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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI'm harboring a seething, white-hot burning hatred of republicans right now...
Am I alone in this degree of loathing? How do I deal with it?
Hepburn
(21,054 posts)...anyone else watching the House hearing on PP?
Fuck those RW assholes....
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)'Don't you think it's unfair that many Americans have to support something they find utterly abhorrent?'
Cause obviously he's going to take on military defunding and the defunding of all wars next, since so many Americans find spending money on killing actual born human beings abhorrent, right?
Takket
(21,564 posts)I think its unfair that americans have to represented by a clueless ignorant fool with no idea what he's talking about and no tool other than hyperbole to make an argument.
Drop the mic.
Snotcicles
(9,089 posts)" When I'm on my death bed in the very last moments, I wish to change my party affiliation to Republican. Because when I die I want a republican to die".
louis-t
(23,292 posts)hand on your throat."
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)paradigm is blowing in. It is almost as if they are cooperating, acting as stupid and evil as they can to allow people to truly get it. They are dinosaurs and their time is short. A meteor called revolution will land and them and they won't know what hit them. Have faith and good cheer. 2017 will be the beginning of the renewal of this world.
Duval
(4,280 posts)that from the RW turds. PP helps women and men around the US. The abounding ignorance of far right Republicans is incredible!
mnhtnbb
(31,386 posts)and I try to limit my exposure to politics here on DU--just enough to keep up.
I expect nothing but lies, misogyny, bigotry, greed and hate out of Republicans. I am rarely
surprised by the crap they do and say anymore. It's a very sad state of affairs.
Hepburn
(21,054 posts)...I hate them, really hate them...and I thought I hated the Scrub...
mnhtnbb
(31,386 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)in very negative ways.
sorefeet
(1,241 posts)but I couldn't take the lies and they never got called out for them.
fredamae
(4,458 posts)but, to control my BP this am..I'm choosing to follow comments. I too no longer watch CorpoMedia. They've rendered themselves totally Useless.
oswaldactedalone
(3,491 posts)Last edited Tue Sep 29, 2015, 02:41 PM - Edit history (1)
OTOH, when election season begins in '16, I'm going to campaign for Democrats just as hard as usual. We can't allow these abhorrent idiots to take over our country.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Channel the anger into action!
Anger is useful. It energizes!
Use it!
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)If we hate we become like those we hate. Best to turn off the TV and the computer and go for a walk; then sign up to work against them. But not hatefully. "Love your enemies; it will drive them crazy."
SleeplessinSoCal
(9,112 posts)Identify the root cause of the anger. Is it the way they attack women's rights in the most underhanded way? Is it because they say they are God fearing, when in fact they fear people? Is it because they refuse to acknowledge the harm they have done to this nation via their economic goals?
Or is there another root cause to hate the SOB's?
haikugal
(6,476 posts)They are rude and intentionally cruel in their display of self righteous dismissal of women and families and their needs.
That makes me angry.
I looked up the definition of hate..
hate
hāt/
verb
1.
feel intense or passionate dislike for (someone).
"the boys hate each other"
synonyms: loathe, detest, despise, dislike, abhor, execrate; More
antonyms: love
have a strong aversion to (something).
"he hates flying"
used politely to express one's regret or embarrassment at doing something.
"I hate to bother you"
synonyms: be sorry, be reluctant, be loath, be unwilling, be disinclined; More
informal
express strong dislike for; criticize or abuse.
"I can't hate on them for trying something new"
noun
noun: hate
1.
intense or passionate dislike.
"feelings of hate and revenge"
synonyms: hatred, loathing, detestation, dislike, distaste, abhorrence, abomination, execration, aversion; More
I don't feel it as hate, I feel it as anger....guess I'm different.
PassingFair
(22,434 posts)An oldie but a goodie...
rbrnmw
(7,160 posts)All this over fake videos. My anger at them seems to be ever present these days,
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)Xipe Totec
(43,890 posts)backscatter712
(26,355 posts)Volaris
(10,270 posts)Oh Donnn-ald...I'm LAUGHING at the Superior Intellect.
Doesn't take much to bait a Narcissist into their own demise, does it lol?
oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)Turn off the TV. Your health is more important than knowing every detail.
mindwalker_i
(4,407 posts)The other day, Larry showed part of an interview with the guy who raised the drug prices of the AIDS drug from 13.50 to 750.00. That guy commented that it was only $1000 for a run of the drug that saved one's life. The implication was that saving your life was worth a lot more, so he should charge more. There was no connection as to whether it was right or wrong to make a huge profit off of people who were dying, and in a capitalist society he's absolutely right: the only value is money, so you do everything you can to make money.
