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trumad

(41,692 posts)
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 04:32 PM Nov 2015

14 years on DU and this last week is the first time I have no clue what is going on.

The crossfire is making me dizzy.

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14 years on DU and this last week is the first time I have no clue what is going on. (Original Post) trumad Nov 2015 OP
So many important things countingbluecars Nov 2015 #1
Seriously---I'll read an Op and say---WTF? trumad Nov 2015 #3
I actually don't believe you for a skinny minute. cwydro Nov 2015 #2
Oh that was the week before. trumad Nov 2015 #5
Because you've been all over the place since OS posted the first thread, cwydro Nov 2015 #9
Oh I understand the OS Meta drama.... trumad Nov 2015 #10
I was a host during that time. cwydro Nov 2015 #12
Uh huh. trumad Nov 2015 #28
Uh huh. trumad Nov 2015 #29
lol nt. BootinUp Nov 2015 #44
Well, you are certainly very welcome. cwydro Nov 2015 #46
LOL leftofcool Nov 2015 #81
Why are hosts allowing meta? joshcryer Nov 2015 #68
How else to get a meta thread going Capt. Obvious Nov 2015 #22
Yes indeed. cwydro Nov 2015 #24
Hey, what's new? pintobean Nov 2015 #39
I feel like I'm in a card game and I don't know who the mark is. bluedigger Nov 2015 #4
You know what that means, right? ... Whiskeytide Nov 2015 #7
I disagree. n/t lumberjack_jeff Nov 2015 #6
Of course you will..... trumad Nov 2015 #8
You are not the only one who is confused Gothmog Nov 2015 #11
well, you started a nasty thread mocking a beloved DUer who has a terminal illness. kath Nov 2015 #13
I don't think that's fair TSIAS Nov 2015 #16
That information has been public for MONTHS. kath Nov 2015 #20
I thought he was fine and recovered. trumad Nov 2015 #30
Recovered from dementia? JonLeibowitz Nov 2015 #36
Honestly I had no clue he had Dementia. trumad Nov 2015 #61
No you didn't think he recovered. 840high Nov 2015 #57
What you my mind reader ? trumad Nov 2015 #62
.... 840high Nov 2015 #67
You do realize a good many of us have OPs we don't follow for one reason or another. ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #40
This is exactly what I think. Tipperary Nov 2015 #50
Same here.. SoCalDem Nov 2015 #98
Honestly I had no idea as well.. trumad Nov 2015 #63
I believe you on this one. Agschmid Nov 2015 #65
Fuck yeah--- trumad Nov 2015 #74
Are you the one that alerted on the "termination" thread? Renew Deal Nov 2015 #19
Look, I'm not trumad's biggest fan, cwydro Nov 2015 #26
Wow... trumad Nov 2015 #31
Lmao, since I have no idea if I've just been insulted or complimented. cwydro Nov 2015 #41
... I think ... Agschmid Nov 2015 #66
I didn't see your post. ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #42
2004 was worse Gman Nov 2015 #14
funny thinking back to the derision-laden nics for supporters salin Nov 2015 #15
I'm still not over the Clarkpers TSIAS Nov 2015 #17
lol - exactly. salin Nov 2015 #18
My proudest moment was serving as a moderator in that time and having someone accuse me ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #43
kudos salin Nov 2015 #49
Good one. Gman Nov 2015 #51
Which is why I've reverted to the flying pig for this go-round. Ugh. nt Hekate Nov 2015 #69
In that case... DFW Nov 2015 #72
I don't remember it being worse n2doc Nov 2015 #90
I agree about the animosity Gman Nov 2015 #93
I share your confusion. When I was really active on DU there were a few nutty situations. JanMichael Nov 2015 #21
Dude! Tony Romo is back and will start against the Dolphins this weekend... madinmaryland Nov 2015 #23
Here since 2002 mcar Nov 2015 #25
Same here elfin Nov 2015 #27
As you can see by this thread alone.. trumad Nov 2015 #32
Yep, I agree. mstinamotorcity2 Nov 2015 #38
And yet you wade in here without a helmet. Kalidurga Nov 2015 #33
from what I can tell... dhill926 Nov 2015 #34
You just covered the DU 2016 Primary wars AuntPatsy Nov 2015 #53
Dont sell yourself short, buddy! Warren DeMontague Nov 2015 #35
Methinks you're on to something! opiate69 Nov 2015 #55
Breakfast of Champions! Warren DeMontague Nov 2015 #56
Indeed!! opiate69 Nov 2015 #58
Chevy Chase said it best lumberjack_jeff Nov 2015 #96
Me too. What is with all this infighting? spiderpig Nov 2015 #37
GD battle: meta threads vs gun threads. Lizzie Poppet Nov 2015 #45
Seems the same to me for some strange reason. nt BootinUp Nov 2015 #47
Poor Trumad Oilwellian Nov 2015 #48
Listen to the logic of the attacks . orpupilofnature57 Nov 2015 #52
Every 4 years Generic Brad Nov 2015 #54
Uh huh. Texasgal Nov 2015 #59
Not really. trumad Nov 2015 #64
I'm in the same boat as you. nt ladjf Nov 2015 #60
Yeah whatever, Trumad ..... nt. polly7 Nov 2015 #70
I have a cracker for you. trumad Nov 2015 #75
How original ! polly7 Nov 2015 #76
I did---sitting here drinking coffee... trumad Nov 2015 #77
Well good for you! polly7 Nov 2015 #78
Yep--- trumad Nov 2015 #79
This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Nov 2015 #80
Deleted my post which was a bit mean ....... have a great day. nt. polly7 Nov 2015 #82
Polly--- trumad Nov 2015 #84
I'm not mad. polly7 Nov 2015 #86
Jockey? trumad Nov 2015 #87
Get dressed. nt. polly7 Nov 2015 #89
OK trumad Nov 2015 #91
. pintobean Nov 2015 #83
I remember that other original thread, it was great to read. polly7 Nov 2015 #85
Did you resign from being a host? trumad Nov 2015 #88
Where do you stand? pintobean Nov 2015 #92
Didn't answer my question. trumad Nov 2015 #94
No pintobean Nov 2015 #95
It's the same group that keeps trying to throw its weight around. Waiting For Everyman Nov 2015 #71
It doesn't exactly make me dizzy.... DFW Nov 2015 #73
It's the fucking Hunger Games here! randome Nov 2015 #97
 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
3. Seriously---I'll read an Op and say---WTF?
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 04:37 PM
Nov 2015

