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Atman

(31,464 posts)
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 05:56 PM Nov 2014

I kept my opinions to myself all during dinner, until...

RW mother in law asks, right at the end of the meal, "So, what do y'all think of what happened with the policeman shooting the black boy?"

Uh oh. Take another bite of pie.

We actually had a pretty civil conversation for a bit. For my part, to attempt to stay clear of controversy, I indicted the media and they've whipped us into a frenzy for ratings. That worked out well until I mentioned Fox. The in-laws, avid Fox watchers, were totally taken aback at my suggestion that Fox was not an impartial source. I pointed out the history of Fox, and their lack of an actual news division. It got hotter than a fresh scoop of stuffing, but we managed to change the subject after mother in law says she'd like to learn more about Fox and Roger Ailles. Shocker! Wow!

Thanksgiving surprise. But I guarantee we'll awaken to "Fox & Friends" again tomorrow morning...at 110 decibels.

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I kept my opinions to myself all during dinner, until... (Original Post) Atman Nov 2014 OP
I would have looked at her and asked her: avebury Nov 2014 #1
boom! noiretextatique Nov 2014 #4
Bullseye! Derek V Nov 2014 #31
Yes, had she heard about the 12 year old child killed 3 seconds after the police car arrived? jwirr Nov 2014 #61
seconds IveWornAHundredPants Nov 2014 #65
Thank you. Corrected. jwirr Nov 2014 #66
when the conversation turns to faux news onethatcares Nov 2014 #2
I use that a lot too. Jackpine Radical Nov 2014 #3
I try to make it worse. I usually ask > BlueJazz Nov 2014 #5
Is this the same thing? theaocp Nov 2014 #18
Guess it's not such a good idea after all n/t SickOfTheOnePct Nov 2014 #21
Change it from "US Supreme Court" to "Florida Second District Court of Appeals" Art_from_Ark Nov 2014 #25
I suggest you read the Snopes article SickOfTheOnePct Nov 2014 #26
I read the Snopes article Art_from_Ark Nov 2014 #30
Perhaps you'll believe the actual case documentation SickOfTheOnePct Nov 2014 #36
It was not a failure to renew, they were fired for wanting to tell the truth. SunSeeker Nov 2014 #45
Not to mention THEY won 5 other cases in other Jurisdictions VanillaRhapsody Nov 2014 #51
Why do you keep insisting it was Fox New? SickOfTheOnePct Nov 2014 #63
Yes it was...the couple wanted to report a story about Monsanto putting VanillaRhapsody Nov 2014 #64
It wasn't Fox News SickOfTheOnePct Nov 2014 #68
All true SickOfTheOnePct Nov 2014 #62
It was actually the Florida Second District Court of Appeals that made that ruling Art_from_Ark Nov 2014 #24
Won't be first or last time I was wrong about something. BlueJazz Nov 2014 #33
For more information, you can check out the case number Art_from_Ark Nov 2014 #35
Well, there's always the Murdoch quote that Fox News is Entertainment. SunSeeker Nov 2014 #47
here is the case for those who want to read the reasoning steve2470 Nov 2014 #57
I used that one pretty quickly. Atman Nov 2014 #6
or the Nasserist Saudi prince who owns the company MisterP Nov 2014 #58
I always do that too Politicalboi Nov 2014 #59
I skipped dinner loyalsister Nov 2014 #7
Me, too. I love my family and most of my in laws, but I loved them more today 250 miles away adigal Nov 2014 #20
Sorry to hear that...understand though yeoman6987 Nov 2014 #40
The thing that I don't understand about Fox News viewers... Blanks Nov 2014 #8
Uhh ... Let's hope your audience is ignorant No Vested Interest Nov 2014 #10
His citizenship doesn't make him any less greedy or more patriotic... Blanks Nov 2014 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author olddots Nov 2014 #9
different experience here sadoldgirl Nov 2014 #11
this is one reason why I'm glad I was working today. Terra Alta Nov 2014 #12
RWNJ stood down today maindawg Nov 2014 #13
they asked if you were in a union!? NJCher Nov 2014 #41
I refer to it as 'Fox & Fiends'...... lastlib Nov 2014 #14
I would have changed the subject. Jenoch Nov 2014 #15
send them OUTFOXED. Once they see that Murdoch made the same deal with commies in China yurbud Nov 2014 #16
Hulu or Youtube Electric Monk Nov 2014 #27
Ask if they know who is half owner of Faux? nt s-cubed Nov 2014 #17
Fox is an illness, a disease, their high cable news ratings tell me it is spreading like a virus. Fred Sanders Nov 2014 #19
Yup. Much more damaging here than Ebola. tblue Nov 2014 #44
Fear easily warps the weak minded, Fox sells fear to them and twists those minds with hate, along Fred Sanders Nov 2014 #46
Having an eye on the future, I would have said... nikto Nov 2014 #22
Ask them why Fox ignored the GOP's House Committee' own Benghazi debunking last week ErikJ Nov 2014 #23
You should invite them to explore alternative media vlyons Nov 2014 #28
That's an irresistable ellipsis you have there. jberryhill Nov 2014 #32
In children's stories, the fox is never the good guy... jberryhill Nov 2014 #34
The Fantastic Mr. Fox was pretty cool. TheKentuckian Nov 2014 #37
Maybe show the "new" Al Jazeera to them marym625 Nov 2014 #38
I had a very racist father in law as well Iamthetruth Nov 2014 #39
Same thing happened to me. I had to excuse myself from the table... tridim Nov 2014 #42
We had a very congenial group. MADem Nov 2014 #43
the frightening thing is that the fox watchers assume they're getting 'fair & balanced' reporting spanone Nov 2014 #48
Thanksgiving 2014 ;) dorkulon Nov 2014 #49
Murdoch admits his network isn't impartial JohnnyRingo Nov 2014 #50
Roger Ailes glommed on Nixon and admires NAZI filmmaking. Octafish Nov 2014 #52
I didn't get that far. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Nov 2014 #53
Did you happen to notice... cling2reality Nov 2014 #54
You DO know that Ineeda Nov 2014 #60
An oldie but goodie War Horse Nov 2014 #55
Fox at 110 decibels. Not even Dante had a Circle of Hell equal to that. Feel for you. kairos12 Nov 2014 #56
FOX "News" will probably VANISH when Ruppert dies.... Spitfire of ATJ Nov 2014 #67

