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How does a couple with a 7 month old baby daughter decide (Original Post) milestogo Dec 2015 OP
I've been asking myself the same question all day. Photographer Dec 2015 #1
I want to know, he's getting 72 Virgins, What was she getting? ileus Dec 2015 #2
Maybe he ordered her to obey him. Cleita Dec 2015 #8
From everything I'm reading, SHE radicalized HIM. nt B2G Dec 2015 #49
They are making assumptions. There is no evidence right now as to whom radicalized whom. Cleita Dec 2015 #70
Any you are making assumptions based on your upbringing. B2G Dec 2015 #73
No. I am putting out a theory and I could be wrong that maybe she's not at fault. Cleita Dec 2015 #75
Sorry, in no way is she a "victim". Yavin4 Dec 2015 #91
You have your opinion. Until more information comes out, I have mine. eom Cleita Dec 2015 #98
reading your post makes me so sad.... renate Dec 2015 #87
Hah, true dilemma, but I suspect she was "turned" and for that reason flamingdem Dec 2015 #12
LOL I'm going to assume their version of heaven doesn't give equality Marrah_G Dec 2015 #18
Why do you assume that it was the husband that convinced the wife? Yavin4 Dec 2015 #48
This. nt B2G Dec 2015 #50
That nasty Eve again raising her fruit eating devilish head bring about the fall of a man. eom Cleita Dec 2015 #71
Women are immune from being evil? Yavin4 Dec 2015 #89
Read my post #75 on this thread. eom Cleita Dec 2015 #90
No what I asked is if Allah promised 72 Virgins to Him, what is she promised ileus Dec 2015 #72
It's a mistranslation. librarylu Dec 2015 #88
Do they know this??? ileus Dec 2015 #95
Called radicalization. Going out as martyrs seemed to be the most important thing in their Waldorf Dec 2015 #3
That's the crazy part. Chan790 Dec 2015 #4
they hated others more than they loved her. they would probably killed her JI7 Dec 2015 #5
That is what I don't get about radical muslims. It seems like it would be human smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #13
"...seem to love their hate more..." Ilsa Dec 2015 #27
they love and obey their mythical sky creatures more than real life snooper2 Dec 2015 #54
Same with most religious extremists - family, too often, falls to the wayside. blm Dec 2015 #56
Fixation. ScreamingMeemie Dec 2015 #6
They may have saved her life Politicalboi Dec 2015 #7
That's against nature BeyondGeography Dec 2015 #9
Easy. Someone at his place of employment pissed him off... cherokeeprogressive Dec 2015 #10
Workplace violence would explain a momentary TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #37
It's NOT terrorism FrodosPet Dec 2015 #40
You're joking, right? TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #41
Alas, yes I am FrodosPet Dec 2015 #42
Whew. TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author hifiguy Dec 2015 #104
There is no way this is your standard workplace violence theboss Dec 2015 #63
They had a specialist on who wrote a book on women who choose to do suicide bombs etc. Person 2713 Dec 2015 #11
So, assuming the child's grandmother will raise her CanonRay Dec 2015 #61
Depends on the guardians beliefs I suppose Person 2713 Dec 2015 #109
That is a textbook definition of hifiguy Dec 2015 #66
How about those parents with their church group who beat their child to death because Person 2713 Dec 2015 #107
Them too, no doubt about it. hifiguy Dec 2015 #108
No way to understand this. cwydro Dec 2015 #14
Fanatical religious dementia? When they come to believe thier imaginary cause is more underahedgerow Dec 2015 #15
Religion Marrah_G Dec 2015 #16
They loved their God more than they loved their daughter LittleBlue Dec 2015 #17
Radical Islam is a hell of a drug. linuxman Dec 2015 #19
It isn't just radical Islam--more like radical fundamentalism. Period. meow2u3 Dec 2015 #36
True, but it didn't seem like that piece of shit had much to live for ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2015 #110
Maybe they were forced to with some threat to their baby. Rex Dec 2015 #20
I have a rough theory. moondust Dec 2015 #21
I think some of that makes a lot of sense. Warren DeMontague Dec 2015 #28
Yeah Dorian Gray Dec 2015 #31