The republicans seem to be in a similar state: their only goal is to keep themselves employed. They do that by getting rich people to support their campaigns, so they can run more ads, etc. Therefore they do whatever the rich want. Making the country run well doesn't have any place in the equation. Fairness or morality don't have any place in the equation. I should clarify that: actually doing anything to further fairness or morality doesn't have any place, although talking about it to get the votes of suckers does have a place.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)el_bryanto
(11,804 posts)I don't know - it's totally normal to be full of hatred for people who are doing some pretty awful things. And they certainly earn it with their terrible programs and general nastiness.
That said, being full of hatred all the time isn't good for your mental health. Do what you can to decompress. What inspires in the long run isn't hatred and despair but hope for a better world. If you can keep your focus on that, you can slam into the republicans as necessary without being angry all the time.
Easier said than done though; as our republican friends go out of their way to slam into us.
Bryant
oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)Posted by Omaha Steve -- might be a good break from the hearings.
http://www.omaha.com/news/goodnews/pet-parade-photos-your-weekly-dose-of-furry-goodness/article_66a0d340-62eb-11e5-a209-dbf2fef2dda5.html
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)It's okay to be crazy, but only one of us is allowed to be crazy at a time. It works out pretty well. We manage to get the rage out without forgetting the important stuff... like paying the bills, and eating every now and then.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)Turbineguy
(37,324 posts)"There, but for the grace of God go I" position. I don't hate people for being stupid and brainwashed.
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)And do anything else to drive them from any position of power.
justhanginon
(3,290 posts)guillotine plans, read them and sit here and dream of what could be.
Duval
(4,280 posts)Zorra
(27,670 posts)my country, and my planet since the day I was born.
Their entire gig is negative and destructive.
I deal with it by doing whatever I can to stop them from harming everything, and I am thoroughly sick of having to deal with them, they are like spoiled, selfish children who never grow up, and who force us to continuously pick up after they make their deadly messes.
Rainngirl
(243 posts)It would be so much easier to just let these assholes (or do I need to say "a-holes" here?) be mean, greedy narcissistic, fake Christian lot and their stupid, brainwashed followers be how they are IF they only hurt themselves. But the truth is that they do so much damage!! They're policies and their sick, twisted way of thinking have the potential to hurt EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US. I know being angry and hating them back doesn't do me any good, but it's so hard to stay informed AND stay calm. I haven't managed to find a balance yet. And then I get mad at the people who say, "Oh, I just don't care about politics." I want to yell at them and say, "Well, you'd better start caring, buddy, because if anyone of these boneheaded clowns gets into office, you will find out exactly how awful they are!" Sigh. (Thanks for letting me vent. I can't do it on FB).
cpompilo
(323 posts)Channel that energy to good!
SalviaBlue
(2,916 posts)It is very hard to even deal with business/family/friends who are Cons... how can they be so stupid? They are ignorant; plain and simple. I try to pity them instead of blame. Trying to change their minds does not work.
dembotoz
(16,802 posts)he always has the local state assembly and senate congress clowns in tow
i was too angry and did not think i could be civil.
but quite frankly we need to go to these events and argue with them. but i could not this time.
what to do?
local party is trying to hire an organizer...i am contributing more than i can really afford.....
not a huge amount....under 5 hundo.....but more than i have ever given before to anything.
do stuff like that.
i am also offering to take in for a short time a soon to be homeless fellow dem. she is in between checks....
i am trying to live the politics i preach...rubber hits the road...pope and his golden rule thing--although i knew i was going to do this prior to his visit and am not catholic.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Unfortunately, these are still our neighbors (unbelievable as it is) and we have to try to remember to love one another, which comes more easily to us anyway.
But yes, there are days when I go to bed LOATHING Repubs.
DrBulldog
(841 posts). . . taking an extra shower each day.
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)...conversation got more and more heated. Finally I lost it (My bad) and said "I pray every night that every fucking one of the sons-a-bitches would fall to the center of the earth because 2 things would happen...the planet's IQ would increase 30 percent and the happiness factor would go off the scale...the pieces of human garbage have caused more deaths, misery and torture than all the wars in history combined"
He wasn't pleased.
SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)I wish more people did that. Us reasonable folks are always biting our lip while our right wing relatives and acquaintances go off on their bigoted right wing nut tirades. It is about time that shit was no longer socially acceptable, like saying the N word, and should receive similar and immediate rebuke.
DrBulldog
(841 posts)Jester Messiah
(4,711 posts)There's no running from it, we've got to cut the cancer out.
abakan
(1,819 posts)You are not alone. I have learned to deal by never paying much attention to the crap they say. I watch what I have to, to be informed but not enough to have a stroke. It will get better, I hope.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)The only national repig figure I have been able to look at without gagging in the last forty-plus years is Jerry Ford.
abakan
(1,819 posts)Then again he had a shorter time to mess up, unless you consider stumbling up and down things.
I agree, he tickle my gag reflexes, either.
DrBulldog
(841 posts). . . I will immediately end that friendship FOREVER.
gregcrawford
(2,382 posts)... you mean true patriots who love Gawd and the Konstitooshun even though they've never read it, and who want to protect the unconceived by banning birth control so there will be even more abortions to rage about, and who screech about freedom even as they pass the most invasive, restrictive and draconian laws in living memory, and who crave dominion over the lives of others, and who are walking, talking justifications for mandatory sterilization, and who lie to their dying mothers for idle amusement?
What's not to love?
For the benefit of the terminally obtuse:
Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)Enjoy it!
backscatter712
(26,355 posts)Most of them are so buffoonish, that you can't help but laugh.
mountain grammy
(26,620 posts)and I only listened to the "hearing" for a little while..
headed out to the lake with my kayak and a joint to restore some inner peace.
apnu
(8,756 posts)KamaAina
(78,249 posts)I've been harboring one since Selection 2000.
SpankMe
(2,957 posts)ProfessorGAC
(65,013 posts)Just kiddin'. I've been on a rant since Carter lost.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)ProfessorGAC
(65,013 posts)Great answer
kairos12
(12,859 posts)everyday.
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)They have a white-hot loathing for us as well. There is no reconciliation with Republicans, and if they had their way this would be an All White Christian based Country, with the Constitution and Bill of Rights replaced by some kind of 16th century style law, based on the Bible, where witch trials could happen again, and unloyality paid with violence. If there were any minorities left, we would all be apart of the Slave labor they would want to have.
SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)Idaho said, on the Radio; "what's wrong with slavery?" The Republicans really are the fascists of our day and age.
kairos12
(12,859 posts)Jester Messiah
(4,711 posts)May they all get stabbed.
PearliePoo2
(7,768 posts)Not only do I hate the Rethugs, I now also loathe the willfully ignorant populace who vote these assholes into office.
I am at a loss to understand how people can be so fucking stupid. People who vote time and time again against their own interests.
Ted Cruz is an example. Uneducated morons have unleashed this evil, Dominionist "bagger" on the entire Nation.
What he is doing effects ME, my well-being, my sanity and my quality of life.
So, yeah...now I'm taking it personally. I truly hate them.
SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)Your rage is good, and normal. It gives you energy to fight these bastards.
YabaDabaNoDinoNo
(460 posts)Maybe this incident with PP will make folks start treating ALL Pubs like the enemies of freedom they are and yes that includes you old asses kindly grandmother who always votes GOP
They are All the Enemy no exceptions!
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)cherry-pick my words, delivered during an especially white-hot moment of loathing during the PP hearing today. Thank you.
Joey Liberal
(5,526 posts)That and watching Bill Maher.
Logical
(22,457 posts)Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)They think they are doing the right thing by supporting their party.
They think we are crazy for being Democrats.
It is a result of the terrible media we are saddled with.
MynameisBlarney
(2,979 posts)As for how to deal with it....my method tends to be a bit hard on the liver, lol.
EEO
(1,620 posts)It motivated me to support this project: http://www.theniladmirari.com/
Facility Inspector
(615 posts)be like water.
tomm2thumbs
(13,297 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)And maybe you can bring one or two of them over to the light.
Jack Rabbit
(45,984 posts)I saw the Grand Inquisitor's opening remarks and just shook my head in my coffee.
