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montanacowboy

(6,085 posts)
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 03:34 PM Apr 2014

RIP "ARROW" 2006-2014

I lost my Aussie boy last week. It has taken me a week to post about it. Arrow was a black tri Australian Shepherd beautiful boy. He was never sick a day in his life. He was gone in a day. This is a terrible shock with a young dog that never presented any symptoms until the last days. He began with not being able to urinate. I took him into the Vet and they did xrays and found a large tumor on his spleen. Surgery was out of the question because of the size of the tumor and the vet said most likely they would let him expire on the operating table. They said he could go at anytime. I brought him home thinking there must be something terribly wrong with that diagnosis, it could not be possible.

The next day he collapsed, his hind legs losing all viability. He was bleeding out into his stomach as the tumor had ruptured. His gums were white. I rushed him in and we put him down. Such a young beautiful dog. I still cannot believe he is gone. His litter mate is suffering and looking for him and it's painful watching him go through it. Since conception they had never been separated one day in their lives.

I now learn that cancer is the #1 killer of dogs and cats. Never in all the years I have had dogs have I had any experience with cancer. We will forever mourn and miss his little cocky attitude and proud prancing around. My heart is broken.

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RIP "ARROW" 2006-2014 (Original Post) montanacowboy Apr 2014 OP
Hang in there cowboy... Blue Owl Apr 2014 #1
so sorry Beaverhausen Apr 2014 #2
{{montanacowboy}}} leftynyc Apr 2014 #3
Sorry for your loss superpatriotman Apr 2014 #4
No, the Vet didn't mention diet montanacowboy Apr 2014 #7
I am sorry....yes spleen C is the worst and I have lost glinda May 2014 #75
Condolences. The four-leggeds are very tough losses indeed... villager Apr 2014 #5
Condolences on your loss. gademocrat7 Apr 2014 #6
I'm so sorry you lost your companion. MineralMan Apr 2014 #8
What you and your beloved dog must have gone through! CTyankee Apr 2014 #9
Oh, I am so sorry... Tikki Apr 2014 #10
I feel your pain ... GeorgeGist Apr 2014 #11
I'm so sorry, montanacowboy octoberlib Apr 2014 #12
My Ebony had a tumor in her spleen too. ebbie15644 Apr 2014 #13
so sorry montanacowboy Skittles Apr 2014 #14
I'm so sorry for your loss RockaFowler Apr 2014 #15
I'm so sorry for your alsame Apr 2014 #16
my heart breaks with you... BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2014 #17
I'm sorry for your loss. TeamPooka Apr 2014 #18
I'm so very, very sorry Ishoutandscream2 Apr 2014 #19
So very sorry Mz Pip Apr 2014 #20
I'm so sorry to hear this TuxedoKat Apr 2014 #21
Oh, no. Lizzie Poppet Apr 2014 #22
So very sorry for your loss. Granny M Apr 2014 #23
Our heartfelt condolences indepat Apr 2014 #24
I'm so sorry passiveporcupine Apr 2014 #25
I'm so sorry - TBF Apr 2014 #26
So sorry, montana. Mnemosyne Apr 2014 #27
TOO BAD coljam Apr 2014 #28
We lost our 2 Goldens in January, 18 days apart. Jackpine Radical Apr 2014 #29
"Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." johnnyreb Apr 2014 #30
I am so sorry shenmue Apr 2014 #31
So sad. You didn't have enough time No Vested Interest Apr 2014 #32
best wishes and peace, my friend.... mike_c Apr 2014 #33
I'm so sorry KT2000 Apr 2014 #34
Hugs nadinbrzezinski Apr 2014 #35
RIP sweet little Arrow joeybee12 Apr 2014 #36
In our house they are not pets Omaha Steve Apr 2014 #37
Eight years of love together, that's like 45 years in dog years. Arrow was FailureToCommunicate Apr 2014 #38
I am so sorry for your loss. it hurts alot littlewolf Apr 2014 #39
So sorry...i've lost some great dogs and cats to cancer... dorkzilla Apr 2014 #40
I'm so sorry for your loss. May all the good memories you have help ease the sadness. livetohike Apr 2014 #41
yeah I had a cat that died of throat cancer heaven05 Apr 2014 #42
My heart goes out to you. Stonepounder Apr 2014 #43
I'm sorry for your loss BanzaiBonnie Apr 2014 #44
<hugs> so very sorry to hear this.... peacebird Apr 2014 #45
I'm so sorry StarryNite Apr 2014 #46
I'm so sorry... Holly_Hobby Apr 2014 #47
I've so sorry for your loss warrior1 Apr 2014 #48
I'm very sorry to hear that. neverforget Apr 2014 #49
I am so sorry for your loss Liberalynn Apr 2014 #50
So sorry for your loss mcar Apr 2014 #51
Cowboy, chopper050 Apr 2014 #52
May his memory be a blessing. meti57b Apr 2014 #53
My condolences. Our pups Ilsa Apr 2014 #54
What sad news! classof56 Apr 2014 #55
Losing your friend this way really hurts and I'm so sorry. Loki Apr 2014 #56
DAMN. I'm so sorry to hear this, montanacowboy. calimary Apr 2014 #57
I'm so sorry! Solly Mack Apr 2014 #58
My sincere condolences, MC... Cooley Hurd Apr 2014 #59
Very sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner Apr 2014 #60
:'( Duppers Apr 2014 #61
I'm so sorry for what you & Arrow have been through Triana Apr 2014 #62
I'm so sorry to hear this, montanacowboy... MrMickeysMom Apr 2014 #63
So very sorry, Montanacowboy Oilwellian Apr 2014 #64
Been there. I am so sorry for your loss. Ken Burch Apr 2014 #65
godspeed Arrow... magical thyme Apr 2014 #66
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved Arrow... virgdem Apr 2014 #67
so very, very sorry for your loss--utterly heartbreaking. niyad Apr 2014 #68
RIP Arrow onecaliberal Apr 2014 #69
Same way our Chessie went Lifelong Protester Apr 2014 #70
So very sorry for the loss of your very good friend Esse Quam Videri Apr 2014 #71
I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Arrow. silvershadow Apr 2014 #72
I'm so sorry. OnyxCollie May 2014 #73
Sorry to hear that.... penultimate May 2014 #74
Hemangiosarcoma Mona May 2014 #76
Very sorry - way too early. I feel your pain. My baby, Ruby, died of cancer at age 9 kysrsoze May 2014 #77
... defacto7 May 2014 #78
montanacowboy Iwillnevergiveup May 2014 #79
Horrible. cilla4progress May 2014 #80
Sorry to hear that nikto May 2014 #81
Hang in There jalan48 May 2014 #82
jalan welcome to DU. My rescued, toothless American Eskimo, saidsimplesimon May 2014 #85
Sorry for the loss. Check out Rainbow Bridge benld74 May 2014 #83
May Peace be with you and Arrow's litter mate. nt xchrom May 2014 #84
Oh, montanacowboy, my heart aches for your loss. The same thing happened to my Lindy, she never DesertDiamond May 2014 #86
I am so sorry. myrna minx May 2014 #87
So very, very sorry trocar May 2014 #88
Aw... I'm so sorry for your loss. cui bono May 2014 #89
I am sorry for your loss. cate94 May 2014 #90

