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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Mon May 18, 2015, 11:35 PM May 2015

You might not think you're sexist – until you take a look at your bookshelf

But passive bias is still bias - and it has ripple effects into the broader culture. Is it really so much to ask that we pay attention to what shapes our tastes?


For example, I was riding the subway recently when I noticed my seatmate scrolling through a Twitter feed that looked remarkably like mine. I was tickled to be sitting next to a like-minded person, but as I looked on I noticed there was one thing that seemed to be missing from his newsfeed: women. He was following fantastic and smart men, but still - as far as I could tell, all men.

I got the same uneasy feeling when I listened to a podcast interview with a TV showrunner and writer that I admire. He spoke eloquently about his passions and mentors - and the people whose work he liked most. All men.

I’m sure both of these people are smart, engaged and not deliberately or actively sexist - but when your worldview is solely shaped by men, you are missing out. And like it or not, your taste in music, books, television or art says something about you: it sends a message about what you think is worth your time, what you think is interesting and who you think is smart. So if the only culture you pay attention to is created by men, or created by white people, you are making an explicit statement about who and what is important.
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/may/18/you-might-not-think-youre-a-sexist-until-you-take-a-look-at-your-bookshelf

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You might not think you're sexist – until you take a look at your bookshelf (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA May 2015 OP
This has been true since I was in HS... haikugal May 2015 #1
Same applies to racism and heterosexism (and a few other -isms). Behind the Aegis May 2015 #2
the first LGBT book I read was a novel called The Well of Loneliness cali May 2015 #4
I named one of my dogs after the horse in that book. cwydro May 2015 #8
+1 gollygee May 2015 #10
+1000. My loved ones often don't get why we can't see most films closeupready May 2015 #31
I personally dislike the idea of "positive" vs "negative" portrayals tishaLA May 2015 #69
When I said "negative" I was thinking more pedophile, pervert, stalker... Behind the Aegis May 2015 #75
Reading too much into his behavior simply on the twitter thing JonLP24 May 2015 #3
Who and what is important to me or anyone else Sobax May 2015 #5
Of course and that is not the point. morningfog May 2015 #16
Then what is the point? Sobax May 2015 #21
You don't speak for most men. morningfog May 2015 #22
But you do speak for them? Sobax May 2015 #23
Where did I say that? What the fuck? morningfog May 2015 #29
I don't see why you need to judge other people upaloopa May 2015 #61
I never judged anyone for what they want to read. morningfog May 2015 #63
What if we read for pleasure.. MicaelS May 2015 #111
Good lord. No one is forcing you to do anything. morningfog May 2015 #112
Who said they didn't have a right? laundry_queen May 2015 #17
I already know that I pick books because they interest me Sobax May 2015 #20
The whole point is that, by not paying any attention to it, gollygee May 2015 #24
In what way am I limiting myself? Sobax May 2015 #26
The article wasn't written specifically to you gollygee May 2015 #27
If you don't read only books by men, then why are you objecting to the OP? n/t kcr May 2015 #49
Well I haven't sat down and worked out exactly what the male-female ratio is Sobax May 2015 #52
Well, yes. That's the point. kcr May 2015 #53
Like most men, it's just not something I consider Sobax May 2015 #55
Okay. But the point of the OP is it is something to consider. kcr May 2015 #67
I don't agree that they are shut out, to be honest Sobax May 2015 #68
But the point of the OP isn't that there are no widely respected female authors kcr May 2015 #71
I don't think it's preventing talented female authors becoming successful Sobax May 2015 #72
But if it isn't something you consider, is it possible you're wrong? kcr May 2015 #73
I accept that our tastes are influenced by our environment Sobax May 2015 #74
A perfect example of what the author was talking about. kcr May 2015 #100
Like most men? When did you do a poll of all men in America? Is it just men in America? NoJusticeNoPeace May 2015 #78
Men in the Western world Sobax May 2015 #80
So you are saying you know that most men in the western world are not at all misogynist? NoJusticeNoPeace May 2015 #83
We're making a bit of a leap here Sobax May 2015 #85
I think I have made my point. But my bet is you wont see it. NoJusticeNoPeace May 2015 #86
Well if I was to say no, I don't think most Western men are misogynist Sobax May 2015 #87
You just suggested that making a conscience decision to only read books written by men NoJusticeNoPeace May 2015 #88
I didn't say there was anything conscious about my own preference Sobax May 2015 #89
Did I say you hate women? NoJusticeNoPeace May 2015 #91
How is it misogynist exactly? Sobax May 2015 #93
Oh lawd laundry_queen May 2015 #102
You wrote: "All men born in an extremely misogynist society" jonno99 May 2015 #103
Wait a minute. Are some men hatched out of eggs? n/t kcr May 2015 #109
What happens if an intelligent person re-examines how his or her views are shaped... Orrex May 2015 #153
why is it an either/or Skittles May 2015 #165
It isn't an either/or, which is my point Orrex May 2015 #176
you just completely negated your point Skittles May 2015 #181
Not at all. Orrex May 2015 #194
it is AMAZING how many people miss this point Skittles May 2015 #164
It's pretty clearly a passive/aggressive insult, though Orrex May 2015 #177
um, no, that's not what it is, not at all Skittles May 2015 #179
I think perhaps I was unclear. Orrex May 2015 #193
it's The Guardian: "33 new ways to flagellate yourself about how you never suspected MisterP May 2015 #37
You don't think it's a real issue that people often don't think about how their tastes are shaped? kcr May 2015 #50
Apparently Jessica Valenti in particular already has a reputation for this kind of thing Sobax May 2015 #57
oh, it IS Valenti, I should've checked MisterP May 2015 #64
Julie Burchill was another one if I recall Sobax May 2015 #70
Burchill was already perfectly ghastly when she started as a music reviewer hifiguy May 2015 #173
you again Skittles May 2015 #106
If you look at your bookshelf and there's no books, lovemydog May 2015 #6
Unless you have a Kindle or a Nook! kentauros May 2015 #15
True dat, my friend. lovemydog May 2015 #120
I have a backlog of books to read, kentauros May 2015 #130
Ah, you're like me. You like to read one serious book lovemydog May 2015 #133
Actually, she covers "future" lives in "Beyond Past Lives" kentauros May 2015 #136
LOL, nice. lovemydog May 2015 #137
I don't know the different models any more. kentauros May 2015 #138
Cool. Interesting point about the sexuality of authors. lovemydog May 2015 #139
Honestly, I'm a slow reader. kentauros May 2015 #140
Good one! Thanks for the smile! jonno99 May 2015 #114
Glad you smiled, lovemydog May 2015 #119
Book burning party!!!!!! 1939 May 2015 #7
Oh yeah, that's totally what it says gollygee May 2015 #11
That's what you got out of this? laundry_queen May 2015 #18
I imagine it can often be difficult to accurately infer a simple point. LanternWaste May 2015 #38
If you're so desperately afraid of having to prove you're not a bigot- bettyellen May 2015 #44
oh stop it! Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #98
This person is reaching... Oktober May 2015 #9
I don't think they're offended. Just suggesting people could be more aware. cyberswede May 2015 #28
How about someone being aware of someone else reading their twitter feed over their shoulder on the Monk06 May 2015 #113
You seem upset. cyberswede May 2015 #115
I am upset. I'm tired of being called an endemic rapist because I was born a male. Rape Culture Monk06 May 2015 #116
The article merely suggests we might want to look at what shapes our world view cyberswede May 2015 #117
Valenti is not just indulging in an exercise of gentle persuasion that we should be more reflective Monk06 May 2015 #118
+1000 jonno99 May 2015 #128
Lol at comfortably well off women writers. Many women could not be published with a woman's name.... bettyellen May 2015 #190
I'm just as entitled to wallow in my resentments as Emma Sulkowitz and I'm not trying to get anyone Monk06 May 2015 #195
Wallow away, forgetting actual history and supplying pointless lists in it's stead. bettyellen May 2015 #196
I have no problem with feminists as long as they are intellectually honest about the progress Monk06 May 2015 #197
Agreed. I've begun puting most of them here on ignore. closeupready May 2015 #129
This might be more societal than individual gollygee May 2015 #12
Anyone who has all the Harry Potter books gets lots of brownie points in this regard. Nye Bevan May 2015 #13
*raises hand* frylock May 2015 #35
Fantastic, and The Silkworm too. Nye Bevan May 2015 #36
I just learned a couple of weeks ago about The Silkworm.. frylock May 2015 #39
I even enjoyed The Casual Vacancy Retrograde May 2015 #90
I absolutely loved the Potter books. hifiguy May 2015 #142
A her publisher's request mercuryblues May 2015 #198
Now I'll have to ask On-Semi, Int'l Rectifier etc. who wrote their Catalogs (male or female) One_Life_To_Give May 2015 #14
That is about as nerdy a post as I can imagine. hifiguy May 2015 #143
Maybe When I RobinA May 2015 #19
... 99Forever May 2015 #25
I attempted to start a discussion about sexism in sports, closeupready May 2015 #30
Oh- must have been your "tone"- right? bettyellen May 2015 #42
I want not to hijack this thread, but here's the post: closeupready May 2015 #51
Ah, I saw that you ignored all the reasonable replies and went on to insist it was sexism, lol. bettyellen May 2015 #105
Oh my God, it applies to all minorities as well. Example, it's obvious from the posts about LGBT Bluenorthwest May 2015 #32
+1000000000000000000000 NoJusticeNoPeace May 2015 #81
I read books based on topics, not authors FLPanhandle May 2015 #33
History books can be different depending on who writes them gollygee May 2015 #34
As history is not static, but repeatedly and consistently interpreted. LanternWaste May 2015 #40
Historians have consistantly downplayed the accomplishments of women and POC bettyellen May 2015 #41
This is a ridiculously good point gollygee May 2015 #43
All true FLPanhandle May 2015 #45
It's stuck me as funny how people even here assume that non-fiction= accurate portrayal of history.. bettyellen May 2015 #46
Which is why everyone should read Howard Zinn. hifiguy May 2015 #144
Great book! But I am puzzled by so many being offended by asking to just pause and reflect about bettyellen May 2015 #145
As I posted downthread, I just follow my interests. hifiguy May 2015 #147
Well it sounds like you're pretty well rounded but I don't doubt that there are some bettyellen May 2015 #148
A female friend - the wife of a now-late friend of mine, hifiguy May 2015 #149
Davies sounds like something I would like- thank you! And here is where bettyellen May 2015 #169
He has been called Canada's greatest "man of letters" hifiguy May 2015 #171
I was thinking the Cornish trilogy- which one starts off better? bettyellen May 2015 #172
Cornish is lighter in tone, IIRC hifiguy May 2015 #174
Will definitely check him out- thank you greatly! bettyellen May 2015 #175
Wow- can you imagine what kind of troglodyte would get so offended by my post bettyellen May 2015 #182
How that post of yours could inspire a troll is quite beyond me. hifiguy May 2015 #184
I wish I knew what the troll said, lol. for some reason people really open up to me and I've bettyellen May 2015 #185
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2015 #180
The important thing is, people are reading The2ndWheel May 2015 #47
My book and CD collection are mainly female Beaverhausen May 2015 #48
Was that done on purpose? FLPanhandle May 2015 #56
Geez, are we to the point we criticize other upaloopa May 2015 #54
My Bookshelf Is Loaded With. . . ProfessorGAC May 2015 #58
as a purely intellectual exercise you might note how many books are written by women- KittyWampus May 2015 #122
I Get Your Point, But I'll Pass ProfessorGAC May 2015 #123
Well, just so you know I wasn't labeling you sexist. More that society is and can influence KittyWampus May 2015 #125
Fair Enough ProfessorGAC May 2015 #135
It's worth considering el_bryanto May 2015 #59
Sexism and racism don't have to be strong words gollygee May 2015 #77
I understand where you are coming from el_bryanto May 2015 #92
A personal example... haikugal May 2015 #94
The first sentence is much better. Behind the Aegis May 2015 #82
Very good point. Thanks for that. Passive bias. I'd prefer subconscious bias but that's cause KittyWampus May 2015 #126
I read books because they're well writtin, informative, amusing, dramatic, etc. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2015 #60
This is very true, but only if your collections are extremely lopsidedly male. Quantess May 2015 #62
Sorry, but that's entirely too facile tishaLA May 2015 #65
"passive recipient"? that, plus "massive desperation" is Valenti in a nutshell MisterP May 2015 #76
Is it sexist if I have "Brother John" and "Father Huntington"? hfojvt May 2015 #66
I would say the bookshelf may reflect society's perisistent biases moreso geek tragedy May 2015 #79
What are people supposed to do if they find their bookshelves dominated by one gender? LittleBlue May 2015 #84
Why would they have to be random? kcr May 2015 #101
it's strange how the point can be so completely missed on a progressive board Skittles May 2015 #108
The point isn't missed LittleBlue May 2015 #152
you missed it again Skittles May 2015 #158
Interesting LittleBlue May 2015 #162
triple!!! Skittles May 2015 #163
For what it's worth LittleBlue May 2015 #166
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Skittles May 2015 #167
I like good books LittleBlue May 2015 #151
Who cares? romanic May 2015 #95
I am male. Read mostly fiction crime thrillers bigwillq May 2015 #96
I read where my interests lead me. hifiguy May 2015 #97
I haven't gone through my LWolf May 2015 #99
When it comes to music, I've got the bases covered.... Violet_Crumble May 2015 #127
But, do you have the basses covered, too? kentauros May 2015 #132
So if my friend reccomends a book, I have to find out the sex of the author first? Travis_0004 May 2015 #104
The comments section is so Brit. GoneOffShore May 2015 #107
She's been spending too much time reading Griselda Pollock. Yes the world would be a better place Monk06 May 2015 #110
Don't put the author's name or picture on books or articles anymore The2ndWheel May 2015 #121
IMO, article errs in saying "YOU" are sexist if main literary intake is male. It may very well be KittyWampus May 2015 #124
I have a good friend who claims the only book he ever read was Bruce Jenner's biography (1977) Buzz Clik May 2015 #131
LoL! hifiguy May 2015 #141
I'm a white male. Everything I do is wrong. I get it. Blue_Adept May 2015 #134
If you say so- has nothing to do with the OP but.... bettyellen May 2015 #146
It's just the blanket thing from the header/subject Blue_Adept May 2015 #150
Not sure where you see the entitled thing bettyellen May 2015 #159
no one said that Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #188
Would not the same logic hold true in voting patterns? If you vote for men, you must be sexist? lumberjack_jeff May 2015 #154
I actually think this question deserves a response. n/t lumberjack_jeff May 2015 #192
Maybe, but there is more than subconscious sexism going on Android3.14 May 2015 #155
And this looks interesting. can you tell the gender of an author from their writing Android3.14 May 2015 #156
Apparently men submit writing at a rate two times women Android3.14 May 2015 #157
So - publishers advised women to use their first initial only why exactly? bettyellen May 2015 #160
No argument there Android3.14 May 2015 #161
I think it's more like few to none women authors, rather than an equal number... bettyellen May 2015 #170
I try not Snow Leopard May 2015 #168
Read the article, read the comments there, read the comments here. GoneOffShore May 2015 #178
Thank you, Liberal_in_LA! Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #183
' Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #187
... Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #189
Not true. I just picked up a copy of Moby Vagina over the weekend. NightWatcher May 2015 #186
You might not think you're a sexist - but I'm going invent a reason to accuse you of being one! DesMoinesDem May 2015 #191

