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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:30 PM Jun 2015

Rod Stewart's wife says that cooking "belittles men, but takes the masculinity"



Penny Lancaster, wife of singer Rod Stewart, has claimed men should not cook because “putting the apron on” robs men of their masculinity.

Lancaster conceded her views may be “a bit old-fashioned” but said she believed men should be “the hunter-gatherer, the macho man, looking after the family”.

“I do agree with equal rights and if women want to go and work that’s fabulous,” said Lancaster, 44.



If anything, when men come home I think it’s more a case of being part of the family, spending more time with the children, being a strong role model.

“But going as far as cooking and putting the apron on, I think that it, not belittles men, but takes the masculinity and I would miss that.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/celebritynews/11676285/Penny-Lancaster-cooking-takes-away-a-mans-masculinity.html
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Rod Stewart's wife says that cooking "belittles men, but takes the masculinity" (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 OP
Okay then atreides1 Jun 2015 #1
he obviously didn't marry her for her mind. 'if women want to go and work' spanone Jun 2015 #2
by the way.. she doesn't cook either. has a professional chef.. I wonder the gender Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #8
Presumably overseeing the servants is also an apron kinda task LadyHawkAZ Jun 2015 #91
To each their own JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #3
Yeah at 44 Penny is getting near Rod's normal expiration date underpants Jun 2015 #29
Oh my - you went there! JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #42
Penny is #3 underpants Jun 2015 #31
Did he ever play in the NBA? hifiguy Jun 2015 #56
His first kid was given up for adoption underpants Jun 2015 #61
Third wife, fifth baby mama. He's got eight kids struggle4progress Jun 2015 #79
When I cook, I don't wear an apron...does that help? brooklynite Jun 2015 #4
I hate aprons. kentauros Jun 2015 #16
Used to hate aprons but I'm now a fan. GoneOffShore Jun 2015 #40
Sure, they're fine for some. kentauros Jun 2015 #41
I always loved the cooking shows where people cooked in evening wear GoneOffShore Jun 2015 #49
I think some of them still do! kentauros Jun 2015 #64
I do. oneshooter Jun 2015 #44
You win. GoneOffShore Jun 2015 #50
I'm not fond of olive oil stains on my clothes, so I wear one Pooka Fey Jun 2015 #54
Oh, bite me. Solly Mack Jun 2015 #5
heheheh….. blm Jun 2015 #26
It's an oldie but it does the job. Solly Mack Jun 2015 #68
I'll forward this to my friend who is a professional chef. Initech Jun 2015 #6
I was wondering if they ever eat at top end restaurants underpants Jun 2015 #30
ROFL - she has a chef. Vinca Jun 2015 #7
yes she does. and she is also ok with men singing and dancing apparently Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #10
I do all the cooking in my home. I'm good at it, MineralMan Jun 2015 #9
Throw off your shackles, MineralMan! randome Jun 2015 #23
Sounds like he ended up marrying "Maggie Mae". Smarmie Doofus Jun 2015 #11
Maggie would be 110 years old by now. nt JanMichael Jun 2015 #52
The morning sun when it's in her eyes really shows her age. Smarmie Doofus Jun 2015 #65
Who's Rod Stewart? n/t Scootaloo Jun 2015 #12
joking... right? or under age 30 Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #14
Such a weird thing to attach gender baggage to. Marr Jun 2015 #13
Marrying someone like that reflects poorly on Stewart's choices. randome Jun 2015 #15
Rod Stewart = 'Hunter/gatherer'... truebrit71 Jun 2015 #17
I KNOW! Isn't that hilarious! DawgHouse Jun 2015 #39
he hunted his own outfits Enrique Jun 2015 #66
Hunter / gatherer. What like this apron wearing sissy boy? Monk06 Jun 2015 #73
Good thing for us both, Ms. Lancaster, I'm gay. closeupready Jun 2015 #18
This is sad. Tipperary Jun 2015 #19
If I listen long enough to you, I'll find a way to believe that it's all true Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #20