Because one of his coworkers was also a fundamentalist jerk jeff47 Dec 2015 #52
Not the brightest bulbs pnwest Dec 2015 #62
I agree with you, also. I think they did believe they'd get away with it. nt. polly7 Dec 2015 #29
Easy: In their warped mind they sacrificed themselves for the baby... 951-Riverside Dec 2015 #22
They thought they'd get away with it. struggle4progress Dec 2015 #23
+1 951-Riverside Dec 2015 #25
Nobody ever gets away with a mass shooting. milestogo Dec 2015 #24
Girls have less value than boys to people with that kind of warped viewpoint. MADem Dec 2015 #26
Quite possible treestar Dec 2015 #57
I was thinking about that too. nt 2naSalit Dec 2015 #68
Amen. treestar Dec 2015 #30
Untreated mental illness. ladyVet Dec 2015 #32
They love death more than life. no_hypocrisy Dec 2015 #33
This ^^^^^^^ treestar Dec 2015 #55
Last year an Islamic father participated in the stoning to death of his own daughter. Nye Bevan Dec 2015 #34
For good people to do evil things, that takes religion Fumesucker Dec 2015 #43
These are not "good people" (nt) Nye Bevan Dec 2015 #45
If they were raised from birth as you were do you think they would be different from you? Fumesucker Dec 2015 #46
I'm sure I wouldn't stone my own daughter to death, Nye Bevan Dec 2015 #59
One of my favorite quotes hifiguy Dec 2015 #67
Big difference treestar Dec 2015 #53
Versus an "adulteress" who might be more worthy of punishment? Nye Bevan Dec 2015 #58
I'm talking about from their mind, obviously treestar Dec 2015 #92
Point taken, Nye Bevan Dec 2015 #100
Holy shit- NO. Adultery should not be punishable by torture and death bettyellen Dec 2015 #74
I did not say that treestar Dec 2015 #93
You said "big difference" but not to them. Sorry but that sounded like your thoughts bettyellen Dec 2015 #96
that was obvious treestar Dec 2015 #97
It does seem like people are spoiling for a fight around here. Demit Dec 2015 #102
I think the child was part of their plan. Warren Stupidity Dec 2015 #35
baby shower enid602 Dec 2015 #38
Religious indoctrination is a potent poison Yorktown Dec 2015 #39
Sometimes quite literally. hifiguy Dec 2015 #105
Religion: the ultimate Kool Aid Yorktown Dec 2015 #117
No problem. I have been fascinated by Jonestown hifiguy Dec 2015 #118
Jonestown is a miniature replica of all religions Yorktown Dec 2015 #119
Blammo. hifiguy Dec 2015 #120
Remember culturally malaise Dec 2015 #47
Radicalized religion will do that to people. RandySF Dec 2015 #51
Having young children doesn't stop terrorists from committing their acts. LisaL Dec 2015 #60
We in the US appear not to have received the memo Tsiyu Dec 2015 #64
Religulous idiocy. hifiguy Dec 2015 #65
My theory: OldHippieChick Dec 2015 #69
A viable theory. TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #85
I don't think they planned on committing suicide. still_one Dec 2015 #76
Agreed Scootaloo Dec 2015 #79
They probably thought they would get away.... Historic NY Dec 2015 #81
In a way it was just luck. They were no where to be found for several hours after the slaughter still_one Dec 2015 #82
I wonder if that SUV had GPS Ex Lurker Dec 2015 #83
I'd imagine their cell phones did..... Historic NY Dec 2015 #84
Post partum psychosis? ecstatic Dec 2015 #77
once your logical skepticism is gone Skittles Dec 2015 #78
Drop the mic, Skittles. hifiguy Dec 2015 #106
I have heard Christians trashing the beliefs of others Skittles Dec 2015 #112
Of all human inventions, hifiguy Dec 2015 #113
...parting the Red Sea. ..nt TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #115
Absolutely... TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #114
the kids are pawns in a bigger plan. bettyellen Dec 2015 #80
That's the danger of adhering to factless, evidence-free belief systems Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #86
Religion. backscatter712 Dec 2015 #94
The simple fact is that Sam Harris was and is right. hifiguy Dec 2015 #111
Radical Islam is like the Hippie movement hollowdweller Dec 2015 #99
Gawd told them. nt valerief Dec 2015 #101
They were embarking on a killing spree, why would they give a fuck about the kid? PeteSelman Dec 2015 #103
They were saving that for another day. TeeYiYi Dec 2015 #116

