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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHow did Rachel lose so much weight?
I'm asking this in all earnestness...not being flip. I watch her every night so I don't really notice such things day-to-day. But when she cuts away to some segment she taped a year ago - hell even three months ago, she looked bloated (back then) by comparison. And now she looks hot...even though she insists on dressing like a boy and wearing blue shoes off set.
Point being, I as a heterosexual male am still in love with her, weight or no weight.
Other point being - what's her secret? Is it a pill (that I can buy at GNC?) Is it no midweek drinking? I've scoured the intertubes and can't find anything that alludes to it.
If you know something...please elabourate.
elleng
(130,895 posts)due to her book tour, resulting in dramatic change in her schedule.
REP
(21,691 posts)"Bloated"?
REP
(21,691 posts)There is so much wrong with this OP I started with the "dress like a boy." I bet she didn't know she was supposed to wear what YOU prefer.
Was waiting for the righteous indignation missed-the-point reply. You're the first. Congrats!
REP
(21,691 posts)Am I not posting up to your standards? I'm dressed like a boy as well, but I'm wearing brown engineer boots. I hope I pass muster.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)Iggo
(47,552 posts)...she'll be even hotter!
I think the clueless ones are my favorite kind.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)Not just this thread, but every post you, or anyone, makes.
Extra details only obscures the message.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)WTF was my response....Insists on dressing like a boy?????
Seriously, that was unrelated, and just plain dumb
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)If she "dresses like a boy" I guess a whole lot of women do. I don't dress all that differently, except that Chucks hurt my feet and I have to wear supportive running shoes.
Jack_Dawson
(9,196 posts)Who I'm almost certain I've been watching longer than the haters on this thread. Just saying.
cali
(114,904 posts)sexism you're spewing is straight out barf making.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Focusing excessively on the appearance of not just public figures but people all around us (mostly women) is.practically a national.pastime.
obamanut2012
(26,068 posts)And, the way you were judging her is REALLY offensive, on several different levels.
mercuryblues
(14,531 posts)not a girl. She is a grown woman.
I think your keyboard seed a sexorsism, it seems to be dripping of sexism today.
she looks hot? This woman can run intellectual circles around a good portion of this country, yet you judge her by her hotness quotient, her weight and how she dresses. You can deny that is what you did, but you would only be fooling yourself.
good grief.
People are animals. They are attracted to other people by how they look. Judging on appearance is what we do.
Get used to it because it will never change.
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)They are under no obligation to organize their wardrobe around the OP's criteria for fuckability, and doing so does not make them look like men or boys.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)We are ALL attracted to other people by their appearance. And no one, including the OP, suggests that Rachel should change her appearance. It was an observation, not an attack.
Rachel is a beautiful person. And the the OP says that over an over again. It was merely an observation that they would like to her wear something they feel is more appealing.
Rachel chooses her outfits based on her personal preference. I don't think anyone is suggesting she shouldn't do that anymore.
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)She can change how she looks OR she can be judged as doing femaleness badly. Nobody likes to be thought less of, or to have a part of their identity denied them, so this narrow definition of what femininity looks like demands that many women change their behavior or risk criticism and damage to their self esteem. While I'm sure that Dr. Maddow doesn't give a flying fuck what the OP thinks of her outfits, that sort of language is used to reinforce societal expectations on other women and to shame them for any deviation.
Further, she's been apparently healthy, proportionate and attractive the whole time, so the OP's focus on her weight loss (which is so minor I haven't personally noticed it, but I'll take his word for it) is equally disturbing.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Women are under no obligation to comply with society's dictates or expectations regarding their appearance.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)See post 37, the piece linked there spells it out.
ForgoTheConsequence
(4,868 posts)"Insists on dressing like a boy" sorry she's not on television for the purpose of sexually stimulating you.
Who cares if she's skinnier? Maybe you'd be more comfortable watching the Kardashians waste oxygen on a reality show?
REP
(21,691 posts)I've already been chided for daring to notice the asshattery.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Canuckistanian
(42,290 posts)Please don't scare me like that
blue neen
(12,319 posts)It's a wonderful program, she's extremely intelligent and entertaining...that's really all I need to know.
If you are interested in weight loss secrets, you might want to check out Dr. Oz.
slackmaster
(60,567 posts)Hassin Bin Sober
(26,326 posts)slackmaster
(60,567 posts)Just in case it turns out my SWAG was right.
JI7
(89,248 posts)like a boy.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)only came into the thread, cause i was surprised by the OP title.
really, an appalling OP in a number of ways.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)what does "dressing like a girl" look like? Please describe.
Damn, I thought that gender apparel assignment went out decades ago. I remember working for a law firm that didn't allow women to wear pantsuits. Is that what you think the correct standard should be?