Hey - She just wants to be good to you JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #43
Rod Didn't Write That Song ProfessorGAC Jun 2015 #88
Wake up, Maggie, I think I have something to say to you. Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #89
Doesn't Change A Thing! ProfessorGAC Jun 2015 #92
Oh Penny Snow Leopard Jun 2015 #21
Call your friend Rush. BillZBubb Jun 2015 #35
What a ditzbrain. KamaAina Jun 2015 #22
Ain't that the truth. lonestarnot Jun 2015 #24
That's ridiculous. What about barbecuing? Nye Bevan Jun 2015 #25
Or frying bacon. oneshooter Jun 2015 #45
. Jamastiene Jun 2015 #80
Patriarchy is Strong in this One nt One_Life_To_Give Jun 2015 #27
I cook and look plenty manly doing it BeyondGeography Jun 2015 #28
She's entitled to her mistaken opinion. JHB Jun 2015 #32
I have a few pals that think like that. hollowdweller Jun 2015 #33
She believes in the traditional "aging rich celebrity/gold digging trophy wife" relationship. DanTex Jun 2015 #34
Very traditional. Rod is 70 years old. He has had a lot of work done. kwassa Jun 2015 #58
All of Rod's many wives have thought this way. BillZBubb Jun 2015 #36
I suspect Rod is as ditzy as his wives. Ilsa Jun 2015 #48
correct Skittles Jun 2015 #69
Stuart's preferred wife would look exactly like himself. Hell he'd marry himself if he could, daft Monk06 Jun 2015 #74
she is living in the past GreatGazoo Jun 2015 #37
both of them have ingested to many hair products . olddots Jun 2015 #38
She's the type of Woman I'd NEVER take home to meet the parents. BlueJazz Jun 2015 #46
Some days the dumb blond jokes just write themselves... Pooka Fey Jun 2015 #47
I never thought of him as "masculine". Never. He always seemed a little whoopsie. JanMichael Jun 2015 #51
Gordon Ramsay and Anthony Bourdain are SO swishy mainer Jun 2015 #53
She has a right to her opinion. I doubt many will agree with her but.......whatever. WillowTree Jun 2015 #55
She's married to that guy who sounds like he's gargling? immoderate Jun 2015 #57
The sadness of just because ya got lots of bucks you have something worthwhile to say dembotoz Jun 2015 #59
my 88-year-old mother complained about my dad not cooking ... kwassa Jun 2015 #60
Sorry, I really don't care what some celib's wife thinks or says. 99Forever Jun 2015 #62
Yeah, Le Taz Hot Jun 2015 #63
I don't wear an apron... Historic NY Jun 2015 #67
Uh, OK . . . so what does the fact that I did the dishes tonight say about me? hatrack Jun 2015 #70
she would think think you unmanly Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #72
Oh damn, my day is SO ruined! hatrack Jun 2015 #93
I am second generation Italian-American, all Drahthaardogs Jun 2015 #71
I posted upthread, it's the same for French guys Pooka Fey Jun 2015 #84
Her views are not old fashioned CBGLuthier Jun 2015 #75
Yeah, Penny, an apron would "take his masculinity" Tanuki Jun 2015 #76
With the kind of money he has, he doesn't need to cook. PeteSelman Jun 2015 #77
Seriously, who gives a damn what she thinks? Jeroen Jun 2015 #78
Because when we think "manly hunter gatherer".... Adenoid_Hynkel Jun 2015 #81
What an idiot - nt LiberalElite Jun 2015 #82
It's straight women like her that give a bad name to Jamastiene Jun 2015 #83
My Great-Grandpa was a chief in a Manhattan Hotel HockeyMom Jun 2015 #85
Awwww, she's just so presh! DawgHouse Jun 2015 #86
Who cares what this trophy wife thinks? nt raccoon Jun 2015 #87
Well, I don't wear an apron, but I'm a pretty good cook. NaturalHigh Jun 2015 #90

atreides1

(16,136 posts)
1. Okay then
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:34 PM
Jun 2015

If she's that "old fashioned" maybe her husband should hunt in an old fashioned way...a long stick with a flint head on it. No more singing songs for Rod...from now on he'll set the example and do things the "old fashioned" way!

spanone

(136,022 posts)
2. he obviously didn't marry her for her mind. 'if women want to go and work'
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:35 PM
Jun 2015

yea, women just go and work cause they want to, penny.