avebury

(10,952 posts)
1. I would have looked at her and asked her:
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 06:01 PM
Nov 2014

Which police officer, boy and shooting are you talking about? (After all, there has been more then one shooting).

 

Derek V

(532 posts)
31. Bullseye!
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 09:46 PM
Nov 2014


(Unfortunately, that word also describes what white cops apparently see on far too many black kids.)

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
61. Yes, had she heard about the 12 year old child killed 3 seconds after the police car arrived?
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 03:39 PM
Nov 2014

Last edited Fri Nov 28, 2014, 05:46 PM - Edit history (1)

onethatcares

(16,167 posts)
2. when the conversation turns to faux news
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 06:06 PM
Nov 2014

I always ask if the person knows that company won a lawsuit saying it had the right to lie in reporting.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
5. I try to make it worse. I usually ask >
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 06:29 PM
Nov 2014

"What News Organization asked the Supreme Court of the United States of America if they could continue to tell outright phony Lies to the American public"

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
30. I read the Snopes article
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 09:42 PM
Nov 2014

But I don't consider Snopes to be the ultimate arbiter of what is true and what isn't true. I suggest you Google "Florida Second District Court of Appeals Fox" and you'll find lots of information from different sources--not just one article recycled over and over-- about the Fox case.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
36. Perhaps you'll believe the actual case documentation
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 10:27 PM
Nov 2014
http://caselaw.findlaw.com/fl-district-court-of-appeal/1310807.html

Quick synopsis:

The case involved a local Fox Television affiliate (not Fox News), WTVT out of Tampa/St. Petersburg, FL.
The employees involved in the case, a husband and wife team, threatened to file a complaint with the FCC. The FCC has nothing whatsoever to do with cable programming. The couple's contract was not renewed, which is why they sued.

Fox News sucks on every level, and we need to be saying that loudly, every day. But it makes us look like idiots when we claim as fact things which are demonstrably false.

SunSeeker

(51,550 posts)
45. It was not a failure to renew, they were fired for wanting to tell the truth.
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 11:41 AM
Nov 2014

Thanks for the link, but the link does not say the station simply failed to renew their contract. The station fired them without cause, which the station was apparently entitled to do under the contract they had.

The couple was trying to get out a story critical about bovine growth hormone but the station insisted they change it to Monsanto ' s version of the facts.