haikugal

(6,476 posts)
1. This has been true since I was in HS...
Tue May 19, 2015, 12:10 AM
May 2015

I had no idea how influenced I was by the surrounding culture. It takes thought and reading, talk and OP's like this, but we can all improve. The difference between then and now is that there are many more women to look to in our culture than before. We need to keep going!

Thanks for the OP...great post!

Behind the Aegis

(53,919 posts)
2. Same applies to racism and heterosexism (and a few other -isms).
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:14 AM
May 2015

As someone who is an avid TV viewer and has a husband who is the same, and is an avid movie watcher, I noticed this with people's viewing habits, too. How many books do people have from GLBT writers or about GLBT topics or watch programs/movies with POSITIVE portrayals of GLBT people? What about books/movies/shows about other cultures/countries?

It is a function of the subconscious, IMO, to seek out "similar". It takes more of a conscious effort to change it, and finally let it (searching out "the other&quot be something that easily appeals to you.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
4. the first LGBT book I read was a novel called The Well of Loneliness
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:54 AM
May 2015

I was around 12 and it had a huge impact on me. It was in my parents' library- which was a pretty amazing place. My much more modest library is well represented by works from LGBT authors and minority authors. I've always sought out different from me when it comes to reading.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
8. I named one of my dogs after the horse in that book.
Tue May 19, 2015, 06:10 AM
May 2015

I read it years ago too. My dog's name was Raftery.

That book made a huge impression on me as a young woman.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
31. +1000. My loved ones often don't get why we can't see most films
Tue May 19, 2015, 11:14 AM
May 2015

together, or at least, if given an option, why don't I want to see the latest rom com or Hangover or whatever is currently hot in popular culture. Why I behave like a cat avoiding water when I am out and about.