These guys are too pathetic to hate. They just aren't worth the bile. Voting them out of office won't change them, but it will make them irrelevant and that's really the best we can do. They'll still be spewing their silly little rants against the 21st century, but there will be no CSPAN cameras around to broadcast the nonsense. At best, a few of the better known racists and misogynists might get a gig filling in for Limbaugh or Beck while they go on vacation or even become a contributor to FoxNews and provide his viewers steer manure in response to a question from Megyn Kelly, but only the morbidly curious and terminally bored among us will pay any attention (and then claim they watch FoxNews so the rest of us won't have to).
I'll just let it go today. I expect the Tea Party Fascists to repeat the lies provided by the Center for Medical Progress and for Ms Richards to refute it with actual, verifiable facts and for the Inquisitors ask more questions like they didn't hear the answer to the previous one.
Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
It's time to take this bit of reality television off the air.
ErikJ
(6,335 posts)It is amazing how little they know and propagate online. So I get an outlet by giving them the facts. Like shooting fish in a barrel.
Duval
(4,280 posts)and hearing them! I utterly loath them AND our media! I deal with it by coming here and also watching Thom Hartmann on Free Speech TV. However, today I'm turning the TV off and reading a book that has nothing to do with politics.
m-lekktor
(3,675 posts)Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)ileus
(15,396 posts)It drives my life and keeps me steady.
randome
(34,845 posts)[hr][font color="blue"][center]The truth doesnt always set you free.
Sometimes it builds a bigger cage around the one youre already in.[/center][/font][hr]
Generic Other
(28,979 posts)I curse the GOP men and women to suffer for their idiotic stance. Let their daughters and granddaughters get pregnant, suffer STDs, face the life dilemmas PP could help them deal with. Let them skip getting needed care such as exams because they can't pay. Let their daughters suffer the fate they condemned all young and poor women to. Let their daughters face the world as unwed mothers because they had no access to birth control or because they were sexually assaulted. Let them get pregnant by the kind of pigs Republicans attract. Let their nieces suffer genital warts, chlamydia, menstrual problems. Seriously, I am sick of their behavior.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)Generic Other
(28,979 posts)To wait for the bullies in the parking lot and beat them with the bald-headed end of a broom.
Kelvin Mace
(17,469 posts)As easy as they make it, we must resist the inclination to hate.
Pity them, they are fools who will be destroyed by their own folly. We can't change their minds, we can only hope to educate those not completely lost to foolishness.
byronius
(7,394 posts)Today's conservatives would be considered pathetic and liberal by their forerunners, who bombed, beat, tortured and burned as their initial conversation opener. I'm reading 'The Great Migration' by Isabel Wilkerson, and the descriptions of conservative terrorism are chilling.
Willis McCall, sheriff in Alabama, for instance. 'Big Hat', as they called him, routinely murdered black men as entertainment. His primary job was to invent fines for local black people so they could be assigned to work 16 hour days seven days a week for local planters -- slavery by any other name.
A local white woman claimed that she had been raped by three black men (she recanted later, it was a white neighbor), and so McCall rounded up three random black men, handcuffed them, took them out into the woods and shot them. One survived and crawled back to town still in handcuffs to tell the story -- a judge sentenced him to life in prison for the rape, even though he was able to prove that he had been in court when the rape was committed. McCall was never charged, the matter was never investigated. The falsely-accused survivor served life in prison.
My point is -- they've been around a long time, these monsters, and now they're fading out faster than ever before. Slowly but surely, conservative memes are disappearing from the earth. These current clowns have a mere shadow of the power they used to wield. A few generations and they'll be historical smoke.
I do understand, very much. I struggle with the same rage, every day. I can't talk politics with any conservative or libertarian, period, ever. Words like 'murderer', 'genocidal psychopath', and 'treasonous traitor' immediately come out of my mouth, and I mean them.
History says they're soon to be isolated and dying out. Not soon enough, but it's happening.
Flying Squirrel
(3,041 posts)Perhaps some day some of them will recover. Most likely not. Be comforted in knowing that many others are fighting against them, and don't let it get personal.
KauaiK
(544 posts)I have been harboring this Reagan and which skyrocketed when Newt Gingrich ascending to the Speaker of House. From that point forward all matter of civility, courtesy and dignity has diminished from the US Gov't. The GOP is now an overt (vs formerly covert) mass of nasty hatred and bigotry.
I just keep pressing the peeps I know to register and VOTE. IF they don't vote they don't have the right to complain.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Person 2713
(3,263 posts)Yes I loathe them
libodem
(19,288 posts)And let it go. Send love to the universe.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)Faux pas
(14,672 posts)are evil. That is all.