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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsTom Arnold Pens Passionate Essay Arguing for Gun Control After Losing Nephew to Suicide
By Tom Arnold
Read the essay at: http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/tom-arnold-gun-control-essay-nephew-suicide-919835?utm_source=twitter
shenmue
(38,506 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)"I met with the Brady folks, including president Dan Gross, and my timing was perfect. They had the very bill I wanted before Congress, as well as a bill fixing the gun show loophole. The Brady Bill was great, but gun shows and the internet have changed the picture since 1993, so we just want to update things. No guns for the mentally ill until they are treated (the last two cop killers in the headlines were former military with PTSD; once you serve this country, you deserve follow-up mental and physical health checkups every year for the rest of your life). No guns for domestic abusers, violent felons or people on the terrorist watch list, and background checks for everybody. No more buying 40 handguns in a day and selling them to your "cousins" in the parking lot."
mwrguy
(3,245 posts)But we still need to get all the guns of the street.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Why in the world does one sleep with 5 LOADED GUNS BY THEIR BED?
Seriously.............5! Yes, the story said 5 LOADED GUNS BY THE BED.
What the everloving F?
bullwinkle428
(20,629 posts)LP2K12
(885 posts)I'm obviously pro-gun (see my signature). However, I've never kept firearms loaded in my house. Not one, not five. I don't get it.
ManiacJoe
(10,136 posts)linuxman
(2,337 posts)None I'm aware of.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Look, it's pretty clear to anyone NOT a gun humper that keeping 5 loaded guns on the nightstand next to your bed indicates some mental health issues.
linuxman
(2,337 posts)Daily doctor checks? It only took the one gun, after all. It's not like he got mad on the phone with his GF the week before, saw only 4 gun and said "Fuck it, I need 5 to pull this off".
Again, which proposed law would have prevented this?
easttexaslefty
(1,554 posts)Just wondering because it sure sounds like you didnt..
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Best customers of all!
"Spencer had 5 of them on his nightstand!"
Our veterans are trained and competent with all manner of weapons. They bond together over weapons!
Chris Kyle and Chad Littlefield were bonding with a fellow veteran at a gun-range.
jmg257
(11,996 posts)Terrorist list or mental health "prohibited persons" being pushed to NICS, including veterans.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)deemed insane and unfit to legally own a gun."
This, right here!
Marengo
(3,477 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)right to begin with. It doesn't rank with me. I could give a shit about the rights of gun humpers.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)With 33,000 Americans dying every year, Democrats believe that we must finally take sensible action to address gun violence. While responsible gun ownership is part of the fabric of many communities, too many families in America have suffered from gun violence. We can respect the rights of responsible gun owners while keeping our communities safe. To build on the success of the lifesaving Brady Handgun Violence Prevention Act, we will expand and strengthen background checks and close dangerous loopholes in our current laws; repeal the Protection of Lawful Commerce in Arms Act (PLCAA) to revoke the dangerous legal immunity protections gun makers and sellers now enjoy; and keep weapons of warsuch as assault weapons and large capacity ammunition magazines (LCAM's)off our streets. We will fight back against attempts to make it harder for the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives to revoke federal licenses from law breaking gun dealers, and ensure guns do not fall into the hands of terrorists, intimate partner abusers, other violent criminals, and those with severe mental health issues. There is insufficient research on effective gun prevention policies, which is why the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention must have the resources it needs to study gun violence as a public health issue.
https://www.demconvention.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Democratic-Party-Platform-7.21.16-no-lines.pdf
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Can you answer in your own words?
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Tom Arnold's nephew kept 5 loaded guns on his nightstand next to his bed!
That makes him a poster boy gun customer!
I want veterans to have the same restrictions and considerations as the rest of us.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Restrictions?
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)and a focus on veteran's mental health, the NRA opposes.
Has for years.
Since I don't work for you - google it.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)To provide at least a link. How difficult or time consuming is that? You've made the claim, where is the proof to back it up?
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Show me the legislation they have proposed and backed that would have any impact.
The NRA is a rightwing organization that aligns with the Republican Party.