And I give as much of a shit about their confusion as they give about respecting me and who I am.

Which is zero.

tishaLA

(14,176 posts)
69. I personally dislike the idea of "positive" vs "negative" portrayals
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:09 PM
May 2015

I remember when Queer Eye for the Straight Guy started and most people seemed to celebrate the show as a watershed moment. Then came the critiques: it relied too heavily on stereotypes, too many of the guys were really flamboyant, some flirted too aggressively with the straight guys (and this was construed as self-loathing), etc.

Both these opinions came from within the LBGT community, looking at the exact same program, and yet one group saw the portrayal as positive and the other as negative. And for the past few years, the same kinds of opinions have surrounded shows like Modern Family.

Behind the Aegis

(53,919 posts)
75. When I said "negative" I was thinking more pedophile, pervert, stalker...
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:45 PM
May 2015

...perpetually suicidal, rapists, and always promiscuous.

I am familiar with the split personality of the GLBT community all too well. It was much the same with Will & Grace with many hailing it as "breakthrough" and others as nothing more than a "minstrel show." Same was true with Queer as Folk.

As stated above, my "negative" was about reinforcing destructive stereotypes. I view positive as roles which are more inclusive, where the gay character is more than just gay, is integral to the plot, and isn't relegated to "best friend of the leading lady" or solely as comic relief.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
3. Reading too much into his behavior simply on the twitter thing
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:01 AM
May 2015

I used it for awhile quit years ago, I don't know but this seems like assumptions and I have been the receiving end of those all the time and the assumption is always the worst motives

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
5. Who and what is important to me or anyone else
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:47 AM
May 2015

Is really our business and nobody else's. People have a right to like what they like.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
21. Then what is the point?
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:30 AM
May 2015

I think I speak for most men here when I say I'll buy a book because I'm interested in what's written inside it, not because it was written by a man.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
22. You don't speak for most men.
Tue May 19, 2015, 09:00 AM
May 2015

The point of the article was simply to suggest we take a critical and open look at our personal bookshelves. Not to publish or share it with the world. But to ask ourselves if we are getting limited or fuller perspective in our reading choices. It is as simple as that.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
23. But you do speak for them?
Tue May 19, 2015, 09:03 AM
May 2015

Honestly, I don't know any man who'd refuse to read a good book just because it was written by a woman.

Who have you been talking to?

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
29. Where did I say that? What the fuck?
Tue May 19, 2015, 11:00 AM
May 2015

Whatever chip you are carrying on your shoulder has no place here. If you are going to discuss posts with me, read and respond to what I write, not what you are project. Thanks.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
61. I don't see why you need to judge other people
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:41 PM
May 2015

because of what they want to read. You are way overboard if you ask me. We use to say "get a life" but that is not PC is it!

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
63. I never judged anyone for what they want to read.
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:47 PM
May 2015

What are you even talking about?

Did you mean to respond to me?

The dude took offense because he misunderstood the point of the post.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
111. What if we read for pleasure..
Tue May 19, 2015, 10:44 PM
May 2015

And don't want politics injected into our pleasure?

Reading and listening to music are the great pleasures of my life. I get enough politics coming here. I don't need or like some fucking self-appointed busybody scolding me about my private pleasures. It's not like I am smoking, drinking or farting in the presence of others.

And Lois McMaster Bujold and J. K. Rowling are two of my favorite authors. Not favorite women authors. Favorite authors, period.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
112. Good lord. No one is forcing you to do anything.
Tue May 19, 2015, 10:46 PM
May 2015

So many shoulder chips.

If this article doesn't apply to you, ignore it.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
17. Who said they didn't have a right?
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:16 AM
May 2015

However, intelligent people capable of introspection and who care about the type of person they are might be interested in re-examining how their views are being shaped. If you aren't interested in examining your prejudices through what influences you...then don't bother. I really don't get how you took a flying leap into "it's no one's business". Some people appreciate this information.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
20. I already know that I pick books because they interest me
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:27 AM
May 2015

Not because the author is a certain gender or race. It's just not something I pay any attention to. No further introspection is necessary.

And for what it's worth, some of my favorite authors are female. There are no "prejudices" to examine.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
24. The whole point is that, by not paying any attention to it,
Tue May 19, 2015, 09:11 AM
May 2015

people often unknowingly limit themselves in the way the article says. It's a suggestion to start paying attention to it.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
26. In what way am I limiting myself?
Tue May 19, 2015, 09:18 AM
May 2015

As I've said, I'll read anything if it's good and it appeals to me. Over the years, that has included books by women and people of other races and other countries.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
27. The article wasn't written specifically to you
Tue May 19, 2015, 09:22 AM
May 2015

So maybe you specifically aren't limiting yourself. I have no idea. But it's common for people to think of men as neutral and women as different, so books by men about men are just books, and books by women about women are "identity books" and people tend to shy away from them, or even just not notice them. The article has merit.

People are responding to you because your original reply missed the point, not because of your reading choices.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
52. Well I haven't sat down and worked out exactly what the male-female ratio is
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:30 PM
May 2015

But I'd guess 70-80% of the books I read are written by men, which apparently could mean I'm unconsciously sexist according to Jessica Valenti.

kcr

(15,313 posts)
53. Well, yes. That's the point.
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:35 PM
May 2015

It's not conscious. But once it's pointed out, one can either respond by making a conscious effort to search out other authors to diversify their tastes more, or reject the premise as if it isn't possible and remain deliberately ignorant. But once it's been pointed out it's no longer unconscious. It's a choice.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
55. Like most men, it's just not something I consider
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:37 PM
May 2015

Either consciously or unconsciously. If I like the sound of something, I'll read it. I don't care who wrote it.

kcr

(15,313 posts)
67. Okay. But the point of the OP is it is something to consider.
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:03 PM
May 2015

The fact that many do not is the problem and why many women and minorities are too often shut out of media.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
68. I don't agree that they are shut out, to be honest
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:07 PM
May 2015

There are many widely respected female authors.

kcr

(15,313 posts)
71. But the point of the OP isn't that there are no widely respected female authors
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:22 PM
May 2015

So you think sexism doesn't exist?

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
72. I don't think it's preventing talented female authors becoming successful
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:26 PM
May 2015

And if a person happens to prefer books or music written by men, maybe that's just a matter of taste. Not every gender disparity has to be caused by sexism.

kcr

(15,313 posts)
73. But if it isn't something you consider, is it possible you're wrong?
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:37 PM
May 2015

That's the point of the article. It's unconscious. Tastes are influenced by many things. Our social circles, our jobs, where we live, our culture. We aren't born with fully formed sensibilities. Making a conscious choice to consider those things is a good thing. I'm not sure how you can claim that you don't do that, yet be confident in your opinion that everything is just peachy.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
74. I accept that our tastes are influenced by our environment
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:43 PM
May 2015

And I'm happy with my tastes. If it means most of my books are written by men, so be it. It doesn't mean there's any sexism involved.

kcr

(15,313 posts)
100. A perfect example of what the author was talking about.
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:52 PM
May 2015

You're perfectly happy to not examine why your tastes are how they are. You don't think it means any sexism is involved. You haven't even considered if it might be the case. Because you don't care.

NoJusticeNoPeace

(5,018 posts)
78. Like most men? When did you do a poll of all men in America? Is it just men in America?
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:50 PM
May 2015

Or in the world?

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
80. Men in the Western world
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:52 PM
May 2015

I can't speak for men in some parts of the world who won't even shake a woman's hand.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
85. We're making a bit of a leap here
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:55 PM
May 2015

Is it misogynist now to prefer books that happen to have been written by men?

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
87. Well if I was to say no, I don't think most Western men are misogynist
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:59 PM
May 2015

And you disagree, what evidence for that is there? Have you taken a poll of your own? It's just not true in my experience.

NoJusticeNoPeace

(5,018 posts)
88. You just suggested that making a conscience decision to only read books written by men
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:07 PM
May 2015

would be a reasonable, unbiased position to take. Or that you would prefer books by men.
This is misogyny. This is the definition of misogyny

Because, as a man, you have it built into you, all men, myself included.

I cant seem to find your words that I was sure I saw, I thought you said

"do you mean to say if someone preferred books by men this makes them misogynist?"

I thought I saw that, regardless, why do you think a man born in a misogynist culture WOULD prefer books or music by men?

Think about it for a while.

It's OK to admit all men have these tendencies because they grow up in a misogynist society, which pretty much all societies are, maybe with a couple exceptions.

