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Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
Mon May 4, 2015, 03:58 PM May 2015

So what if a horrible, racist, ultra-right-wing woman were raped?

Would we be victim blaming her like we are with Geller?

I have no love for Geller. Zero. She's a horrible fucking person. Her racism and Islamaphobia are reprehensible.

That being said, someone tried to kill her and people like her because she was drawing pictures of their prophet. And FAR too many people on DU are blaming the victim here because she was a horrible fucking racist.

You wouldn't do that if someone attempted to rape her. Why are you doing it because someone tried to kill her?

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So what if a horrible, racist, ultra-right-wing woman were raped? (Original Post) Goblinmonger May 2015 OP
Hypocrisy on DU? Surely not... N.T. Donald Ian Rankin May 2015 #1
I know. Color me shocked. Goblinmonger May 2015 #4
Most of the clocks here are stopped at roughly the right time. Don't mistake that for ticking. N.T. Donald Ian Rankin May 2015 #7
What a great line! You're absolutely right. (n/t) Jim Lane May 2015 #50
Okay shenmue May 2015 #2
When you're right, you're right tkmorris May 2015 #3
Thanks. I'll admit I'm not always right. Goblinmonger May 2015 #5
Rape isn't something you invite...regardless of what r/wers would have you believe. Cerridwen May 2015 #6
Getting shot at because you are drawing cartoon, though. Goblinmonger May 2015 #11
What are you replying to? Cerridwen May 2015 #70
The equivalency is that there are no non-violent offensive actions that justify a violent reaction. PeaceNikki May 2015 #12
Great post SickOfTheOnePct May 2015 #35
Excellent post. hifiguy May 2015 #44
+1. 'These are grown sentient thinking human beings.' And there are better choices than killing. n/t freshwest May 2015 #59
Can you stop being sensible? :-) REP May 2015 #69
Same question for you. Cerridwen May 2015 #71
The analogy I saw was this- snooper2 May 2015 #8
there was little chance of her getting attacked... lame54 May 2015 #9
Can we address how insane it is that ANYONE was at risk for being attacked? theboss May 2015 #24
Then everyone would want the rapist arrested, just like everyone wanted the shooters arrested. Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2015 #10
She successfully baited the lowest common denominators-- which is not blaming anyone. LanternWaste May 2015 #13
Seems like it is excusing them. Goblinmonger May 2015 #14
Do you feel the same way about that preacher that went to Dearborn Mi to burn the Koran? nt Snotcicles May 2015 #15
Yup. He has freedom of speech for that, too. Goblinmonger May 2015 #16
So you don't think a Florida Preacher traveling to the most Snotcicles May 2015 #19
It's still protected. Goblinmonger May 2015 #22
No my point was you were equating "baiting" to "a women wearing slutty clothes". Snotcicles May 2015 #28
it is unbelievable they cannot see the difference Skittles May 2015 #72
Of course it was baiting. And my response is, So what? theboss May 2015 #26
Sure it was provoking... So what? Oktober May 2015 #54
nor does calling that same free speech irresponsible negate its original freedom LanternWaste May 2015 #48
I do. Dr. Strange May 2015 #57
Rational observation however, forces us to conclude that of the two, the meter, the intent and the c LanternWaste May 2015 #46
Yep, if you say "I'm not surprized, I saw that coming" you are victim blaming. nt Snotcicles May 2015 #56
go away, baitin' AngryAmish May 2015 #55
What if a woman trolled rapists, gave out her address, and waited with a shotgun? Half-Century Man May 2015 #17
I don't care if she walked naked through a frat house Goblinmonger May 2015 #20
+1 FLPanhandle May 2015 #27
No woman should ever be raped or murdered. Half-Century Man May 2015 #43
Geller's not the victim here. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #18
Her group as a whole were attacked. Goblinmonger May 2015 #21
If the organizers of the event set it up to provoke the likelihood of such an attack... Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #23
How about Goblinmonger May 2015 #25
Again, Pam Geller's not the victim. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #29
"Maybe the security who got shot is" melman May 2015 #75
Rhetorical flourish. Fixed for you. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #77
"Maybe" the guard who got shot phil89 May 2015 #76
See post 77. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #78
They share no responsibility except in the vaguest moral sense theboss May 2015 #30
She could have been harmed though. darkangel218 May 2015 #31
If she was a target, she was a willing one. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #37
Post removed Post removed May 2015 #39
Nope. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #42
She was voluntarily shot at? theboss May 2015 #45
Well, she personally wasn't. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #47
When Larry Flynt was shot by an anti-porn fanatic, was he asking for it? theboss May 2015 #49
Yes, MLK was totally asking for it. Tommy_Carcetti May 2015 #51
Actually, it sort of was theboss May 2015 #52
By drawing pictures? oberliner May 2015 #60
+1 Jesus Malverde May 2015 #68
"If she was a target, she was a willing one." darkangel218 May 2015 #41
'That being said'...usually means you are trying to link two things that have no relationship. Rex May 2015 #32
+1. Snotcicles May 2015 #40
Gellar was 100% unharmed Scootaloo May 2015 #33
What happened to Geller? Iggo May 2015 #34
Geller is what she is. Warpy May 2015 #36
I absolutely agree Skittles May 2015 #38
I agree. And I think the rape analogy isn't appropriate. cui bono May 2015 #63
so she asked for it? Goblinmonger May 2015 #64
Not what I agreed to at all. cui bono May 2015 #67
Pamela Geller is NOT a victim Tom Ripley May 2015 #53
Dude, thats sick DiverDave May 2015 #58
Effing ridiculous post... joeybee12 May 2015 #61
even those that don't care about free speech Goblinmonger May 2015 #65
that sails right over their heads Skittles May 2015 #73
Did this mythical "horrible, racist, ultra-right-wing woman"... 99Forever May 2015 #62
so there is a scenario Goblinmonger May 2015 #66
Hey, it's your sick, dispicable analogy. 99Forever May 2015 #74
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
4. I know. Color me shocked.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:00 PM
May 2015

