
And maybe, just maybe you should wait until there is sentencing to argue there is a disparity.

Nobel_Twaddle_III

(323 posts)
76. I do not believe some of our DU friends posting here, realize how deadly this is.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 12:57 AM
Apr 2014

That is the only thing that explains, some of the post.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
101. Agreed
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 05:25 PM
Apr 2014

As someone who lives in Vegas but has lived elsewhere, I think it is very easy for people in northern states to overlook the danger posed by leaving your kids in the car.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
102. There hasn't been a sentence yet
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 05:33 PM
Apr 2014

And I don't think you fully understand the danger of leaving children in the car in the desert. Both of these actions were potentially deadly.

As someone who lives in the desert what Shanesha did was horrific. The baby on the roof was not intentional just stupidity or carelessness. What Shanesha did was intentional. Both were potentially deadly I would argue what Shanesha did should carry a harsher sentence because it was willful endangerment.

Not that I think there isn't disparity in sentencing but this woman is not a good example for it.

 

oneofthe99

(712 posts)
77. They both messed up pretty bad , I don't think race has anything to do with this case
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 01:04 AM
Apr 2014

Sometimes it's just luck of the draw on which judge you get.



You have judges that for some bizarre reason will go light on certain cases that involve the children and mother.

Then you have other judges that will take it personal in their courtroom and sentence a max penalty
on anything involving children.

Shanesha Taylor drew the short straw on this when her case was picked for this judge

 

oneofthe99

(712 posts)
91. I'm sorry I misunderstood , so the first one do you know if
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 03:17 AM
Apr 2014

she was also charged with a felony and it was plead down?

I'm thinking no way Shanesha is going to convicted on a felony .
It will be plead down to probation with time served.

Unless she gets a real asshole judge and DA

Nobel_Twaddle_III

(323 posts)
111. did you notice the length of the probation ?
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 07:59 PM
Apr 2014

lasts until the child is 18.

if case # 2 does not get time served, plus 18 years probation (minus age of the youngest child in the house), Then we can talk about what is fare.

 

oneofthe99

(712 posts)
112. Put me on the jury ..if see doesn't take a plea
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:08 PM
Apr 2014

If I had the power to let her go and have her children returned , it would be done in a New York minute.

I think what she did was very irresponsible but I also understand she was desperate and living in her car.

 

oneofthe99

(712 posts)
115. I wish I did because she would have her children back
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:34 PM
Apr 2014

You can support stripping her of her children , I do not

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
143. Her children are with family members.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 12:59 AM
Apr 2014

She does have family members that CPS judged responsible enough to take care of these children.
Why didn't any of them watch her children when she had her interview?

 

oneofthe99

(712 posts)
145. I don't know but I'm trying not to judge this woman
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:17 AM
Apr 2014

that was homeless and living out of her car with her small children.

I have never been without a job in my adult life, never mind throwing homelessness into the mix
and having two children to boot.

I can't imagine what this poor mother was going through or how she felt .
She was so desperate to get this job she had a lapse of good judgment .

Yes we need to think of the children first but we also need to show compassion and empathy on what this women was enduring.

Have you ever been homeless with no job living out of a car with two small children?

My heart is breaking just thinking about her .

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
152. Is she actually homeless and unemployed?
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:32 AM
Apr 2014

Not exactly, according to the DA.

"We've learned since that she actually had part-time employment, so she wasn't unemployed," he said. "She actually had a residence listed, so she wasn't homeless."

http://ktar.com/22/1723981/Defense-attorney-Shanesha-Taylor-made-a-mistake

 

oneofthe99

(712 posts)
156. The residence could have been her families or an ex , it doesn't mean she was living there.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 01:48 AM
Apr 2014

Part time job ?

What was that paying or how many hours a week , 5 hours , 10 hours?

So to say she wasn't homeless just because a court record has a residence listed is not accurate

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
157. I have no clue how many hours per week her part time job is.
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 02:02 AM
Apr 2014

Where did she keep her children during these hours?

