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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsRod Stewart's wife says that cooking "belittles men, but takes the masculinity"
Penny Lancaster, wife of singer Rod Stewart, has claimed men should not cook because putting the apron on robs men of their masculinity.
Lancaster conceded her views may be a bit old-fashioned but said she believed men should be the hunter-gatherer, the macho man, looking after the family.
I do agree with equal rights and if women want to go and work thats fabulous, said Lancaster, 44.
If anything, when men come home I think its more a case of being part of the family, spending more time with the children, being a strong role model.
But going as far as cooking and putting the apron on, I think that it, not belittles men, but takes the masculinity and I would miss that.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/celebritynews/11676285/Penny-Lancaster-cooking-takes-away-a-mans-masculinity.html
atreides1
(16,136 posts)If she's that "old fashioned" maybe her husband should hunt in an old fashioned way...a long stick with a flint head on it. No more singing songs for Rod...from now on he'll set the example and do things the "old fashioned" way!
spanone
(136,022 posts)yea, women just go and work cause they want to, penny.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)Mustn't harm the ol' macho.
JustAnotherGen
(32,127 posts)1 - I didn't realize he got married again - what is this? #4? #5? It's got to be up there right?
2 - I don't care how things work in her home as long as she keeps her nose out of mine.
underpants
(183,198 posts)I'm just sayin'
JustAnotherGen
(32,127 posts)You know - I "do" for my husband. But I don't shove it down other women's throats.
And - she kind of emasculates men who DO cook.
I especially like when my hunter braises his venison for us.
underpants
(183,198 posts)Looked it up
He has 8 kids by 5 women.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)The stats would suggest so.
underpants
(183,198 posts)In 1963, for Rod, that might not have been a bad decision
In reference to his divorces, Stewart was once quoted as saying, "Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and just give her a house."
struggle4progress
(118,379 posts)brooklynite
(95,210 posts)kentauros
(29,414 posts)They just get in the way. I did like the chef's wear I used to have for baking. Although I had to wash twice a week due to my small set of three being saturated in flour and butter by the end of each day
GoneOffShore
(17,346 posts)My trousers don't get covered in flour, nor do they get wet or covered in grease.
Plus I always tuck a side towel in the tie.
I'm not a fan of aprons with a bib though.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I just wear clothing I don't care about as I don't have chef's wear any more. Grease spatters are the only thing that are ever a bother.
GoneOffShore
(17,346 posts)I wonder what those cleaning bills were like.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)Or at least nicer-looking clothing than what most of us would wear while cooking
oneshooter
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GoneOffShore
(17,346 posts)Especially for the hat.
Pooka Fey
(3,496 posts)and so does my husband when he cooks.
Solly Mack
(90,830 posts)blm
(113,165 posts)I'm with Solly.
Solly Mack
(90,830 posts)Initech
(100,194 posts)I'm sure that he will have a choice comment or two to leave.
underpants
(183,198 posts)Who does she think is probably back there in the kitchen?
Vinca
(50,354 posts)But this "old fashioned girl" likes to go to the grocery store to "stay connected."
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)MineralMan
(146,366 posts)and my wife doesn't seem to mind. She isn't interested in cooking. This kind of old-school role assignment is really, really boring.
I don't wear an apron, though. I learned to keep from spilling stuff on my clothing.
randome
(34,845 posts)Go outside and kill something for dinner!
(But not squirrels. No, no, not squirrels.)
[hr][font color="blue"][center]No squirrels were harmed in the making of this post. Yet.[/center][/font][hr]
Smarmie Doofus
(14,498 posts)(That WAS Rod Stewart... wasn't it?)
And, besides which... I think it was the men ( for the most part) who hunted and the women ( for the most part,) who gathered.
Fabuloso.
Can I go microwave my sandwich now?
JanMichael
(24,914 posts)Smarmie Doofus
(14,498 posts)Nonetheless she looks remarkably well-preserved.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Marr
(20,317 posts)I'm single. If I didn't learn to cook, I'd be living on garbage food or, at best, raw ingredients.
randome
(34,845 posts)[hr][font color="blue"][center]No squirrels were harmed in the making of this post. Yet.[/center][/font][hr]
truebrit71
(20,805 posts)DawgHouse
(4,019 posts)Enrique
(27,461 posts)Monk06
(7,675 posts)closeupready
(29,503 posts)AND I love cooking!
So no worries, our paths are unlikely to cross in this lifetime, for lots of reasons.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)Well, we know what old Rod looks for in a woman now, don't we?
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)Knowing
That you lie straight- faced while I cry.
JustAnotherGen
(32,127 posts)She didn't mean to bad!
ProfessorGAC
(65,601 posts)And he obviously never really paid attention to the lyrics.
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)You really should be back in school.
ProfessorGAC
(65,601 posts)Doesn't change a thing! That mandolin wind. . .
Snow Leopard
(348 posts)prepare for the wrath of the feminist hate squad coming your way. Have your assistant attend to your twitter feed for a while. lol.
BillZBubb
(10,650 posts)Tell him about your "feminazi" concerns. He'll be glad to hear from you.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)lonestarnot
(77,097 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)And speaking from experience, an apron is highly advisable when barbecuing in the nude.
oneshooter
(8,614 posts)Don't ask and I won't have to ignore you.
One_Life_To_Give
(6,036 posts)BeyondGeography
(39,409 posts)As long as I don't break out into, "Do Ya Think I'm Sexy?" I'm fine.
JHB
(37,170 posts)hollowdweller
(4,229 posts)One his divorce actually was in part over the fact his wife didn't have dinner on the table.