Someday I'll learn that I should never be surprised at what I read on a progressive web site.

Cerridwen

(13,257 posts)
6. Rape isn't something you invite...regardless of what r/wers would have you believe.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:03 PM
May 2015

And while I'm at it: abortion clinics and women's health clinics that provide abortion are built to provide legal medical services.

Equating either of the above to a conscious act of provocation by a well-paid and professional provocateur is a false equivalency.

Cerridwen

(13,257 posts)
70. What are you replying to?
Tue May 5, 2015, 02:38 AM
May 2015

It's not my post.

I pointed out that people who equate abortion clinics and medical services to provocation are using a false equivalency.

What are you replying to?

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
12. The equivalency is that there are no non-violent offensive actions that justify a violent reaction.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:12 PM
May 2015

None.

Offensive actions are only offensive to people who find them offensive. We can expect people to sometimes be offended by our words or actions but, in a fucking SANE society, we should NEVER expect harm or death for non-violent expression.

Never. Not about religion, sexuality, choices, anything.

There are hoards of people who are SERIOUSLY OFFENDED if I walk into an abortion clinic. They consider it murder and my action an attack on their religion, beliefs and society.

The whole idea of it being "something you invite" is hogwash. These are grown sentient thinking human beings.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
35. Great post
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:00 PM
May 2015

A point I tried to make earlier as well.

If we're going to say that people taking part in Constitutionally protected behavior are asking to be shot if someone is offended, we're in big trouble.

Cerridwen

(13,257 posts)
71. Same question for you.
Tue May 5, 2015, 02:39 AM
May 2015

What are you replying to?

Again, I said that anyone who equates abortion clinics and medical centers as providing provocation for violence are using a false equivalency.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
8. The analogy I saw was this-
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:06 PM
May 2015

People are saying-


She has a right to say her hate speech but if she gets shot she should expect it since fundies get pissed off-

compare to repukes who would say-

She has a right to go to the bar late at night in a mini dress but if she gets drunk and raped she should have expected it-

lame54

(35,287 posts)
9. there was little chance of her getting attacked...
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:06 PM
May 2015

certainly less than those who attended
they were her (potential) martyrs

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
24. Can we address how insane it is that ANYONE was at risk for being attacked?
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:47 PM
May 2015

This was literally a cartoon level of bigotry.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
10. Then everyone would want the rapist arrested, just like everyone wanted the shooters arrested.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:07 PM
May 2015

The fact that Gellar was engaged in hosting a despicable hate convention is beside the point. She's still a 'horrible fucking person' for what she does, and she doesn't get any sort of 'pass' on being labeled a 'horrible fucking person' just because somebody tried to kill her.