I'm having a hard time keeping up. GD-P---Hill.Com, Terminations, etc.....

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
2. I actually don't believe you for a skinny minute.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 04:37 PM
Nov 2015

You already made a nasty post about the hosts, and you have bombarded them with ugly PMs.

Why play all innocent now?

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
5. Oh that was the week before.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 04:40 PM
Nov 2015

And that was because one of the hosts is a mad stalker of mine who locked a thread without consensus.

Not a very good group controlling things.

on edit: and what does that have to do with this current Op of mine?

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
9. Because you've been all over the place since OS posted the first thread,
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 04:43 PM
Nov 2015

and I know that you do know exactly what it's all about.

It's funny how some simply love the drama, the trouble...

Well, there's plenty here now, so enjoy!

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
10. Oh I understand the OS Meta drama....
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 04:44 PM
Nov 2015

It's the other stuff that has me a bit dizzy.

BTW: You are not a host---so how do you know I've bombarded them with emails?



 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
12. I was a host during that time.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:05 PM
Nov 2015

I know all about your emails.

I retired early from hosting because I'm, 1) busy with real life, and, 2) sick to death of all this meta crap.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
46. Well, you are certainly very welcome.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:41 PM
Nov 2015

Just so you know, I was on your side during that nonsense.

Whoever your mole in the host forum is should be able to tell you that.

Except that I found your PMs to a new host inexcusable.

Whiskeytide

(4,633 posts)
7. You know what that means, right? ...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 04:42 PM
Nov 2015

... the "mark" is not supposed to know who the mark is!



kath

(10,565 posts)
13. well, you started a nasty thread mocking a beloved DUer who has a terminal illness.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:14 PM
Nov 2015

really lovely. SUCH a class act!

TSIAS

(14,689 posts)
16. I don't think that's fair
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:29 PM
Nov 2015

It seems that OP was posted before the information about OS's health was public information.

I don't like threads mocking other members, but I don't think it carried the nefarious intent that you might think.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
30. I thought he was fine and recovered.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:03 PM
Nov 2015

No matter... The thread should have been locked for meta...yeah but you know these hosts.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
40. You do realize a good many of us have OPs we don't follow for one reason or another.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:35 PM
Nov 2015

I have no idea what is wrong with OmahaSteve, outside of people alluding to it, and I am sure there are many, many DUers struggling through terminal illness, great family loss, financial misery who just haven't posted about it. We are active posters or we are not. I give everyone a level deal, whether they are ill or not. They choose to post here.

I don't mean for this to be a thrashing, but one of the reasons I left DU is because of an event which left a few DUers feeling like they couldn't debate/argue/talk smack with me. I have no real issues with Steve, and I do read his labor posts, many of which are invaluable. Every DUer should be treasured, but none should be given special dispensation. Thank you for considering this and realizing the spirit with which it's intended.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
50. This is exactly what I think.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 09:12 PM
Nov 2015

Who can keep up with what is going on with other people?