When the couple refused and threatened to report the station to the FCC for violating the FCC "rule" against distorting the news, the station fired them. At trial the reporter won over $300k on her whistleblower claim that her firing was retaliation for the FCC complaint.

But on appeal, the Fox News affiliate overturned the award on the ground that there is no such official, actionable rule at the FCC, that it is just an apparently unenforceable "policy." As such, it cannot form the basis for a whistleblower complaint.

That court of appeal ruling is of course damning not just to Fox news affiliates but all news stations and the FCC.

 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
51. Not to mention THEY won 5 other cases in other Jurisdictions
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 12:48 PM
Nov 2014

Fox News shopped this around to court after court until it got one that gave them the outcome they wanted...

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
63. Why do you keep insisting it was Fox New?
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 05:07 PM
Nov 2014

This case had nothing to do with Fox News whatsoever.

And it wasn't shopped around at all - it was handled by all the relevant Florida courts.

Did you even bother to read the case?

 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
64. Yes it was...the couple wanted to report a story about Monsanto putting
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 05:09 PM
Nov 2014

chemicals in our cows milk....Roger Ailes was having no part of that and fired them.....and he Court Shopped until he won against them

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
68. It wasn't Fox News
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 11:01 PM
Nov 2014

It was local Fox network affiliate, WTVT, which is completely separate from Fox News.

Saying the wrong thing over and over doesn't turn it into the right thing.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
62. All true
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 05:05 PM
Nov 2014

But very, very different from "Fox News won the right to tell lies."

This lawsuit had nothing to do with Fox News in any way, shape or form, since the FCC has no jurisdiction over cable networks/channels.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
35. For more information, you can check out the case number
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 10:07 PM
Nov 2014

Case No. 2D01-529. The television station that made the appeal was a FOX affiliate, WTVT-TV.

SunSeeker

(51,550 posts)
47. Well, there's always the Murdoch quote that Fox News is Entertainment.
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 12:09 PM
Nov 2014

In 2012 he said it was in Fox's Entertainment division, not part of its "news" division which includes the Wall Street Journal.

http://www.fireflyfans.net/mthread.aspx?tid=52363

Fox has also admitted it provides "Opinionated News," lamenting its UK audience's preference for non-opinionated news.

http://mediamatters.org/blog/2011/01/26/news-corp-admits-fox-news-is-opinionated-news/175599

Atman

(31,464 posts)
6. I used that one pretty quickly.
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 06:32 PM
Nov 2014

She had no idea. That actually did seem to raise an eyebrow when I pointed out that Fox won a lawsuit to lie. That seemed to be the turning point for her. I can only hope.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
59. I always do that too
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 02:41 PM
Nov 2014

My brother is the avid Faux watcher. I told him Faux is just like The National Enquirer but only live. The key is We Report, you DECIDE. Yes YOU decide if it's true or not, just like the magazines.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
7. I skipped dinner
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 06:51 PM
Nov 2014

I knew there would be something that would get my ire up and it wasn't worth putting myself through it.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
20. Me, too. I love my family and most of my in laws, but I loved them more today 250 miles away
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 08:29 PM
Nov 2014

The only ones who are liberals are my kids, my husband and I. One BIL is sometimes sane, but that's it. This is a family of devout Catholics who all think that gays are going to hell. Well, not my mother, but she is mostly liberal who thinks she is a conservative.

My head hurts when I think about them, and with this shooting and the lack of indictment, I am so upset, I would have started a brawl.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
40. Sorry to hear that...understand though
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 11:38 PM
Nov 2014

We had dinner with 14 and not a peep about politics. Couldn't say who was liberal or conservative in the group. I like it that way personally.

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
8. The thing that I don't understand about Fox News viewers...
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 06:59 PM
Nov 2014

Is why they believe that a 'news organization' owned by an Australian media magnate gives two shits about American patriotism.

Obviously Murdoch cares only about the highest ad revenue generating position, which is consistently the republican position.

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
10. Uhh ... Let's hope your audience is ignorant
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 07:45 PM
Nov 2014

of the fact that Murdoch became a US citizen in 1985.

Agree that his motives are less than pure.

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
29. His citizenship doesn't make him any less greedy or more patriotic...
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 09:20 PM
Nov 2014

Conservatives are up in arms when they're told that the president was born in another country, but worship the likes of Murdoch and Ted Cruz who are well established as foreign born.

Just trying to establish a base line for consistency. If foreign born is bad, then is it always bad?