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
2. so sorry
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 03:39 PM
Apr 2014
Losing them that young really sucks. Remember that it's an instinct for them to hide the fact that they are sick.
 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
3. {{montanacowboy}}}
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 03:42 PM
Apr 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost one of my beloved cats to bone cancer 8 years ago and my sister lost her Golden Retriever to cancer last year. It's the hardest part of being a pet owner but they depend on us to know when it's time. I lasted less than a week before I got two more cats (they're brothers so your talking about littermates really touched my heart) - when you're ready to love again, you'll know.

montanacowboy

(6,085 posts)
7. No, the Vet didn't mention diet
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 03:48 PM
Apr 2014

I do know now from research that they call cancer of the spleen the Silent Killer as there are usually no symptoms until it's too late.I fed him the best there was, Blue Wilderness so don't know how much better you can get. No history of this within the litter or the breeder.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
75. I am sorry....yes spleen C is the worst and I have lost
Thu May 1, 2014, 12:49 AM
May 2014

three dogs and one cat to it in the last five years. All due to poison accumulation in their pet foods during the Menu Foods Pet Food Poisonings. Even though I changed diets it was too late. I now have another dog who is starting down that path.
I was able to give my last one, a cattle dog, a good death and she lived to be 15 by making my own food for her. I now give half raw to the ones I have left. It is Sojos and all I do is add water.
C is killing our animals. Blue Wilderness is fair but there are better. Nature's Logic is very good. Sojos is great and is used for C dogs by some particularly the beef one.
I hope your other pup hangs in there. Wishing you strength and love and hugs.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
5. Condolences. The four-leggeds are very tough losses indeed...
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 03:46 PM
Apr 2014

Hope you and litter mate will emerge from active mourning for more prancing...

