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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHow does a couple with a 7 month old baby daughter decide
that they never want to see her again? They had to know they were committing suicide.
Human nature never ceases to amaze.
Photographer
(1,142 posts)ileus
(15,396 posts)What is promised to her, that made her say "Let's do this!"
Wonder if she ever pondered that? He's gets 72 new virgins, she gets dumped???
Cleita
(75,480 posts)The imam at the mosque he attended said he didn't know what she looked like because she was fully veiled when he met her. It would point to her being very traditional.
B2G
(9,766 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)I'm always skeptical of "Eve" theories of the fall of a man. I came from a family where my father dictated everything he wanted my mother to do and she did obey him even when she didn't want to. Fortunately, my dad didn't ask her to do any harmful or criminal deeds. It was more along the lines of what she should wear, whom she had as lady friends and what we ate at the table. If he had asked her to learn to shoot a gun. she probably would have done it even though she didn't want to. I don't know if her obedient wife schtick would have gone as far as killing though should he have ordered it.
B2G
(9,766 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)Women have been blamed for the fall of men since the beginning of history. Eve brought about the fall of Adam. Helen brought about the fall of Troy. Cleopatra ruined Mark Antony. Need I go on? It could be she was Bonnie to his Clyde but until we know, we need to look at her as possibly being a victim as well.
Yavin4
(35,440 posts)I'm not buying that argument for a second. Neither of them are victims in any sense of the word.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)That must have been so horrible for your mother and horrible for you to see it happen. It sounds like a deeply uncomfortable environment to grow up in. I'm sorry if I'm wrong, of course, but if I'm not, you have my sincere sympathy.
flamingdem
(39,313 posts)she was in Saudi Arabia. Fanaticism we can't hope to understand.
Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)Maybe she gets to take care of the virgins? Do their laundry, cook for them?
Yavin4
(35,440 posts)It's just as likely, maybe even more likely, that the wife convinced the husband in this case.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Yavin4
(35,440 posts)And, it's always the man's fault if she goes wrong? Look at the facts in this case. It's just as likely that she radicalized him.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)ileus
(15,396 posts)in the afterlife???
librarylu
(503 posts)He may get splendid companions of equal age. No idea what she would get. Some grapes, maybe?
"There is no promise of 72 virgins for martyrs, terrorists or suicide bombers anywhere in the Quran."
http://www.justislam.co.uk/product.php?products_id=216
ileus
(15,396 posts)Waldorf
(654 posts)life.
Chan790
(20,176 posts)Everything about their actions suggests that they expected to get away with it. They could have fled far away...they were off-site when the police arrived and had an hour headstart to anywhere in America. They went home. Their conduct suggests that they thought they were going to, and in-fact had, gotten away with it without being identified; that they would be able to return to their normal lives and perhaps even repeat the crime again later in time.
JI7
(89,250 posts)If she was older and did something they thought brought "dishonor".
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)nature to love your children more than life itself. But they seem to love their hate more than their children. I will never understand that.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Nailed it, IMO.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)that is what happens when you literally follow your holy book
blm
(113,063 posts)Their belief in apocalyptic world views looms larger in their thoughts and takes over their lives.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)I've been answering this question all day. How did my husband leave his family with young children? He wasn't thinking about us. That's how.
Politicalboi
(15,189 posts)With all the guns and ammo about their house, something bad is more of a possibility for that baby had they lived and raised her.
BeyondGeography
(39,374 posts)They were out of their minds.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)and he talked his wife into giving up her life in defense of his honor.
Workplace violence happens that way all the time. Piss someone off; they go home, pick up the spouse and the baby, drop the baby off with a lie about where they're going, and shoot a bunch of people dead. Since workplace violence seems to be part of the narrative, that seems to be the only explanation.
TexasMommaWithAHat
(3,212 posts)lapse in judgment by one person, but the perps were planning attack(s) for some time.
They had to have known that committing terrorist acts would leave their child without parents.
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)It is a workplace shooting. Islam had absolutely nothing to do with it.
TexasMommaWithAHat
(3,212 posts)How do you explain all the pipe bombs back in their home?
