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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAnybody else get the impression that Syed Farook's brother-in-law
might not be telling everything he knows?
I'm not good at many things but I'm usually a pretty good judge when it comes to dishonesty. I just got the feeling Syed Farook's brother-in-law wasn't telling the whole truth at the press conference.
Just my two cents. Anyone else think that might be the case?
Edited to add: Just saw his name is Farhan Khan.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,627 posts)still_one
(92,216 posts)grounds.
It is not uncommon that married people sometimes don't realize their spouse is an alcoholic or drug user.
Hell, there are women who don't realize their husbands were serial killers.
So, to answer your question, I have no reason to doubt that the brother-in-law is telling the truth
complain jane
(4,302 posts)I didn't say or even imply that I had "evidence" he lied. Think I was pretty clear.
still_one
(92,216 posts)or last time I have been wrong
complain jane
(4,302 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,724 posts)at judging whether people are lying. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/201305/why-are-we-so-bad-detecting-lies My own impression was only that the guy was very upset and freaked out.
complain jane
(4,302 posts)Yorktown
(2,884 posts)In that interview, the brother-in-law's CAIR minders try to mention it's got nothing to do with religion.
Why did the brother-in-law need CAIR then?
complain jane
(4,302 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,724 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)There is intelligence, that is the aspect of mind, but there is also instinct.
My instinct says he knows some things he is not saying.
I agree with the OP.
clarice
(5,504 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,724 posts)And of which there are many in this country, including a number of GOP presidential candidates and their supporters. Which, I assume, is why CAIR got involved - to try to get ahead of the bigoted statements that would certainly be forthcoming (and have already appeared) from the haters. I thought that was obvious.
clarice
(5,504 posts)say that "all Muslims are terrorists"
I have heard that "all of the terrorists were Muslim."
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,724 posts)and mosques surveilled and shut, Chris Christie saying not even 5-year-old Syrian refugees should be admitted to the US, Carson comparing Muslims to rabid dogs and opining that no Muslim should be allowed to be president, and Jeb! Bush stating that only Christian Syrian refugees should be let in. The inferences are pretty clear. And a lot of the GOP "base" just says it straight out. http://www.vox.com/2015/12/1/9822452/muslim-islamophobia-trump
clarice
(5,504 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,724 posts)clarice
(5,504 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)The usual refrain is "Where are the Muslims denouncing violence?"
So, if a group does so in a very public way, it's "Why are they saying its not about religion when they are a Muslim group?"
I know, let's hold them all underwater, and if they don't drown, then they are evil!
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)He has some unusual tells.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Not knowing the person and their usual mannerisms, you have no idea. Obviously any person in his situation would be in quite a distressed emotional state, and would be attempting to control that for the purpose of appearing before television cameras.
You have no idea how you would act in such a situation.
jonno99
(2,620 posts)Yorktown
(2,884 posts)I asked why the brother-in-law felt a need to give a press conference at a religious propaganda organization.
Is religion what defines his brother-in-law? Did he not have mental health issue? Why not a mental health institution? Why a religious institution?
CAIR was free to issue a separate statement later if they felt their religion was in some way linked to these murders.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)As someone up-thread said, if Muslims don't denounce violence people whine & when they do people whine.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)"I know, let's hold them all underwater, and if they don't drown, then they are evil!"
So many reasons he could be amazingly nervous. One being he might truly be in fear of disappearing and held underwater. At this point in time I really don't think that is hyperbole.
Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)In this political and societal climate? I would be nervous too. He also just had family members commit mass murder and then die....I would be in shock I think.
Try to imagine being Muslim, having your family members that you love not only commit murder, but mass murder in the name of religion and then watching them getting shot on live tv....seriously, cut the guy some slack. He wasn't the one who committed this horrendous act.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)if your brother-in-law goes on a shooting spree, do you give a press conference from a temple or church or wherever you go if you are religiously inclined?
That was my question.
In other words, I object to religion creating defense/pressure groups. Any religion.
Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)Yorktown
(2,884 posts)Defense groups will probably always be needed however.
Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)I have no problem with faith per se, but I do have a problem with organized religion and the issues it brings to society.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)There's a word for that.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)But my antipathy extends from religions to those who espouse religious ideologies closely.
