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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forums7 year old boy cried for 45 minutes when he saw his surgery scars. The internet responds:
Carter Gentle of Farmington, Maine, has endured five surgeries for his congenital heart defect. After Carters most recent surgery to repair a pacemaker, the 7-year-old boy looked in the mirror at his scars and cried.
Carters father, country singer, Mark Gentle, wanted to lift his sons spirits and turned to his fans on Facebook for help. He posted a photo showing Carters scars and asked, How many likes can Carter get for his bravery?!
His full post read:
#CHDAWARENESS We were a little apprehensive to post this but I feel its important. Carter took his bandages off this morning. He cried for 45 minutes when he saw his scars. He said that hes afraid people will think he is ugly. This was hard to hear as a parent. We told him that his scars are beautiful and make him look like a superhero. How many likes can Carter get for his bravery?! Feel free to share. #CartersSong #HeartHeroes #CHD

The response was more than the father ever imagined and the image of Carter showing off his scar-covered chest now has over 1 million likes. Hundreds of thousands of people beyond his Facebook fans responded and both Buzz Feed and Today Parents picked up the story.
He went down to the bathroom to look in the mirror and he just started sobbing. He said, People are going to think Im ugly. My scars look horrible. As a parent, it just tears your heart out. As much as that kids been through, the last thing I ever want him to worry about is scars, Mark told Today Parents.
http://blog.sfgate.com/sfmoms/2015/04/14/dad-asks-facebook-to-tell-his-son-surgery-scars-are-beautiful/
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Going to Facebook ASAP!
RedCappedBandit
(5,514 posts)His experiences will give him perspective and insight few others will share.
JanMichael
(25,725 posts)It will just make him look tough like a pirate. He will be fine. And if he goes all skinny look it will still give him a character on top of everything else. He will look sensitive and deep.
Again he will be fine.
Hassin Bin Sober
(27,461 posts)My nephew.
JaneyVee
(19,877 posts)Response to Liberal_in_LA (Original post)
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cui bono
(19,926 posts)Please refrain from going to FB to "unlike" his pic.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)cui bono
(19,926 posts)Plus, the reality is that those scars are not bad at all compared to a lot of what is out there. Not to diminish the boy's feelings because I know for him it is a real fear, but look at burn victims, injured vets, etc...
Catherine Vincent
(34,610 posts)Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)jwirr
(39,215 posts)dad did a wonderful thing for his little boy.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)someday, you will not give a fuck about those scars. I just hope there are no internal ones though.
yourout
(8,820 posts)demigoddess
(6,675 posts)it was his personality that shone through. And scars fade. I have a few, hardly noticeable now.