JustAnotherGen

(32,127 posts)
3. To each their own
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:36 PM
Jun 2015

1 - I didn't realize he got married again - what is this? #4? #5? It's got to be up there right?

2 - I don't care how things work in her home as long as she keeps her nose out of mine.

JustAnotherGen

(32,127 posts)
42. Oh my - you went there!
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 05:53 PM
Jun 2015


You know - I "do" for my husband. But I don't shove it down other women's throats.

And - she kind of emasculates men who DO cook.

I especially like when my hunter braises his venison for us.

underpants

(183,198 posts)
61. His first kid was given up for adoption
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 07:17 PM
Jun 2015

In 1963, for Rod, that might not have been a bad decision

In reference to his divorces, Stewart was once quoted as saying, "Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and just give her a house."


kentauros

(29,414 posts)
16. I hate aprons.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:09 PM
Jun 2015

They just get in the way. I did like the chef's wear I used to have for baking. Although I had to wash twice a week due to my small set of three being saturated in flour and butter by the end of each day

GoneOffShore

(17,346 posts)
40. Used to hate aprons but I'm now a fan.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 05:39 PM
Jun 2015

My trousers don't get covered in flour, nor do they get wet or covered in grease.

Plus I always tuck a side towel in the tie.

I'm not a fan of aprons with a bib though.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
41. Sure, they're fine for some.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 05:42 PM
Jun 2015

I just wear clothing I don't care about as I don't have chef's wear any more. Grease spatters are the only thing that are ever a bother.

GoneOffShore

(17,346 posts)
49. I always loved the cooking shows where people cooked in evening wear
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 06:51 PM
Jun 2015

I wonder what those cleaning bills were like.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
64. I think some of them still do!
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 07:32 PM
Jun 2015

Or at least nicer-looking clothing than what most of us would wear while cooking

Initech

(100,194 posts)
6. I'll forward this to my friend who is a professional chef.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:39 PM
Jun 2015

I'm sure that he will have a choice comment or two to leave.

underpants

(183,198 posts)
30. I was wondering if they ever eat at top end restaurants
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:42 PM
Jun 2015

Who does she think is probably back there in the kitchen?

Vinca

(50,354 posts)
7. ROFL - she has a chef.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:40 PM
Jun 2015

But this "old fashioned girl" likes to go to the grocery store to "stay connected."

MineralMan

(146,366 posts)
9. I do all the cooking in my home. I'm good at it,
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:43 PM
Jun 2015

and my wife doesn't seem to mind. She isn't interested in cooking. This kind of old-school role assignment is really, really boring.

I don't wear an apron, though. I learned to keep from spilling stuff on my clothing.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
23. Throw off your shackles, MineralMan!
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:23 PM
Jun 2015

Go outside and kill something for dinner!

(But not squirrels. No, no, not squirrels.)
[hr][font color="blue"][center]No squirrels were harmed in the making of this post. Yet.[/center][/font][hr]

 

Smarmie Doofus

(14,498 posts)
11. Sounds like he ended up marrying "Maggie Mae".
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:48 PM
Jun 2015

(That WAS Rod Stewart... wasn't it?)

And, besides which... I think it was the men ( for the most part) who hunted and the women ( for the most part,) who gathered.


Fabuloso.

Can I go microwave my sandwich now?

 

Smarmie Doofus

(14,498 posts)
65. The morning sun when it's in her eyes really shows her age.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 08:08 PM
Jun 2015

Nonetheless she looks remarkably well-preserved.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
13. Such a weird thing to attach gender baggage to.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:05 PM
Jun 2015

I'm single. If I didn't learn to cook, I'd be living on garbage food or, at best, raw ingredients.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
15. Marrying someone like that reflects poorly on Stewart's choices.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:08 PM
Jun 2015

[hr][font color="blue"][center]No squirrels were harmed in the making of this post. Yet.[/center][/font][hr]

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
18. Good thing for us both, Ms. Lancaster, I'm gay.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:10 PM
Jun 2015

AND I love cooking!

