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"If what I said has caused you to be done with me, I get it"
http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/henry-rollins-apologizes-for-robin-williams-criticism-20140823
By Miriam Coleman | August 23, 2014
Henry Rollins has apologized for the column he wrote for L.A. Weekly earlier this week criticizing Robin Williams over his suicide. In a note posted to his website on Friday evening, Rollins called the anger his article provoked "off the scale and in my opinion, well placed."
"That I hurt anyone by what I said, and I did hurt many, disgusts me. It was not at all my intent but it most certainly was the result," he wrote. "I have had a life of depression. Some days are excruciating. Knowing what I know and having been through what I have, I should have known better but I obviously did not. I get so mad when I hear that someone has died this way. Not mad at them, mad at whatever got them there and that no one magically appeared to somehow save them."
In the original column, which was published on Thursday, Rollins excoriated Williams for traumatizing his three children by taking his life. While praising the actor's talents and his work on USO tours, Rollins said that he regards people who have committed suicide "with a bit of disdain." "I know they existed, yet they have nullified their existence because they willfully removed themselves from life," he wrote. "They were real but now they are not."
Rollins is not the only notable music figure to apologize for recent remarks about depression. Earlier this month, Kiss' Gene Simmons drew ire from Mötley Crüe bassist Nikki Sixx, among many others, for dismissive and insensitive comments about suicide in an interview with Songfacts.com. Shortly afterward, he apologized on Facebook. "I recognize that depression is very serious and very sad when it happens to anyone, especially loved ones," he wrote.
johnp3907
(3,734 posts)Rollins never!
(Just kidding. I like 'em both----and Dez and "Chavo."
underpants
(182,957 posts)Good guy
Henry, Anthony Bourdain, and Letterman is my dream dinner
Logical
(22,457 posts)He is a well thought out guy who could have been a one trick pony. 3 degrees away I have heard that he is as he presents himself.
Logical
(22,457 posts)Boomerproud
(7,973 posts)and you'll save yourself and a lot of others unnecessary pain. This isn't the first time the edit switch has failed-not just Rollins, but a whole lotta folks have "apologized" for stupid remarks/musings.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Own it, rethink it and come clean.
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)fishwax
(29,149 posts)Nice to see someone own their mistake.
his apology sounds genuine
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Even if his earlier remarks were certainly insensitive and ill-advised.
Logical
(22,457 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Now, one might think his experience of depression would make him more empathetic. But on the other hand, having likely suffered from suicidal ideation himself, he sees what a terrible needless waste suicide (in most cases) is. I fully support the legal right to die, but I don't think someone should be handed a syringe full of pentobarbitol just because they're depressed.
But as I said, I think Rollins's initial remarks were insensitive and ill-advised - I get where's he coming from, and I share the general "fuck suicide" sentiment (especially having suffered from near-suicidal depression at times myself) but I think he should have shown more empathy (or at least sympathy) for Williams and his family. Brutal honesty isn't always the best approach.
Logical
(22,457 posts)Owl
(3,645 posts)Cha
(297,830 posts)the deep depression that plagued Robin Williams and Henry Rollins.
A thoroughly heartfelt apology.. Mahalo Henry Rollins
The Second Stone
(2,900 posts)Mr. Rollins, I know exactly what you meant, and you meant well when you said it. But you didn't understand the pain Robin Williams was under every day due to his depression. I am a depressed person. I have a portion of the pain and I understand it for that reason. But I know that you do not have that pain, and it is so terrible that it is difficult to empathize with. I am delighted that you do not personally know that pain and that there are so many people in the world that cannot conceive it without the most thoughtful guidance. It is okay that you were ignorant, it is necessary to what comfort I have to know that most people will never know the despair of severe chronic depression. You didn't know. We do. And we go one day at a time hanging on for our family, just as you imagined we might. But that isn't always enough.
I am truly sorry for the pain Robin Williams family is going through. But I know our sweet prince is now free.
Make jokes, he would want you to. Remember the laughter he gave us, hug a friend. Be at peace. The world is a much, much better place for your passing through it, however brief it was.
trumad
(41,692 posts)I thought he was a bit more enlightened.... Guess not.