 

oneofthe99

(712 posts)
158. You would have to know what type of job
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 02:27 AM
Apr 2014

I know a single mother that works a part time job at a laundry matt. She cleans up and does other various things there.


When she can't find someone to watch her two year old she takes her daughter with her .
It's not that big a deal because she's only there 3 or 4 hours but still it happens.

Sometimes life throws you a curve ball and it just sucks. I have been blessed.
I had good parents that helped me , a good job when I was older , a home in the country I bought . I worked hard for it but I never forget that for some they were thrown a curve ball in life at a very young age.

Parents on drugs , father in jail , mother an alcoholic etc.. There's a sad story to almost every homeless person you find.

I don't know her life story but I'm willing to bet it's not like mine or yours



 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
96. Apparently, it's not damning enough ...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:19 AM
Apr 2014

there can be no white privilege until every white person is rich and completely outside of the law.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
103. There hasnt been any sentence imposed. Nor has the black woman been found guilty of anything yet.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 05:37 PM
Apr 2014

How can you claim disparity? Cause what she did could have been every bit as deadly for her children as what the "white" woman did.

I could make a pretty good case that the white woman was just stupid and negligent. However the "black" woman willfully put her children in danger.

Captain Stern

(2,201 posts)
97. I don't see how any conclusion about white privilege can be reached here...
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 08:37 AM
Apr 2014

...until the second case is actually concluded.

What a person is charged with is not usually what they end up being convicted of.

The white one was initially charged with two felonies (child abuse and aggravated dui), while the black one was also charged with two felonies (2 charges of child abuse).

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
169. Exactly!
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 05:21 PM
Apr 2014

TBH, I don't doubt that real disparities do still exist in American society; pretty much anyone can see that. But "privilege"? C'mon, man, we should have gotten past that by now.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
100. Wait till the sentencing then you can compare.
Thu Apr 17, 2014, 04:59 PM
Apr 2014

One has been sentenced and the other has only been charged. I can guarantee the other will get the same if not better deal than the woman was already sentenced. Prosecution will always hit you with the highest possible charge because it gives them more room when negotiating a plea bargain.

 

maced666

(771 posts)
138. But aren't the black children here receiving better protection than the white child?
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 12:30 AM
Apr 2014

If the above stories are 100% accurate, the money would be on the white child's mother endangering the white child again - don't see Shanesha Taylor making this same 'mistake' again. Though I do wonder - where was the father of these two children -

The baby of the white mother is also the child of an Hispanic father (her BF) - http://www.kpho.com/story/18683504/pd-mom-arrested-after-she-drives-off-with-baby-on-car-roof
You can see his DUI at link, an obvious winner she picked - (she's batting 1000 on life right?!)
So, I guess this is maybe half-white privilege(?)

Or MAYBE this is double-white privilege since she got off easy and endangered a half-Hispanic baby?

I swear you need a white-privilege-correct manual just to keep up with all this!


LisaL

(44,973 posts)
142. How do you know that Shanesha Taylor wouldn't make more "mistakes?"
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 12:56 AM
Apr 2014

Do you know there already was CPS involvement with her, prior to her leaving her children in the car?

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
170. "I swear you need a white-privilege-correct manual just to keep up with all this!"
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 05:25 PM
Apr 2014

Exactly, and it's getting tiring. We have better things to do than to watch people special snowflake about who is the most "white privilege" Tumblr compliant, or get into pissing contests about who is the "least privileged", etc.

JustAnotherGen

(31,823 posts)
159. Catalina
Fri Apr 18, 2014, 06:08 AM
Apr 2014

Was charged with DUI and child abuse and got a 16 year probation sentence? They didn't find any drugs or drug paraphernalia in the vehicle? She was smoking weed when she "forgot" get child was on the roof of her car - did she smoke it all?

Another angle on this . . . And DUers really want everyone walking around with a joint in their hand? *raised eyebrow*

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