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With all of the hand wringing and concern that we don't "offend" anyone.... (Original Post) clarice Dec 2015 OP
Is it true that someone lost 6 kids? Renew Deal Dec 2015 #1
I don't know Renew....I haven't heard that...but possible. nt clarice Dec 2015 #2
He was a father of 6. nt bunnies Dec 2015 #3
Good gracious....that pisses me off. nt clarice Dec 2015 #4
Its horrific. And right before the holidays. bunnies Dec 2015 #16
There ARE no words....I am literally shaking with rage and hate. *deep breath*nt clarice Dec 2015 #17
Thanks Renew Deal Dec 2015 #8
No, one of the vicitms was the father of six kids nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #5
Still terrible Renew Deal Dec 2015 #6
It is nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #11
Just gone.....and for WHAT !!!!!!!! nt clarice Dec 2015 #7
I never try to answer those questions when it comes to crime nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #10
I know Dear....me too. But it's time that we all admit that we have a HUGE... clarice Dec 2015 #12
I crossed that bridge a long time ago nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #14
With all due respect....I can agree with 1/2 of that. Be well....try not to worry. nt clarice Dec 2015 #15
father of six kids, another had a newborn , one was planning wedding JI7 Dec 2015 #9
Not trying to cause a ruckus.... clarice Dec 2015 #13
No, I think one was a dad to 6 kids. cwydro Dec 2015 #18
no 840high Dec 2015 #61
That is just heart-crushing. hifiguy Dec 2015 #19
What I also find Heart wrenching is the fact that..... clarice Dec 2015 #20
The contortions to which some here will bend in order to deny the truth hifiguy Dec 2015 #21
VERY well put...but I wonder.. clarice Dec 2015 #23
I doubt it. It's in part a knee-jerk response hifiguy Dec 2015 #26
Au Contraire Mons Freres... clarice Dec 2015 #28
Certainly possible. 840high Dec 2015 #62
That makes me absolutely sick. smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #38
Thank you SM.......I needed that *smooch* nt clarice Dec 2015 #40
Here's another... countryjake Dec 2015 #22
Sh%$...Fu$#...Pi$$....Bas$%rds !!!!!!!!!!!!! nt clarice Dec 2015 #24
358 views and 13 responses and counting. nt clarice Dec 2015 #25
I will kick this one regularly for the next few hours. hifiguy Dec 2015 #27
You ROCK !!!!! nt clarice Dec 2015 #29
I weep for the latest victims also. Kingofalldems Dec 2015 #30
474 views, 15 responses. nt clarice Dec 2015 #31
Grrr! smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #39
Thank you. TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #32
I am glad too TexMo minus hat. nt clarice Dec 2015 #33
Name comes from a fantastic photo of Ann Richards TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #34
I know EXACTLY what picture you mean.....classic. I wonder.... clarice Dec 2015 #35
I believe you can. TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2015 #36
Oh right !!! .....me either. lol nt clarice Dec 2015 #37
K&R. Thank you for posting! smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #41
Thanks again SM....do you have any rationalization for the lack of concern over the victims?nt clarice Dec 2015 #42
Are you concerned with the victims are are you just trying to criticize DU? Kingofalldems Dec 2015 #45
Thank you for making the point I dare not make randys1 Dec 2015 #51
Hypocrisy from the get-go. AnnetteJacobs Dec 2015 #53
Yup. +1000. closeupready Dec 2015 #72
I really don't know. Maybe people are too preoccupied with fighting over smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #47
Ditto. nt clarice Dec 2015 #49
I am in total agreement cornball 24 Dec 2015 #56
Thanks cornball24 and welcome to DU! smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #57
Would you be happier if they'd been slaughtered Crunchy Frog Dec 2015 #58
Please, cornball 24 Dec 2015 #59
If I misunderstood the meaning of your post, I apologize. Crunchy Frog Dec 2015 #60
Accepted. Have cornball 24 Dec 2015 #63
Thanks. You too. Crunchy Frog Dec 2015 #65
You ROCK!!!!! nt clarice Dec 2015 #66
I had no idea this OP was about the victims until I clicked on it. arcane1 Dec 2015 #52
I'm sorry I gave that impression. Thanks for stopping by. nt clarice Dec 2015 #54
. MerryBlooms Dec 2015 #43
That was awesome....thanks.nt clarice Dec 2015 #44
600 hundred views....approx 20 legitamate responses... you know.... clarice Dec 2015 #46
Sad times, in so many ways FrodosPet Dec 2015 #48
sigh. nt clarice Dec 2015 #50
850 views....22 legitimate responses. nt clarice Dec 2015 #55
Kick. hifiguy Dec 2015 #64
I imagine if we pretend really hard, the hand-wringing becomes obvious. LanternWaste Dec 2015 #67
K&R smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #68
Just what the hell is your reference to "hand wringing" supposed to mean? closeupready Dec 2015 #69
Peace. And Merry Christmas. nt clarice Dec 2015 #70
You and I and everyone know exactly what your backhanded slap at liberals closeupready Dec 2015 #71
I think that you missed the entire point. No worries, these are very trying times. nt clarice Dec 2015 #73
Ok, if so, then I apologize, Clarice. closeupready Dec 2015 #74
No need to apologize.....but gratefully accepted. Allow me to explain... clarice Dec 2015 #75
While I respect your right to an opinion, I don't see it that way. closeupready Dec 2015 #76
Back atcha. nt clarice Dec 2015 #77
Could you repost the officially sanctioned list of things we're permitted to worry about? Orrex Dec 2015 #78
I would be delighted...but I only have time for a couple.... clarice Dec 2015 #79
Everyone doesn't address those in the same order, or in the same way Orrex Dec 2015 #81
100%.....A very VERY vexing situation. nt clarice Dec 2015 #82
K and R. Thanks for posting, Clarice. NaturalHigh Dec 2015 #80
Thanks NH. nt clarice Dec 2015 #84
Thank you. Squinch Dec 2015 #83
No..thank YOU. nt clarice Dec 2015 #85
Is it me, or is that an unusually pleasant looking group of people? The waste of life and Squinch Dec 2015 #86
No matter how hard I try.... I still can't wrap my head around it. nt clarice Dec 2015 #87
Again. Which is the horrible thing. Squinch Dec 2015 #88
feel ya. nt clarice Dec 2015 #89
 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
16. Its horrific. And right before the holidays.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 05:57 PM
Dec 2015