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)She dresses like a boy?? How insulting.
You tell posters here that object to your insulting and insensitive post that they dont get your point. I think they get your point. If you dont agree, maybe you should do a better job.
I love Rachel. I think she is beautiful and smart. She dresses like a beautiful, smart person.
It's not a complement to tell someone they arent as fat as they used to be.
Jack_Dawson
(9,196 posts)Of course all things being equal, it's generally healthier to be without the weight. And oh yeah she looks great to boot (that's a compliment). Sorry humorless DUers for my unforgivable "call 'em as I see 'em" opinion.
Instead of everyone whipping themselves into a frenzy about this comment or that comment, I was more looking for - what's her secret? That's it.
My love for Rachel remains steadfast, no matter who tries to say otherwise. Peace.
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)"Sorry humorless DUers ". WTF, are you calling me "humorless".
I thought your comments were rude. Calling "'em" as you see "'em", isnt license to be rude.
RZM
(8,556 posts)Of course I've gained it all back. But that's beside the point
Jack_Dawson
(9,196 posts)Must've been something...c'mon now.
RZM
(8,556 posts)My main vices are alcohol, ice cream, and restaurant/fast food, especially fried chicken. I gave them all up. I eschewed restaurants and when I drank, it was MG64, which sucks.
Funny part is that it's actually not all that hard. But there certainly is something off about eating a plate of blueberries at 2am. Other than that, it really wasn't too difficult. I fell off the wagon by choice.
Jack_Dawson
(9,196 posts)I think all of us know what we have to do...it's just hard coming home on a Tuesday night after a crap day at work and not falling into it all over again.
murielm99
(30,736 posts)MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)Say..... if I loose some weight, I'll bet they'll look R E A L L Y friggin H o T on me....
MADem
(135,425 posts)Saving Hawaii
(441 posts)Could you possibly take my confession online? I can't make it this week.
Son of Gob
(1,502 posts)This OP is yet another example of that fact.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)Ignore the sensitivity police. They obviously have an agenda.
Maine-ah
(9,902 posts)his post is not fine, and neither is yours.
The only agenda, is that most women are tired of being defined by they're body type, weight, clothing, sexuality...etc...
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)It started a long time ago, when people were "created" as animals.
jpak
(41,757 posts)yup
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)fishwax
(29,149 posts)That was the thread that popped to my mind when I saw the subject line ...
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)fishwax
(29,149 posts)My "that same poster" was unclear, I see, but I meant to refer not to the OP but to Radio Lady, who posted the "asian woodcarver" flame war datasuspect mentioned. Way back when she also had a thread about how she liked Maddow but thought she needed more makeup to be more ladylike. I thought of that thread when I saw the subject line of this OP.
Sorry for that confusion.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)" Maddow but thought she needed more makeup to be more ladylike." just wow. lol. i didnt know. i dont know about the asian carver, though sounds a little familiar. and got the scoop on olive garden a couple months ago. what a hoot.
jpak
(41,757 posts)calypso222
(1 post)CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)The Conversation about womens bodies exists largely outside of us, while it is also directed at (and marketed to) us, and used to define and control us. The Conversation about women happens everywhere, publicly and privately. We are described and detailed, our faces and bodies analyzed and picked apart, our worth ascertained and ascribed based on the reduction of personhood to simple physical objectification. Our voices, our personhood, our potential, and our accomplishments are regularly minimized and muted.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)along the way and i dont know why. they took out a couple really good paragraphs. but, yes.... i love what she has to say.
CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)I love how educated she is. So many actors, even ones I like, they open their mouths and you find out they aren't so bright but she seems very intelligent indeed.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)we had put in in the history of feminist forum first so we had the whole article. when it ended up on GD it was shortened and so disappointed. when i went back, it was the sortened version. ah well, words lost. but they were good words, lol.
yes.... i like that educated. cool stuff. hey, rachel. lol
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)Guess those baggy boy's clothes disguised it.
Taitertots
(7,745 posts)Eating healthy and being active is the secret.
MineralMan
(146,288 posts)I doubt she's all that concerned whether you think she looks "hot," either. As for the "dressing like a boy" nonsense, again, I can't see how what clothing she chooses is of any importance.
Rachel Maddow is a political commentator, and a very good one. I watch her to listen to her words. Her appeal to me is that she gets to the heart of the matter quickly and explains her point of view very well. That I agree with her on almost everything she says also plays a role.
Fantasizing about television personalities seems to be to be a waste of time.
Little Star
(17,055 posts)CrispyQ
(36,461 posts)Ashley Judd says it better than I could.