Just a hobby?
And workplace violence because a co-worker accused Islam of being a violent religion?
So, he goes out and commits violence?
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)Damn this whole thing is so frustrating.
TexasMommaWithAHat
(3,212 posts)You had me, there.
My son is rooming with a secularized Muslim young man at university. He's a cultural Muslim the way much of my family is cultural Catholic.
And, yeah, I worry about both of them on campus, but I don't think that underplaying the role of radical Islam helps. It just makes people angrier when they believe they've been lied to.
This is why the right is gaining power in Europe, imo. The powers that be (generally left) have been ignoring or minimizing real problems with radical Islam among their Muslim citizens, and the rest of the populace is sick of it.
Everyone is going to pay when the right gains power, I'm afraid.
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theboss
(10,491 posts)And how insane is it that there is such a thing as "standard workplace violence?"
Has there ever been a situation of workplace violence where there was an accomplice not associated with the employer?
Person 2713
(3,263 posts)Once they have a child they feel they are ready to take on the mission . They have completed their work on earth. They have produced a child who will be cared for after they make the holy sacrifice
Their child will know their mother was doing Gods work when she died. What better way than sacrifice to try to make sure your child grows up in a holy world you help create by being a martyr
I guess like a soldier maybe killed in battle , his surviving children will remember him as a hero.
IMO post partum depression could be a factor but most likely they are caught up in the religious fervor and want a chance to do their part in fighting the most holy war
CanonRay
(14,103 posts)do you think she will raise the child as a strict Muslim? I think if it were me, I'd keep that child as far away from organized religion (of any stripe) that I could. It is what made her an orphan. I will never understand this incident or the perpetrators.
Person 2713
(3,263 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Complete damned insanity.
Religion is beyond question humanity's WORST invention.
Person 2713
(3,263 posts)the teen wanted to leave the church . At least these religious nuts left their kid safe before they went out in a blaze of bullets but yes even with the analyst explanation of female suicide archetypes it still comes down to complete insanity
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Religion is poison. Period.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I find it horribly sad for that child.
underahedgerow
(1,232 posts)important than their own flesh and blood. Plus, the child was female, and in the eyes of Islam and some others, a lesser human being, perhaps.
Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)linuxman
(2,337 posts)meow2u3
(24,764 posts)Remember last week's Planned Parenthood massacre in Colorado? Radical Chrstianity is also some powerfully addictive drug.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)Alone, divorced. No kids, or at least not young ones.
What is it about Islamic fundamentalism that it seems like it bands multiple people together to carry out attacks? Young men and now women, with families.
How come with all the Christian propaganda out there in this country right now, you can't find five or six Xtian fundy nuts to band together and carry out an attack?
Strange.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Who knows, my guess is a higher ranked terrorist told them to do it or the baby dies and they did it. Nothing else really makes sense.
moondust
(19,985 posts)Last edited Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:37 PM - Edit history (1)
It goes like this:
The suspects were naive enough to believe they wouldn't get caught. All the pipe bombs and ammo in their home suggest they were planning more than one attack, to take place maybe days or even weeks or months later. They would effectively become serial undercover jihadists leading dual lives. They had the perfect cover: wonderful young family with a new baby, good job, success story. Nobody would suspect them; and everybody that knew them is now stunned to find out that it was them. It doesn't make any sense that somebody with that much going for them would throw it all away committing acts of terror and mass murder.
But they screwed up. They wore masks into the Inland Center to avoid being recognized by his co-workers, but apparently some of them recognized his voice and build. Somebody there may have tipped off police as to his identity and police found the suspects' home. The suspects emerged from the home and police chased them to their ultimate deaths after a firefight.
Why would they do it? I dunno. Maybe just to cause general panic and terror in the land, possibly hoping to push the U.S. farther into the battle against ISIS. The public would naturally blame ISIS/terrorists for these unsolved terror attacks taking place every few days or weeks or months in southern California.
Who knows?
ETA: Seems to fit the definition of a SLEEPER CELL.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)For sure, there were elements of the thing which indicate they were trying to get away with it; the rental car, the masks, etc.