Response to Atman (Original post)

sadoldgirl

(3,431 posts)
11. different experience here
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 07:48 PM
Nov 2014

My nephew came to help me set up my newer computer. He asked me
"Do you approve of the burning and looting?"
Me:" no, and do you approve of a cop shooting an unarmed teenager?"

Short standoff, but then he gave me a chance to tell him about the
fake GJ, which I hope made him think a bit more.

Terra Alta

(5,158 posts)
12. this is one reason why I'm glad I was working today.
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 07:51 PM
Nov 2014

Would have had to spend the day with mostly RW family members, and I would have had to kept my mouth shut or it would have gotten very heated.

 

maindawg

(1,151 posts)
13. RWNJ stood down today
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 07:58 PM
Nov 2014

The death of children just not worth celebrating I suppose. I did get called a liberal a couple times and they asked me if I was in a union,Im not. They know that. But for 4 whole hours, that was very good. Indeed.

NJCher

(35,660 posts)
41. they asked if you were in a union!?
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 10:23 AM
Nov 2014

Wow, the propaganda job they did is more comprehensive than I thought.


Cher

p.s. by RWNJ did you mean Right Wing New Jersey?

yurbud

(39,405 posts)
16. send them OUTFOXED. Once they see that Murdoch made the same deal with commies in China
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 08:03 PM
Nov 2014

He made with republicans here.

That should sow a pretty serious seed of doubt.

Or the Saudi ownership or...

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
19. Fox is an illness, a disease, their high cable news ratings tell me it is spreading like a virus.
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 08:25 PM
Nov 2014

Foxbola is killing American brain cells by the trillions, it adds up.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
44. Yup. Much more damaging here than Ebola.
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 11:40 AM
Nov 2014

I can't wrap my brain around people believing Fox is a credible anything. Does not compute.

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
46. Fear easily warps the weak minded, Fox sells fear to them and twists those minds with hate, along
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 11:43 AM
Nov 2014

with belonging to a "tribe" that will protect them from that faux generated fear...fear is addictive, folks cling to it once infected, witness Fear-bola.

Fear makes the brain dead and morally rudderless wingnuts feel like they belong, they feel alive, mollified by their fear, real or imagined does not matter.

Fox delivers what they want.

 

nikto

(3,284 posts)
22. Having an eye on the future, I would have said...
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 08:36 PM
Nov 2014

"I don't know about any shooting, but did you hear about the US Army drone that killed that
white family in Texas the other day? Do you think it was really an "accident"?
The officer working the drone was black, I think.
The Army says it was just a tragic mistake and it is very sorry, but too bad.

OK ok...
(I get my headlines from the future---This one is probably from around 2026 or so---"Errant Army Drone kills Texas family on Thanksgiving-Eve"--The Dallas Sun-Times-Tribune, a cyber-news site established by a vast corporate merger in 2021).

Why waste time on the present, when the future is so much worse?

Or...

A 2nd choice would be to change the discussion to Fukushima, and argue over whether a banana
being radioactive means radiation is good for you, etc etc etc

Oh, and by-the-way...
is there any green-bean casserole left?
I love that stuff.

Ba-doom!
I'll be here all week, folks.


 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
23. Ask them why Fox ignored the GOP's House Committee' own Benghazi debunking last week
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 08:37 PM
Nov 2014

From 7 days ago:
Fox News story on House Benghazi report ignores the entire report
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/11/22/1346743/-Fox-News-story-on-House-Benghazi-report-ignores-the-entire-report#

And all the other debunkings:

From DU Aug 2014 http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025339126

From DU Jan 2014

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
28. You should invite them to explore alternative media
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 08:59 PM
Nov 2014

Tell them, you know that they are good patriotic people, who want to be open minded and fair. Then invite them NICELY if they would be willing, as a fair and open-minded person, to at least hear another perspective. Then tell them to watch Rachel Maddow, Chris Hayes, Lawrence O'Donnell, and read DU, KOS, and TPM.

No one wants to be accused of being unfair and close-minded. Play to their curiosity about what the other side says. Who knows? They might check it out.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
34. In children's stories, the fox is never the good guy...
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 09:56 PM
Nov 2014

...didn't these people pay attention to all that stuff about the wily crafty evil fox and his schemes.

marym625

(17,997 posts)
38. Maybe show the "new" Al Jazeera to them
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 11:10 PM
Nov 2014

Worth a shot.