ileus

(15,396 posts)
2. I want to know, he's getting 72 Virgins, What was she getting?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:12 PM
Dec 2015

What is promised to her, that made her say "Let's do this!"

Wonder if she ever pondered that? He's gets 72 new virgins, she gets dumped???

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
8. Maybe he ordered her to obey him.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:22 PM
Dec 2015

The imam at the mosque he attended said he didn't know what she looked like because she was fully veiled when he met her. It would point to her being very traditional.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
70. They are making assumptions. There is no evidence right now as to whom radicalized whom.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:39 PM
Dec 2015

I'm always skeptical of "Eve" theories of the fall of a man. I came from a family where my father dictated everything he wanted my mother to do and she did obey him even when she didn't want to. Fortunately, my dad didn't ask her to do any harmful or criminal deeds. It was more along the lines of what she should wear, whom she had as lady friends and what we ate at the table. If he had asked her to learn to shoot a gun. she probably would have done it even though she didn't want to. I don't know if her obedient wife schtick would have gone as far as killing though should he have ordered it.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
75. No. I am putting out a theory and I could be wrong that maybe she's not at fault.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:49 PM
Dec 2015

Women have been blamed for the fall of men since the beginning of history. Eve brought about the fall of Adam. Helen brought about the fall of Troy. Cleopatra ruined Mark Antony. Need I go on? It could be she was Bonnie to his Clyde but until we know, we need to look at her as possibly being a victim as well.

Yavin4

(35,440 posts)
91. Sorry, in no way is she a "victim".
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 03:23 PM
Dec 2015

I'm not buying that argument for a second. Neither of them are victims in any sense of the word.

renate

(13,776 posts)
87. reading your post makes me so sad....
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:19 PM
Dec 2015

That must have been so horrible for your mother and horrible for you to see it happen. It sounds like a deeply uncomfortable environment to grow up in. I'm sorry if I'm wrong, of course, but if I'm not, you have my sincere sympathy.

flamingdem

(39,313 posts)
12. Hah, true dilemma, but I suspect she was "turned" and for that reason
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:33 PM
Dec 2015

she was in Saudi Arabia. Fanaticism we can't hope to understand.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
18. LOL I'm going to assume their version of heaven doesn't give equality
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:01 PM
Dec 2015

Maybe she gets to take care of the virgins? Do their laundry, cook for them?

Yavin4

(35,440 posts)
48. Why do you assume that it was the husband that convinced the wife?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:10 AM
Dec 2015

It's just as likely, maybe even more likely, that the wife convinced the husband in this case.

Yavin4

(35,440 posts)
89. Women are immune from being evil?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:50 PM
Dec 2015

And, it's always the man's fault if she goes wrong? Look at the facts in this case. It's just as likely that she radicalized him.

ileus

(15,396 posts)
72. No what I asked is if Allah promised 72 Virgins to Him, what is she promised
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:40 PM
Dec 2015

in the afterlife???

librarylu

(503 posts)
88. It's a mistranslation.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:44 PM
Dec 2015

He may get splendid companions of equal age. No idea what she would get. Some grapes, maybe?

"There is no promise of 72 virgins for martyrs, terrorists or suicide bombers anywhere in the Quran."

http://www.justislam.co.uk/product.php?products_id=216

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
4. That's the crazy part.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:18 PM
Dec 2015

Everything about their actions suggests that they expected to get away with it. They could have fled far away...they were off-site when the police arrived and had an hour headstart to anywhere in America. They went home. Their conduct suggests that they thought they were going to, and in-fact had, gotten away with it without being identified; that they would be able to return to their normal lives and perhaps even repeat the crime again later in time.

JI7

(89,250 posts)
5. they hated others more than they loved her. they would probably killed her
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:19 PM
Dec 2015

If she was older and did something they thought brought "dishonor".