But if they were just trying to be stealth undercover terrorists, why start with the guy's own place of work? Seems a bit personal.
Dorian Gray
(13,496 posts)you should choose a place that you have no link to. Seems poorly thought out on their part.
Having said that, I can't imagine they were in their right mind. At all.
How do you have a new baby... all that hope in a new life.... and do THIS????????
Ugh.
Hateful.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)and they apparently got in a lot of heated arguments about religion.
pnwest
(3,266 posts)Because, like most criminals, they weren't the brightest bulbs on the string...overestimated their own cleverness, underestimated American cops. (I know, we all hate cops, but don't underestimate their abilities...)
polly7
(20,582 posts)951-Riverside
(7,234 posts)or the baby isn't even theirs and/or they had the baby as cover so even if someone noticed something suspicious law enforcement wouldn't pay them any attention.
At least they didn't use the baby to do something far worse although if more of these savages are out there, they'll start using babies too.
struggle4progress
(118,285 posts)They rented an SUV for the big event several days in advance. They planted explosive devices with remote detonators. They wore disguises. And they drove away afterwards
The authorities caught up with them because when his name came up, investigators were able to tie him to an SUV rental matching the description of an SUV at the scene, and they encountered the SUV when checking out related addresses
951-Riverside
(7,234 posts)Glad I'm not the only one to think this.
milestogo
(16,829 posts)SWAT teams shoot to kill. Maybe that's what was in their minds, but if so it was a gross miscalculation.
MADem
(135,425 posts)I have to wonder if they wouldn't have delayed their rampage if the kid had been a boy...?
treestar
(82,383 posts)They'd have seen it as their duty to raise a Muslim.
2naSalit
(86,636 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)I cannot understand that at all.
ladyVet
(1,587 posts)Anybody who gets caught up in any religion (or anything else) to the point they want other people dead is mentally ill. It doesn't matter what religion it is. Religion is the wrapper the crazy is in.
no_hypocrisy
(46,116 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)That is a quote from one of the 911 hijackers or OBL or one of his minions. They had the daughter to continue their blood line and that's all they needed to do, perhaps.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)But - despite his daughter being moments away from being brutally killed - he refuses and says: "I am not your father anymore".
He then turns to the militants stood nearby and signals for his daughters brutal execution to begin.
As the young woman lies in a pit, huge rocks are thrown onto her. Her father then picks up one of largest rocks and uses it to kill his helpless daughter.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/sickening-isis-video-shows-moment-4475785
These people might as well be a different species.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)Of if you were raised from birth as they have been would you be different than them?
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)no matter how I was raised.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Along with Carl Sagan's "I'd rather know than believe."
treestar
(82,383 posts)A baby who didn't do anything.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Last edited Fri Dec 4, 2015, 03:28 PM - Edit history (1)
I can't believe you just posted that.
treestar
(82,383 posts)You are usually not one to go nuclear and try to paint another poster as meaning the worst thing possible. Surprised.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)I would have said "Big difference from their point of view".
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)I was talking about how they might look at it. Why does that mean I have to approve? I cannot believe how people react around here. It's like you are looking for an excuse. Obviously I don't condone torture, etc. Geez we cannot even talk about how other people might think without having to agree with them?
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)And bullshit to "looking for it". That is ALSO from a victim blaming mindset. You misspoke, clarify and deal with it like an adult.
treestar
(82,383 posts)No one on DU would be for the Saudi way of handling legal things. That could have been explained or asked about instead of jumping on the chance to think you found someone wrong. Adults don't do that.
Demit
(11,238 posts)I've been seeing a lot of belligerent anger in threads today. I hope it subsides
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)Their family continues, their obligation to their parents were performed and they were free to die for their imaginary gods.
enid602
(8,620 posts)And murdering all those people was kind of a tacky way of thanking them for throwing the baby's shower just a few months before.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Yorktown
(2,884 posts)if you forgive the gallows humor
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)since it happened. I was 22 at the time. Read all the magazine articles, books, thought deeply about it and I still cannot understand it. I can understand an individual deciding that life is unbearable and ending it but what I cannot understand is why and how a group of that many people would let their wills, both collective and individual, be subsumed to the point that those people's were. I fail to understand today's religulous psychotics for the same reason.