I would have to be a raging narcissist to think anyone remembered what I posted, even if I was one if the longtime members here.

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
98. Same here..
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:52 PM
Nov 2015

My memory is not good enough to "keep score"..

I do not hold grudges , and many times I do not even look to see who posted what

Some people must have a lot of time on their hands

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
63. Honestly I had no idea as well..
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:49 PM
Nov 2015

I really haven't followed along with his travails .

I do wish him the best though.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
65. I believe you on this one.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:54 PM
Nov 2015

OS and I talk via PM sometimes and he's had a pretty rough go of it lately, dementia is a horrible disease and it does horrible things to you mind.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
74. Fuck yeah---
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 07:42 AM
Nov 2015

I like OS---don't follow him much---then again I follow very few people.

My thread the other day "Can I be Targeted" wasn't mocking him---it was just poking fun at a 600 plus thread that was whacky as shit.

I certainly hope the best for OS.

Renew Deal

(84,709 posts)
19. Are you the one that alerted on the "termination" thread?
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:46 PM
Nov 2015

With the same exact complaint? Can you tell the difference between mockery and support?

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
26. Look, I'm not trumad's biggest fan,
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 06:54 PM
Nov 2015

but this "illness" excuse can only go so far. He had a right to mock that silly thread.

I don't care how long the illness has been posted on DU, not everybody reads those posts. Some people really think everyone here keeps up with them, and that is just not true.

Many on DU are dealing with their own illness, the illness of family members, the loss of friends and family members, but they choose to keep that information private. This particular poster is not the only one dealing with real life issues. I don't see it as an excuse.

If a poster is so ill that he/she cannot control his/her posts, then he/she should at least have some close friends to keep an eye on those posts. Or find another hobby.

DU can get rough, and if a poster takes it so seriously that it causes that poster real pain or angst, well, stop taking it so damn seriously.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
41. Lmao, since I have no idea if I've just been insulted or complimented.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:38 PM
Nov 2015

Nor do I know which I would prefer...

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
66. ... I think ...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:55 PM
Nov 2015

It a compliment, but I never really understand what the hell is going on half the time.

Gman

(24,780 posts)
14. 2004 was worse
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:21 PM
Nov 2015

I said it was gang warfare. A canndidate's sign was like gang colors.

salin

(48,958 posts)
15. funny thinking back to the derision-laden nics for supporters
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:26 PM
Nov 2015

the two that quickly come to mind: Deaniacs and Clarkbars. That said - the dynamics were ugly. Folks avoided each other for a long time after that primary war.

TSIAS

(14,689 posts)
17. I'm still not over the Clarkpers
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:29 PM
Nov 2015

Which is an off-shoot of what they called us, "Deanpers".

salin

(48,958 posts)
18. lol - exactly.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:33 PM
Nov 2015

proud deaniac, here. I don't remember the 'pers' tags. But I do remember the rank vitriol.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
43. My proudest moment was serving as a moderator in that time and having someone accuse me
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:40 PM
Nov 2015

of being biased against Dean because of a decision I made to lock a thread. After the primaries, I PM'd that person a picture of myself with Howard Dean at one of two events we attended.

People-powered-Howard

salin

(48,958 posts)
49. kudos
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 09:10 PM
Nov 2015

Well done.

Those were some ugly fights and schisms.

Since then, during primary season - I travel light.

Good to see you. Peace.

salin

n2doc

(47,953 posts)
90. I don't remember it being worse
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 08:41 AM
Nov 2015

There wasn't the level of animosity, in my recollection. Now 2008, it did get pretty bad here between the Obama and Clinton camps. But it seems just as bad now.

Gman

(24,780 posts)
93. I agree about the animosity
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 09:22 AM
Nov 2015

It was serious rivalry and at times got ugly. But not the naked animosity this year. We all came together in the end. Not sure that will happen this year.

I support Hillary but would be fine with Sanders. I think most Sanders supporters would reluctantly support Hillary, if anything being the much lesser of two evils.

I reluctantly supported Obama in 08. But I believe strongly in the power unity too.

JanMichael

(25,725 posts)
21. I share your confusion. When I was really active on DU there were a few nutty situations.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:52 PM
Nov 2015

But the recent threads must need decoder rings. Really covert and not what I see as amusing or worthwhile.

The cliquish cabal that went after Stephanie some 4 or 5 years ago is now mostly banned. Oh the irony.

madinmaryland

(65,670 posts)
23. Dude! Tony Romo is back and will start against the Dolphins this weekend...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 06:46 PM
Nov 2015

El Supremo is shitting his pants because there maybe no one from the Little 12 in the Championship Series...

joeybee12 still has everyone on ignore...


elfin

(6,262 posts)
27. Same here
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 06:58 PM
Nov 2015

I have been here since very early 2002 and rarely OP, but sometimes comment.