Like the Colorado Springs or San Bernardino shooters.
Or those who fed them their ideologies.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)you could hold a press conference from a temple or a church. Right now the BIL might just feel like Public Enemy Number One, even if he had nothing to do with what happened. A group like this could be able to set up a conference, contact the right people, make him feel safe and would have people with cooler heads that could stop the conference or cut off any lines of questioning that get out of hand.
It doesn't necessarily matter who the people or group are but that there was someone who could keep a cooler head for him during what must have been a horrible situation.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)I was just pointing out why the whole set-up stank.
BIL needs support, OK. But did he get rational, honest support? No.
Obviously, CAIR asked the BIL to act surprised, saying the reason could have been anything
Which we know now was far removed from the truth.
But I wasn't really expecting the truth in any shape or form from CAIR.
still_one
(92,216 posts)Last edited Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:36 AM - Edit history (2)
Islamic Jihadism, according to the evidence they have found so far.
What his brother-in-law is trying to do is defuse any anti-Muslim sentiments against the whole American Muslim community.
I didn't hear him specifically say it wasn't due to religion, but I may have missed it. I did hear him say they don't know what the motivational factors were, including radical ideology, which could imply jihadist Islam. However, even though I missed it, by saying it doesn't have anything to do with religion, could be the standard statement after similar instances, that the act done was actually against the religion. If that is so, that would not contradict that Farook's mindset did do it with a religious ideology in mind, but his brother-in-laws view was, that is not consistent with Muslims.
Maybe I am reading more into than it is
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)Why does the brother-in-law rush to CAIR if he deoesn't somehow suspect the murders are linked to religious beliefs?
still_one
(92,216 posts)librechik
(30,674 posts)which so many would love him to do. Think of them as pro-bono lawyers. I'm sure that's their function.
They are wise. The US is EVIL.
just saying. Am I allowed to say that?
JI7
(89,251 posts)as saying what he did was not what true islam is about.
i said before that they need to stop arguing about islam itself and just say that violent acts are wrong no matter what islam or anything else says.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)Abrahamic religious texts are insanely violent.
True Judaism would imply stoning people for working on the Sabbath.
If true Islam is the texts, then any insult to Islam deserves death.
Which makes San Bernardino pretty OK as Farooq's co-worker was dissing Islam.
It's high time religions took a long, hard look at what they preach.
librechik
(30,674 posts)sticking to the letter of the law of God is repugnant in any form, if it nixes mercy.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)islam is more coherent. Problematically so.
librechik
(30,674 posts)not a problem at all.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)But most of Christianity has evolved into a happy slappy nonsense, especially in Europe.
Granted, US evangelicals/Baptists and African Catholics remain scary, but I suppose/hope they are on the way out.
Radical Islam is more coherent, well funded and sitting on a demographic tide.
librechik
(30,674 posts)don't compare non-radical christians to radical Islam. Doesn't make sense.
On the way out for a couple of thousand years.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)I was trying to make two points:
- the mainstream doctrine of Christianity is mellowing (see gays), not for Islam
- the power base of Islam is growing (demographics, money) , not Christianity (Pew poll)
So the end result of the product: harshness of mainstream doctrine x power base = increased production of radicals by Islam vs Christianity.
librechik
(30,674 posts)whatever. We can argue degrees of abuse all day. Pointless.
Have a nice day!
olddots
(10,237 posts)We love mysterys so much maybe people do vile things just to create mysteries .
JI7
(89,251 posts)which he can now connect to the shootings.
complain jane
(4,302 posts)I can't imagine the vortex of insanity this guy just got handed.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)He's not telling everything, and is way too nervous to even be sly about it.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)Isn't one of the believed killers not yet captured?
And yes. Religion probably was a factor in these killings. How much of a factor is not known.
When there is a horrible jihadist killing then it makes life very difficult for Muslims who are not jihadists. So it is understandable that the brother-in-law is very upset about this event. Besides if a family member killed people in this way, wouldn't any one of us be utterly devastated? Wouldn't we feel just bereft, lost and wouldn't we wonder what to do? What to say? Nothing suffices to make a horrible crime like that right.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)The police and FBI said that the two shooters were the two who were killed.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)knowledge of their intentions. The investigation is still ongoing. That is my suspicion. They have been pretty closed-mouthed about the investigation thus far -- unless I have not been following it closely enough.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)The guy seemed to be a loner, but she or both of them may have terrorist contacts.