But then I am a born skeptic and on the autism spectrum to boot. My mind works like Data's.
The greatest power humans possess is reason. It's nothing less than a tragedy that so few choose to use it.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)Remember the disciples ready to die, and the centuries of believers fed to the lions
(even if Christian propaganda greatly inflated the numbers)
Remember what one of the 'rightly guided caliphs' told the ruler of Egypt: we like death as you love life.
Religions are Jonestown sects that made it.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Absolutely. An established "religion" is just a kook cult that managed to survive, usually by converting the nearby "heathens' at the point of a sword.
Jonestown really is a microcosm of all godhead-based religions. And that is a horribly sobering thought.
malaise
(269,015 posts)daughters aren't important.
RandySF
(58,865 posts)LisaL
(44,973 posts)Boston marathon bomber had a young child.
Tsiyu
(18,186 posts)There is a malignant, metastasizing, desolating WAR going on in the Middle East.
Syrians and other refugees aren't fleeing to Germany for Oktoberfest. They're doing the same thing you or I or anyone smart would do when war has come to their homes: grab their little ones by the hands and flee from bombed out homes and streets and gunfire and Daesh demons kidnapping and raping their daughters, wives and mothers - and recruiting their sons.
We are far removed in our relative safety, but elsewhere there are bombings and bloodcurdling screams.
We've left a lot of military hardware behind.in the Middle East and it's in bad hands. We've left even more sorrow behind.
Those Ba'athists of Saddam's are now Daesh, thanks to our invasion of Iraq and absolute mangling of its new government. People in the Middle East who have lost everything due to the constant tribal/Russian/US/ blah blah blah invasions are now Daesh, partially thanks to us. There is much simmering resentment, not for our freedoms, but for our blatant destruction of their towns and people. Right or wrong, Christian or Muslim or Atheist, conservative or liberal, no matter which side of the fence you're on, you have to face the facts and see that goddamned reality is goddamned reality.
Human grudges are strange things. I live in the South, where Yankees are still hated to this day. People don't like to lose or experience degradation from invaders. People in the Middle East who get the wars brought to their doorsteps want people in the US to understand what that's like. That's what this sort of terrorism represents: YOU WILL FEEL MY PAIN.
There have been some pretty severe losses recently on both sides. Daesh members may be panicking and feel the need to step up attacks. We're killing Daesh members, and these are actual humans that other people, as difficult as it may be to hear, love and care about very much.
All of it is wrong. All of the religious sorts--who are deluded into thinking their god is so petty and weak, He or She or IT needs them to kill innocent people to make the world better--are frantic, manic zealots who are blinded by their devotion to a cause that makes them special, set apart, destined for reward.
Humans love that carrot on a stick thing, that feeling of being on a crusade, a holy mission only they can accomplish. They love imagining their God hizzownself patting them on the head and telling them how good they are. They like feeling superior, and they take that to indicate they ARE superior.
Then they get guns and go kill for their sky daddy.
What does their child matter? Just like the Christian parents who spent hours in a church with other members pummeling their son to death, zealotry blinds its victims from experiencing love.
All they know is hatred for anything that isn't them, or their Allah, Yawai, God, what the fuck ever....
My random $.02 so I could put off washing dishes and raking leaves.
Have a great weekend DU
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)It's a bottomless well of Teh Stoopid because it falsely promises Pie In The Sky When You Die for the Imaginary Man up there. That's a powerful lure for people who drop their brains and rationality in a dumpster.
OldHippieChick
(2,434 posts)She had given her heart to someone in ISIS in Saudi. They discovered him looking for a wife on the internet and used her to bring him to Saudi for the Haj and they worked him along w/ her. She never loved him but was working him the entire time, which is why she had no connection w/ the child. He was always being used and manipulated.
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)Makes sense to me.
TYY
still_one
(92,201 posts)Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)They fled the scene. They tried to conceal their identities. They expected to get away with it.