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
13. That is what I don't get about radical muslims. It seems like it would be human
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:50 PM
Dec 2015

nature to love your children more than life itself. But they seem to love their hate more than their children. I will never understand that.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
54. they love and obey their mythical sky creatures more than real life
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:47 AM
Dec 2015

that is what happens when you literally follow your holy book

blm

(113,063 posts)
56. Same with most religious extremists - family, too often, falls to the wayside.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:48 AM
Dec 2015

Their belief in apocalyptic world views looms larger in their thoughts and takes over their lives.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
6. Fixation.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:19 PM
Dec 2015

I've been answering this question all day. How did my husband leave his family with young children? He wasn't thinking about us. That's how.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
7. They may have saved her life
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:19 PM
Dec 2015

With all the guns and ammo about their house, something bad is more of a possibility for that baby had they lived and raised her.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
10. Easy. Someone at his place of employment pissed him off...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:24 PM
Dec 2015

and he talked his wife into giving up her life in defense of his honor.

Workplace violence happens that way all the time. Piss someone off; they go home, pick up the spouse and the baby, drop the baby off with a lie about where they're going, and shoot a bunch of people dead. Since workplace violence seems to be part of the narrative, that seems to be the only explanation.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
37. Workplace violence would explain a momentary
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:42 AM
Dec 2015

lapse in judgment by one person, but the perps were planning attack(s) for some time.

They had to have known that committing terrorist acts would leave their child without parents.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
41. You're joking, right?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:10 AM
Dec 2015

How do you explain all the pipe bombs back in their home?

Just a hobby?

And workplace violence because a co-worker accused Islam of being a violent religion?

So, he goes out and commits violence?

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
44. Whew.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:27 AM
Dec 2015

You had me, there.



My son is rooming with a secularized Muslim young man at university. He's a cultural Muslim the way much of my family is cultural Catholic.

And, yeah, I worry about both of them on campus, but I don't think that underplaying the role of radical Islam helps. It just makes people angrier when they believe they've been lied to.

This is why the right is gaining power in Europe, imo. The powers that be (generally left) have been ignoring or minimizing real problems with radical Islam among their Muslim citizens, and the rest of the populace is sick of it.

Everyone is going to pay when the right gains power, I'm afraid.

Response to FrodosPet (Reply #40)

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
63. There is no way this is your standard workplace violence
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:40 PM
Dec 2015

And how insane is it that there is such a thing as "standard workplace violence?"

Has there ever been a situation of workplace violence where there was an accomplice not associated with the employer?

Person 2713

(3,263 posts)
11. They had a specialist on who wrote a book on women who choose to do suicide bombs etc.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:30 PM
Dec 2015

Once they have a child they feel they are ready to take on the mission . They have completed their work on earth. They have produced a child who will be cared for after they make the holy sacrifice
Their child will know their mother was doing Gods work when she died. What better way than sacrifice to try to make sure your child grows up in a holy world you help create by being a martyr

I guess like a soldier maybe killed in battle , his surviving children will remember him as a hero.

IMO post partum depression could be a factor but most likely they are caught up in the religious fervor and want a chance to do their part in fighting the most holy war

CanonRay

(14,103 posts)
61. So, assuming the child's grandmother will raise her
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:34 PM
Dec 2015

do you think she will raise the child as a strict Muslim? I think if it were me, I'd keep that child as far away from organized religion (of any stripe) that I could. It is what made her an orphan. I will never understand this incident or the perpetrators.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
66. That is a textbook definition of
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:14 PM
Dec 2015

Complete damned insanity.

Religion is beyond question humanity's WORST invention.

Person 2713

(3,263 posts)
107. How about those parents with their church group who beat their child to death because
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:55 PM
Dec 2015

the teen wanted to leave the church . At least these religious nuts left their kid safe before they went out in a blaze of bullets but yes even with the analyst explanation of female suicide archetypes it still comes down to complete insanity

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
15. Fanatical religious dementia? When they come to believe thier imaginary cause is more
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:58 PM
Dec 2015

important than their own flesh and blood. Plus, the child was female, and in the eyes of Islam and some others, a lesser human being, perhaps.

meow2u3

(24,764 posts)
36. It isn't just radical Islam--more like radical fundamentalism. Period.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:02 AM
Dec 2015

Remember last week's Planned Parenthood massacre in Colorado? Radical Chrstianity is also some powerfully addictive drug.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
110. True, but it didn't seem like that piece of shit had much to live for
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:13 PM
Dec 2015

Alone, divorced. No kids, or at least not young ones.

