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CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:07 AM Jun 2016

The EU was a forced marriage.

The EU may be great for a lot of reasons, but if the British people don't want it, then they don't want it.

Just like a marriage, you can't force someone to marry someone against their will, no matter how attractive and appealing the other person is.

I think a lot of people have lost sight of the concepts of democracy and the consent of the governed.

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The EU was a forced marriage. (Original Post) CJCRANE Jun 2016 OP
I agree anoNY42 Jun 2016 #1
I agree about the UK. Not on Texas. AntiBank Jun 2016 #3
Yeah, only way it can go is forward, I suppose anoNY42 Jun 2016 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #2
simplistic binary thinking. The UK will do quite well in the mid to long term event horizon AntiBank Jun 2016 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #6
"Walres" <<<<< lol WALES voted to leave the EU AntiBank Jun 2016 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #17
touche on the typo, I fixed it. nt AntiBank Jun 2016 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #39
How likely anoNY42 Jun 2016 #10
a plurality here in Sweden have said that if the Brexit goes through, they want a Swexit vote. AntiBank Jun 2016 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #18
we are. We have tried to help some who are always at our AntiBank Jun 2016 #22
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buzz off busy bee AntiBank Jun 2016 #24
sounds a bit anti immigrant no? uponit7771 Jun 2016 #26
not at all. read my reply upthread. Romania has pawned them off AntiBank Jun 2016 #28
The British have every right to vote for Brexit. Americans have every right to vote for Trump. pampango Jun 2016 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #7
Yes, of course. No the left should not 'concede gracefully' but should recognize the decision of pampango Jun 2016 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #11
Did my response "go right by you" too? Do you agree or disagree with it? n/t pampango Jun 2016 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #15
That's how democracy works. CJCRANE Jun 2016 #20
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Another alternative is representative democracy. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2016 #27
I like a mix of representative and direct democracy. CJCRANE Jun 2016 #33
Generally, I'd go with the representatives in those cases. I don't want hanging back. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2016 #38
Yep. That's what voting is about. yeoman6987 Jun 2016 #31
Yes and no, respectively. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2016 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #41
Post removed Post removed Jun 2016 #16
When the UK joined it was a trading zone, not a political union. CJCRANE Jun 2016 #19
Alan Milward, Recontruction of Western Europe--Read it Bad Thoughts Jun 2016 #42
The marriage analogy works on several levels. Jerry442 Jun 2016 #29
I wouldn't say it was a forced marriage The2ndWheel Jun 2016 #30
Forced?! Denzil_DC Jun 2016 #32
The EEC was a free trade zone, not a political union. CJCRANE Jun 2016 #34
Irrelevant. It still doesn't add up to "forced". Denzil_DC Jun 2016 #35
It's forced in that it isn't democratic. The will of the people is not represented. CJCRANE Jun 2016 #36
You obvously don't know about the democratic deficits in the UK! It's rife. Denzil_DC Jun 2016 #37
This was hardly a "forced marriage." BlueMTexpat Jun 2016 #43
Recommended. NaturalHigh Jun 2016 #44

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AntiBank

(1,339 posts)
5. simplistic binary thinking. The UK will do quite well in the mid to long term event horizon
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:17 AM
Jun 2016

The EU was, is, and will be a failed neoliberal, anti-worker, undemocratic corporatist experiment. I cannot wait till we have a Swexit vote here.

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AntiBank

(1,339 posts)
12. "Walres" <<<<< lol WALES voted to leave the EU
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:38 AM
Jun 2016

You are just sour graping because you think (here comes the binary thinking) that this is a simple left v right issue. You think somehow Trump indirectly won on some esoteric detached political level. You think that it was all about, ALL about racist old white people who hate immigration. You think the EU is the bees knees (or could be if only those darn Brusselcrats would reform it <<< will not happen). You are an opponent of national sovereignty, and a fan of neoliberal systemic control. I reject these things from a LEFT perspective.


Britain will be fine, just fine. The correct side won. Get over it.

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anoNY42

(670 posts)
10. How likely
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:34 AM
Jun 2016

is a vote happening there (Sweden, right? Edit: or Switzerland?) now that Britain has had their vote?

 

AntiBank

(1,339 posts)
14. a plurality here in Sweden have said that if the Brexit goes through, they want a Swexit vote.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:44 AM
Jun 2016

We shall see. The neoliberal virus is stronger every day here. One large problem we have directly due to the EU is the tens thousands of homeless Romanians (many roma aka gypsies) who came here as soon as it was legal. It's truly a disheartening sight to see them sleeping and begging on the streets during the brutal winters here.

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AntiBank

(1,339 posts)
22. we are. We have tried to help some who are always at our
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:59 AM
Jun 2016

tunnelbana stop entrance. I got them job interviews with several friends of ours businesses and they simply never showed up. I also have went down near Sergelstorg and helped with a food kitchen. I met the director when I had my liver transplant (we had the same op) and we have since become good friends.


Your snark was a real guttersnipe move.

