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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:06 PM Aug 2014

Cat Lives Secret Life With 2 Families, now they are fighting over ownership

Cat Lives Secret Life With 2 Families
New Zealand households in catfight over Ming/Cleo
By Jenn Gidman, Newser Staff

Posted Aug 29, 2014 9:37 AM CDT




Cleo the cat, left, is the beloved pet of the Smith family.


The same cat is also the Alexander family moggy, Ming, bought by them in 2000. He is pictured with Mackenzie Alexander, 10.


Alice Alexander probably had no idea that the name she gave her new Siamese cat 14 years ago would prove so prescient. She called him "Ming," because he liked to mingle—so much so that he has been going back and forth between her New Zealand home and another one for more than a decade, effectively combining two of its nine lives to live a double one, reports Stuff NZ. Alexander and the Smith family, who call the cat Cleo, are now fighting over ownership of the vagabond kitty, who apparently sees nothing wrong with two-timing each one, notes Gawker.

When Alexander brought Ming home in 2000, he wandered a bit—"Everyone knew Ming, and I would often get calls saying he was in someone's house," she tells Stuff—but then he disappeared completely in 2010. Four years later, he reappeared on her deck, then promptly took off again after she recollared and microchipped him. Glenda Smith contacted Alexander after seeing Ming/Cleo's "missing" posters and told the previous/current owner that her husband had found the cat before they got married and taken him in, assuming he was a stray. "We love him so much and want him to be happy, but [we're] worried the [Smith] family will move," Alexander tells Stuff. Smith counters with, "Cleo is part of the family and been with us for nine years—we can't just push him away now. He loves us and always comes back."

http://www.newser.com/story/193162/cat-lives-secret-life-with-2-families.html?utm_source=part&utm_medium=united&utm_campaign=rss_lifestyle

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It all started when Alice Alexander bought a pedigree Siamese cat, which she named Ming, in 2000. He had a habit of mingling, thus the name and he once took a nap in a removal truck and ended up in the eastern suburbs, before being discovered.

"Everyone knew Ming and I would often get calls saying he was in someone's house."

When the family moved to Strathmore in 2005, Ming would go wandering, often returning home not hungry and without his collar, which had his name and the Alexanders' phone number.

The wandering became more frequent, then in 2010 Ming disappeared.

Alexander put missing cat posters up around her neighbourhood, but no-one had seen Ming.

In May this year, she was shocked when he "just appeared out of nowhere" after four years.

Alexander had been sitting on her deck when a cat climbed onto the glasshouse roof and began meowing.

"I picked it up and realised it was Ming. I was running scenarios through my head, wondering where he had been."

She got Ming microchipped and put on another collar, but the cat disappeared again. A month later, he returned with a shaved leg and had obviously been to the vet, Alexander said.

"I knew then that someone had him so I put up more missing cat posters and one week later, a lady got in touch to let me know Ming was living with them."

http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/10419001/Nine-lives-two-homes

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Cat Lives Secret Life With 2 Families, now they are fighting over ownership (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 OP
Little bigamist!!! Thief of hearts! nt MADem Aug 2014 #1
I have a cat that finds other families Politicalboi Aug 2014 #2
He is a very handsome boy. hifiguy Aug 2014 #3
that's a lovely cat Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #10
Wow! That is one gorgeous cat! KT2000 Aug 2014 #11
Doesn't seem so difficult - the cat belongs to the family petronius Aug 2014 #4
And, without hesitation, paying for the vet care for the last five years. moriah Aug 2014 #7
Siamese are notorious for finding a better home if their owners leave them alone too much herding cats Aug 2014 #5
I had one of those. Cleita Aug 2014 #6
Cats know how to take care of themselves hifiguy Aug 2014 #9
Vagabond cat... Historic NY Aug 2014 #8
My cat had a rabbit friend KT2000 Aug 2014 #12
If you let the cat outside these things happen musiclawyer Aug 2014 #13
 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
2. I have a cat that finds other families
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:20 PM
Aug 2014

His name is Cosmo, and he'll be gone for a few days, then he comes back, eats a little, and gone again. I'm thinking there's someone who lets him in, and feeds him. And since we have this kitten, he's glad to be away from the "brat". LOL! I doubt they'll be any squabble over Cosmo.

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KT2000

(20,577 posts)
11. Wow! That is one gorgeous cat!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:17 PM
Aug 2014

He must know it too if he is deigning to grace two families with his presence. Cats know how to get a good deal.

petronius

(26,602 posts)
4. Doesn't seem so difficult - the cat belongs to the family
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:35 PM
Aug 2014

that initially adopted ("bought&quot him.

But they darn sure should be keeping him indoors...

moriah

(8,311 posts)
7. And, without hesitation, paying for the vet care for the last five years.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:45 PM
Aug 2014

It's amazing how many disputes of "It's my cat!" can be settled by mentioning how much the vet bills were for the cat when you found it after getting caught in barbed wire... (Sad but true story, gorgeous hurt purebred kitty we found and we got tons of answers to our ad -- we finally did find the real owner, who I was sure was the right one because they provided both pictures and asked how much it'd cost me as soon as I explained what happened to their poor baby. They were thankful we'd taken care of her, and took care of the bill.)

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
5. Siamese are notorious for finding a better home if their owners leave them alone too much
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:41 PM
Aug 2014

Unlike most cats, Siamese don't like to be separated from their humans as a rule. If their owner goes to work all day and leaves them without the attention they feel they deserve, and they have access to the outdoors, they've been known to just go find a human who will spend the daytime hours with them. In this case it seems the cat decided the owner was a better fit overall. Except when they took him to the vet or some other nasty thing he disliked, then he'd head back to his old family. What a little diva!

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
6. I had one of those.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:41 PM
Aug 2014

He arrived on my doorstep looking for food, moved in, but would go on a stroll everyday for several hours. I should have been suspicious when I smelled stuff on his fur I didn't put on him. It turns out he was also living with another family down the road. It seems they used to put him out at night so he did overnights at my place and ate meals at both houses.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
9. Cats know how to take care of themselves
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:52 PM
Aug 2014

by getting their humans to do the actual job. As many humans as possible in some cases.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
8. Vagabond cat...
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 04:49 PM
Aug 2014

we have one that wanders from one repair shop to the next looking for meals. I think he is three timing us now because I see him in another neighborhood. Meanwhile his friend brings a dinner guest.

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
12. My cat had a rabbit friend
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:23 PM
Aug 2014

She was a stray I took in. She would leave for the night and return in the morning for breakfast. Turned out she was spending the night with her wild rabbit friend under a neighbor's deck. All of a sudden she quit doing that and I found out from the neighbor that the rabbit had died. We are pretty much 24 hour pals now.

musiclawyer

(2,335 posts)
13. If you let the cat outside these things happen
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 07:02 PM
Aug 2014

I'm not militant cats never outside type person. Yes I think indoor only should apply in dense cities where cars are hazards, among other things. But if you have a cat out in the burbs or country, cats like to go out. They like the freedom and risk getting got anyway by predators etc Keep that in mind. And if you are not home enough,they will pal up to someone else. This had been happening forever. ......

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