Saying that in no way 'justifies' or 'excuses' the attack on her.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
13. She successfully baited the lowest common denominators-- which is not blaming anyone.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:13 PM
May 2015

I don't think observing her intolerance and her bigotry is equivalent to blaming her for anything other than being intolerant and a bigot.

She successfully baited the lowest common denominators-- observing as such is not blaming anyone.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
14. Seems like it is excusing them.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:14 PM
May 2015

They were baiting.
She was wearing slutty clothing.

Sounds a lot the same to me.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
16. Yup. He has freedom of speech for that, too.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:32 PM
May 2015

Defending people you agree with is easy. Defending the free speech rights of those you find repulsive is the true test.

 

Snotcicles

(9,089 posts)
19. So you don't think a Florida Preacher traveling to the most
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:41 PM
May 2015

heavily Muslim populated area in the country, to burn a Koran was not done to provoke.
You don't see that as baiting?

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
22. It's still protected.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:44 PM
May 2015

He can do that. It's called making a point. A point I really don't agree with at all, but if you aren't going to defend free speech because you don't like the point being made and because the act is shocking, then you aren't really defending free speech.

And it seems like you are pretty close to saying that if he did burn that book in a Muslim area, that the outcome of violence is a foregone conclusion. How about they just don't fucking attack him? Seems like a better plan and one most Muslims would agree with. Though you hint differently.

 

Snotcicles

(9,089 posts)
28. No my point was you were equating "baiting" to "a women wearing slutty clothes".
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:50 PM
May 2015

There is a difference.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
26. Of course it was baiting. And my response is, So what?
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:49 PM
May 2015

It's baiting to burn an American flag. It's baiting for Madonna to do whatever Madonna does at any given moment.

Baiting is protected speech.

 

Oktober

(1,488 posts)
54. Sure it was provoking... So what?
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:41 PM
May 2015

Folks who get irritated because we mock their particular sky daddy don't deserve respect in the first place.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
48. nor does calling that same free speech irresponsible negate its original freedom
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:14 PM
May 2015

"Defending the free speech rights of those you find repulsive is the true test."

Nor does calling that same free speech irresponsible negate its original freedom, nor does the observation that she used her forum to bait. And it worked. Effectively.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
46. Rational observation however, forces us to conclude that of the two, the meter, the intent and the c
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:12 PM
May 2015

"Sounds a lot the same to me...." Merely because it validates your pre-existing premise predicated ion a faulty equivalency.

Rational observation however, forces us to conclude that of the two, the meter, the intent and the colloquials are quite different indeed... as that rational mind sees the relevant difference between assigning blame and mere observation.

Though I realize the convenience of closing one's eyes to a relevant and precise set of differences to better assist in righteous proclamations of support for free speech whilst implying that those who do not share that precise position do not.


Half-Century Man

(5,279 posts)
17. What if a woman trolled rapists, gave out her address, and waited with a shotgun?
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:36 PM
May 2015

I do understand you wanting to present your question in the starkest possible terms to exemplify your argument. I hate being forced to respond in kind to a horrible example. But the counterpoint is important.

Human beings died in a baited trap. A trap set with hatred. Baited with hatred, Sprung with hatred. Resulting in an increase of hatred. I have no sympathy for the victims of the trap or the setters of the trap. Both got their desired out come; the attackers achieved martyrdom, and the event holders got to shoot someone legally.
My sympathy is with the rest of the world who are forced to deal with harvest of hatred.

Rape is a violent crime of dominance, preceded only by murder in villainy. To be coerced into even hinting theoretical rapists deserved some small sympathy made my fingers hurt.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
20. I don't care if she walked naked through a frat house
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:41 PM
May 2015

or whatever bizarre scenario you want to create.

She shouldn't be raped and we shouldn't blame the victim. Know how your rapist trolling woman doesn't get raped--DON'T RAPE HER BECAUSE RAPING IS BAD. Sweet fuck. In your scenario you actually want someone to say "well, she had it coming"? Jesus.

And this hateful racist bigots didn't deserve to be shot at and potentially killed because they were exercising their free speech.

And it made your fingers hurt because you know the analogy is spot on and the only way around it is to somehow indicate "she had it coming." Defending the free speech rights of those you find repulsive is a pretty good test of how much you cherish free speech.

Half-Century Man

(5,279 posts)
43. No woman should ever be raped or murdered.
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:10 PM
May 2015

No way, shape, or form.
Your point is very well made and presented.
She was uninjured. But, all isn't good. Two people died, and in spite of them being undesirable; they were people.