It's scary.
complain jane
(4,302 posts)I would imagine that you might not be able to amass the small arsenal that they had without other people involved.
If these two were so radicalized as to be able to do this yet not be on anyone's radar, how many more like these are here?
Reter
(2,188 posts)What happened?
Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)It is going to be difficult to claim that she knew nothing if they were building that many bombs.
Plenty of people shoot, and since one of the family was a service member, that's more to be expected than otherwise. But WHO BUILDS BOMBS??????
I have wondered if the reports that the mother lived with the couple were wrong. I cannot believe that the mother would countenance this.
Anyone would be freaked out if a family member had done something like this.
Once the family had lawyered up, the lawyer would be dictating exactly what was said, so that might explain your impression.
complain jane
(4,302 posts)allegedly they also tried to modify one of the guns into a fully-auto and failed at that, too, thank God. Dipshits.
Boudica the Lyoness
(2,899 posts)about that press conference. Can't put my finger on it.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)Look at the way the two male minders behind nod at the answers as if agreeing they toed what he had been briefed.
Why say an act has nothing to do with religion from a religious advocacy group if it has nothing to do with religion?
Boudica the Lyoness
(2,899 posts)I think I remember one of the minders seemed ready to interrupt if he went off script.
Yorktown
(2,884 posts)Same oppressive atmosphere.
I guess that's why other posters also felt something strange about the scene
Rex
(65,616 posts)IMO.
flamingdem
(39,313 posts)self defense than grief. As I said yesterday it was a bold mostly positive attempt to put a human face on Muslims but it was too soon. As far as what he is hiding - I think he cannot discuss the wife but she may be seen as the problem. Maybe ge was just coming out of denial. Today there were
reps from Farooks mosque and they seemed more solid - also regarding the wife they said they had no impression because she wore the niquab - I think they are more liberal in CA.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I was watching with a friend, and both of us said it almost at the same time.
complain jane
(4,302 posts)I mean that about the entire story.
And if Farook seemed so mild-mannered and easy-going, and this couple was able to cover their tracks so well and fool so many people, I'm inclined to wonder if this brother in law who threw off some odd vibes to some people might not be involved. I worry that these two were the tip of an iceberg.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)THAT was weird as hell. Basically insinuating that he didn't think those two did it.
And even worse, he commented, "Oh that was not a large amount of ammunition, kind of average."
complain jane
(4,302 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Cuomo was incredulous as this guy kept saying that "things did not add up."
complain jane
(4,302 posts)It's a weird story. But at this point it seems hard to argue with the notion of it being terrorism.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)That adds up to being guilty to me.
I agree the whole story is weird as hell.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)rightly so.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)his family is going to be retaliated against.
proverbialwisdom
(4,959 posts)Brother of suspected San Bernardino gunman is decorated Navy vet
By Bradford Richardson - 12/03/15 05:00 PM EST
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The suspects brother, Syed Raheel Farook, enlisted in the the Navy in August 2003 and left in August 2007, Buzzfeed reported.
He received the National Defense Service Medal, the Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal, the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal and the Sea Service Deployment Ribbon during his service, the report says.
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Revealed: Brother of San Bernardino gunman is a decorated Navy veteran honored for his role in the war on terror
By KHALEDA RAHMAN FOR DAILYMAIL.COM and RUTH STYLES IN SAN BERNARDINO FOR DAILYMAIL.COM
PUBLISHED: 20:03 EST, 3 December 2015 | UPDATED: 01:51 EST, 4 December 2015
Syed Rizwan Farook, 28, was named as the heavily armed gunman who massacred 14 at a conference center in California on Wednesday morning
But his brother Syed Raheel Farook served in the Navy for four years
The married father served as an information systems technician on the aircraft carrier USS Enterprise
His awards include the Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal and Global War on Terrorism Service Medal
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Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)I doubt very much the rest of the family knew anything.
Apparently no one at either of the mosques the perp attended in the last few years had a clue. Sadly, one of the persons shot at this function was a regular attendee at the latest mosque, and it is likely that he knew her. Didn't matter, she gets it anyway.