You want to argue the NRA is a good organization that's looking out for us - go ahead.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Am I correct to interpret your position is that the NRA wants no restrictions on veterans?
beevul
(12,194 posts)The minute you say "gun safety", I no longer trust you, like tens of millions of other Americans.
"Gun safety" is safe firearm handling and use, not "gun control" by another name.
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)that trust in gun safety legislation.
Any legislation that makes gun ownership safer for all of us.
beevul
(12,194 posts)Keep telling yourself that, when folks bring up bans and legislation designed to reduce gun ownership, while the rest of us laugh and point.
sarisataka
(18,663 posts)Are exactly the same for vets and the Vets. There is absolutely no difference.
Former police on the other hand do receive exceptions to gun laws.
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)sarisataka
(18,663 posts)Prohibited from owning weapons?
Or alternatively should veterans be assumed to be mentally ill until appropriately treated.
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)sarisataka
(18,663 posts)Of vet suicide. I do volunteer work with at-risk vets whenever I am able. The suicide risk for my personal demographic is off the charts. The VA will contact me once or twice a year just to check in. Although I have never been suicidal I still see a therapist monthly just to keep them happy.
But should I face any legal restrictions on what I choose to do simply because I am a vet?
WestCoastLib
(442 posts)But if your time as a Vet left you with mental health problems?
Yes
PTSD qualifies as a mental illness that leads to a higher risk of using a gun on yourself, or others. If someone sufffers from this illness and has not been able to overcome it to the point that a psychological evaluation can be satisfied with, by all means, they should not own a gun.
jack_krass
(1,009 posts)Any energy spent trying to remove guns from vets with PTSD would be better spent on treatment.
There are ways of committing violence to ones self or others other than guns. This is a point that gun grabbers just don't seem to understand.
WestCoastLib
(442 posts)An when it has been successfully treated (hence the psych eval as I already stated) thy may own guns again
jack_krass
(1,009 posts)net decrease in violence (even gun violence), and such a simplistic solutionl, will prevent.other, better ideas from being discussed and tried Also, I believe the gun controllers are over simplifying a few things.
-no guns does NOT mean no violence, no murder or no suicide
-anybody who truly wants a gun, especially a vet, can get one via illegal or quasi legal means.
kcr
(15,317 posts)That's a funny name for suicide prevention. Because no one is trying to steal anything from anyone. I'm sorry, but it would be beyond cruel, not to mention pretty damn incompetent to focus only on PTSD, but ignore suicides. And it would be beyond stupid to focus on suicides but ignore guns, particularly when it comes to vets.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)assuming we don't change how mental health is handled in this country, he would have been robbed of an opportunity to easily dispatch himself.
Attempted suicides are bad, but better than completed ones for issues of mental health that are treatable.
scscholar
(2,902 posts)from buying one of those things before a few months of treatments, then he would still be alive. He should have proven he didn't have it rather than us having to prove he did before he committed this act of gun violence.
jmg257
(11,996 posts)...
"No guns for the mentally ill until they are treated (the last two cop killers in the headlines were former military with PTSD; once you serve this country, you deserve follow-up mental and physical health checkups every year for the rest of your life). No guns for domestic abusers, violent felons or people on the terrorist watch list, and background checks for everybody."
(Dishonorable discharge, addictive drug user, and adjudicated 'mentally defective' are questions on the federal 4473 form (like convicted domestic abuser), so not sure how he got approved for a CC permit).
Might as well add in people on Strategic Subject Lists like Chicago has for identifying those responsible for gun violence too.
"I've handled guns for 52 years. I support the Second Amendment. I own guns, but I am very, very careful because they are very, very dangerous. I know."
Cool - he still wants to allow competent people to make their own choices.
Angel Martin
(942 posts)on at least, questions b, c, e, f, g and probably h and i as well.
Any one of those questions should have stopped the purchase.
https://www.atf.gov/file/61446/download
Instead of a bunch of new gun laws that are not enforced, how about enforcing those already on the books.
jmg257
(11,996 posts)"
...
o o 4/ Are you an unlawful user of, or addicted to, any controlled substance?
o o 5. Have you ever been adjudicated mentally defective (which includes a determination by a court,
board, commission, or other lawful authority that you are a danger to yourself or to others or are
incompetent to manage your own affairs) OR have you ever been committed to a mental
institution?
o o 6. Have you been discharged from the Armed Forces under dishonorable conditions?
