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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsFor those of us whose mother's are no longer with us, with love
ɯoɯ ʎɐp s,ɹǝɥʇoɯ ʎddɐɥ
Cooley Hurd
(26,877 posts)Rhiannon12866
(205,320 posts)It's a tough day for a lot of us.
LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)TheKentuckian
(25,026 posts)LeftInTX
(25,317 posts)MBS
(9,688 posts)tosh
(4,423 posts)kiva
(4,373 posts)wendylaroux
(2,925 posts)This is my mom Alice.
It has been close to two years now. --miss her every day.
Solly Mack
(90,766 posts)bluesbassman
(19,373 posts)Thanks uppity.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)RIP Nonni.
japple
(9,825 posts)Thanks, uppity, for posting.
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)This is the first year without Mom being around for Mother's Day for me, your OP was appreciated.
NRaleighLiberal
(60,014 posts)My Mother's Day gift - my host for a talk at the Flower Shuttle last week came to get some plants today and brought me these - she is in her 80s, spunky, wonderful, and we spent a delightful 30 minutes walking around my yard today. The Flower Shuttle makes flower bouquets and delivers them to cancer patients. I don't know what to do with all my warm emotions today.
For you, Mom!
Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)since my mother died.
She lives on in my memory, and in those of all the special-needs children and others whom she taught, I am sure.
Demeter
(85,373 posts)Laurian
(2,593 posts)While I'm blessed to have children with whom I can celebrate, I lost my mother in the wee hours of the morning after Mother's Day 5 years ago. The memory of those final hours hits hardest on Mother's Day, but I can smile through the tears knowing how much we demonstrated our love and appreciation while she was with us.
sarge43
(28,941 posts)Margaret was a wonderful mother and my best friend. Miss you, Mom.
GoCubsGo
(32,083 posts)This is the first one without my mom.
SoapBox
(18,791 posts)All of 2015 is going to be so different.
Thanks uppity.
DURHAM D
(32,609 posts)several of my female ancestors. I have been building on my parents genealogy work but really focusing on my female ancestors.
Just a few of the women I have been thinking about -
One of my 3rd Great Grandmothers was a physician in Germany and migrated to a small Illinois town in 1865 when she was 55. She continued to practice until she died in 1877.
A Great Grandmother was the first woman to sit on the Board of the local Coop (1904). The only reason she was allowed on the board was that my Great Grandfather died in a farming accident. They had just purchased the farm the year before and the men thought she would move on soon as she had 6 children, 5 girls and only 1 boy. She held on and the farm is still in the family. In fact, I am going to the annual Coop meeting later this month. Thank you Grandma.
One of my Great GMs was accused of being a witch in 1692 in Andover, MA. She was in her 50s but was not found guilty and she was not executed.
Catherine of York is my 14th Great Grandmother and while that is interesting I am more fascinated, and in awe, of the women who came to this new country staring in the early 1600s and continued to arrive through the mid-1800s. Most came as young women but many, many came here when they were in their 50s and 60s and one who arrived when she was 82.
Regardless of status, country of origin, etc. their job was to have babies. Almost all of them had between 8 and 14 children. Several died in childbirth at an age when it was not reasonable to expect them to survive.
Thank you to my strong, enduring, and loving Foremothers.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)This is always a hard day for me, even after 13 years.
ClusterFreak
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This is my mom Gloria (she was a longtime DUer, known here as "Glarius" . She passed away almost two years ago now. Thinking of her all day today, and miss her every day.
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)malaise
(268,997 posts)I still miss her
icymist
(15,888 posts)¡ןןǝʍ sɐ ʎɐp s,ɹǝɥʇoɯ ןnɟɹǝpuoʍ ɐ buıʌɐɥ ǝɹɐ noʎ ǝdoɥ ı
kentuck
(111,094 posts)Gothmog
(145,231 posts)Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)dawnie51
(959 posts)32 yrs., and every Mother's Day, it still makes me sad. Thank you for remembering us.
Omaha Steve
(99,630 posts)workinclasszero
(28,270 posts)She had a very hard life on this earth sorry to say.
She earned her rest and peace.
l miss her alot.
I hope everyone in this thread has great memories of their mom today.
Hotler
(11,421 posts)I miss you mom.
appalachiablue
(41,131 posts)BumRushDaShow
(128,967 posts)To mine. Missing her dearly.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)She was my best friend and I still so miss her.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)I don't believe in heaven, but if it gets people through the day, whatever works.
Mother's Day is the hardest day of the year....and the build up to it. I have some friends who just lost their mother earlier this year, and I warned them in April to steel themselves for this day. They are having a hard time dealing with it without the constant reminder. This morning, I sent them a message telling them "Happy Mother's Day, focus on your children and enjoy the day". I know how hard it is, after 14 years.
Your post cheered me.
Oldtimeralso
(1,937 posts)It is 21 years since I've lost my mom. It was the week before mothers day and that was the worst week of my life at least so far!
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)radhika
(1,008 posts)Liberalynn
(7,549 posts)Mine passed of complications from a form of leukemia in 2008. We didn't always have the easiest of relationships but I know she loved me and I loved her. Still miss her almost everyday!
abakan
(1,819 posts)I miss my mom, my best friend and greatest supporter, so much it hurts.
vive la commune
(94 posts)I lost my mom in 2006. Father's day this year will be harder, because I just lost my dad two months ago.
840high
(17,196 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)applegrove
(118,652 posts)Richard D
(8,754 posts)A difficult day for me. Glad it is over.
GeorgeGist
(25,321 posts)n2doc
(47,953 posts)redstateblues
(10,565 posts)She was my hero. Mother's Day always sneaks up on me. I'm still struggling today.
tularetom
(23,664 posts)She was the embodiment of the word "skeptical" and she taught all three of us to be skeptical as well. She was intimidating to people who didn't know her but inside she was mush. She devoted a lot of her time, and what meager fortune she had, to the rescue of homeless and/or abused horses, dogs and cats. I can remember more than once seeing her break down in tears because some critter died when she was unable to get help to it in time.
She was a navy nurse during WWII and I think it left her with a sense of disappointment and anger at the horrible things human beings could do to other human beings. If she were still with us she would be 100 this summer. She's been gone for 12 years and I realize more than ever the impact she had on me.