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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy 6 year old grandson is terrified of ebola.
When he came over I had the news on. Of course ebola was front and center. He almost became unglued, crying about how he doesn't want to die from ebola! I tried and tried to reassure him that it was not a threat and he was going to be just fine. But he said please just don't talk about it and I'll forget, but I know this is haunting him. So sad and just wrong that children are being frightened about this extremely remote threat.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)Poor kid. Assure him that talking about it will make him feel better.
Good luck.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)I did try to explain how it was very hard to catch and nobody in our area has it, but to him ebola is the boogie man. Hopefully, he will get more reassurance from his parents. I plan to tell my daughter about this when she picks him up.
longship
(40,416 posts)Love it.
The world needs much more SpongeBob and much less Ebola coverage.
FSogol
(45,484 posts)Or read DU.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)FSogol
(45,484 posts)MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)Usually he just ignores it and asks for cartoons. I had no idea.
FSogol
(45,484 posts)Wash your hands (while singing "Mary had a little lamb' so you wash them long enough)
wash them when coming home from school or the store, wash them before meals, etc.
Then go get some ice cream or go for a walk in the park.
LawDeeDah
(1,596 posts)I don't know what I would do, but give it a day or so and show him the very small chances of getting ebola compared to other ways - but then he'll have more things to be frightened of so probably a bad idea.
I don't know! Coo and comfort him and keep the tv off? Take him somewhere exciting to take his mind off of it all and somehow reassure him he is safe?
Stallion
(6,474 posts)its coming from someone.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)Kids do not live in cocoons.
marions ghost
(19,841 posts)when you hype up something like this. Children see it everywhere and then you're supposed to convince them that there's no problem?
It's too big a stretch for really young ones.
This is wrong.
hunter
(38,311 posts)Our television is a movie watching machine. That's all it does.
No television "news," no advertising, nothing but cinematic art.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)I'm not going to "disconnect" the t.v. Just won't have anything on but cartoons when he comes over.
liberal_at_heart
(12,081 posts)let him watch cartoons or take him to the park. Hug on him and comfort him and let him know he will be okay. He will pick up on your cues and begin to develop a sense of safety.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)I'm in constant pain from my sciatica so walking is limited.
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)Frighten 'em while they're young and keep 'em frightened and scared of everything for the rest of their lives.
It's criminal.
Nay
(12,051 posts)if you turn the TV off and involve him in something fun, those feelings will go away.
That's also why I never have the TV on the news (or anything scary, really) when he comes over.
A good, fun day with Grandma will do him a world of good!
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Murders, rapes, parents abusing their children, are all stuff that can traumatize kids that age.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)my mother told me that I was to set aside an hour each day to do nothing but worry about the bomb. I tried that only briefly and then just got over that fear...
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Hekate
(90,683 posts)....for parents, immediately after 9-11? Well, maybe not, since your grandkid wasn't yet born. I highly recommend adults looking it up and watching it. He gives some utterly sane and compassionate advice on how to protect children from news reporting that can terrify them.
Best wishes.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Geezus don't people ever get enough of the fear mongering?