What is it about Islamic fundamentalism that it seems like it bands multiple people together to carry out attacks? Young men and now women, with families.

How come with all the Christian propaganda out there in this country right now, you can't find five or six Xtian fundy nuts to band together and carry out an attack?

Strange.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
20. Maybe they were forced to with some threat to their baby.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:03 PM
Dec 2015

Who knows, my guess is a higher ranked terrorist told them to do it or the baby dies and they did it. Nothing else really makes sense.

moondust

(19,985 posts)
21. I have a rough theory.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:05 PM
Dec 2015

Last edited Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:37 PM - Edit history (1)

It goes like this:

The suspects were naive enough to believe they wouldn't get caught. All the pipe bombs and ammo in their home suggest they were planning more than one attack, to take place maybe days or even weeks or months later. They would effectively become serial undercover jihadists leading dual lives. They had the perfect cover: wonderful young family with a new baby, good job, success story. Nobody would suspect them; and everybody that knew them is now stunned to find out that it was them. It doesn't make any sense that somebody with that much going for them would throw it all away committing acts of terror and mass murder.

But they screwed up. They wore masks into the Inland Center to avoid being recognized by his co-workers, but apparently some of them recognized his voice and build. Somebody there may have tipped off police as to his identity and police found the suspects' home. The suspects emerged from the home and police chased them to their ultimate deaths after a firefight.

Why would they do it? I dunno. Maybe just to cause general panic and terror in the land, possibly hoping to push the U.S. farther into the battle against ISIS. The public would naturally blame ISIS/terrorists for these unsolved terror attacks taking place every few days or weeks or months in southern California.

Who knows?

ETA: Seems to fit the definition of a SLEEPER CELL.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
28. I think some of that makes a lot of sense.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:34 AM
Dec 2015

For sure, there were elements of the thing which indicate they were trying to get away with it; the rental car, the masks, etc.

But if they were just trying to be stealth undercover terrorists, why start with the guy's own place of work? Seems a bit personal.

Dorian Gray

(13,496 posts)
31. Yeah
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:51 AM
Dec 2015

you should choose a place that you have no link to. Seems poorly thought out on their part.

Having said that, I can't imagine they were in their right mind. At all.

How do you have a new baby... all that hope in a new life.... and do THIS????????

Ugh.

Hateful.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
52. Because one of his coworkers was also a fundamentalist jerk
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:44 AM
Dec 2015

and they apparently got in a lot of heated arguments about religion.

pnwest

(3,266 posts)
62. Not the brightest bulbs
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:36 PM
Dec 2015

Because, like most criminals, they weren't the brightest bulbs on the string...overestimated their own cleverness, underestimated American cops. (I know, we all hate cops, but don't underestimate their abilities...)

 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
22. Easy: In their warped mind they sacrificed themselves for the baby...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:10 PM
Dec 2015

or the baby isn't even theirs and/or they had the baby as cover so even if someone noticed something suspicious law enforcement wouldn't pay them any attention.

At least they didn't use the baby to do something far worse although if more of these savages are out there, they'll start using babies too.

struggle4progress

(118,285 posts)
23. They thought they'd get away with it.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:29 PM
Dec 2015

They rented an SUV for the big event several days in advance. They planted explosive devices with remote detonators. They wore disguises. And they drove away afterwards

The authorities caught up with them because when his name came up, investigators were able to tie him to an SUV rental matching the description of an SUV at the scene, and they encountered the SUV when checking out related addresses

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
24. Nobody ever gets away with a mass shooting.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:40 PM
Dec 2015

SWAT teams shoot to kill. Maybe that's what was in their minds, but if so it was a gross miscalculation.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
26. Girls have less value than boys to people with that kind of warped viewpoint.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:49 AM
Dec 2015