Got kicked out of a primary group after what I thought was a fairly calmly stated opinion that didn't agree with the poster. Harsh. But I lived.

Now things have gone way beyond "harsh" in a year where we need to be and should be united as Dems, tho we may have heartfelt primary preferences.

Still check in a few times a day, but not the same, much more substantive site that I remember all those years ago, when it was my oasis on the net.

mstinamotorcity2

(1,451 posts)
38. Yep, I agree.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:30 PM
Nov 2015

we had people here back then that were strong Dems. Now they have let folk go the wrong way. When we were in primaries we didn't agree on the candidates. But when it came to helping get the Dem nominee in we banned together and made it happen. Now what??

dhill926

(16,953 posts)
34. from what I can tell...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:14 PM
Nov 2015

Hillary is a corrupt Republican shill and Bernie is a closeted gun nut and racist....O'Malley seems immune for now, except for the fact that he supports police murdering minorities....

other than that....business as usual....

spiderpig

(10,419 posts)
37. Me too. What is with all this infighting?
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:19 PM
Nov 2015

I realize the Repukes march in lockstep while we've always encouraged healthy debate.

But the sheer nastiness I've been seeing lately makes me afraid to post.

Generic Brad

(14,374 posts)
54. Every 4 years
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 10:22 PM
Nov 2015

Like clockwork. The dramas swell up and explodes. Wash. Rinse. Repeat. Primary season brings out the passion, that's for certain.

Texasgal

(17,236 posts)
59. Uh huh.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:27 PM
Nov 2015

And I'm princess fucking DIANA.

You have always followed the drama and you know EXACTLY what's going on. Puuulezze!

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
64. Not really.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:53 PM
Nov 2015

I cruise through most threads but not all.

I had no idea about OS and his Dementia. No idea of the Hillary site... I do try and keep up but it seems to be getting harder by the day.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
77. I did---sitting here drinking coffee...
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 07:48 AM
Nov 2015

the moment of brilliance hit me. Sometimes it happens, sometimes not. IT HAPPENED!

polly7

(20,582 posts)
78. Well good for you!
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 07:57 AM
Nov 2015

The beginning of a very fulfilling day, eh? ...... you're on quite a roll, keep going - use it or lose it, right?

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
79. Yep---
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 08:01 AM
Nov 2015

Puns, Metaphors---a couple of Memes, making fun of BS'ers....

Hopefully someone will "parrot" my brilliance.

Response to trumad (Reply #79)

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
84. Polly---
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 08:27 AM
Nov 2015

Come on---you're the one starting the day all mad ---why? Who gives a shit what I think.

I'm just a knucklehead sitting in my Fruit of the looms, drinking coffee, and pushing my fingers in a keyboard.

You could have just edited the mean post---then I wouldn't have know you posted a mean post---so---is it mean to tell me that you posted a mean post about me.

I have a sad.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
86. I'm not mad.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 08:28 AM
Nov 2015

Sad, yes.

Catherina and dorkzilla have said goodbye.




Fruit of the Looms - TMI!

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
92. Where do you stand?
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 08:53 AM
Nov 2015
Q. Who is eligible to serve as a forum Host?

A. You are eligible to serve as a Forum Host if you have a 100% chance of serving on a Jury. This means that you must:

Have posted more than 2,000 times
Have 200 or more days of membership
Have posted more than 20 times in the last 90 days
Have had zero hidden posts in the last 90 days
Be a Star Member


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=hosts&volunteer=1002

You may want to read that page. You seem to have gotten some bad advice in the past.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
71. It's the same group that keeps trying to throw its weight around.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 05:33 AM
Nov 2015

It's the same ever since DU3 started (before that I didn't notice).

Same bunch with the flame bait outrages every time, it just changes from misogyny to privilege to Hillary-is-great. The "outfit change" doesn't really make any difference. It's always about controlling what other people say and do and think. That's what they think politics is.

Some people won't go along with that. Wonder why. The flamers try to get all those people kicked off, as much as possible. Of course it mostly isn't posssible, and so they stay outraged, mostly over nothing. It's like a hive-mind tantrum. It would be interesting if it wasn't so stupid and pointless.

It's obvious by now this won't change, I just use "Trash Thread" a lot and move on.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
97. It's the fucking Hunger Games here!
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 06:45 PM
Nov 2015

It's meta about meta! It's diet coke mixed with bean soup! Ah-ha-ha, where's God when you really need Him/Her/It!

IT'S ALL CAPS WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!

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