For IS adherents, any Muslim not on their side is an enemy who deserves death.
complain jane
(4,302 posts)Unless the mother simply never went in the garage.
pugetres
(507 posts)is the husband of Syed Farook's sister, Saira? He isn't the brother of Tashfeen Malik, correct?
Unless both families were involved with terrorism and were working together, I have a hard time believing that Khan knew much about the activities of his wife's brother's wife.
wheniwasincongress
(1,307 posts)didn't want to speak - he certainly couldn't say much because of the ongoing investigation - but was pushed into doing so, or chose to do so himself without thinking about it. Reminds me of that grizzled older guy (fisherman? boat captain?) that was interviewed on TV about 5 years ago when there was some sort of reinvestigation into Natalie Wood's death...this guy agreed to be interviewed on live TV but when asked questions he was like, "I can't discuss that" or some vague answer like that. Lawrence O "interviewed" him and seemed rather annoyed!
OregonBlue
(7,754 posts)with it or is not telling what he knows then I'd say he needs all the support he can get. They has resources to help him. And given what I'm reading on the right-wing sites, he's going to need it. They are already ready to lynch him for being related to the guy.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)His brother in law just mowed down a shitload of people. There is a possibility he woke up one morning, was having a great day, then his whole world was turned upside down. Families are often victims as well. Judging a woman by her reaction right after a rape is crappy. Judging the facial expression, words, and body action of a man whose brother in law just made the news on every outlet in the world for terrorism and mass murder might not be the best way to go.
countryjake
(8,554 posts)I'd imagine that he was understandably terrified...and for very good reason, too.
When you have prominent Americans spewing out reactionary bullshit on national TV, it affects people in various ways, and when any normal person just happens to be a potential target of those wild blatherings, I'd think that it would be absolutely terrifying to suddenly find oneself in such a position.
I understand why the Council of American Islamic Relations held that press conference and also why they'd feel it was prudent to thrust the extended family of these mass murderers into the limelight, allowing a family statement to be made expressing condolences for the victims and their families (which is all that Mr. Khan was there to do, as the family spokesman...the barrage of questions by reporters was not a scheduled part of the presser).
I think it's a real shame, in this day and age, that such a news conference was even necessary. And I pity both the Khan family and the entire Farook family, especially the sister of Syed Rizwan Farook, Saira Khan.
I can't even imagine being an American in that position.
http://www.cnn.com/2015/12/02/politics/donald-trump-terrorists-families/index.html?sr=twCNN120215donald-trump-terrorists-families/0141PMVODtopLink&linkId=19235497
Washington (CNN)Donald Trump said Wednesday that he would kill the families of terrorists in order to win the fight against ISIS...
~snip~
"The other thing with the terrorists is you have to take out their families, when you get these terrorists, you have to take out their families. They care about their lives, don't kid yourself. When they say they don't care about their lives, you have to take out their families," Trump said.
Trump said he would "knock the hell out of" ISIS, and criticized the U.S. for "fighting a very politically correct war."
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obnoxiousdrunk
(2,910 posts)the brother was the Navy Vet not the brother-in-law.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)What do I know? I'm an only and a bachelor.
countryjake
(8,554 posts)Brother-in-law or brother, sister, mother...they're all suspect now, no matter what they say, do, or have done in the past. (I would hope that I don't need a sarcasm tag, here)
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/brother-calif-shooting-decorated-navy-vet-article-1.2454568?cid=bitly
The brother of the San Bernardino shooter is a decorated Navy veteran who was given a good conduct award, military records show.
Syed Raheel Farook joined the Navy in August 2003 and left the military four years later with accolades, a Navy spokesman told the Daily News Thursday.
He served with distinction while working as an Information System Technician, Third Class.
He was a computer technician, the Navy spokesman confirmed
countryjake
(8,554 posts)not even an actual Farook blood brother.
It's obvious to me how retaliation and vengeance events are easily precipitated and I feel sorrow for anyone who has ever been associated with the Farook family from Chicago, simply because they all are now finding themselves under the same "guns" as the ones that were used to shoot so many innocent people this week.
hollowdweller
(4,229 posts)You can bet the US gov't is checking the hell out of all the relatives and contacts.