Ashley Judd Slaps Media in the Face for Speculation Over Her Puffy Appearance
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/04/09/ashley-judd-slaps-media-in-the-face-for-speculation-over-her-puffy-appearance.html
editor's note: Ashley Judds 'puffy' appearance sparked a viral media frenzy. But, the actress writes, the conversation is really a misogynistic assault on all women.
A snippet of Ms. Judd's response:
The Conversation about womens bodies exists largely outside of us, while it is also directed at (and marketed to) us, and used to define and control us. The Conversation about women happens everywhere, publicly and privately. We are described and detailed, our faces and bodies analyzed and picked apart, our worth ascertained and ascribed based on the reduction of personhood to simple physical objectification. Our voices, our personhood, our potential, and our accomplishments are regularly minimized and muted.
~more at link
=====
Unrec.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)seriously, lol. i have had a couple threads i have no desire to talk in lately, and i really wanted to go to unrec
Xyzse
(8,217 posts)Sorry, can't help but laugh at this thread.
If you want, I can suggest many Beach Body products dependent on your goals.
There is P90X, Insanity, RevAbs that are entry level before going for things that are even harder like Asylum and P90X-2.
Think of it as a 1-2 hour investment per day.
Lastly, I have no clue who you are talking about. Who is Rachel?
obamanut2012
(26,068 posts)I won't even respond to the "dresses like a boy" comment. Oh wait, I will: you do get how offensive that is to many of us, right?
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)And they should.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Women currently get 5x the scrutiny. Men and boys are having increasing rates of eating disorders. Perhaps.we can ramp up the.'does he look hot enough or is he too scrawny' type talk (cause as you know... It's just a red blooded American thing to do), and see if we can make pectoral implants as common as boob jobs.
obamanut2012
(26,068 posts)Even though I'm a gay woman, I still think he's kinda hot, even if he does wear those girly pink ties and French cuffs.
I mean, when was the last time anyone ever say someone post or say something like this???
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Iggo
(47,552 posts)dmr
(28,347 posts)Are you implying in a round about way that her weight loss is tied into her being a lesbian?
If you really scoured the intertubes and found no answer, what makes you think there is an answer other than the one you should be explaining to us about why you'd ask this troubling 'innocent' question?
WI_DEM
(33,497 posts)myrna minx
(22,772 posts)GreatCaesarsGhost
(8,584 posts)Maine-ah
(9,902 posts)that's a damn DUzy
demmiblue
(36,845 posts)goclark
(30,404 posts)Watch her everyday and admire her smarts and her clothes.
I like the way she wears clothes that make her look impressive and ready to talk Business .
Some of them dress like Barbie Dolls and have no IQ of worth.
Puglover
(16,380 posts)So, that would indicate to me that you watch her show and have some sense of what Rachel Maddow is all about. So do you think Rachel would like being called "my girl" or being told she "dresses like a boy"?
With all due respect, get a clue.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)Seriously, did you even read what you just posted?
I'm sure you did and thought this would go over like a lead balloon. Congrats on your successful mission.
"dress like a boy"
objectifying
insensitive weight characterization
"blue shoes" - whatever the fuck that is
And finally....
"Point being, I as a heterosexual male am still in love with her, weight or no weight." - Thank god you tipped your hand there as I would have been left to wonder. But here, let me clean that last part up for you.
"Point being, I as a clueless, self-gratifying, hedonistic heterosexual male will still judge her, weight or no weight."
Spazito
(50,326 posts)Xyzse
(8,217 posts)There are too many Rachels, so....
Which Rachel?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Thanks...
Seems, like even if I read news a lot, I have no idea how she looks like.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)ur doing it wrong.
i'm sure you think you are quite clever, but your technique is hollow and transparent.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)he has all in love with him, lol.
isnt that in every. single. one. of his posts.
the really really young, really, she is so young, hot chick.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)as the tom cruise of internet subterfuge.
"i got a couple thousand posts on DU!!!!!!"
clever.
otohara
(24,135 posts)anybody seen her at your local Weight Watchers or Jenny Craig.
She looks the same to me.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)I'm not surprised by the 2-4 result, but I'd like to see whether the four pro-sexism jurors left comments
BlueIris
(29,135 posts)I think this superficial fixation on another person is petty and I question the OP's sincerity.
Jack_Dawson
(9,196 posts)OP in six words: "Rachel looks great...what's her secret?" If Ed Schultz becomes svelte, expect the same question. Thanks DAWGS for getting it.
Still love DU - apology accepted.
Peace and Love.
Puglover
(16,380 posts)"Rachel looks great...what's her secret?" instead of the sexist crap you posted.
Two of you "got it" in this thread. Not.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)Right. Or anywhere where people don't just spout off whatever comes to their mind while they're masturbating.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Except the OP was not in six words.
Had it been, the OP would look much less absurd, foolish and petulant.