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
89. I didn't say there was anything conscious about my own preference
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:10 PM
May 2015

As I've said, I don't care who wrote a book. It just so happens that most of the stuff I read is written by men. That doesn't mean I hate women, and I don't know how you could make that leap.

What misogynist culture/society are you talking about anyway?

NoJusticeNoPeace

(5,018 posts)
91. Did I say you hate women?
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:16 PM
May 2015

We are wasting our time, it is clear USA is a misogynist society, has been since day one.

Many other countries are.

We are also extremely racist.

All men born in an extremely misogynist society, as USA clearly is, have built into them misogyny.

all men, myself included

Some may work at not being so to the point that they almost never are, but it is an undeniable reality of human nature.

The mere mention that you, personally, might have the characteristics that you are CERTAIN to have by virtue of living in this soceity, brings out the denial and arguing, I get it....trust me

jonno99

(2,620 posts)
103. You wrote: "All men born in an extremely misogynist society"
Tue May 19, 2015, 09:21 PM
May 2015

In my experience all blanket statements tend to be incorrect...

Orrex

(63,169 posts)
153. What happens if an intelligent person re-examines how his or her views are shaped...
Wed May 20, 2015, 03:20 PM
May 2015

and yet he or she determines that his or her views are correct and valid even if they conflict with yours?


Is the hope that people will engage in introspection, or that they will revise their views?

Skittles

(153,111 posts)
165. why is it an either/or
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:11 PM
May 2015

chances are very high that engaging in introspection WILL lead to a revision of views

Orrex

(63,169 posts)
176. It isn't an either/or, which is my point
Wed May 20, 2015, 06:04 PM
May 2015

It's entirely possible that each of the two parties could have views that are incompatible with one another's and yet still be wholly valid. But the way the matter is presented here, it comes across as a statement that one party's views are inherently wrong and must be revised.

Conveniently, the party making that assertion appears to think that further introspection is not required, or that such introspection would only confirm prior conclusions.

Skittles

(153,111 posts)
181. you just completely negated your point
Wed May 20, 2015, 07:36 PM
May 2015

you act as if introspection is a one-time deal, not an on-going process

Orrex

(63,169 posts)
194. Not at all.
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:40 PM
May 2015

I'm simply asserting that all introspection won't lead to the same conclusion, and what are we to make of that difference?

Orrex

(63,169 posts)
177. It's pretty clearly a passive/aggressive insult, though
Wed May 20, 2015, 06:10 PM
May 2015

It addresses "intelligent people" who are "capable of introspection" and interested in improving themselves. Ergo, anyone who doesn't accept the assertion must be unintelligent, incapable of introspection and/or uninterested in self-improvement.

If the person says "I'm intelligent, introspective and eager to improve, but I don't accept that my library demonstrates me to be sexist," what might one conclude, and on what basis?

Skittles

(153,111 posts)
179. um, no, that's not what it is, not at all
Wed May 20, 2015, 07:34 PM
May 2015

NOWHERE have I asserted I am more intelligent.......I know even intelligent people can miss the point.......honestly, forget it.......just not worth it

Orrex

(63,169 posts)
193. I think perhaps I was unclear.
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:39 PM
May 2015

I was referring not to your statement but to the statement in the post to which you replied:

However, intelligent people capable of introspection and who care about the type of person they are might be interested in re-examining how their views are being shaped.
That's the passive-aggressive insult. If a man had posted that in reply to a woman, he'd have rightly been called out for "mansplaining."

There's an undeniable air of superiority in that post, effectively stating "if you were intelligent, Sobax, you wouldn't be afraid of a little introspection." This assumes that Sobax hasn't already bothered with introspection, or else surely he'd have reached a different conclusion.

It's a dog whistle.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
37. it's The Guardian: "33 new ways to flagellate yourself about how you never suspected
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:33 PM
May 2015

Last edited Sun Aug 9, 2015, 08:57 PM - Edit history (1)

you were secretly in the BNP"

handy distraction from real issues I'd say

and my shelf is pretty female

kcr

(15,313 posts)
50. You don't think it's a real issue that people often don't think about how their tastes are shaped?
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:28 PM
May 2015

So how should one go about framing it if they do?

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
57. Apparently Jessica Valenti in particular already has a reputation for this kind of thing
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:38 PM
May 2015

Even the Guardian commenters seem sick of her.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
64. oh, it IS Valenti, I should've checked
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:53 PM
May 2015

she's like the ones who say transwomen are "infiltrating" women: I mean, are they reporting back to some Secret Men's Council?

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
70. Julie Burchill was another one if I recall
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:09 PM
May 2015

Nasty piece of work. I think they eventually got rid of her.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
173. Burchill was already perfectly ghastly when she started as a music reviewer
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:29 PM
May 2015

in New Musical Express back in the 1970s. Like a rotting fish, she did not improve with time. As Capote once said (unfairly IMO) about Kerouac, her "work" is not writing, it's barely typing.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
120. True dat, my friend.
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:07 AM
May 2015

Are you reading any good books lately? I'm still reading a book called Black Against Empire. It's about the Black Panther Party, a riveting read. Next I'm going to read Going Clear, about scientology (the hbo documentary was based on that book). And I always have some fun reading too, like Simpsons comics. What are you reading these days?

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
130. I have a backlog of books to read,
Wed May 20, 2015, 10:14 AM
May 2015

most of them on my Kindle

I was going to go back to one I haven't finished ("Beyond Past Lives" by Mira Kelley) during lunch today. One book I bought recently for my Kindle was because I couldn't find my print copy at home was "Boomerangs: How to Make and Throw Them" by Bernard S. Mason. I pulled out my one wooden pinwheel-type boomerang while my gf was here last month. We had some fun with the cardboard ones, but she wouldn't try the wooden version as it does come back to you, while still spinning. It's pretty lightweight, so no fear of getting injured

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
133. Ah, you're like me. You like to read one serious book
Wed May 20, 2015, 10:52 AM
May 2015

and another totally awesome fun book at the same time.

Now for some humor. Make sure you read the sequel, Beyond Beyond Past Lives, in which Kelley goes so far beyond past lives that they are now in the future!

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
136. Actually, she covers "future" lives in "Beyond Past Lives"
Wed May 20, 2015, 12:11 PM
May 2015

Because she went beyond the past

Basically, it falls into the concept of simultaneous time, that all lives are happening simultaneously, there is no past, present, or future, just now. Mind blown yet?

I've got a good sprinkling of reference books on my Kindle, too, including:

The Ultimate Bar Book
Decorative Knots
On Food And Cooking
The Encyclopedia of Spirits
The Encyclopedia of Mystics, Saints, and Sages
Gaining Competency with GIS
AutoCAD: Secrets Every User Should Know
Arabic Geometric Pattern and Design

Sure am glad to have them handy at all times versus having to use a dolly to carry their print-book equivalents with me

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
137. LOL, nice.
Wed May 20, 2015, 12:16 PM
May 2015

Yes, I like living in the present!

I like the Kindle too. I had one a few years ago and loved it. It was the cheapest one they had at the time and I stupidly didn't get the one that was easiest to download stuff from my home computer. Gave it to a friend who likes it. I assume there's a better and cheaper one now that I can just easily plug in to my mac and download books pretty easily?

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
138. I don't know the different models any more.
Wed May 20, 2015, 01:36 PM
May 2015

I have an older "keyboard" type, that has a little qwerty keyboard at the bottom with the navigation buttons. I've used it to log into DU at wifi hotspots (because I don't own a laptop.) It works fairly well for that, but it does take up room that would otherwise go to making the screen bigger.