The two attackers choose to bring guns instead of protest signs.
Ms. Geller choose to hire a squad of militarized heavily armed goons to provide security.
Ms Geller widely advertised an event designed to enrage low hanging fruit.
Gunfire happened. All participants were pleased.

I am arguing the entire situation is bad; I'm not blaming anyone. Or maybe I'm damning the whole thing.


Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
18. Geller's not the victim here.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:37 PM
May 2015

She was not harmed. A security guard was. Not sure if he was a member of Geller's group or just a contract hire.

Geller wanted this to happen to justify her pre-existing position. Two fools took the bait.

That's a far call from a woman being raped, since the very definition of rape precludes the victim wanting it to happen to her.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
21. Her group as a whole were attacked.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:42 PM
May 2015

If they were successful, some would have been killed.

That is ALL on the attackers. NONE of it is on the victims or potential victims. Free speech is a protected right.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
23. If the organizers of the event set it up to provoke the likelihood of such an attack...
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:46 PM
May 2015

....and the point of the provocation is to merely justify their own pre-existing self-serving beliefs, they do share some responsibility as to any resulting injury or death.

The people organizing this event were not actually interested in free speech or expression. They wanted there to be a scene. That's reckless behavior.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
25. How about
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:48 PM
May 2015

DON'T TRY TO KILL PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY ARE DRAWING PICTURES OF YOUR PROPHET!

But they were doing it on purpose!

DON'T CARE!

But they were doing it to be mean!

DON'T CARE!

But they were doing it to make us look bad!

NICE JOB MAKING THEIR POINT, ASSHATS!

Ick. You go ahead victim blaming. Personally, I have to take a hot shower.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
29. Again, Pam Geller's not the victim.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:50 PM
May 2015

Last edited Tue May 5, 2015, 12:22 PM - Edit history (1)

The security guard who got shot is, but she most certainly isn't.

 

phil89

(1,043 posts)
76. "Maybe" the guard who got shot
Tue May 5, 2015, 12:18 PM
May 2015

is a victim? That whooosh you hear is your credibility flying out the window. Or was he part of the baiting and therefore to blame?

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
30. They share no responsibility except in the vaguest moral sense
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:51 PM
May 2015

Which is a weird position to take if you are somehow trying to undercut the moral responsibility of the religious fanatics who responded violently.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
31. She could have been harmed though.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:52 PM
May 2015

I obviously don't support her nonsense, but she had the freedom to say whatever she wants, as long as she doesn't directly threat or harm anyone.

She was a target.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
37. If she was a target, she was a willing one.
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:03 PM
May 2015

Unfortunately, others were not and therein lies her selfish recklessness.

If she held the event wanting there to be violence, she was in fact threatening harm to others, even if she wasn't the direct agent.

Response to Tommy_Carcetti (Reply #37)

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
42. Nope.
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:09 PM
May 2015

She's not the girl wearing a short dress who was raped.

She's the girl who thinks a man is a rapist and lures him in and voluntarily has sex with him, and then afterwards claims she was raped so she can prove to the world he's a rapist. And who knows, maybe the guy was in fact a rapist, but that doesn't make her his victim.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
45. She was voluntarily shot at?
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:12 PM
May 2015

That's a unique interpretation.

(And I know that she specifically was not shot at. I'm just making a point).

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
47. Well, she personally wasn't.
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:13 PM
May 2015

Her event was, and that's what she wanted to happen. That's why she held the event. It had nothing to do with the First Amendment because she doesn't actually respect the First Amendment.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
49. When Larry Flynt was shot by an anti-porn fanatic, was he asking for it?
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:15 PM
May 2015

Screw it.

Let's go there.

Was MLK asking for it?

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
51. Yes, MLK was totally asking for it.
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:18 PM
May 2015

Because the entire civil rights movement was about making white people look as bad and as violent as possible.


if you haven't figured that one out.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
52. Actually, it sort of was
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:24 PM
May 2015

MLK launched a major campaign in to integrate housing in Chicago and was thoroughly defeated by Mayor Daley.

Why because Daley marched with him. Daley gave him awards at the end of marches. Daley fined the hell out of the slumlords in the buildings MLK lived in. Daley told his police that if they touched a hair on MLK's head, they would have hell to pay. Daley made vague promises to clean up slums. And then he simply out-waited MLK and did nothing.

Anyplace MLK did not encounter violent resistance, he struggled to achieve any victories.