So no worries, our paths are unlikely to cross in this lifetime, for lots of reasons.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
20. If I listen long enough to you, I'll find a way to believe that it's all true
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:15 PM
Jun 2015

Knowing
That you lie straight- faced while I cry.

 

Snow Leopard

(348 posts)
21. Oh Penny
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:18 PM
Jun 2015

prepare for the wrath of the feminist hate squad coming your way. Have your assistant attend to your twitter feed for a while. lol.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
25. That's ridiculous. What about barbecuing?
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:26 PM
Jun 2015

And speaking from experience, an apron is highly advisable when barbecuing in the nude.

 

hollowdweller

(4,229 posts)
33. I have a few pals that think like that.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:55 PM
Jun 2015

One his divorce actually was in part over the fact his wife didn't have dinner on the table.

The girl he married after was a cook and always has dinner ready.

Another married a girl and she does all the meals. A while back he and his son went camping with a bunch of us.

OK so my other buddy and I wake up and start cooking breakfast. I cook probably 75% of the meals at home and 100% camping and stuff, and my buddy he's a good cook too and his wife didn't come with us anyway either.

So my buddy says to my other pal "you didn't bring any food?" and my pal said of he and his son "We're just a couple of MEN" which meant I guess they were unable to feed themselves???

Another buddy we were having a gathering several years back. We had rented a house. I get up and cook breakfast for everybody. This other buddy doesn't want our breakfast. He has something he eats for breakfast every day. His wife is really pregnant and not really feeling well and he rousts her out to make HIS breakfast.

Interesting 2 of the 3 have been divorced. My mom was a stay at home mom and did most of the cooking but my dad cooked a lot of special things. Deer. Fish he caught. Squirrels, and then he had 3 or 4 difft regular food specialties he cooked and when we went deer hunting he did a lot of the cooking he and another old guy so I always wanted to know how to cook and be self sufficient. It's weird to me anybody would want to be served.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
58. Very traditional. Rod is 70 years old. He has had a lot of work done.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 07:12 PM
Jun 2015

His wife is 26 years younger.

BillZBubb

(10,650 posts)
36. All of Rod's many wives have thought this way.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 05:10 PM
Jun 2015

Generally, he seems to prefer air-head, YOUNG, right wing, blond women.

Ilsa

(61,722 posts)
48. I suspect Rod is as ditzy as his wives.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 06:43 PM
Jun 2015

An intelligent man would have sought better DNA for his offspring. Rod is as moronic as his wife.
Screw 'em both.

Monk06

(7,675 posts)
74. Stuart's preferred wife would look exactly like himself. Hell he'd marry himself if he could, daft
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 02:36 AM
Jun 2015

prick.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
38. both of them have ingested to many hair products .
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 05:18 PM
Jun 2015

In other L.A. news. last week John Mayall and Dick Dale played the Whiskey ,they both may remember when the WhiskeyA Go Go 's bathrooms had been cleaned .

Pooka Fey

(3,496 posts)
47. Some days the dumb blond jokes just write themselves...
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 06:34 PM
Jun 2015

[url=http://postimage.org/][img][/img][/url]

Pierre Gagnaire, (French) 2015 Voted Top chef out of 100 contestants by his 2 and 3 star chef peers

Le pape de la cuisine, Paul Bocuse, arrive en deuxième position, suivi de l'Espagnol (i.e. a man) Joan Roca ("El Celler de Can Roca&quot , l'Américain Thomas Keller ("Per Se&quot , les Français Alain Ducasse ("Louis XV&quot , Michel Bras, Eric Frechon ("Epicure&quot , Yannick Alleno ("Ledoyen&quot , ainsi que le Japonais Seiji Yamamoto ("Nihon Ryori Ryugin&quot et l'Américain Daniel Humm ("Eleven Madison Park&quot . Plus largement, 26 autres chefs étoilés français figurent dans le classement. Mais seules 5 femmes y sont représentées, dont la Française Anne-Sophie Pic (47e).