A friend has one of the Paperwhite versions and he likes it. His only complaint is that the screen-lighting tech doesn't truly cover the whole screen. The e-ink technology can't be backlit, like with LCDs, but that's a good thing; you don't get eyestrain from looking at a brightly-lit screen all the time.

~~~

Been skimming the thread here, and may have to read the article. Because, just from memory, most of the genres I like are lopsided in the sexuality of the majority of authors. That is, most of my cookbooks are written by women, most of the science fiction books I have were written by men, most of the professional cooking manuals and magazines were/are written by men, the few romance books I've got were all written by women, and most of the spiritual books were written by women. What's interesting with regards to the spiritual authors is for those that have radio shows, they are often lamenting the lack of male callers and listeners.

So, basically, there are many major genres and fields that are lopsided in the sexuality of their authors. And if I were to attempt to balance the books I own and will buy to better represent the opposite sex, I'd probably end up severely limiting my choices just to accomplish that. I'm not going to do that. Content is more important for whatever reason I'm buying/reading a particular book

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
139. Cool. Interesting point about the sexuality of authors.
Wed May 20, 2015, 01:49 PM
May 2015

I actually try and balance my reading. I love Naomi Klein, have recently read books by Elaine Brown, Angela Davis & Assata Shakur. I don't read a lot of science fiction but I've loved some stuff by Madelaine L'Engel & Margaret Atwood. You sound like a voracious reader like me. I usually read nonfiction & humorous stuff. I can speed read and like doing that sometimes too. My great aunt told me that when you have a book you're having a conversation with a friend. I like hearing from different kinds of friends. I don't think the author of that article was speaking about you, 'cause you like reading all kinds of stuff too.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
140. Honestly, I'm a slow reader.
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:02 PM
May 2015

That's partly why I have so many unfinished books on my Kindle

I used to read a lot more, and mostly science fiction. But also comic books, the non-superhero varieties, mostly autobiographical types, like American Splendor, but also funny adult comics, like Xxxenophile

I'd probably not want to meet/talk to the author of that article, though. I don't truly get her point, as it's pretty meaningless when you're more focused on pertinent content than getting into the author's head and body. I'd say the latter is really only important if you're reading their biography

I like your great aunt's quote. Seems like I've heard that before, but it's still a good one. It's also how I tend to write when I do work on my fiction (hopefully, it will pull me back to it soon, and I can finish enough to send to an editor...)

1939

(1,683 posts)
7. Book burning party!!!!!!
Tue May 19, 2015, 06:01 AM
May 2015

Everyone has to burn their copy of the collected works of Shakespeare to show we aren't bigots.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
11. Oh yeah, that's totally what it says
Tue May 19, 2015, 06:31 AM
May 2015


It just suggests adding in some things written by women, people of color, etc. Not avoiding and certainly not burning things written by white men.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
18. That's what you got out of this?
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:18 AM
May 2015


Maybe the article is too advanced for you - perhaps you could start with a course on reading comprehension.
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
38. I imagine it can often be difficult to accurately infer a simple point.
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:37 PM
May 2015

I imagine it can often be difficult to accurately infer a simple point. It's much more convenient for the simple minded to draw a spurious conclusion and pretend that instead, is the actual point.

Not that I would ever allege you to inaccurately infer, draw a spurious conclusion, pretend a fictitious point or are simple minded. As of course, you are guilty of absolutely none of the above...

But wouldn't it be easier (and much less guilty of being a fire hazard) to both keep your collection of Shakespeare, and enlarge your library with authors of various demographics? However, should you desire to burn books, that is (in addition to being illustrative) your choice.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
44. If you're so desperately afraid of having to prove you're not a bigot-
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:56 PM
May 2015

Some self examination might not be a bad thing.

Monk06

(7,675 posts)
113. How about someone being aware of someone else reading their twitter feed over their shoulder on the
Tue May 19, 2015, 10:52 PM
May 2015

subway. How's that for awareness.

The latest generation of feminists are no better than the Red Guards during Mao's Cultural Revolution. Political activism has devolved into waving the little red book in the air, putting the cone hat on the bourgeois revisionist males and drag them to the public square for a dose of reeducation.

Feminism used to be a call for fairness and equality. In reality it has mutated into an attempt to dominate public discourse and push all men including male feminist allies off the train. Or is that subway?

Monk06

(7,675 posts)
116. I am upset. I'm tired of being called an endemic rapist because I was born a male. Rape Culture
Wed May 20, 2015, 01:15 AM
May 2015

is the latest polemical fad in American Universities. Title IX lawsuits are multiplying like dandelions and are being used as a cudgel sew a scarlet letter on the chest every male on campus.

The last three most publicized charges by women of rape, two involving gang rape, were based on out right lies. The women in question were not raped and used the media and university anti discrimination policies to target their victims. Sorry, I mean bring their rapists to justice. Forgot men can never be victims.

Rape or sexual assault as they call it in Canada is a criminal offense and should always lead to a criminal investigation not an administration tribunal conducted by academics who have careers to defend.

Now we are being told that we are passively sexist regardless of any attempt to agree with feminists on issues because we have male authors and artists in our libraries, music and art collections.





Monk06

(7,675 posts)
118. Valenti is not just indulging in an exercise of gentle persuasion that we should be more reflective
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:17 AM
May 2015

about the subtle bias in our literary choices. She makes no bones about what she thinks of the nature of 'Man'

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/oct/27/why-are-some-men-so-angry

Note the set up is a quote from Margret Atwood, "Men are afraid of being embarrassed. Women are afraid of being killed."

As you say I seem to be angry, well more miffed actually. According to Atwood and Valenti my anger makes me a potential murderer because I'm a man.

What makes me angry, sorry miffed, is women who make these sorts of specious generalizations and then pretend to be puzzled when men get angry at the insult. But never mind, I'm a man and the only way I can deal with embarrassment is beat the crap out of someone. Usually a woman.

This may seem off topic but it is part of an ongoing theme that men are weak, biased and violent because it's in their nature but they can rise above this manifest destiny if they change their reading habits and read more women's books.

How does supporting the careers of comfortably well off women writers change any of the fundamental problems in society? The most important problem with society is not the fate of professional women's careers. It's the the fact the the world is controlled by a few hundred anonymous billionaires.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
190. Lol at comfortably well off women writers. Many women could not be published with a woman's name....
Wed May 20, 2015, 08:25 PM
May 2015

So bullshit to your theory that they are just fine, and we should worry about YOUR bottom line first.
You seem really upset that women don't know their place and discuss things that bother you. Well boo fucking hoo. The conversation is better off without your petty resentments.

Monk06

(7,675 posts)
195. I'm just as entitled to wallow in my resentments as Emma Sulkowitz and I'm not trying to get anyone
Thu May 21, 2015, 02:49 AM
May 2015

thrown in jail.

Oh and many women can't get published because they have a woman's name.

Why don't the try applying to this list of dedicated women's publishing houses.

Aunt Lute Books (San Francisco, California, 1982–present)[1]
CALYX Press, Inc. (Corvallis, Oregon, 1976-present)[2]
Cleis Press (Berkeley, California, 1980–present)[3]
The Crossing Press, currently general publishing imprint of Crown Publishing Group, historically a women's press (U.S.A., 1963–present)
Elly Blue Publishing (Portland, Oregon, 2010-present)
The Feminist Press (New York City, New York, 1970–present)[4]
Magnetewan Publishing (Vancouver, Canada, 2010-present)
Modjaji Books (Cape Town, South Africa, 2007–present) [5]
HerBooks Feminist Press (Santa Cruz, California, 1984Grizel Niven2002)
Honno (Aberystwyth, Wales, 1986–present)[6]
Inanna Publications (Toronto, Canada, 1972–present)
Linen Press Books (Edinburgh, Scotland, 2007–present)[7]
Kitchen Table: Women of Color Press (New York City, New York, 1980–?)
Pandora Press (London, UK)
Persephone Books (London, UK)
Press Gang Publishers (Vancouver, Canada, 1970–2002)
Red Letter Press (Seattle, Washington, 1990–present)[8]
Second Story Press (Toronto, Canada, 1988-)[9]
Shameless Hussy Press (Berkeley, California, 1969–89)
Sister Vision: Black Women & Women of Colour Press (Toronto, Canada, 1985-)[10]
Spinifex Press (Melbourne, Australia, 1991–present)[11]
Sumach Press (Toronto, Canada, 2001–present)[12]
Virago Press (London, UK, 1973–present)[13]
The Women's Press (London, UK, 1978–present)[14]
Women Unlimited (an associate of Kali for Women; New Delhi, India, 1985–present)[15]
Zubaan (an imprint of Kali for Women; New Delhi, India

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
196. Wallow away, forgetting actual history and supplying pointless lists in it's stead.
Thu May 21, 2015, 08:58 AM
May 2015

Don't reflect for a moment on your resentments toward feminists. Have fun with that!

Monk06

(7,675 posts)
197. I have no problem with feminists as long as they are intellectually honest about the progress
Thu May 21, 2015, 09:15 AM
May 2015

that women have made in academia since I graduated 30 years ago and cease with the simplistic agit prop antics of the Title IX culture warriors like Emma Sulkowicz and her friends. She graduated to the other day so hopefully she will go on to do something useful.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
129. Agreed. I've begun puting most of them here on ignore.
Wed May 20, 2015, 10:11 AM
May 2015
Some really damaged people who are seeking to get outraged over petty stuff. Tediousness. (Or perhaps that expression, 'consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds...').

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
12. This might be more societal than individual
Tue May 19, 2015, 06:36 AM
May 2015