..."
"I certify that all information, including supporting documentation, provided in this application is true and correct, and I understand that I may be convicted of a class D felony pursuant to Iowa Code section 724.17 if I make what I know to be a false statement of material fact on this application or if I submit what I know to be any materially falsified or forged documentation in connection with this application."
http://www.dps.state.ia.us/asd/weapons/WP3.pdf
So besides committing a felony on his Permit form, someone else likely screwed up royally when checking him out or vouching for him.
Initech
(100,080 posts)True Lies is one of my all time favorite flicks. It's very sad that this happened to him. But good that he's speaking out on the subject.
dembotoz
(16,808 posts)yes if they are determined they will find another means
but from what i understand, suicide by guns happens more often that good guy with gun preventing bad guy with gun
jmg257
(11,996 posts)And whether - or how much - lawful citizens should be infringed because other people kill themselves.
Calculating
(2,955 posts)If people wanna kill themselves they'll find a way. Probably better that they shoot themselves rather than jumping off a building or in front of a train. What bothers me is when people leave guns in the car, under the bed, or other dumb areas and then some poor kid finds the gun and bad things happen. If you have kids around LOCK YOUR GUNS UP SOMEWHERE SAFE FFS!
jmg257
(11,996 posts)Marengo
(3,477 posts)Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)other studies contradict the safety and effectiveness of guns.
dembotoz
(16,808 posts)in my life i have never seen the good guy with the gun but i know a number of folks who were gun suicide.
when there is a good guy with a gun the local media makes a big deal of it.
gun suicides nary a mention.
the big push up thing is 22 veterans a day commit suicide....
of the gun suicide i know of non were vets
Marengo
(3,477 posts)sarisataka
(18,663 posts)Iheard and Everyonesays...
Marengo
(3,477 posts)beevul
(12,194 posts)Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)NickB79
(19,253 posts)About the only thing that MIGHT help is a waiting period of several days, and possibly safe storage laws like those used to prosecute parents when children find unsecured firearms (but then you'd be faced with the tricky prospect of prosecuting a family member who just lost a loved one to a suicide).
Something like a new assault weapons ban doesn't do much good when a person can kill themselves with a simple, single-shot shotgun.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Republicans, Trump, and the NRA oppose gun safety reform.
Hillary Clinton and the Democratic Party platform advocate for gun safety reform NOW in light of all that has happened.
This is a Democratic website.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts) News stories (and related content) from reputable mainstream sources about efforts to strengthen or weaken gun control legislation in any jurisdiction in the United States, national news stories (and related content) from reputable mainstream sources about high-profile gun crimes, and viral political content from social media or blogs that would likely be of interest to a large majority of DU members are permitted under normal circumstances.
Local stories about gun crime and "gun porn" threads showing pictures of guns or discussing the merits of various firearms are not permitted under normal circumstances and should be posted in the Gun Control and RKBA Group.
Open discussion of guns is permitted during very high-profile news events which are heavily covered across all newsmedia.
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)There is no election exemption. There are two groups that are designed for gun stories. Why not post this in one or both of these groups?
By the way, what new laws would you propose to prevent this?
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)the gangs all here!"
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)A simple question. Hope you are having a great Friday and hope you post in other groups to generate further discussion.
LittleDuckie
(42 posts)they have the right to prevent someone from committing suicide in the first place?
sarisataka
(18,663 posts)And if we support that people have a right to choose to end their lives does it that matter what method they choose to end it with?
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)or suffering from depression - we have the human imperative to intervene, don't we?
LittleDuckie
(42 posts)whether the suffering is caused by cancer or trauma?
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Survival of the mentally fittest, right?
Enjoy your visit.
Response to LittleDuckie (Reply #31)
Skittles This message was self-deleted by its author.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)"No guns for the mentally ill until they are treated (the last two cop killers in the headlines were former military with PTSD; once you serve this country, you deserve follow-up mental and physical health checkups every year for the rest of your life). No guns for domestic abusers, violent felons or people on the terrorist watch list, and background checks for everybody. No more buying 40 handguns in a day and selling them to your "cousins" in the parking lot."
Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)It would have to include "anyone who wants to purchase a gun."
We'll start there - now prove you're not mentally ill.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)"A well regulated Militia being necessary to the security of a free State..."
In this context, they have a legitimate purpose.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)an interesting google question, wouldn't it?
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)could give you those statistics?
Marengo
(3,477 posts)I can answer.
Refer to the Original Post. That is very similar to my personal opinion.
Which is why I posted it.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)X_Digger
(18,585 posts)All the hemming and hawwing, back and forth, with platitudes and 'common sense' language-- here's the meat, stripped down and saved for posterity.
It would have to include "anyone who wants to purchase a gun."
We'll start there - now prove you're not mentally ill.
You can expect to see that one again.
beevul
(12,194 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Marengo
(3,477 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)one who acts oblivious to gun damage. It's funny you'd even ask.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)beevul
(12,194 posts)Just because we disagree with how anti-gunners define the problem, and therefore disagree with the solution, doesn't mean we don't care.
It means we think you're wrong, but I can see how that would confuse you.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Last edited Fri Aug 19, 2016, 09:02 PM - Edit history (1)
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)Most often some just resort to insults sadly.
beevul
(12,194 posts)They seem to have no problem answering questions that weren't asked, and pretending they were, though.
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)when the answer is so obvious?
beevul
(12,194 posts)You either take part in good faith, or you don't.
Just say no, to 'don't'. 'Don't' makes DU suck.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)beevul
(12,194 posts)You either discuss topics in good faith, or you don't.
You, are using words, yet not engaging in good faith discussion.
That behavior makes DU suck, and theres a word for it that begins with the letter T.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Do you understand how that sounds?
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)There are generally two parties involved in the gun debate. pro-gun, and anti-gun.
Only the anti-gun side sees it as "gun ownership is in conflict with 'any of that'".
The pro-gun side does not see ownership as being in conflict with 'any of that'.
In short, that talking point is a big heaping pile of projection, meant to degrade, insult, shame, marginalize and otherize people who don't judge the issue using the same "x vs x" formula that you do.
And its transparent as fuck, too.
R.A. Ganoush
(97 posts)NT
Skittles
(153,169 posts)neither do gang shootings
LittleDuckie
(42 posts)And I still think people have a right to end their lives without interference.
Skittles
(153,169 posts)ending it (AND THE LIVES OF OTHERS) in the heat of the moment because a fucking gun is available is ENTIRELY ANOTHER
Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)We don't work for you.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Is this what they call "doubling down"?
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Marengo
(3,477 posts)Initech
(100,080 posts)"I wish I could wave a wand and make Congress fearless. Then they wouldn't kowtow to the NRA so easily. "
Tell that to fuckhead in cheif Mitch McConnell who wants to give the fucking NRA a free pass to appoint whoever they want to the Supreme Court. I'd love to see him squirm after being told that.
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Source: New York Magazine, by Jesse Singal
*****
This is a point worth harping on over and over and over: Whatever our thoughts about the issue of gun control, we have a tendency to underrate the connection between easy access to guns and suicide. When we talk about guns, we often focus on homicides particularly mass shootings and, to a lesser extent, gang violence; these tend to be big, spectacularly violent public events that garner a lot of news coverage. But suicides actually account for more than half of all gun deaths they just tend to be private events shrouded in stigma, and therefore gun suicides seem to constitute barely a whisper in the cacophonous national debate over guns.
Experts repeatedly pointed me to the guns-suicide connection when I was working on a December story about the National Rifle Associationspurred ban on federal research into guns, which has seriously stalled social scientists understanding of how to reduce gun deaths in the United States. I think in the area of suicide, what has become clear is that a lot of suicides are very impulsive, Mark Rosenberg, the president and CEO of the Task Force for Global Help and the former head of the CDCs gun-research efforts, told me. The common cultural script of someone carefully, methodically planning their suicide often doesnt apply easy access to firearms can literally be a life-and-death issue, in light of the research showing that there can be as little as five minutes between someone deciding to kill themselves and going through with it.