He won the victories he did because images of white police officers beating the shit out of black grandmothers moved people to action.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
60. By drawing pictures?
Mon May 4, 2015, 06:36 PM
May 2015

That's what we're talking about here. Drawing pictures.

If a group of deranged Republicans decided to kill anyone who wrote anything that they deemed to be offensive to Republicans, would DU be responsible for provoking their attacks?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
41. "If she was a target, she was a willing one."
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:07 PM
May 2015

You can't possibly be serious.

Do you know that there are xtain fundies out there, ready to take things to the next level.. You can't possibly protect the attempted murderers over free speech/cartoon drawing.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
32. 'That being said'...usually means you are trying to link two things that have no relationship.
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:52 PM
May 2015

It is pathetic that you use rape as your tool to get people to agree with you. Geller was not raped nor was she shot or injured. Fail.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
33. Gellar was 100% unharmed
Mon May 4, 2015, 04:54 PM
May 2015

More than that, she got the reaction she wanted and now has public forum to air her hate speech.

Gellar isn't a victim. The guard who got shot is a victim, and the police officers who had to kill the two guys can be considered victims. Gellar and her compatriots spent the entire time smirking and tweeting about how right they were all along.

She is not culpable for the decisions of the two idiots, but your attempt to equate her to a victim of rape is simply a sign that you maybe don't have much understanding for people who have actually been raped.

Warpy

(111,254 posts)
36. Geller is what she is.
Mon May 4, 2015, 05:02 PM
May 2015

My ire is reserved for the school system that sponsored her bile. What the hell were they thinking? Hate should never have any sort of official sanction.

Also, she was in little danger. She was guarded to the max and the two yahoos who showed up were dressed like central casting Jihadists with Kevlar and Big Ugly Guns.

Also, freedom of speech is not absolute. Oh, she'll never be arrested for spewing her bile and that's what freedom of speech means. However, going out of your way to goad other human beings is not a smart thing to do. Lots of them will try to hit back.

I have no sympathy for Geller in this. I have no sympathy for the idiots who showed up to defend Islam from cartoons and got shot before they could shoot anybody else.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
63. I agree. And I think the rape analogy isn't appropriate.
Mon May 4, 2015, 07:05 PM
May 2015

Geller wanted a response and prepared for it. Rape victims do not want to be assaulted.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
67. Not what I agreed to at all.
Mon May 4, 2015, 09:36 PM
May 2015

Where did I say she "had it coming"?

She definitely was attempting to provoke and it worked. She probably did it to prove a point as to how horrible the "other" religion is. Why was she so heavily guarded?

Your rape analogy just doesn't apply here. She was not a victim.

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
58. Dude, thats sick
Mon May 4, 2015, 06:03 PM
May 2015

of course I wouldn't want to see anyone raped OR murdered.

All men have an emotion to kill; when they strongly dislike some one they involuntarily wish he was dead. I have never killed any one, but I have read some obituary notices with great satisfaction.

Clarence Darrow

Some attribute that general saying to Mark Twain, but he never said it.

"I've never wished a man dead, but I have read some obituaries with great pleasure." That quote, attributed to Mark Twain, popped up in a lot of places yesterday, as some people found themselves struggling with their feelings after the death of Osama bin Laden. If you're against killing on principle, but still no great fan of bin Laden, the Twain quote might have seemed perfectly suited to the occasion.

Just one problem: Twain never said it. In fact, no one ever said it in precisely that form. Matt Blum at Wired has the fact-check: the quotation actually comes from Clarence Darrow, the lawyer of Scopes Trial fame. Here's a fuller version of the quote, which appears in Darrow's 1932 work The Story of My Life


http://www.thewire.com/national/2011/05/mark-twain-didnt-say-thing-about-obituaries/37279/

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
61. Effing ridiculous post...
Mon May 4, 2015, 06:41 PM
May 2015

Nobody is doing that...,they are simply pointing out that she doesn't give a rat's a*8 about free speech, she wanted to provoke, and if innocent people died, fine with her...pathetic

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
65. even those that don't care about free speech
Mon May 4, 2015, 08:27 PM
May 2015

Still have the protections.

Do you have any source that she wanted innocent people to die? Or didn't care?

The people at her event should not be blamed. Ever.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
62. Did this mythical "horrible, racist, ultra-right-wing woman"...
Mon May 4, 2015, 06:44 PM
May 2015

...very publically attempt to goad her attacker(s) into the rape?

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