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In France, a Baby Switch and a Test of a Mothers Love
GRASSE, France When Sophie Serrano finally held her daughter, Manon, in her arms after the newborn, suffering from jaundice, had been placed under artificial light, she was taken aback by the babys thick tufts of hair.
I hadnt noticed it before and it surprised me, Ms. Serrano said in an interview at her home here in southern France, not far from the Côte dAzur.
Ms. Serrano, now 39, was baffled again a year later, when she noticed that her babys hair had grown frizzy and that her skin color was darker than hers or her partners.
But her love for the child trumped any doubts. Even as her relationship unraveled, in part, she said, over her partners suspicions, she painstakingly looked after the baby until a paternity test more than 10 years later showed that neither she nor her partner were Manons biological parents. Ms. Serrano later found out that a nurse had accidentally switched babies and given them to the wrong mothers.
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The court decision ended Ms. Serranos long struggle to obtain damages for the nurses negligence. It also helped her, she said, silence those neighbors and others who accused her of lacking maternal instinct and criticized her inability to identify with her own child.
After four days, how can you not recognize your baby? Sophie Chas, the lawyer for the clinic, told the newspaper Le Figaro. We can believe in it when its a second, a day, two days. But 10 years? The mothers may have been involved in creating the damage.
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/02/25/world/europe/in-france-a-baby-switch-and-a-test-of-a-mothers-love.html?_r=0
marym625
(17,997 posts)People are seriously blaming the moms?
When was it that we lost our humanity?
hunter
(38,328 posts)... and strive to achieve good relationships with biological parents discovered later.
I'd expect nothing less of others.
Children transcend hospital accidents, misadventures, and even gross negligence and corruption.
Every child deserves to be a wanted, well loved, and celebrated child.
marym625
(17,997 posts)And mothers deserve some humanity and compassion. Both mothers obviously missed the fact they were given the wrong kid. As did the dads. I am blown away that something so personal can be used against these women.
It's a shame. They have more than enough on their plates at the moment.