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MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:23 PM Oct 2014

My 6 year old grandson is terrified of ebola.

When he came over I had the news on. Of course ebola was front and center. He almost became unglued, crying about how he doesn't want to die from ebola! I tried and tried to reassure him that it was not a threat and he was going to be just fine. But he said please just don't talk about it and I'll forget, but I know this is haunting him. So sad and just wrong that children are being frightened about this extremely remote threat.

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My 6 year old grandson is terrified of ebola. (Original Post) MoonRiver Oct 2014 OP
Aw...geez. Wait Wut Oct 2014 #1
Thanks, we have SpongeBob on now. He's better. MoonRiver Oct 2014 #4
SpongeBob is perfect. longship Oct 2014 #13
Don't let six year olds watch Fox News. FSogol Oct 2014 #2
I had CNN on. MoonRiver Oct 2014 #6
Then don't let them watch CNN. n/t FSogol Oct 2014 #8
Of course I won't have it on again. MoonRiver Oct 2014 #9
Teach him some tools to keep himself safe from germs. FSogol Oct 2014 #11
That is so sad, I am sorry... LawDeeDah Oct 2014 #3
Where is He Getting this Fear From Stallion Oct 2014 #5
Everybody at his school and everywhere else is talking about ebola. MoonRiver Oct 2014 #7
This is what happens marions ghost Oct 2014 #10
Disconnect the television. hunter Oct 2014 #12
He's over for a few hours twice a week. MoonRiver Oct 2014 #19
I'm sorry. Just as those at school are big influence so are you. Just keep doing what you are doing, liberal_at_heart Oct 2014 #14
I wish I could take him to the park. MoonRiver Oct 2014 #21
The media gets 'em early Cali_Democrat Oct 2014 #15
The poor little guy. My grandson is 7 and I can see him being scared, too. But Nay Oct 2014 #16
Kids that age should not be watching the news. Nye Bevan Oct 2014 #17
when I was a little girl about 6 I was worried about a nuclear bomb being dropped... CTyankee Oct 2014 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author Jenoch Oct 2014 #20
You and his parents turn off the damn TV. Remember Mr. Rogers' PBS special.... Hekate Oct 2014 #22
Turn the damn TV off Egnever Oct 2014 #23
I'm not turning the damn t.v. off. The news won't be on when he's over here. MoonRiver Oct 2014 #24

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
4. Thanks, we have SpongeBob on now. He's better.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:27 PM
Oct 2014

I did try to explain how it was very hard to catch and nobody in our area has it, but to him ebola is the boogie man. Hopefully, he will get more reassurance from his parents. I plan to tell my daughter about this when she picks him up.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
9. Of course I won't have it on again.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:35 PM
Oct 2014

Usually he just ignores it and asks for cartoons. I had no idea.

FSogol

(45,484 posts)
11. Teach him some tools to keep himself safe from germs.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:39 PM
Oct 2014

Wash your hands (while singing "Mary had a little lamb' so you wash them long enough)
wash them when coming home from school or the store, wash them before meals, etc.

Then go get some ice cream or go for a walk in the park.

 

LawDeeDah

(1,596 posts)
3. That is so sad, I am sorry...
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:26 PM
Oct 2014

I don't know what I would do, but give it a day or so and show him the very small chances of getting ebola compared to other ways - but then he'll have more things to be frightened of so probably a bad idea.

I don't know! Coo and comfort him and keep the tv off? Take him somewhere exciting to take his mind off of it all and somehow reassure him he is safe?

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
10. This is what happens
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:36 PM
Oct 2014

when you hype up something like this. Children see it everywhere and then you're supposed to convince them that there's no problem?

It's too big a stretch for really young ones.

This is wrong.

hunter

(38,311 posts)
12. Disconnect the television.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:41 PM
Oct 2014

Our television is a movie watching machine. That's all it does.

No television "news," no advertising, nothing but cinematic art.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
19. He's over for a few hours twice a week.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 04:05 PM
Oct 2014

I'm not going to "disconnect" the t.v. Just won't have anything on but cartoons when he comes over.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
14. I'm sorry. Just as those at school are big influence so are you. Just keep doing what you are doing,
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:47 PM
Oct 2014

let him watch cartoons or take him to the park. Hug on him and comfort him and let him know he will be okay. He will pick up on your cues and begin to develop a sense of safety.

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
15. The media gets 'em early
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:49 PM
Oct 2014

Frighten 'em while they're young and keep 'em frightened and scared of everything for the rest of their lives.

It's criminal.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
16. The poor little guy. My grandson is 7 and I can see him being scared, too. But
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:53 PM
Oct 2014

if you turn the TV off and involve him in something fun, those feelings will go away.

That's also why I never have the TV on the news (or anything scary, really) when he comes over.

A good, fun day with Grandma will do him a world of good!

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
17. Kids that age should not be watching the news.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 03:59 PM
Oct 2014

Murders, rapes, parents abusing their children, are all stuff that can traumatize kids that age.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
18. when I was a little girl about 6 I was worried about a nuclear bomb being dropped...
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 04:04 PM
Oct 2014

my mother told me that I was to set aside an hour each day to do nothing but worry about the bomb. I tried that only briefly and then just got over that fear...

Response to MoonRiver (Original post)

Hekate

(90,683 posts)
22. You and his parents turn off the damn TV. Remember Mr. Rogers' PBS special....
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 04:16 PM
Oct 2014

....for parents, immediately after 9-11? Well, maybe not, since your grandkid wasn't yet born. I highly recommend adults looking it up and watching it. He gives some utterly sane and compassionate advice on how to protect children from news reporting that can terrify them.

Best wishes.

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