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For those of us whose mother's are no longer with us, with love (Original Post) uppityperson May 2015 OP
. Cooley Hurd May 2015 #1
Thank you for posting this. Rhiannon12866 May 2015 #2
Thank you. nt LiberalElite May 2015 #3
Thank you TheKentuckian May 2015 #4
Thank you LeftInTX May 2015 #5
Thanks. MBS May 2015 #6
Thanks... tosh May 2015 #7
Thank you. kiva May 2015 #8
Thank you! wendylaroux May 2015 #9
Thank you. Solly Mack May 2015 #10
Happy Mother's Day Mom. Miss you. bluesbassman May 2015 #11
To all we have lost. bigwillq May 2015 #12
My mom would have loved this and I love it too! japple May 2015 #13
Thank You Kindly Sherman A1 May 2015 #14
. NRaleighLiberal May 2015 #15
It will be 50 years this September Jackpine Radical May 2015 #16
Thanks Demeter May 2015 #17
Mother's Day is bittersweet for me. Laurian May 2015 #18
Thank you sarge43 May 2015 #19
Thank you. GoCubsGo May 2015 #20
My first also... SoapBox May 2015 #23
I was just reflecting on my mother and DURHAM D May 2015 #21
Thank you, uppityperson! ColesCountyDem May 2015 #22
What a beautiful gesture, thank you. :) ClusterFreak May 2015 #24
Thank you. I miss my mom so much. Nt Bonobo May 2015 #25
Almost 21 years since mom died malaise May 2015 #26
Thank you Uppity. icymist May 2015 #27
Thanks... kentuck May 2015 #28
Thank you Gothmog May 2015 #29
Spend as much time as possible with your mother, a day without doing so will never return. Thinkingabout May 2015 #30
It never gets easier... dawnie51 May 2015 #31
K&R! Omaha Steve May 2015 #32
Mom went home to Jesus in 1995 workinclasszero May 2015 #33
Damnit! There has been something in my eye all day. Hotler May 2015 #34
I miss my mother every da. She was a beautiful spirit and person, an angel. Thanks. appalachiablue May 2015 #35
Hear hear and thank you BumRushDaShow May 2015 #36
My beloved mom passed 7 years ago. MoonRiver May 2015 #37
Thanks, that was clever. Curmudgeoness May 2015 #38
Thanks for this post Oldtimeralso May 2015 #39
Thanks rode by to check on mom today. Historic NY May 2015 #40
Thank you! radhika May 2015 #41
Thank You! Liberalynn May 2015 #42
Thank you. abakan May 2015 #43
Thanks vive la commune May 2015 #44
Hugs. Both of mine are gone. 840high May 2015 #46
Thank you. 840high May 2015 #45
Thank you. applegrove May 2015 #47
Thank you Richard D May 2015 #48
Thanks Mom. GeorgeGist May 2015 #49
Gone But Never Forgotten n2doc May 2015 #50
Mom's been gone for 10 years. redstateblues May 2015 #51
My mom was one of the orneriest people who ever walked the earth tularetom May 2015 #52
gone four years Skittles May 2015 #53

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
14. Thank You Kindly
Sun May 10, 2015, 05:36 PM
May 2015

This is the first year without Mom being around for Mother's Day for me, your OP was appreciated.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,014 posts)
15. .
Sun May 10, 2015, 05:40 PM
May 2015

My Mother's Day gift - my host for a talk at the Flower Shuttle last week came to get some plants today and brought me these - she is in her 80s, spunky, wonderful, and we spent a delightful 30 minutes walking around my yard today. The Flower Shuttle makes flower bouquets and delivers them to cancer patients. I don't know what to do with all my warm emotions today.

For you, Mom!

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
16. It will be 50 years this September
Sun May 10, 2015, 05:41 PM
May 2015

since my mother died.

She lives on in my memory, and in those of all the special-needs children and others whom she taught, I am sure.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
18. Mother's Day is bittersweet for me.
Sun May 10, 2015, 05:49 PM
May 2015

While I'm blessed to have children with whom I can celebrate, I lost my mother in the wee hours of the morning after Mother's Day 5 years ago. The memory of those final hours hits hardest on Mother's Day, but I can smile through the tears knowing how much we demonstrated our love and appreciation while she was with us.