That poor family. All those families. There are no words.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
12. I know Dear....me too. But it's time that we all admit that we have a HUGE...
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 05:51 PM
Dec 2015

problem/issue in front of us.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
14. I crossed that bridge a long time ago
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 05:53 PM
Dec 2015

But since these were the scary other, and you are seeing this here as well... people will not deal with this... and yes self radicalization sucks... but the elephant is also the free availability of guns and a general culture.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
9. father of six kids, another had a newborn , one was planning wedding
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 05:47 PM
Dec 2015

and too many other good people just dying when they should not be.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
13. Not trying to cause a ruckus....
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 05:52 PM
Dec 2015

But if you were King....what would do about this terrible problem?
If you would rather not answer, that's cool.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
19. That is just heart-crushing.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:04 PM
Dec 2015

Sacrificed for nothing on the twin altars of barbarism: idjit religion and gunz. I despair for the fate of humanity.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
20. What I also find Heart wrenching is the fact that.....
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:25 PM
Dec 2015

There are HUNDREDS of posts on DU deriding those who seem "anti-muslim"
But over 300 views of this post about the victims....... 19 responses. WTF ?????!!!!!

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
21. The contortions to which some here will bend in order to deny the truth
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:32 PM
Dec 2015

are astonishing and profoundly disheartening.

Sam Harris was and is right and that's all there is to it. While any religion or belief system can and will be used to justify barbarism, the facts of the modern world show that over the last few decades only one is consistently (NB, I said consistently, NOT exclusively) the source of the most barbaric and inhuman outrages imaginable. Too many people would rather be "politically correct" than face the truth.

“Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.” - Voltaire

Of all human inventions, it is beyond any rational question that religion is the worst, most useless and most destructive.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
23. VERY well put...but I wonder..
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:37 PM
Dec 2015

Anyone who loudly and consistently makes apologies/excuses for this behavior may not simply
trying to be "politically correct", But may have a totally different agenda than most Americans do.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
26. I doubt it. It's in part a knee-jerk response
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:41 PM
Dec 2015

because many of us on the left are always ready to stand up for a perceived underdog. In most cases that is admirable, even morally necessary; in this case it's like deliberately putting out one eye and wearing a patch over the other. It's a conditioned reflex based in some sort of senseless and cause-free guilt. A dispassionate reflection on the assembled facts show it to be a grievously wrongheaded response.