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AntiBank

(1,339 posts)
28. not at all. read my reply upthread. Romania has pawned them off
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 08:15 AM
Jun 2016

to many of the better off EU countries instead of taking care of them themselves. We do what we can but we are swamped with huge amounts of legitimate war refugees (thank you NATO/US/UK). Our resources are already being stretched to the limit. It's a humanitarian crisis up to a point, with many having to sleep in tents for lack of adequate housing. Adjusted for population vis-a-vis the USA, Sweden has taken in over 7 million refugees in equivalent over a 12 month stretch ending several months ago.

pampango

(24,692 posts)
4. The British have every right to vote for Brexit. Americans have every right to vote for Trump.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:16 AM
Jun 2016

Democracy does not always head in directions that we agree with. In this case - and in Trump's - I don't.

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pampango

(24,692 posts)
9. Yes, of course. No the left should not 'concede gracefully' but should recognize the decision of
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 07:33 AM
Jun 2016

voters and go back to working hard to change that decision in the future. I am not sure how you define "concede gracefully".

The left in Scotland and Northern Ireland (which voted strongly to remain in the EU) should work for independence from the big, bad UK, just like England wanted out of the big, bad EU. Scotland, in particular, is very liberal and elects very few Conservatives to Parliament. If it wants to become independent and join the EU (though the EU may indeed not accept them), the left should work hard to bring that about.

The same is true of Northern Ireland which now has to figure out what to do about its land border with the Republic of Ireland. They will need a wall or some type of strengthened border between the two. The Republic of Ireland is still in the EU and Northern Ireland will be out so that open border will have to be closed unless NI becomes independent and rejoins the EU.

What are you proposing?

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Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
27. Another alternative is representative democracy.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 08:07 AM
Jun 2016

Having had the referendum, I think we're stuck with it.

But that doesn't excuse the decision to hold it.

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
33. I like a mix of representative and direct democracy.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 09:13 AM
Jun 2016

Sometimes the representatives stray from the consent of the governed.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
38. Generally, I'd go with the representatives in those cases. I don't want hanging back.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 10:01 AM
Jun 2016

I think that it's vital that government of the people is for the people, and that some measurement of government by the people is the only way to achieve that - if you place government in the hands of philosopher-kings, you get government that represents the interests of philosopher-kings.

But I think that that can be accomplished perfectly well through a layer or two of indirection, and I'd rather have my country governed by professional politicians than the will of the electorate for the same reason I'd rather have my teeth removed by professional dentists and my children educated by professional teachers.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
40. Yes and no, respectively.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 10:03 AM
Jun 2016

Yes, what the majority of voters want should be the outcome.

No, while the losers should concede, there's no obligation for them do so gracefully, particularly not if standards of gracefulness are defined by the winners.

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Bad Thoughts

(2,522 posts)
42. Alan Milward, Recontruction of Western Europe--Read it
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 10:48 AM
Jun 2016

The European Coal and Steel Community was designed as a political basis for joint control of important industrial resources. That organization was meant to be the seed of a larger European political entity, wherein economic cooperation would foster mixing of sovereignty. It was always meant to be political, and it grew, logically and stepwise, ever since.


Schuman knew it.
Monnet knew it.
Adenauer knew it.
Churchill knew it.
Atlee knew it.

The idea that the ECSC, then the EEC, then the Common Market, then the EU was only meant to be economic was, as is, a canard.

Jerry442

(1,265 posts)
29. The marriage analogy works on several levels.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 08:20 AM
Jun 2016

An actual marriage between humans succeeds not when there are never any problems (that doesn't happen), but when the couple have good problem-solving and conflict resolution skills. After watching what's been going on with Greece, it's pretty clear that the EU ain't got 'em.

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
30. I wouldn't say it was a forced marriage
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 08:25 AM
Jun 2016

But this Brexit is a divorce. Politics being what they are, with strange bedfellows and all, it's interesting which side people end up on depending on the context. How many would say two people have to stay married, because of the potential consequences of breaking up(on them, their kids, their families, their friends, etc), even if one or both sides don't want to stay together?

Denzil_DC

(7,233 posts)
32. Forced?!
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 08:47 AM
Jun 2016

The UK negotiated for frikkin years to join the EU (then EC), and held a hard-fought referendum on the initial decision to join!

Denzil_DC

(7,233 posts)
35. Irrelevant. It still doesn't add up to "forced".
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 09:35 AM
Jun 2016

It developed into more of a political union while the UK was a member. Opt-outs have been secured on quite a few measures, such as the euro and Schengen.

If you're going to blame the EU because the UK's been so disengaged, friendless, useless at negotiation and unable to wield a strategic veto, you're not going to get far in the divorce settlement.

Denzil_DC

(7,233 posts)
37. You obvously don't know about the democratic deficits in the UK! It's rife.
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 09:49 AM
Jun 2016

Anyway, it sucks as an analogy, and there's absolutely no point beating it to death further.

BlueMTexpat

(15,368 posts)
43. This was hardly a "forced marriage."
Fri Jun 24, 2016, 11:20 AM
Jun 2016

The UK was not among the founding EU members. It was proud of its splendid isolation. But then it realized that it would be more beneficial to join the EU. France, one of the founding members, said no. So the UK was not able to join until 1973 - and there has been bickering ever since.

This is a terrible thing and is akin to the UK's cutting off its nose to spite its face.

Period.


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