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)a (Redlands) cop saw a vehicle matching the description given. They sped away alerting him .
"After the shooting at Inland Regional Center, authorities generated a lead that turned up a name. Detectives followed up on it at the home in Redlands. While there, a black SUV with Utah plates passed by slowly then sped up and raced off. A police car looking for the suspect vehicle spotted the SUV and took up pursuit."
http://www.wptz.com/national/urgent-redlands-suv-utah-plates-shooting/36769230
still_one
(92,201 posts)Ex Lurker
(3,813 posts)it would be interesting to know where they were all that time, and who they might have been in contact with.
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)I don't know if Ford equivalent of On-Star has tracking/
ecstatic
(32,705 posts)Not sure what his excuse is though...
Skittles
(153,164 posts)you can be made to believe ANYTHING
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)"Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." - Voltaire
Skittles
(153,164 posts)while they believe in virgin birth, rising from the dead, etc.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)religion is without question and by far the worst, hands down.
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)TYY
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)...drop the mic! Thank you, hifiguy.
TYY
ETA: A nod to Skittles:
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)and why our elevation of "faith" as a good thing is twisted and dangerous.
Irrational anti-science, anti-evidence beliefs need more pushback here and around the world.
backscatter712
(26,355 posts)Islam in particular has a lot of Quranic verses that promote violence, and the Muslim world has a culture that glorifies barbarism.
Christianity also has these things, but today, because of sociological factors like more widespread poverty, war, etc. Islam is worse.
There, I said it. Let me know how the alert goes...
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Whether people want to admit it or not, the truth is what it is.
The contortions some here subject themselves to in order to avoid staring this truth in the face are extremely dispiriting. While any religion or belief system that appeals toand is based on placating an invisible and unknowable Final Authority can, and inevitably, will be used to justify barbarism, the facts of the modern world show that over the last few decades only one is consistently (NB, I said consistently, NOT exclusively) the source of the most barbaric and inhuman outrages imaginable. Too many people would rather be "politically correct" than face the truth.
Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities. - Voltaire
Of all human inventions, it is beyond any rational question that religion is the worst, most useless and most destructive.
The knee-jerk reactions seen here in the last couple of days which try to explain away the motives underlying this atrocity and the source of those motivations are in a way understandable but do not bear serious scrutiny; Many if not most of us on the left are always ready to stand up for a perceived underdog. In most cases that is admirable, and in many it is morally necessary; in this case it's like deliberately putting out one eye and wearing a patch over the other. It's a conditioned reflex based in some sort of senseless and free-floating cause-free guilt, which is a mental dysfunction beyond the scope of this post. A dispassionate reflection on the assembled facts show it to be a grievously wrongheaded response.
It's not without precedent. Back in the 1920s and 1930s many of the US left denied or would/could not allow themselves to believe the reports of Stalin's almost incomprehensible brutalities, atrocities and purges, and now the same mindset of denial is being repeated, once again in the face of contrary facts. There is such a thing as a belief system, be it Stalinism or islam - and I am not conflating the two, merely using them as individual and separate examples - that have in their DNA what can only be called evil or barbarism. How often must history teach this lesson? Xtianity seemed to have outgrown this - though I have no time for it or any other religion - but the same sorts of ignorant and barbaric yawps that stoked the pogroms and the Inquisition are once again being heard in this country not only from unhinged dingbats like the PP shooter but from actual presidential candidates.
But then I'm on the autism spectrum and my mind works like Data's or Spock's. Logic and nothing but.
hollowdweller
(4,229 posts)People grew their hair long, questioned western civilization and rebelled against the status quo.
With the radical Islam thing it's also a phenomenon of the young, people wear hijabs and grow their beards long. They question the status quo.
Both were a worldwide phenomenon.
However while there were people like the Weathermen and stuff the hippies were more rooted in peace and love where the Islamic thing is rooted in killing unbelievers.
valerief
(53,235 posts)PeteSelman
(1,508 posts)ISIS is a death cult. I'm surprised they didn't bring the baby along quite frankly.
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)TYY