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
9. What you and your beloved dog must have gone through!
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 03:55 PM
Apr 2014

It must have been terribly shocking and you must be grieving terribly!

I know it cannot be any solace to you at this awful moment but, in a less traumatic way, I went through the putting down of a beloved pet. However, she was old and given out her love and affection over many treasured years. I remember feeling how much I could not bear not having her loving presence in my life.

Sometimes grief over the loss of a pet seems insurmountable. I have seen a strong, grown man crumple in tears after putting down a little cat. These are some of our dearest friends in life and now they are gone.

Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking experience. Be well.

ebbie15644

(1,214 posts)
13. My Ebony had a tumor in her spleen too.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:08 PM
Apr 2014

We noticed her going off on her own, which was unlike her, and sleeping. I called the vet and they did an x-ray and told us about the tumor. We were to do a biopsy the next day and before they did it she started to have seizures. They told us that the cancer had likely spread to her brain. We rushed over and held her as she crossed over rainbow bridge. She was the best dog ever, it's been over 2 years since she died. We adopted 2 more border collies from a rescue but I still think of her daily. My thoughts are with you and I know my baby will keep yours company until we are with them again.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
14. so sorry montanacowboy
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:09 PM
Apr 2014
I know how much it hurts

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you...
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

by Isla Paschal Richardson

alsame

(7,784 posts)
16. I'm so sorry for your
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:11 PM
Apr 2014

terrible loss. Along with the grief, you have shock to deal with. I'm sending you hugs with thoughts of comfort and healing

RIP over the bridge, Arrow. You were a very good boy!

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
17. my heart breaks with you...
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:13 PM
Apr 2014
I had a pomeranian before and she died suddenly at 11 years, due to an accident. Devastating. After howling in pain for months, I got another pommy. Was a little hard to bond at first, but it was a good thing.....and then I did fall in love again.


grief is so hard...

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
21. I'm so sorry to hear this
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:36 PM
Apr 2014

about your beloved dog Arrow. I lost my beloved cat Queequeg last month (18.5 years) and will mourn him forever too. Perhaps starting his litter mate on pet antioxidant would prevent or stave off cancer if this breed is prone to that. (((HUGS)))

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
22. Oh, no.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:37 PM
Apr 2014

My condolences for your loss. I've two very close friends (married couple) who have Aussies, and they're just such delightful dogs. I'm hoping you can soon be able to focus on the wonderful memories of Arrow. Hang in there!

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
23. So very sorry for your loss.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:51 PM
Apr 2014

It's shocking when it happens so quickly to a young animal. I hope that you will find some comfort in the good memories of Arrow. Peace to you and yours.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
25. I'm so sorry
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:54 PM
Apr 2014

I lost my sweet chocolate lab to a ruptured tumor of the spleen. She too went quickly (one day and I had to put her down). At least she was older (about ten) when it happened. We had a good life together. It just about killed me to lose her, and it would have been so tough if she had died young from this. She was the best dog in the world and I still miss her.

Arrow will always have a special place in your heart, and I hope you find solace soon. If you are ready to do it, I'd love to see a photo of your sweet boy.

I've lost three dogs to cancer, and at least two cats. I can't help but wonder if it's the crappy food that is made for animals. I really don't trust processed dog and cat food.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
29. We lost our 2 Goldens in January, 18 days apart.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:59 PM
Apr 2014

One to a gigantic tumor, and the other to a previously undiagnosed heart condition. Both had been active & seemingly healthy until the end.

It hurts; believe me, I know how it hurts.

My deepest sympathy on the loss of part of your family.

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
31. I am so sorry
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 04:59 PM
Apr 2014

I lost my dear spaniel mix Keisha to the dreaded C thing last year.

Rest in peace, Arrow.

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
32. So sad. You didn't have enough time
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:00 PM
Apr 2014

to prepare emotionally, though losing a beloved pet or someone is hard, no matter the circumstances.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,014 posts)
38. Eight years of love together, that's like 45 years in dog years. Arrow was
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:14 PM
Apr 2014

lucky to be with you.

