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DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 06:14 PM Mar 2016

Faced with cancer diagnosis, woman chooses road trip over chemo

At 90 years old, Norma is having the adventure of a lifetime.

The Michigan woman was diagnosed with cancer just days after her husband died and rather than face a long fight against the disease, she decided to take full advantage of the life she has left.

“I’m 90 years old. I’m hitting the road," Norma said when her doctor explained the cancer diagnosis and her treatment options.

So hit the road Norma did. With her son and daughter-in-law along to help her out, Norma left home to travel the country in an RV, taking in new sights and experiences along the way.

Norma's story of living life to the fullest has touched the hearts of people nationwide, with hundreds of thousands following her updates online and posting messages of encouragement.

The words of Norma's doctor upon hearing her decision say it best: "Right on!


http://www.azfamily.com/story/31548153/faced-with-cancer-diagnosis-woman-chooses-road-trip-over-chemo
https://www.facebook.com/DrivingMissNorma/
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Faced with cancer diagnosis, woman chooses road trip over chemo (Original Post) DesertRat Mar 2016 OP
All diagnoses have to weigh quality of life against potential quantity . . . Journeyman Mar 2016 #1
I've known a few people who have gotten cancer, chemotherapy and life is better Baobab Mar 2016 #7
That is true, however, Curmudgeoness Mar 2016 #12
Quite true. Delphinus Mar 2016 #10
Good for her! smirkymonkey Mar 2016 #2
Same here! DesertRat Mar 2016 #4
Ditto. I would also do the same thing. RebelOne Mar 2016 #15
That woman is my new hero! Initech Mar 2016 #3
But the 90 year old that is poor zalinda Mar 2016 #5
that's true DesertRat Mar 2016 #6
Not necessarily Baobab Mar 2016 #8
A coworker did that at 60 Warpy Mar 2016 #9
When I get cancer, I will call in my chit and play Cypress Point. AngryAmish Mar 2016 #11
Wonderful story. I admire this woman and her children.. mountain grammy Mar 2016 #13
+1. nt bemildred Mar 2016 #14
May we all have the chance at a good death. AwakeAtLast Mar 2016 #16
Amen! DesertRat Mar 2016 #17
Wonderful sentiment . . . Journeyman Mar 2016 #18

Journeyman

(15,031 posts)
1. All diagnoses have to weigh quality of life against potential quantity . . .
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 06:22 PM
Mar 2016

A good look at this is contained in Atul Gawande's best seller, Being Mortal.

Baobab

(4,667 posts)
7. I've known a few people who have gotten cancer, chemotherapy and life is better
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 07:08 PM
Mar 2016

than dying of cancer.

They get better at curing cancer all the time.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
12. That is true, however,
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 09:00 PM
Mar 2016

this woman is 90 years old. She has lived a long life, and is not at the peak of health at that age. Chemo is hard enough on someone who starts it as a healthy and vigorous young person. I can see why she would make this decision at this point in her life.

And I am glad that she is having the time of her life.

Baobab

(4,667 posts)
8. Not necessarily
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 07:09 PM
Mar 2016

But its not easy to access care in that situation. They need help.

A friend or neighbor or somebody.

Warpy

(111,254 posts)
9. A coworker did that at 60
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 07:21 PM
Mar 2016

The diagnosis had a poor outcome and she was given 6 months without treatment, probably a year with treatment, the first 6 months ruined by surgery and chemo. So she sold her house quickly and jumped on an airplane. She lived quite a lot longer than that 6 months and was only miserable for 2 weeks toward the end.

Were I to get the same diagnosis, I'd do the same. Go granny!

mountain grammy

(26,620 posts)
13. Wonderful story. I admire this woman and her children..
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 09:16 PM
Mar 2016

Going out on her terms. The way it should always be!

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