But then I'm on the autism spectrum and my mind works like Data's or Spock's. Logic and nothing but.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
28. Au Contraire Mons Freres...
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:45 PM
Dec 2015

You SEEM like one of the most reasened , level headed people that I have met here thus far. nt

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
38. That makes me absolutely sick.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:11 PM
Dec 2015

Sometimes I am embarrassed to call myself a liberal. Some priorities are really out of whack here.

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
22. Here's another...
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:34 PM
Dec 2015
Stories of those who died in the mass shooting in California

http://www.komonews.com/news/national/Stories-of-those-who-died-in-the-mass-shooting-in-California-360586881.html


Michael Raymond Wetzel, left rear, is seen with his family in this undated, family handout photo. Wetzel was one of 14 killed Wednesday, Dec. 2, 2015 in a commando-style assault on a holiday party in San Bernardino, Calif. (Wetzel Family via AP)


Most of the 14 people killed at a holiday banquet in San Bernardino County, California, worked in the same county public health department as the man who showed up with his wife and sprayed the hall with gunfire.

An official list of the dead was released Thursday, and families, friends and co-workers came forward to share some of their stories...



The bigots and gun nutz of our country should be bombarded with the profiles of these tragically innocent people.
 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
27. I will kick this one regularly for the next few hours.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:43 PM
Dec 2015

Seems like some just don't want to hear this.

Kingofalldems

(38,458 posts)
30. I weep for the latest victims also.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 06:50 PM
Dec 2015

Of course there was another terrorist attack last week. They were real victims too.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
35. I know EXACTLY what picture you mean.....classic. I wonder....
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:00 PM
Dec 2015

Whay aren't we allowed to pick our own avatar?

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
36. I believe you can.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:01 PM
Dec 2015

You have to pay, but I haven't paid, since I keep telling myself I don't have time for this.

Kingofalldems

(38,458 posts)
45. Are you concerned with the victims are are you just trying to criticize DU?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:23 PM
Dec 2015

Already 4 responses from you in this thread complaining about DUers.
Example:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027416055#post20

In this response it looks like you are calling some here Un-American:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027416055#post23

randys1

(16,286 posts)
51. Thank you for making the point I dare not make
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:41 PM
Dec 2015

I would love to express my sadness for the victims but would rather do it in a thread that doesnt start out by insulting me for having a liberal political position.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
72. Yup. +1000.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 01:30 PM
Dec 2015

Disgusted by the lack of self-restraint on her part. Perhaps her emotions are getting the best of her, so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. She IS a long-time member, after all.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
47. I really don't know. Maybe people are too preoccupied with fighting over
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:28 PM
Dec 2015

the gun and racism issues. I really would have expected better from DU.

cornball 24

(1,475 posts)
56. I am in total agreement
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:12 PM
Dec 2015

with both you, Clarice and, sadly, so few others on DU. I cannot believe all the irrelevant minutia that is being posted here at a time when innocent people have been annihilated by those who exploit our way of life in their malevolent efforts to destroy us. I don't give a flying shit about all the back and forth intellectualizing that is being posted. The fact of the matter is that people who gathered together in the spirit of camaraderie were slaughtered by those whose ideology is anathema to our way of life.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
57. Thanks cornball24 and welcome to DU!
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:21 PM
Dec 2015

It gets a little heated around here at times, especially with these types of issues. However we need more caring people like you to stick around.

Crunchy Frog

(26,587 posts)
58. Would you be happier if they'd been slaughtered
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 08:30 PM
Dec 2015

by a deranged, white, male "lone wolf"?

Would they be better off having suffered a higher class, more all American sort of slaughter?

Our "way of life" (I'm assuming you mean unrestrained gun ownership) leaves us wide open for exploitation by terrorists, as demonstrated by two incidents of domestic terrorism in less than a week.