DURHAM D

(32,609 posts)
21. I was just reflecting on my mother and
Sun May 10, 2015, 05:57 PM
May 2015

several of my female ancestors. I have been building on my parents genealogy work but really focusing on my female ancestors.

Just a few of the women I have been thinking about -

One of my 3rd Great Grandmothers was a physician in Germany and migrated to a small Illinois town in 1865 when she was 55. She continued to practice until she died in 1877.

A Great Grandmother was the first woman to sit on the Board of the local Coop (1904). The only reason she was allowed on the board was that my Great Grandfather died in a farming accident. They had just purchased the farm the year before and the men thought she would move on soon as she had 6 children, 5 girls and only 1 boy. She held on and the farm is still in the family. In fact, I am going to the annual Coop meeting later this month. Thank you Grandma.

One of my Great GMs was accused of being a witch in 1692 in Andover, MA. She was in her 50s but was not found guilty and she was not executed.

Catherine of York is my 14th Great Grandmother and while that is interesting I am more fascinated, and in awe, of the women who came to this new country staring in the early 1600s and continued to arrive through the mid-1800s. Most came as young women but many, many came here when they were in their 50s and 60s and one who arrived when she was 82.

Regardless of status, country of origin, etc. their job was to have babies. Almost all of them had between 8 and 14 children. Several died in childbirth at an age when it was not reasonable to expect them to survive.

Thank you to my strong, enduring, and loving Foremothers.

ClusterFreak

(3,112 posts)
24. What a beautiful gesture, thank you. :)
Sun May 10, 2015, 06:03 PM
May 2015

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This is my mom Gloria (she was a longtime DUer, known here as "Glarius&quot . She passed away almost two years ago now. Thinking of her all day today, and miss her every day.

icymist

(15,888 posts)
27. Thank you Uppity.
Sun May 10, 2015, 06:09 PM
May 2015

¡ןןǝʍ sɐ ʎɐp s,ɹǝɥʇoɯ ןnɟɹǝpuoʍ ɐ buıʌɐɥ ǝɹɐ noʎ ǝdoɥ ı

dawnie51

(959 posts)
31. It never gets easier...
Sun May 10, 2015, 06:13 PM
May 2015

32 yrs., and every Mother's Day, it still makes me sad. Thank you for remembering us.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
33. Mom went home to Jesus in 1995
Sun May 10, 2015, 06:49 PM
May 2015

She had a very hard life on this earth sorry to say.

She earned her rest and peace.

l miss her alot.

I hope everyone in this thread has great memories of their mom today.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
38. Thanks, that was clever.
Sun May 10, 2015, 07:03 PM
May 2015

I don't believe in heaven, but if it gets people through the day, whatever works.

Mother's Day is the hardest day of the year....and the build up to it. I have some friends who just lost their mother earlier this year, and I warned them in April to steel themselves for this day. They are having a hard time dealing with it without the constant reminder. This morning, I sent them a message telling them "Happy Mother's Day, focus on your children and enjoy the day". I know how hard it is, after 14 years.

Your post cheered me.

Oldtimeralso

(1,937 posts)
39. Thanks for this post
Sun May 10, 2015, 07:03 PM
May 2015

It is 21 years since I've lost my mom. It was the week before mothers day and that was the worst week of my life at least so far!

 

Liberalynn

(7,549 posts)
42. Thank You!
Sun May 10, 2015, 07:23 PM
May 2015

Mine passed of complications from a form of leukemia in 2008. We didn't always have the easiest of relationships but I know she loved me and I loved her. Still miss her almost everyday!

redstateblues

(10,565 posts)
51. Mom's been gone for 10 years.
Mon May 11, 2015, 04:08 PM
May 2015

She was my hero. Mother's Day always sneaks up on me. I'm still struggling today.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
52. My mom was one of the orneriest people who ever walked the earth
Mon May 11, 2015, 04:27 PM
May 2015

She was the embodiment of the word "skeptical" and she taught all three of us to be skeptical as well. She was intimidating to people who didn't know her but inside she was mush. She devoted a lot of her time, and what meager fortune she had, to the rescue of homeless and/or abused horses, dogs and cats. I can remember more than once seeing her break down in tears because some critter died when she was unable to get help to it in time.

She was a navy nurse during WWII and I think it left her with a sense of disappointment and anger at the horrible things human beings could do to other human beings. If she were still with us she would be 100 this summer. She's been gone for 12 years and I realize more than ever the impact she had on me.

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