A year or two (I think) ago, I remember reading a list of books from some publication or another that were supposedly the best books of the year - must reads. The list of 10 books had 4 books by women. I was suprised by how many of the comments said the list was too woman-centered. Fewer than half of the books were by women, yet people saw the list as woman-centered. Only one of the books was by a person of color - who was also one of the women - and I didn't see any comments at all about the list being too white-centered.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
13. Anyone who has all the Harry Potter books gets lots of brownie points in this regard.
Tue May 19, 2015, 07:44 AM
May 2015

Female author, non-US-centric viewpoint, and JK Rowling herself said that Dumbledore is gay.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
39. I just learned a couple of weeks ago about The Silkworm..
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:38 PM
May 2015

I'm about midway through DFW's 'Infinite Jest', and I'm going to pick up The Silkworm once I'm finished. Cormoran is cool!

Retrograde

(10,128 posts)
90. I even enjoyed The Casual Vacancy
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:11 PM
May 2015

because it was about something I knew nothing about - small town British life.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
142. I absolutely loved the Potter books.
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:10 PM
May 2015

The pickiest reader I know - she's a history Ph. D. who spoke five languages - told me I HAD to read them. She was right. She also insisted I read Robertson Davies, Tom Sharpe and Wodehouse. She's 4 for 4. Loved 'em all.

mercuryblues

(14,521 posts)
198. A her publisher's request
Thu May 21, 2015, 09:54 AM
May 2015

JK Rowling used her initials to avoid the gender bias. A fiction book written by a female author would not sell as well to young males.

In The Cuckoo's Calling, she chose a male pseudonym to hide her identity entirely. She wanted the book to be separate from the HP series. It is also assumed the male name was chosen to boost sales out of the gate.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
14. Now I'll have to ask On-Semi, Int'l Rectifier etc. who wrote their Catalogs (male or female)
Tue May 19, 2015, 07:52 AM
May 2015

Is the PNP or NPN inherently Male or Female? What about MOSFET's and IGBT's?

While it certainly doesn't help that some field's are male dominant. I would hesitate to use a term with negative connotation for someone displaying an interest in such a field. It can contribute to a sexist world view but that doesn't make someone a sexist.

RobinA

(9,884 posts)
19. Maybe When I
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:20 AM
May 2015

exhaust the supply of books that interest me I will be able to start reading stuff that doesn't on its face. I am a white female and my bookshelf probably leans toward white male because I read a lot of nonfiction in areas of history and politics - areas not dominated by female writers. Psychology is my field and that leans somewhat more female. Frankly, in nonfiction I don't pay much attention to the gender of the writer. I tend to prefer, although not exclusively, male fiction writers. Has more to do with what different people write about, which may losely fall along gender lines.

One thing I don't read is "identity" books, no matter who writes them. This may be a reason my bookshelf tends to be more male.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
30. I attempted to start a discussion about sexism in sports,
Tue May 19, 2015, 11:08 AM
May 2015

but was shouted down by many here claiming I was being antagonistic, or that the discussion ITSELF was unnecessary because of the OBVIOUSNESS of why things were as they were.

But K&R anyway, as I think this oped is interesting.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
51. I want not to hijack this thread, but here's the post:
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:29 PM
May 2015

"Why are sports teams segregated by gender? Discuss."

If one can be any more antagonistic than that, I fail to see how.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
32. Oh my God, it applies to all minorities as well. Example, it's obvious from the posts about LGBT
Tue May 19, 2015, 11:23 AM
May 2015

issues from many straight posters that they have never, ever read any LGBT political books or speeches, they have no idea what, for example, Harvey Milk actually talked about nor what ACT UP did and worse, they don't want to know. They want to assume. So that's what they do. Smugly and with great certainty, they assume.

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
33. I read books based on topics, not authors
Tue May 19, 2015, 12:01 PM
May 2015

I usually read history and non-fiction. I doubt I could even name 6 of the authors of the hundreds of books I read.

How does the history of the building of the Panama Canal change if the author has/doesn't have a penis?

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
34. History books can be different depending on who writes them
Tue May 19, 2015, 01:19 PM
May 2015

I don't know about the Panama Canal, but maybe if it were written by someone from Panama, it would be different than if written by someone from America. Certainly a book about slavery in the US or the African American civil rights movement might be different if written by an African American. A book about the history of the southwestern US might be different if writen by a Latino author. And lots of books might be different if written by women. I also enjoy non-fiction and some books about historical events or eras ignore or don't much discuss what was happening to women during that time. It is possible that a woman might include more about women's experiences if she were writing the book.

But at the same time I get your point. If you're looking for a book about a subject, what will attract you is obviously if the book is about that subject. The OP is probably more relevant in regard to fiction, though as I wrote above, I do see some relevance even in non-fiction.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
40. As history is not static, but repeatedly and consistently interpreted.
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:41 PM
May 2015

It can be as enlightening to read, compare and contrast an early-twentieth century history of US slavery by a white professor and a black professor (however, I do realize that both enlightenment and an additional perspective can be a real drag for the dogmatic)

As history is not static (as anyone who alleges to read history would know), but repeatedly and consistently interpreted. Who is interpreting is just as critical as what and how the interpretation may vary from one another.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
41. Historians have consistantly downplayed the accomplishments of women and POC
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:52 PM
May 2015

Last edited Wed May 20, 2015, 01:18 AM - Edit history (1)

As well as touted the "good intentions" of colonialists and painted the white man as a savior for centuries. The texts in our high schools are often skewed to this POV. Every month is white dude history month in America.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
43. This is a ridiculously good point
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:54 PM
May 2015

I was thinking of books I've read where I've felt the authors had good intentions but still missed the experiences of women and people of color. But YEAH I totally didn't even think of this issue, and it's huge.

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
45. All true
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:58 PM
May 2015

I also enjoy reading war accounts from the losing side (winners write history) such as the Confederate soldiers, Japanese, Germans, etc.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
46. It's stuck me as funny how people even here assume that non-fiction= accurate portrayal of history..
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:58 PM
May 2015

Wowsa- that is a huge assumption!

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
144. Which is why everyone should read Howard Zinn.
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:14 PM
May 2015

If I ever taught a US History course, "People's History" would be required reading.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
145. Great book! But I am puzzled by so many being offended by asking to just pause and reflect about
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:16 PM
May 2015

The choices in the media they consume.
I wonder if they are afraid to find out their choices have been heavily biased. It happens to good people!

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
147. As I posted downthread, I just follow my interests.
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:24 PM
May 2015

I generally read nonfiction, and my recent reading has included Stephen Kinzer, Greg Palast, Nomi Prins and Naomi Klein as well as Brian Greene's books on theoretical physics. I dig into particular topics and only consider the writer's ability and credibility.

For some reason I don't know the fiction I read is generally British - Wodehouse, Patrick O'Brian's sea stories, the Harry Potter books, R.F. Delderfield, a couple of historical novelists, and Robertson Davies, who is Canadian.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
148. Well it sounds like you're pretty well rounded but I don't doubt that there are some
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:42 PM
May 2015

Who blindly turn away from anything written by a woman. Like there a stigma or annoyance factor at anything women have to say. (and there are women, for sure who ignore anything not chick-lit, which is kind of sad).
My favorite advice columnist - when advising men having a very hard time relating to women-
offered up the advice to explore media created by women, to get used to being exposed to a different point of view sometimes- and to get accustomed to the idea of women as valuable and complex creators as worthy of being known as any man. It really could only help some respect and build rapport with women, instead of thinking of us as odd creatures existing only to be their companions.
I've met loads of men who have no idea how to talk to a woman like she is a complicated human being, and I gotta wonder how they got there. Interesting topic, anyway.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
149. A female friend - the wife of a now-late friend of mine,
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:49 PM
May 2015

with a Ph D in history and the pickiest reader I know, insisted that I read Davies, the Potter books and Wodehouse. Loved 'em all. I wouldn't bite on James Joyce, though. Joyce was too hard to get through back in college when I had to read him.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
169. Davies sounds like something I would like- thank you! And here is where
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:22 PM
May 2015

I admit my own bias- cannot read anything that every single person at work won't STFU about. Also I'm not much into fantasy stuff with a zillion characters that will never ever end! Reminds me too muchnof LoTR in high school.
Thanks for he Davies rec though. Sounds promising!

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
171. He has been called Canada's greatest "man of letters"
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:26 PM
May 2015

He's sharp, witty, a remarkable observer of the human condition and blends in a little magical realism now and then. Uses language beautifully as well.

He's well worth reading. I'd start (and in fact started) with the Deptford Trilogy and wing it from there. I wound up reading all of his fiction and I am not a big fiction reader.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