So sorry he is gone too soon.

littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
39. I am so sorry for your loss. it hurts alot
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:21 PM
Apr 2014

In July I lost my shelly girl, and it is just now I am starting to
think about getting another dog.
I wish you peace.

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
40. So sorry...i've lost some great dogs and cats to cancer...
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:23 PM
Apr 2014

The oldest was my childhood cat Emily, who I got at 10 and contracted leukemia and died when I was 28. I lost my dog Broccoli last year of cancer too. Right now my very sweet 2 year old pit is "hugging" me...and i can't help but feel all your sorrow. They leave an awfully big hole in your heart, and you won't, nor should you, ever forget poor little Arrow.

I'm so very sorry.

livetohike

(22,142 posts)
41. I'm so sorry for your loss. May all the good memories you have help ease the sadness.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:26 PM
Apr 2014
I have lost two dogs to cancer (lung and liver). It's heartbreaking. Keep your other guy close...he is grieving too.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
43. My heart goes out to you.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:28 PM
Apr 2014

We went through much the same thing a year and a half ago when we lost our beloved Cavalier King Charles, Sancho. He too was only 8 years old and never had any symptoms until one day he collapsed. He seemed a little disoriented, but by the next morning seemed fine. We found a vet who was open on Saturday and took him in. The vet checked him out and suggested that we do a full cardio workup with our regular vet. That night he passed away. We still miss him, even though we have other dogs. It is such a shock to lose a family member so unexpectedly.

The pain will never totally leave, but it will become bearable with time and you will be able to remember the good times with a smile. And I truly believe, to the very core of my being, that if there is some sort of existence or consciousness after this life, that our 4-legged family members will be there as well. There is no way in any kind of universe that I can comprehend that creatures who exhibit so much love and devotion and to whom we give so much love could not share in that existence as well.

Let the tears flow as they must. But know that there will always be a little piece of Arrow left in your heart forever.

Holly_Hobby

(3,033 posts)
47. I'm so sorry...
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:47 PM
Apr 2014

I lost one of my boys at 7-1/2 and it's something I will never fully recover from. His litter mate also grieved, but got better over time.

(((HUGS)))

mcar

(42,316 posts)
51. So sorry for your loss
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 06:09 PM
Apr 2014

My brother and his family lost their 2 yo shepherd mix, Max, a few years ago due to a brain tumor. His sweet personality changed for the worse quite quickly. It was devastating for them. He had been perfectly healthy, then boom.

So sorry.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
54. My condolences. Our pups
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 06:12 PM
Apr 2014

Move into our hearts so fast, don't they? I've had my dog less than two years, but he's preciius to our family.

classof56

(5,376 posts)
55. What sad news!
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 06:14 PM
Apr 2014

I'm so very sorry. I'm witness to the fact it takes a long time for a broken heart to heal when one has lost such a wonderful companion. Just remember, Arrow is worthy of your tears.

calimary

(81,240 posts)
57. DAMN. I'm so sorry to hear this, montanacowboy.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 06:17 PM
Apr 2014

I wish our four-footed friends had longer lives, just in general. When I was a kid, I did have a dog that died of cancer. Still troubles me to think of him hurting and not able to say anything to let anyone know where the hurt was. They all deserve so much better. I wish they didn't leave us so soon.

Solly Mack

(90,765 posts)
58. I'm so sorry!
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 06:18 PM
Apr 2014


I lost 2 cats to cancer a few years ago. Not a day goes by that I don't think about them and the joy they brought. It took time and I still tear up every now and then but mostly I remember the happiness they brought to my life.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
61. :'(
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 06:28 PM
Apr 2014

Last edited Wed Apr 30, 2014, 07:23 PM - Edit history (1)

We lost our tall border collide to cancer 7yrs ago. But she made it to an old age of 13. She was gorgeous - not typically smaller but a tall, broad-faced, 70lb girl with a heart of gold but stubborn as heck. We still miss her.

My heart goes out to you and to her brother. Hugs.

 

Triana

(22,666 posts)
62. I'm so sorry for what you & Arrow have been through
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 06:31 PM
Apr 2014

He's at peace now and out of pain -- and went loved.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
63. I'm so sorry to hear this, montanacowboy...
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 08:23 PM
Apr 2014

It sounds like a cold wind that ripped your heart out before reality had a chance to set in. We understand, and wish you comfort.