Maybe some aspects of our way of life need to be reexamined.

cornball 24

(1,475 posts)
59. Please,
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 09:13 PM
Dec 2015

do not assume. I am disgusted by the lack of background checks and all things responsible for the availability of guns to ANY person(s) whose intention is to use said guns for the commitment of evil acts. I am appalled by the power of the NRA and its lack of regard for regulation of firearms. To "assume" that my reference to "our way of life" has anything at all to do with guns is a very subjective interpretation on your part. FYI, I refer to the MANY freedoms available here in America, one of them being your right to reply to my post with your "would you be happier if they'd been slaughtered..." balderdash!

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
52. I had no idea this OP was about the victims until I clicked on it.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:49 PM
Dec 2015

I passed it over several times because I thought it would be about political correctness or something.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
46. 600 hundred views....approx 20 legitamate responses... you know....
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:24 PM
Dec 2015

I used to believe that the best thing about the liberal mind set, was being possessed of a warm, caring, giving heart.
That conviction has been ruined for me today. Thanks to those of you who REALLY know what compassion means.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
48. Sad times, in so many ways
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 07:32 PM
Dec 2015


From San Bernadino to Colorado Springs to Paris to Raqqa, I mourn the victims of evil violent men. Even if our species is too fucking obstinate to seek and find peace throughout the world, I hope the families and friends and communities of the victims can find some healing in their souls.
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
67. I imagine if we pretend really hard, the hand-wringing becomes obvious.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 12:36 PM
Dec 2015

I imagine if the irrational and the gullible pretend hard enough, the hand-wringing does indeed, become obvious to their creative imaginations.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
69. Just what the hell is your reference to "hand wringing" supposed to mean?
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 01:22 PM
Dec 2015

Are we here on DU supposed to all jump on your 'bomb them to hell and let God sort them out' bullshit?

Not doing it, nope - not now, not ever.

As someone who feels as badly for those who lost their lives and their loved ones, I really think you went beyond the pale here with your two-faced slap at liberals here.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
71. You and I and everyone know exactly what your backhanded slap at liberals
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 01:29 PM
Dec 2015

on the board here was supposed to mean, and no, I'm not going to buy into Islamophobic bigotry. Not now, and not ever.

I do hope you are able to think through your emotions over this, and I'm pretty sure you will.

Merry Christmas to you, as well.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
75. No need to apologize.....but gratefully accepted. Allow me to explain...
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 01:43 PM
Dec 2015

My op was directed at liberals/repubs/moderates/libertarians/media etc.

I am just sick of the attention,apologizing,rationalizing,nit picking that goes on
concerning the "politicizing" that always happens after a tragic event like this (from ALL sides)

So very little concern is paid to the actual VICTIMS of these crimes. I was just much more
frustrated at the liberal base because we pride ourselves on caring and compassion. You have to admit,
over 1200 views, and barely 30 legitimate replies expressing remorse for the victims is pretty lame.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
76. While I respect your right to an opinion, I don't see it that way.
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 01:46 PM
Dec 2015

I think that's all I want to say here, but I hope your week goes well. Cheers.

Orrex

(63,212 posts)
78. Could you repost the officially sanctioned list of things we're permitted to worry about?
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 01:57 PM
Dec 2015

You know, the one that shows the correct way to prioritize our concerns and our discussions?

Thanks--it would be ever so helpful.

 

clarice

(5,504 posts)
79. I would be delighted...but I only have time for a couple....
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 02:04 PM
Dec 2015

1. You're own priorities.
2. Loss of innocent human life.

Orrex

(63,212 posts)
81. Everyone doesn't address those in the same order, or in the same way
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 02:30 PM
Dec 2015

Some see anti-Muslim sentiment as an exacerbating factor that further escalates tensions in an unhelpful way, potentially worsening the overall crisis.

Others see the number of deaths inflicted by terrorists and weigh these against the number of civilians we've murdered with firebombs and drone strikes.

Others can crunch the numbers and see the rates of gun-inflicted homicide as an intolerable obscenity, demanding a response beyond prayers or mourning for this dozen or that dozen victims.

Ultimately, it's up to the individual to find an appropriate response, even if it's an evolutionary process that doesn't satisfy others' sensibilities.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
86. Is it me, or is that an unusually pleasant looking group of people? The waste of life and
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 05:43 PM
Dec 2015

potential is heartbreaking.

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