Out of the top 100 classment, only 5 women chefs are represented. ("Chapeau" to these 5 women, btw, for making it in a man's world of professional cuisine)

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Alain Ducasse (French)

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Joel Robuchon (French)

One thing I really admire about Frenchmen, is that despite the fact that these guys are seriously MACHO, they have ZERO problems putting on the apron and getting to work in the kitchen. I'm talking about the average everyday garden-variety French dude, not just these chefs. It wouldn't even occur to these guys that cooking could be considered un-masculine. They would howl with laughter at this absurd idea, and then make a delicious dinner for the whole family.

JanMichael

(24,914 posts)
51. I never thought of him as "masculine". Never. He always seemed a little whoopsie.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 06:55 PM
Jun 2015

Seriously even with the Stardust reference.

I guess money means man to many.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
60. my 88-year-old mother complained about my dad not cooking ...
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 07:16 PM
Jun 2015

and praised my generation of men for cooking, as all I know seem to do.

I like cooking, too.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
63. Yeah,
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 07:27 PM
Jun 2015

and I'm real sure she would have married ole' Rod if he was living on Social Security in a mobile home in Barstow, CA. Give me a break.

Historic NY

(37,470 posts)
67. I don't wear an apron...
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 08:50 PM
Jun 2015

but perhaps I should. I find women will gladly relegate themselves to the Sous chef position, if I say I will cook.
I like herbs and wine in my cooking some say it scares them to use.

hatrack

(59,616 posts)
70. Uh, OK . . . so what does the fact that I did the dishes tonight say about me?
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 10:02 PM
Jun 2015

Yes, I'm in the Y Brigade, should you wonder . . .

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
71. I am second generation Italian-American, all
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 10:15 PM
Jun 2015

of us men cook. Most as good or better than the women. I don't think there is anything lacking about my masculinity.
Growing up we sure had that latin maschismo thing going on. Maybe it only robs English punk rock metro-sexual singing men of their masculinity? Hell, I am so macho, my sperm smoke Marlboro.

Pooka Fey

(3,496 posts)
84. I posted upthread, it's the same for French guys
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 07:32 AM
Jun 2015

they all cook really well, as good or better than the women, and they are very Macho (not in an obnoxious way). My husband is French, and we live here. A French guy would laugh his ass off if some British ditz questioned his masculinity because he is wearing an apron while cooking dinner for his family.

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
75. Her views are not old fashioned
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 03:57 AM
Jun 2015

They are fucking ignorant.

I once watched Rod Stewart come down a stair on stage wearing silk pajamas, I don't think frying some eggs will hurt his masculinity.

PeteSelman

(1,508 posts)
77. With the kind of money he has, he doesn't need to cook.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 05:27 AM
Jun 2015

Although, I'd still cook even if if had that kind of cash.

I just enjoy it.-

My wife doesn't mind it either.

To each their own I guess.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
83. It's straight women like her that give a bad name to
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 07:27 AM
Jun 2015

womankind all the way around. No damn wonder women don't have equal rights. Too many like her feeding into the stupid stereotypes and myths. The best chef that ever cooked for me was an Italian guy from Boston. We were both in Myrtle Beach in the dead of winter. That was the best hamburger with spaghetti sauce I ever had in my life. He was way more manly than Rod Stewart could ever dream of being. He could have bench pressed Rod Stewart and Rod Stewart's idiot of a wife.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
85. My Great-Grandpa was a chief in a Manhattan Hotel
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:30 AM
Jun 2015

He also fought in the Civil War at 15 years old. My Dad did a lot of the cooking when I was growing up in the 50's/60's. Although I will say this much. He NEVER wore an apron. Did not care if his clothes got dirty. He would wash them himself. If he spilled something on the floor, he got the mop out and did that himself also. Rod's wife would be horrified at all the "feminine" chores my Dad did.

BTW, Dad was a Longshoreman.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
90. Well, I don't wear an apron, but I'm a pretty good cook.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 09:10 AM
Jun 2015

My family unanimously votes me the best cook in the house. I think my masculinity is still intact.

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