Or sometimes fewer than five minutes, it seems. Its impossible to know what Spencer was thinking in the moments before he ended his life, but we should keep that awful sequence Spencer being excited about college and clearly planning for his future, and later that evening, in a temporary moment of anguish, having the means to end his life literally within arms reach in mind whenever we talk about the toll of guns in the U.S.
http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2016/08/tom-arnold-wrote-a-sad-important-column-about-gun-control.html
beevul
(12,194 posts)The fact that the usual suspects would rather pick a fight over guns where they know they'll get strong pro-gun opposition, than address the root causes of suicide and dedicate the appropriate resources to it with NO pro-gun opposition, makes what this is about in their minds, perfectly crystal clear:
Its about the guns.
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Our Democratic nominee's position?
As President, Clinton will:
1. Fight for comprehensive background checks: She will advocate for comprehensive federal background check legislation.
She will close the Charleston loophole, which allows any gun sale to proceed if a background check is not completed within three days.
2. Hold dealers and manufacturers fully accountable if they endanger Americans:
She will repeal the gun industrys unique immunity protection due to lobbying by the NRA.
She will revoke the licenses of bad dealers, such as those that knowingly supply guns to straw purchasers and traffickers:
3. Keep guns out of the hands of potential terrorists, domestic abusers, other violent criminals and the severely mentally ill. Clinton has said If you are too dangerous to fly, you are too dangerous to buy a gun, period. She will insist on comprehensive background checks prevent suspected terrorists from buying guns.
She will support legislation to prohibit all domestic abusers and individuals suffering from severe mental illnesses from buying and possessing guns.
She will make straw purchasing a federal crime.
Much more at: https://www.hillaryclinton.com/briefing/factchecks/2016/04/14/hillary-clinton-will-fight-for-common-sense-solutions-to-reduce-gun-violence/
beevul
(12,194 posts)Not to mention, I was posting here for ten years before you decided to come along and cast aspersions.
What I said is either true, or untrue, and since you didn't even address it and instead decided to try to cast aspersions on a DUer whos been a member for roughly 12 years to your 2, I can only conclude that you know its true.
Maybe you can point me to the part of the TOS that mandates that I must agree with the nominee on every point on every topic.
I'm sure you wont have any trouble finding it.
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)I am sure that poster will say the same to the many here that are against the democratic platform by banning firearms ownership by civilians.
https://www.demconvention.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Democratic-Party-Platform-7.21.16-no-lines.pdf
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)I have never been a particular fan of Tom Arnold as an entertainer but (as the title states) Tom Arnold 's essay is a powerful argument regarding gun control and suicide and returning veterans
I realize that there are those that believe suicide is a choice and that returning veterans have a 41% higher suicide rate than the general population (http://www.publichealth.va.gov/epidemiology/studies/suicide-risk-death-risk-recent-veterans.asp) ... have a choice and it is not our concern. Viewing this as a choice is an appalling idea to me, but it is an opinion.
Cut it however you want: In places where exposure to guns is higher, more people die of suicide.
Deborah Azrael, associate director of the Harvard Youth Violence Prevention Center
https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/magazine/magazine_article/guns-suicide/
A study by the Harvard School of Public Health of all 50 U.S. states reveals a powerful link between rates of firearm ownership and suicides. Based on a survey of American households conducted in 2002, HSPH Assistant Professor of Health Policy and Management Matthew Miller, Research Associate Deborah Azrael, and colleagues at the Schools Injury Control Research Center (ICRC), found that in states where guns were prevalentas in Wyoming, where 63 percent of households reported owning gunsrates of suicide were higher. The inverse was also true: where gun ownership was less common, suicide rates were also lower.
The lesson? Many lives would likely be saved if people disposed of their firearms, kept them locked away, or stored them outside the home. Says HSPH Professor of Health Policy David Hemenway, the ICRCs director: Studies show that most attempters act on impulse, in moments of panic or despair. Once the acute feelings ease, 90 percent do not go on to die by suicide.
https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/magazine/guns-and-suicide/
I am sorry that your thread was hijacked by the sophistry (for those that need/demand definitions enter "sophistry" into a search engine and voila, you will have a definition) of those that solely post at DU to espouse their love of weaponry regardless of the cost to society and individuals.
Its not worth engaging with those that approach this from a point akin to religious fervor . thank you for posting this.