I compliment you. I can't speak about it without going into a rage. Truly a rage. Never felt this way before about anything

Iamthetruth

(487 posts)
39. I had a very racist father in law as well
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 11:13 PM
Nov 2014

Unt il we adopted a black son years ago. While he loves him as a grandson, he is still racist which I will never understand.

tridim

(45,358 posts)
42. Same thing happened to me. I had to excuse myself from the table...
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 10:49 AM
Nov 2014

until they were finished voicing their faux newz prompted ignorant opinions.

It is absolutely awful to hear.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
43. We had a very congenial group.
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 10:52 AM
Nov 2014

Anyone with "opinions" and there were perhaps two, kept them to themselves.

spanone

(135,829 posts)
48. the frightening thing is that the fox watchers assume they're getting 'fair & balanced' reporting
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 12:21 PM
Nov 2014

JohnnyRingo

(18,628 posts)
50. Murdoch admits his network isn't impartial
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 12:36 PM
Nov 2014

He justifies this by accusing all the rest of the media as being liberal. He spuriously claims that he adds balance by covering news from the right. Those are Rupert Murdoch's own words.

I usually point out that Fox is the only network that is owned by and shares the political ideals of one man. The rest of the alphabet news channels are owned by faceless corporations held by shareholders, from Time Warner to Disney, hardly bastions of liberalism and anti-capitalism.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
52. Roger Ailes glommed on Nixon and admires NAZI filmmaking.
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 12:50 PM
Nov 2014
FOX News' Roger Ailes is a Big Fan of Leni Riefenstahl, Hitler's favorite NAZI filmmaker.



According to the new biography (and a history going back a ways in GOP circles), The Loudest Voice In The Room: How The Brilliant, Bombastic Roger Ailes Built Fox News — And Divided A Country:



Ailes was “a big fan” of Leni Riefenstahl, Hitler’s notorious favorite filmmaker—not for her Nazi ideology but for her cinematic talent as a propagandist. “Ailes was especially taken by Riefenstahl’s use of camera angles.”

SOURCE: http://www.economicpolicyjournal.com/2014/01/extraordinary-revelations-about-roger.html



Terry Gross of Fresh Air interviewed Gabriel Sherman, the guy who wrote, the book today.

This is the kind of information that Fox viewers might appreciate knowing before watching their television screens.

Something everyone should know: Roger Ailes and the Big Money has been in bed with Big NAZI for a long time. Way to go, Atman! People know something's wrong with the media. Helping them understand what that is goes a long way towards bringing back justice and democracy.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
53. I didn't get that far.
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 01:09 PM
Nov 2014

I only stopped over at the parents for a few minutes, to wish my sister a happy birthday, and everyone a happy thanksgiving. Within a couple of minutes of my arrival, my teenage nephew had brought a 'Black Friday' ad to his mom to show her the sig sauer he wanted.

Which left me saying 'with all the young men being shot, maybe that's not the best thing to buy him'. (Although what I was really thinking was that I think the world is going to be a less safe place with a gun in his hands...)

And got us discussing Ferguson, and my sister (who is married to a former cop) saying something along the lines of 'Anybody who grabs a cop's gun loses breathing privileges' or something similar, while I countered with 'It's only human nature, if somebody points a gun at you, for you to try and NOT point it at you.'

The convo could really only go downhill from there, so I said my goodbyes and ducked out again.

cling2reality

(56 posts)
54. Did you happen to notice...
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 01:38 PM
Nov 2014

...All of the people arguing that Michael Brown was a "hoodlum" or "thug" at Thanksgiving defended Cliven Bundy as an American hero standing up to an over reach of the government.

...The same people who say an unarmed man was shot because he was"aggressive" believe it is ok to point guns at federal agents without consequences

.. say Michael Brown deserved it because he stole $5 worth of merchandise, are ok with Cliven Bundy stealing millions in grazing fees


... Still trying to figure out the difference between Cliven Bundy and Michael Brown. Why do some people "see" them differently.

Hummmmmm

Ineeda

(3,626 posts)
60. You DO know that
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 03:14 PM
Nov 2014

one of them is white and the other.........wasn't. Those people you speak of noticed that, for sure.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
67. FOX "News" will probably VANISH when Ruppert dies....
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 05:58 PM
Nov 2014

Imagine how utterly LOST these people will be when they aren't constantly pumped full of crap.

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