182. Wow- can you imagine what kind of troglodyte would get so offended by my post
Wed May 20, 2015, 07:46 PM
May 2015

That it was auto removed. Lol, this is why I learned to regret using a woman's name on the net.
Gotta be one of those people who never ever wants to hear what a woman has to say, LOL!

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
184. How that post of yours could inspire a troll is quite beyond me.
Wed May 20, 2015, 07:59 PM
May 2015
MIRT does an amazing job. They're so good now they can nuke the trolls after only one or two posts.

I find it easier to talk to women than men about ideas and always have, with a few exceptions in grad school. My PhD friend and I always chat about books, movies and ideas. I've always preferred female counselors as well. But I am not a guy who is bothered in the least or afraid of his feminine side.
 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
185. I wish I knew what the troll said, lol. for some reason people really open up to me and I've
Wed May 20, 2015, 08:17 PM
May 2015

Listened to a lot of people tell me their fears and struggles. I think people find it very cathartic.
My mom had the same talent, I guess it's just about being- and really listening- in the moment.
I only really tune out when people do that shallow recitation of what they have (very literally) been doing, buying and watching. But there are a lot of great stories and things to learn, if you just listen for them.

Response to bettyellen (Reply #148)

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
56. Was that done on purpose?
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:37 PM
May 2015

Do you pick books because the authors are female, or are the topics/stories you are interested in just happen to be written by women?

In other words do you buy books because of the authors sex?

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
54. Geez, are we to the point we criticize other
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:37 PM
May 2015

people's choice in what they look at on their phone? Intrude much ?

ProfessorGAC

(64,827 posts)
58. My Bookshelf Is Loaded With. . .
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:41 PM
May 2015

. . .chemistry, mathematics, economics, finance, and organizational structure/behavior text books.

Don't think this applies to me too much.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
122. as a purely intellectual exercise you might note how many books are written by women-
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:24 AM
May 2015

If the majority are by men, one might posit that women are under-represented in those fields and then ask why that might be.

Because women inherently don't gravitate towards chemistry, math, economics, finance?

Because women are systemically discouraged from entering those fields?

Because women who do go into those fields are not receiving same support?

My post isn't intended to take a dig at you or anyone.

It's just a plea to look beyond the surface reality and see if maybe there is more going on.

ProfessorGAC

(64,827 posts)
123. I Get Your Point, But I'll Pass
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:25 AM
May 2015

Chemistry is chemistry, and math is math. It is inherently dispassionate.

Now, the econ books; i buy your POV.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
125. Well, just so you know I wasn't labeling you sexist. More that society is and can influence
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:32 AM
May 2015

what fields women go into and how well they do there.

Now I am remembering a Barbie doll with pull string whose voice box said "Math class is tough".

Have a good day!

ProfessorGAC

(64,827 posts)
135. Fair Enough
Wed May 20, 2015, 11:15 AM
May 2015

And i didn't infer any name calling from your post earlier. So, no worries.

Clearly, you're right about occupational biases in many fields.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
59. It's worth considering
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:41 PM
May 2015

Sexist is a strong word; but it's worth considering engaging with a range of authors and creators.

Bryant

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
77. Sexism and racism don't have to be strong words
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:47 PM
May 2015

There are MRAs and skinheads, but there's also a base level of racism and sexism that are just part of our culture that we aren't always aware of. This is talking about that kind of sexism - allowing the culture to creep into your reading list without being aware of it. Opening our eyes to it is the best way to combat it, because it's so based on being a cultural norm and not being obvious.

Sometimes, when people here at DU talk past each other, that seems to be the place where communication isn't happening. One side hears a word ending in -ism and think they're being called horrible, and the other side is just trying to point out a part of our culture and society that we might not be noticing.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
92. I understand where you are coming from
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:16 PM
May 2015

I try to be charitable about language and assume that nothing offensive is intended. Those words are used in a many different ways, even here at DU. We are all swimming in racism and sexism, that's certainly true. That said, we are also, particularly if we participate here, conditioned to see racism and sexism as evils - awful things that shouldn't be allowed to endure. And sometimes they are used to seize the rhetorical high ground.

Bryant

haikugal

(6,476 posts)
94. A personal example...
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:37 PM
May 2015

A woman of color stopped by when I was out in the yard working. She introduced herself and asked if I could take a free horse her friend couldn't afford to keep anymore as she had lost her job. I wished I could but I had two Cushings horses and with my illness was having difficulty keeping up with the work and cost...

We proceeded to talk about families we knew in common (there are very few people of color in this area) and I don't know some peoples last names so had to go by discription and where they lived.

I said "mixed family" as part of a discription. I should have said blended family because it was a better, more accurate description. She didn't blink but I've regretted it ever since. On reflection it was my own cultural bias that caused that. I was using mixed race family as a description by way of identification. As it happens we know people in common. I hope we can get past the need to use race as an identifier. I'm working on it.

I never went to school with anyone who wasn't white. When we moved here over 30 years ago there were even fewer people of color than now. I have no prejudice consciously but can be awkward do to lack of experience.

I did work with a lot of people of color when I worked for the state in Harrisburg, so I was able to learn.

I try to overcome my background but it's a continuing process. My son is much further along in this than I am due to his experiences. My father was a terrible bigot and my mother was too. The thing that was odd was they were bigoted about different people and things that reflected where they grew up. We as a culture have a long way to go. That can be applied all over the world.

Behind the Aegis

(53,919 posts)
82. The first sentence is much better.
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:53 PM
May 2015

"Passive bias". That word, IMO, describes the situation much better. Sexism is usually considered more active and overt, with microagressions being less active and not overt. When we surround ourselves with the "same", it becomes very difficult to understand, or even have compassion for the "other" because we can't understand their point of view, which is completely unfamiliar to us. When we work to understand another person's POV it helps move us past compassion onto empathy. It is the difference between understanding a person's hurt and feeling it yourself.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
126. Very good point. Thanks for that. Passive bias. I'd prefer subconscious bias but that's cause
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:34 AM
May 2015

I tend to look into psychological factors and weight them more heavily than most on this board.

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
60. I read books because they're well writtin, informative, amusing, dramatic, etc.
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:41 PM
May 2015

The gender, nationality, ethnicity, of the author is a a matter of indifference to me.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
62. This is very true, but only if your collections are extremely lopsidedly male.
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:46 PM
May 2015

If your collections are only slightly lopsided, then that's really pretty balanced on your part, considering that most of what gets promoted is male dominated. It is understandable if your book and music and art collections are proportionate to what is out there on the market.

But it gives you something to think about!

tishaLA

(14,176 posts)
65. Sorry, but that's entirely too facile
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:54 PM
May 2015

I teach literature and women's studies at a fine university. If you looked at my bookshelf, you would find a good number of books about feminist theory and sexuality, but the vast preponderance of my books are written by the dreaded dead white men. Is there a contradiction here? No. It doesn't matter that dead white men wrote so many of the books on my shelf, but in how I encounter those books and the questions I ask of them. And I read them as someone invested in constructions of subjectivity, including questions of gender, sexuality, and race, not as a passive recipient of knowledge.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
66. Is it sexist if I have "Brother John" and "Father Huntington"?
Tue May 19, 2015, 03:55 PM
May 2015

Two books by Vida Dutton Scudder.

But yeah, most of my favorite authors are male - Isaac Asimov, Kurt Vonnegut, Poul Anderson, Clifford Simak, John Brunner, Douglas Adams, Roger Zelazny, Dean Koontz. I think all of them are white men too.

"It says something about you."

Really? People are supposed to go around checking out the gender or race of authors before they read something?

I am not making an explicit statement at all, not unless I deliberately decide that I am not going to read books by women and minorities BECAUSE they are written by women and minorities. No Ursula LeGuin for me. No Harry Potter. Better look for a jacket photo to make sure Isaac Asimov and Poul Anderson are not black.

Damn, I screwed up. Turns out S.E. Hinton is female. Here I thought it was written by Pony BOY!!!

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
79. I would say the bookshelf may reflect society's perisistent biases moreso
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:51 PM
May 2015

than the reader's biases.

Unfortunately many subjects have been dominated by male writers such that if one wants to have them on their bookshelves, it's going to be male writers taking up that space, even if the subject matter (e.g. ornithology) is gender-neutral.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
84. What are people supposed to do if they find their bookshelves dominated by one gender?
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:54 PM
May 2015

Buy random books to even the score? Jesus. How do people go through life thinking like this?

Content is all that matters. My book buying decisions are based on genre, written reviews and review scores.

