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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 08:13 PM Apr 2015

7 year old boy cried for 45 minutes when he saw his surgery scars. The internet responds:

Carter Gentle of Farmington, Maine, has endured five surgeries for his congenital heart defect. After Carter’s most recent surgery to repair a pacemaker, the 7-year-old boy looked in the mirror at his scars and cried.

Carter’s father, country singer, Mark Gentle, wanted to lift his son’s spirits and turned to his fans on Facebook for help. He posted a photo showing Carter’s scars and asked, “How many likes can Carter get for his bravery?!”

His full post read:

#CHDAWARENESS We were a little apprehensive to post this but I feel it’s important. Carter took his bandages off this morning. He cried for 45 minutes when he saw his scars. He said that he’s afraid people will think he is ugly. This was hard to hear as a parent. We told him that his scars are beautiful and make him look like a superhero. How many likes can Carter get for his bravery?! Feel free to share. #CartersSong #HeartHeroes #CHD



The response was more than the father ever imagined and the image of Carter showing off his scar-covered chest now has over 1 million likes. Hundreds of thousands of people beyond his Facebook fans responded and both Buzz Feed and Today Parents picked up the story.

“He went down to the bathroom to look in the mirror and he just started sobbing. He said, ‘People are going to think I’m ugly. My scars look horrible.’ As a parent, it just tears your heart out. As much as that kid’s been through, the last thing I ever want him to worry about is scars,” Mark told Today Parents.

http://blog.sfgate.com/sfmoms/2015/04/14/dad-asks-facebook-to-tell-his-son-surgery-scars-are-beautiful/

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RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
2. Hopefully this kid will grow up to be proud of his scars
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 08:39 PM
Apr 2015

His experiences will give him perspective and insight few others will share.

JanMichael

(25,725 posts)
3. once he ages and starts working out and filling in his scars will be a big plus.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 08:45 PM
Apr 2015

It will just make him look tough like a pirate. He will be fine. And if he goes all skinny look it will still give him a character on top of everything else. He will look sensitive and deep.

Again he will be fine.

Hassin Bin Sober

(27,461 posts)
12. I was going to say I know a 5 year old pirate who would pay top dollar for those scars.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 10:41 PM
Apr 2015

My nephew.

Response to Liberal_in_LA (Original post)

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
8. What a great sentiment to make a kid, or anyone else, feel better about their appearance.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 09:21 PM
Apr 2015


Please refrain from going to FB to "unlike" his pic.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
13. Well I appreciate that they had sense enough to delete it.
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 10:45 PM
Apr 2015

Plus, the reality is that those scars are not bad at all compared to a lot of what is out there. Not to diminish the boy's feelings because I know for him it is a real fear, but look at burn victims, injured vets, etc...

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
10. My great grand children have seen my scars - I told them that they are my railroad tracks. This
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 10:25 PM
Apr 2015

dad did a wonderful thing for his little boy.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
11. Take my word kid
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 10:39 PM
Apr 2015

someday, you will not give a fuck about those scars. I just hope there are no internal ones though.

demigoddess

(6,675 posts)
15. My dad had a big scar on his face, but you never noticed it
Tue Apr 14, 2015, 10:47 PM
Apr 2015

it was his personality that shone through. And scars fade. I have a few, hardly noticeable now.

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