I have to wonder if they wouldn't have delayed their rampage if the kid had been a boy...?

ladyVet

(1,587 posts)
32. Untreated mental illness.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:52 AM
Dec 2015

Anybody who gets caught up in any religion (or anything else) to the point they want other people dead is mentally ill. It doesn't matter what religion it is. Religion is the wrapper the crazy is in.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
55. This ^^^^^^^
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:48 AM
Dec 2015

That is a quote from one of the 911 hijackers or OBL or one of his minions. They had the daughter to continue their blood line and that's all they needed to do, perhaps.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
34. Last year an Islamic father participated in the stoning to death of his own daughter.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:55 AM
Dec 2015
The heartbreaking footage shows the woman - who is accused of committing adultery - begging her dad to forgive her, saying "please father" and "forgive me".

But - despite his daughter being moments away from being brutally killed - he refuses and says: "I am not your father anymore".

He then turns to the militants stood nearby and signals for his daughters brutal execution to begin.

As the young woman lies in a pit, huge rocks are thrown onto her. Her father then picks up one of largest rocks and uses it to kill his helpless daughter.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/sickening-isis-video-shows-moment-4475785

These people might as well be a different species.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
43. For good people to do evil things, that takes religion
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:22 AM
Dec 2015
"Religion is an insult to human dignity. With or without it you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion." -Steven Weinberg

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
46. If they were raised from birth as you were do you think they would be different from you?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:53 AM
Dec 2015

Of if you were raised from birth as they have been would you be different than them?

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
58. Versus an "adulteress" who might be more worthy of punishment?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:53 AM
Dec 2015

Last edited Fri Dec 4, 2015, 03:28 PM - Edit history (1)

I can't believe you just posted that.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
92. I'm talking about from their mind, obviously
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 03:27 PM
Dec 2015

You are usually not one to go nuclear and try to paint another poster as meaning the worst thing possible. Surprised.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
93. I did not say that
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 03:28 PM
Dec 2015

I was talking about how they might look at it. Why does that mean I have to approve? I cannot believe how people react around here. It's like you are looking for an excuse. Obviously I don't condone torture, etc. Geez we cannot even talk about how other people might think without having to agree with them?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
96. You said "big difference" but not to them. Sorry but that sounded like your thoughts
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 04:00 PM
Dec 2015

And bullshit to "looking for it". That is ALSO from a victim blaming mindset. You misspoke, clarify and deal with it like an adult.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
97. that was obvious
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 04:49 PM
Dec 2015

No one on DU would be for the Saudi way of handling legal things. That could have been explained or asked about instead of jumping on the chance to think you found someone wrong. Adults don't do that.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
102. It does seem like people are spoiling for a fight around here.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:16 PM
Dec 2015

I've been seeing a lot of belligerent anger in threads today. I hope it subsides

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
35. I think the child was part of their plan.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:57 AM
Dec 2015

Their family continues, their obligation to their parents were performed and they were free to die for their imaginary gods.

enid602

(8,620 posts)
38. baby shower
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:00 AM
Dec 2015

And murdering all those people was kind of a tacky way of thanking them for throwing the baby's shower just a few months before.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
118. No problem. I have been fascinated by Jonestown
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:08 PM
Dec 2015

since it happened. I was 22 at the time. Read all the magazine articles, books, thought deeply about it and I still cannot understand it. I can understand an individual deciding that life is unbearable and ending it but what I cannot understand is why and how a group of that many people would let their wills, both collective and individual, be subsumed to the point that those people's were. I fail to understand today's religulous psychotics for the same reason.

But then I am a born skeptic and on the autism spectrum to boot. My mind works like Data's.

The greatest power humans possess is reason. It's nothing less than a tragedy that so few choose to use it.

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
119. Jonestown is a miniature replica of all religions
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:12 PM
Dec 2015

Remember the disciples ready to die, and the centuries of believers fed to the lions
(even if Christian propaganda greatly inflated the numbers)

Remember what one of the 'rightly guided caliphs' told the ruler of Egypt: we like death as you love life.