The girl he married after was a cook and always has dinner ready.
Another married a girl and she does all the meals. A while back he and his son went camping with a bunch of us.
OK so my other buddy and I wake up and start cooking breakfast. I cook probably 75% of the meals at home and 100% camping and stuff, and my buddy he's a good cook too and his wife didn't come with us anyway either.
So my buddy says to my other pal "you didn't bring any food?" and my pal said of he and his son "We're just a couple of MEN" which meant I guess they were unable to feed themselves???
Another buddy we were having a gathering several years back. We had rented a house. I get up and cook breakfast for everybody. This other buddy doesn't want our breakfast. He has something he eats for breakfast every day. His wife is really pregnant and not really feeling well and he rousts her out to make HIS breakfast.
Interesting 2 of the 3 have been divorced. My mom was a stay at home mom and did most of the cooking but my dad cooked a lot of special things. Deer. Fish he caught. Squirrels, and then he had 3 or 4 difft regular food specialties he cooked and when we went deer hunting he did a lot of the cooking he and another old guy so I always wanted to know how to cook and be self sufficient. It's weird to me anybody would want to be served.
DanTex
(20,709 posts)kwassa
(23,340 posts)His wife is 26 years younger.
BillZBubb
(10,650 posts)Generally, he seems to prefer air-head, YOUNG, right wing, blond women.
Ilsa
(61,722 posts)An intelligent man would have sought better DNA for his offspring. Rod is as moronic as his wife.
Screw 'em both.
Skittles
(153,460 posts)they'll say whatever they think makes their meal ticket happy
Monk06
(7,675 posts)prick.
GreatGazoo
(3,937 posts)She has a singer from the 1970s and attitudes from the 19th Century.
olddots
(10,237 posts)In other L.A. news. last week John Mayall and Dick Dale played the Whiskey ,they both may remember when the WhiskeyA Go Go 's bathrooms had been cleaned .
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)Pooka Fey
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Pierre Gagnaire, (French) 2015 Voted Top chef out of 100 contestants by his 2 and 3 star chef peers
Out of the top 100 classment, only 5 women chefs are represented. ("Chapeau" to these 5 women, btw, for making it in a man's world of professional cuisine)
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Alain Ducasse (French)
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Joel Robuchon (French)
One thing I really admire about Frenchmen, is that despite the fact that these guys are seriously MACHO, they have ZERO problems putting on the apron and getting to work in the kitchen. I'm talking about the average everyday garden-variety French dude, not just these chefs. It wouldn't even occur to these guys that cooking could be considered un-masculine. They would howl with laughter at this absurd idea, and then make a delicious dinner for the whole family.
JanMichael
(24,914 posts)Seriously even with the Stardust reference.
I guess money means man to many.
mainer
(12,041 posts)is what she's saying.
WillowTree
(5,325 posts)immoderate
(20,885 posts)--imm
dembotoz
(16,880 posts)kwassa
(23,340 posts)and praised my generation of men for cooking, as all I know seem to do.
I like cooking, too.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)Not relevant to jack.
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)and I'm real sure she would have married ole' Rod if he was living on Social Security in a mobile home in Barstow, CA. Give me a break.
Historic NY
(37,470 posts)but perhaps I should. I find women will gladly relegate themselves to the Sous chef position, if I say I will cook.
I like herbs and wine in my cooking some say it scares them to use.
hatrack
(59,616 posts)Yes, I'm in the Y Brigade, should you wonder . . .
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)hatrack
(59,616 posts)Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)of us men cook. Most as good or better than the women. I don't think there is anything lacking about my masculinity.
Growing up we sure had that latin maschismo thing going on. Maybe it only robs English punk rock metro-sexual singing men of their masculinity? Hell, I am so macho, my sperm smoke Marlboro.
Pooka Fey
(3,496 posts)they all cook really well, as good or better than the women, and they are very Macho (not in an obnoxious way). My husband is French, and we live here. A French guy would laugh his ass off if some British ditz questioned his masculinity because he is wearing an apron while cooking dinner for his family.
CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)They are fucking ignorant.
I once watched Rod Stewart come down a stair on stage wearing silk pajamas, I don't think frying some eggs will hurt his masculinity.
Tanuki
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PeteSelman
(1,508 posts)Although, I'd still cook even if if had that kind of cash.
I just enjoy it.-
My wife doesn't mind it either.
To each their own I guess.
Jeroen
(1,061 posts)Celebrity news...
Adenoid_Hynkel
(14,093 posts)this guy immediately comes to mind:
LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)womankind all the way around. No damn wonder women don't have equal rights. Too many like her feeding into the stupid stereotypes and myths. The best chef that ever cooked for me was an Italian guy from Boston. We were both in Myrtle Beach in the dead of winter. That was the best hamburger with spaghetti sauce I ever had in my life. He was way more manly than Rod Stewart could ever dream of being. He could have bench pressed Rod Stewart and Rod Stewart's idiot of a wife.
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)He also fought in the Civil War at 15 years old. My Dad did a lot of the cooking when I was growing up in the 50's/60's. Although I will say this much. He NEVER wore an apron. Did not care if his clothes got dirty. He would wash them himself. If he spilled something on the floor, he got the mop out and did that himself also. Rod's wife would be horrified at all the "feminine" chores my Dad did.
BTW, Dad was a Longshoreman.
DawgHouse
(4,019 posts)raccoon
(31,158 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)My family unanimously votes me the best cook in the house. I think my masculinity is still intact.
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