Some genres are dominated by one gender. Those readers shouldn't feel bad about liking their genre. Fwiw I can think of about 12 women authors on my bookshelf off the top of my head. But my reading is mostly history, economics, classics, sci-fi, and fantasy, so I probably have a greater number of men.

kcr

(15,313 posts)
101. Why would they have to be random?
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:57 PM
May 2015

You don't think there's a possibility you could find some you'd like?

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
152. The point isn't missed
Wed May 20, 2015, 03:12 PM
May 2015

Disagreement isn't the same as misunderstanding. I won't make the author's gender or race criteria for book buying, that's all. Politicizing personal taste is touchy. No one wants to have their book shelf judged politically correct or incorrect

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
162. Interesting
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:02 PM
May 2015

It fascinates me how people believe an opinion is so true that it should be obvious to anyone, therefore anyone who disagrees must be misunderstanding the point rather than simply disagreeing.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
166. For what it's worth
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:12 PM
May 2015

When one person is making an attempt to engage another after being called wrong , and the other is making flippant one-word replies in response, refusing to explain why that person is wrong, it makes the flippant one look like he/she cannot defend his/her position. Similar to super religious types, really

It must be rough seeing a progressive board roundly reject the article's assertion, and a much more progressive nation like Britain also reject it in the comments section, readers of the most progressive major paper in Britain. That gives me satisfaction.

Goodbye

Skittles

(153,111 posts)
167. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:16 PM
May 2015

when people don't get it, I lose interest quickly....by the way, I spent a great deal of my childhood in England

over and OUT because this is BORING

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
151. I like good books
Wed May 20, 2015, 03:08 PM
May 2015

That is the only motivation I have to read books on my free time. I'm not about to pass on the best looking book and choose another just because the author is a certain gender or race.

It will never influence by buying decision, no matter what

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
96. I am male. Read mostly fiction crime thrillers
Tue May 19, 2015, 06:15 PM
May 2015

The authors are pretty split between the two sexes. I do like a few of the authors a lot, and will buy each book they write. Really never gave much thought to buying books based on gender. I just buy what I like. Sometimes they're male authors, sometimes female.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
97. I read where my interests lead me.
Tue May 19, 2015, 06:20 PM
May 2015

Lately that has been lots of books on theoretical physics as well as a couple of Nomi Prins' books, some Palast, Kinzer, and the most recent Naomi Klein. Couldn't care less who writes good books and never consider anything but the author's writing ability and credibility. I overwhelmingly read non-fiction.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
99. I haven't gone through my
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:45 PM
May 2015

5,000 or so titles to count titles in sub categories based on gender, race, or sexual orientation, but I can say without hesitation that there are many great authors, men and women, on my shelves; that there are characters from a diverse variety of backgrounds, ethnicities, etc.; and that there are books with gay protagonists as well as supporting characters. I don't think I've got a transgender character. I have a transgender niece, though, so I wouldn't hesitate to include them on my shelves.

Mentors? In my (long) life time, ONE was a man. The rest were women.

People whose work I like most? What kind of work?

I have to admit that men are definitely in the majority when it comes to music I like to listen to.

I have to say though, that I've never really stopped to take inventory before reading this. It's a good thing to think about.

Violet_Crumble

(35,955 posts)
127. When it comes to music, I've got the bases covered....
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:53 AM
May 2015

The Pixies are one of my favourite bands. And Sonic Youth. Though I think Sonic Youth did display some gender bias by not name-dropping any females (apart from a fleeting mention of Superchunk) when they did Screaming Skull...

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
104. So if my friend reccomends a book, I have to find out the sex of the author first?
Tue May 19, 2015, 09:24 PM
May 2015

I've been reccomended books before, and said it sounded interesting without even knowing who wrote it.

I guess I should ask who the author is first, and if it was man, then say "I'm not interested"

I think it would be a lot easier to just find what sounds interesting, and read it (or watch it, or listen to it)

If its all white men, so be it. If its all black women, thats ok too.

Right now I'm reading a book by Michio Kaku. Even if the name didn't ring a bell, you could guess he is Japanese. I don't see how that matters. What matters is he is a great writer.

Monk06

(7,675 posts)
110. She's been spending too much time reading Griselda Pollock. Yes the world would be a better place
Tue May 19, 2015, 10:39 PM
May 2015

Ms Valenti if we all had your thoughts and read only the authors you find interesting.

Oh and definitely no male authors because women are more compassionate caring and inclusive than men. Except when they are excluding men.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
124. IMO, article errs in saying "YOU" are sexist if main literary intake is male. It may very well be
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:29 AM
May 2015

more linked to societal influences.

Reading- I've always enjoyed magic realism and there are both good male and female authors in that genre.

Historical Fiction- Both male/female authors although it seems more female interestingly enough.

But if someone is interested in reading about physics and most work is by men one might question why that is.

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
131. I have a good friend who claims the only book he ever read was Bruce Jenner's biography (1977)
Wed May 20, 2015, 10:15 AM
May 2015

I guess he was a sexist until this year. Now he's not?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
146. If you say so- has nothing to do with the OP but....
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:18 PM
May 2015

If you feel some sort of guilt, perhaps you should do something to rectify it!

Blue_Adept

(6,393 posts)
150. It's just the blanket thing from the header/subject
Wed May 20, 2015, 02:51 PM
May 2015

My reading stacks are pretty mixed and varied since I'm an entertainment writer and that means exposure to a lot of stuff. And those that tend to be into entertainment generally get into a variety of material from different sources. As we see with the thread, many don't even know who wrote what.

But mostly the whole thing just feels like a chance for the original article author to feel entitled and try and shame people for their reading choices.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
159. Not sure where you see the entitled thing
Wed May 20, 2015, 04:31 PM
May 2015

Lots of people do close themselves off to a lot of sources in media. Surely you're familiar with the fact that many publishers have - for many years- had women authors use just their initials to reach a "wider audience". They don't do that because everyone is without bias. It is an existing phenomenon that sucks- not sure why anyone who claims to read widely would get offended by noting it.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
154. Would not the same logic hold true in voting patterns? If you vote for men, you must be sexist?
Wed May 20, 2015, 03:23 PM
May 2015

Or in fact is this the very point you're trying to make?

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
155. Maybe, but there is more than subconscious sexism going on
Wed May 20, 2015, 03:52 PM
May 2015

According to Vida, a woman writers advocacy group, the number of books that papers and magazines review are predominantly of male authors.

It seems a bit of a stretch to call a person sexist based on the gender distribution of their reading list if the reader has to extend three times the effort in order to find books by women authors that are equivalent in quality to the work of male authors.

I want to know how many women go into writing compared to men, especially the distribution of men and women who decide to become novelists and/or write book-length non-fiction.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
156. And this looks interesting. can you tell the gender of an author from their writing
Wed May 20, 2015, 03:54 PM
May 2015
A test from The Guardian

Based on this test, I am unable to guess the gender correctly 60 percent of the time.
 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
157. Apparently men submit writing at a rate two times women
Wed May 20, 2015, 04:11 PM
May 2015

According to this PBS opinion piece.

But he points out — and this is going to be a familiar refrain as I talk to more editors and publishers — that the number of submissions by men heavily outweigh the submissions by women. Men send their material to magazines more frequently than women. Wiman reports, “The last time I did a formal count, the numbers were something like 65 percent to 35 percent. I don’t know why this is.”


Based on the bit of research I am doing, it seems that if the number of female writers on a bookshelf of contemporary work is about a third of the total books, then the person who purchased the books is not exhibiting sexist behavior. If it includes older books, the distribution would tilt even further towards male writers, and still be without a bias towards women authors.
 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
160. So - publishers advised women to use their first initial only why exactly?
Wed May 20, 2015, 04:34 PM
May 2015

I'm guessing they acknowledge the historical bias and don't want to lose money over it.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
161. No argument there
Wed May 20, 2015, 04:52 PM
May 2015

I'm speaking to the assumption of bias on the part of a bookshelf with more male authors when there are many-many more books by male authors than female authors.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
170. I think it's more like few to none women authors, rather than an equal number...
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:25 PM
May 2015

But the initials thing is a good reminder of how crappy it can be for women authors. The very people hiring them suggesting that they hide themselves. Hopefully, that's changing.

 

Snow Leopard

(348 posts)
168. I try not
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:18 PM
May 2015

to be sexist by not caring WHO creates the interesting entertainment/art I enjoy. If it is all women...great, if it is all hetro white men...fine, if it is some interesting Dinka tribespeople, rock on. And I try to catch myself from judging other people based on what they find interesting.

GoneOffShore

(17,336 posts)
178. Read the article, read the comments there, read the comments here.
Wed May 20, 2015, 06:35 PM
May 2015

It's a Monty Python skit in all respects.

And sometimes a cigar, is just a cigar.

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