Religions are Jonestown sects that made it.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
120. Blammo.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 11:16 PM
Dec 2015

Absolutely. An established "religion" is just a kook cult that managed to survive, usually by converting the nearby "heathens' at the point of a sword.

Jonestown really is a microcosm of all godhead-based religions. And that is a horribly sobering thought.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
60. Having young children doesn't stop terrorists from committing their acts.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:28 PM
Dec 2015

Boston marathon bomber had a young child.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
64. We in the US appear not to have received the memo
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:04 PM
Dec 2015

There is a malignant, metastasizing, desolating WAR going on in the Middle East.

Syrians and other refugees aren't fleeing to Germany for Oktoberfest. They're doing the same thing you or I or anyone smart would do when war has come to their homes: grab their little ones by the hands and flee from bombed out homes and streets and gunfire and Daesh demons kidnapping and raping their daughters, wives and mothers - and recruiting their sons.

We are far removed in our relative safety, but elsewhere there are bombings and bloodcurdling screams.

We've left a lot of military hardware behind.in the Middle East and it's in bad hands. We've left even more sorrow behind.

Those Ba'athists of Saddam's are now Daesh, thanks to our invasion of Iraq and absolute mangling of its new government. People in the Middle East who have lost everything due to the constant tribal/Russian/US/ blah blah blah invasions are now Daesh, partially thanks to us. There is much simmering resentment, not for our freedoms, but for our blatant destruction of their towns and people. Right or wrong, Christian or Muslim or Atheist, conservative or liberal, no matter which side of the fence you're on, you have to face the facts and see that goddamned reality is goddamned reality.

Human grudges are strange things. I live in the South, where Yankees are still hated to this day. People don't like to lose or experience degradation from invaders. People in the Middle East who get the wars brought to their doorsteps want people in the US to understand what that's like. That's what this sort of terrorism represents: YOU WILL FEEL MY PAIN.

There have been some pretty severe losses recently on both sides. Daesh members may be panicking and feel the need to step up attacks. We're killing Daesh members, and these are actual humans that other people, as difficult as it may be to hear, love and care about very much.

All of it is wrong. All of the religious sorts--who are deluded into thinking their god is so petty and weak, He or She or IT needs them to kill innocent people to make the world better--are frantic, manic zealots who are blinded by their devotion to a cause that makes them special, set apart, destined for reward.

Humans love that carrot on a stick thing, that feeling of being on a crusade, a holy mission only they can accomplish. They love imagining their God hizzownself patting them on the head and telling them how good they are. They like feeling superior, and they take that to indicate they ARE superior.

Then they get guns and go kill for their sky daddy.

What does their child matter? Just like the Christian parents who spent hours in a church with other members pummeling their son to death, zealotry blinds its victims from experiencing love.

All they know is hatred for anything that isn't them, or their Allah, Yawai, God, what the fuck ever....


My random $.02 so I could put off washing dishes and raking leaves.

Have a great weekend DU

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
65. Religulous idiocy.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:09 PM
Dec 2015

It's a bottomless well of Teh Stoopid because it falsely promises Pie In The Sky When You Die for the Imaginary Man up there. That's a powerful lure for people who drop their brains and rationality in a dumpster.

OldHippieChick

(2,434 posts)
69. My theory:
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:29 PM
Dec 2015

She had given her heart to someone in ISIS in Saudi. They discovered him looking for a wife on the internet and used her to bring him to Saudi for the Haj and they worked him along w/ her. She never loved him but was working him the entire time, which is why she had no connection w/ the child. He was always being used and manipulated.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
79. Agreed
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:59 PM
Dec 2015

They fled the scene. They tried to conceal their identities. They expected to get away with it.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
81. They probably thought they would get away....
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:03 PM
Dec 2015

a (Redlands) cop saw a vehicle matching the description given. They sped away alerting him .

"After the shooting at Inland Regional Center, authorities generated a lead that turned up a name. Detectives followed up on it at the home in Redlands. While there, a black SUV with Utah plates passed by slowly then sped up and raced off. A police car looking for the suspect vehicle spotted the SUV and took up pursuit."


http://www.wptz.com/national/urgent-redlands-suv-utah-plates-shooting/36769230






Ex Lurker

(3,813 posts)
83. I wonder if that SUV had GPS
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:10 PM
Dec 2015

it would be interesting to know where they were all that time, and who they might have been in contact with.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
106. Drop the mic, Skittles.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:26 PM
Dec 2015

"Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." - Voltaire

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
112. I have heard Christians trashing the beliefs of others
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:15 PM
Dec 2015

while they believe in virgin birth, rising from the dead, etc.

TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
114. Absolutely...
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:33 PM
Dec 2015

...drop the mic! Thank you, hifiguy.

"Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." - Voltaire

TYY
ETA: A nod to Skittles:
78. "once your logical skepticism is gone you can be made to believe ANYTHING"
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
86. That's the danger of adhering to factless, evidence-free belief systems
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 02:18 PM
Dec 2015

and why our elevation of "faith" as a good thing is twisted and dangerous.

Irrational anti-science, anti-evidence beliefs need more pushback here and around the world.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
94. Religion.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 03:33 PM
Dec 2015

Islam in particular has a lot of Quranic verses that promote violence, and the Muslim world has a culture that glorifies barbarism.

Christianity also has these things, but today, because of sociological factors like more widespread poverty, war, etc. Islam is worse.

There, I said it. Let me know how the alert goes...

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
111. The simple fact is that Sam Harris was and is right.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:16 PM
Dec 2015

Whether people want to admit it or not, the truth is what it is.

The contortions some here subject themselves to in order to avoid staring this truth in the face are extremely dispiriting. While any religion or belief system that appeals toand is based on placating an invisible and unknowable Final Authority can, and inevitably, will be used to justify barbarism, the facts of the modern world show that over the last few decades only one is consistently (NB, I said consistently, NOT exclusively) the source of the most barbaric and inhuman outrages imaginable. Too many people would rather be "politically correct" than face the truth.

“Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.” - Voltaire

Of all human inventions, it is beyond any rational question that religion is the worst, most useless and most destructive.

The knee-jerk reactions seen here in the last couple of days which try to explain away the motives underlying this atrocity and the source of those motivations are in a way understandable but do not bear serious scrutiny; Many if not most of us on the left are always ready to stand up for a perceived underdog. In most cases that is admirable, and in many it is morally necessary; in this case it's like deliberately putting out one eye and wearing a patch over the other. It's a conditioned reflex based in some sort of senseless and free-floating cause-free guilt, which is a mental dysfunction beyond the scope of this post. A dispassionate reflection on the assembled facts show it to be a grievously wrongheaded response.

It's not without precedent. Back in the 1920s and 1930s many of the US left denied or would/could not allow themselves to believe the reports of Stalin's almost incomprehensible brutalities, atrocities and purges, and now the same mindset of denial is being repeated, once again in the face of contrary facts. There is such a thing as a belief system, be it Stalinism or islam - and I am not conflating the two, merely using them as individual and separate examples - that have in their DNA what can only be called evil or barbarism. How often must history teach this lesson? Xtianity seemed to have outgrown this - though I have no time for it or any other religion - but the same sorts of ignorant and barbaric yawps that stoked the pogroms and the Inquisition are once again being heard in this country not only from unhinged dingbats like the PP shooter but from actual presidential candidates.

But then I'm on the autism spectrum and my mind works like Data's or Spock's. Logic and nothing but.

 

hollowdweller

(4,229 posts)
99. Radical Islam is like the Hippie movement
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 04:55 PM
Dec 2015

People grew their hair long, questioned western civilization and rebelled against the status quo.


With the radical Islam thing it's also a phenomenon of the young, people wear hijabs and grow their beards long. They question the status quo.

Both were a worldwide phenomenon.

However while there were people like the Weathermen and stuff the hippies were more rooted in peace and love where the Islamic thing is rooted in killing unbelievers.

PeteSelman

(1,508 posts)
103. They were embarking on a killing spree, why would they give a fuck about the kid?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:18 PM
Dec 2015

ISIS is a death cult. I'm surprised they didn't bring the baby along quite frankly.

TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
116. They were saving that for another day.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 10:49 PM
Dec 2015
re: "I'm surprised they didn't bring the baby along quite frankly."

TYY
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