Oilwellian

(12,647 posts)
64. So very sorry, Montanacowboy
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 09:05 PM
Apr 2014

I had an Eskimo Spitz decades ago that started sneezing blood. Took him to the vet and he had a cancerous tumor in his nasal cavity. He was only two and had to put him to sleep shortly thereafter. It hurts so much when we lose our furry friends.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
65. Been there. I am so sorry for your loss.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 09:08 PM
Apr 2014

People who don't own pets don't know how deep the pain of this is.

Be well, my friend.

virgdem

(2,126 posts)
67. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved Arrow...
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 10:29 PM
Apr 2014

It's so very hard to lose our furry babies. I've lost two cats to cancer and it's a devastating diagnosis. Take care of yourself and give your remaining dog all the love that you have, as he is grieving as well. Hugs to you at this difficult time.

Mona

(135 posts)
76. Hemangiosarcoma
Thu May 1, 2014, 01:12 AM
May 2014

Nasty terrible cancer. My boy died of this also.

May be associated with tick disease, but in general they know little about why and how, it is different than other cancers.

I am so very sorry for your loss. They leave such large holes in our lives...

kysrsoze

(6,019 posts)
77. Very sorry - way too early. I feel your pain. My baby, Ruby, died of cancer at age 9
Thu May 1, 2014, 01:23 AM
May 2014

She was just the sweetest dog. That was back in 2008 and I still miss her. Our other dog, who luckily is still with us, also took a long time to get over losing her.

We should all be lucky enough to get another 10 years out of all of them. They really are like our little children who never grow up. Hope you and the litter-mate can hang in there during such a tough time.

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
79. montanacowboy
Thu May 1, 2014, 02:01 AM
May 2014

What a sad time for your family with the loss of your beloved Arrow. We animal owners quickly learn the bargain we must make:"I will love you and take care of you for the duration of your all-too-short life." Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Peace to all who knew and loved Arrow.

cilla4progress

(24,731 posts)
80. Horrible.
Thu May 1, 2014, 02:30 AM
May 2014

So sorry for your loss.

When you are ready, will you share a picture of Arrow, in happier times?

My heart goes out to you.

jalan48

(13,864 posts)
82. Hang in There
Thu May 1, 2014, 10:25 AM
May 2014

Hang in there Cowboy. I put my two dogs down last year though they were older and I could see it coming. Dogs are great beings. Like many folks I wish we humans could be more like them. Peace.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
85. jalan welcome to DU. My rescued, toothless American Eskimo,
Thu May 1, 2014, 12:11 PM
May 2014

died of a massive seizure a few years ago. The vet said put him down during his first examination. I could not do it. Sad to say, the vet's advise could have saved the boy a bit of pain.

benld74

(9,904 posts)
83. Sorry for the loss. Check out Rainbow Bridge
Thu May 1, 2014, 11:59 AM
May 2014

one can make a tribute to their loving pets on the site with funds going to local shelters

DesertDiamond

(1,616 posts)
86. Oh, montanacowboy, my heart aches for your loss. The same thing happened to my Lindy, she never
Thu May 1, 2014, 12:34 PM
May 2014

acted like she was sick, lively as a puppy then suddenly she collapsed, and it turned out her lungs were FULL of cancer tumors! I, like you, thought it couldn't be true. They were tiny tumors, I know how to deal with them, I could save her. Two days later she was gone. I wish animals weren't so good at hiding their sickness. I know how to take care of cancer holistically, and if I had known about it earlier I could have gotten her well. But she didn't show it until it was too late.

I try to remember that now that Lindy is out of her body she can go where she wants to, and be with all the people she wants to be with. I was her third home, and she loved her two previous humans, so I'm sure she spends a lot of time with them. I hope you can feel your Aussie boy with you too!

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
89. Aw... I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thu May 1, 2014, 03:15 PM
May 2014

Especially that it was so sudden. What a shock. That must be so hard to take.

I had a wonderful pit bull that had cancer. They think it started in her sinuses and spread all over her head. By the time we found it it was too late for surgery as well. I was fortunate though, that I was able to bring her in to work with me every day and she hung in there for 9 months before I had to put her down. She started just walking in circles so I thought it had gotten into her brain and we put her down.

I did have a little West Highland White terrier/Maltese mix 20 years ago who got bone cancer. She had to get her leg amputated.

It is becoming more and more common. A lot of the pet food has bad ingredients. I just found out about carrageenan in cat food, I think it's in dog food as well and human food. I don't know that it's carcinogenic but it causes digestive issues.

Again, I feel for you. Teared up reading about your poor Arrow.

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