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Eugene

(61,894 posts)
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 05:40 PM Oct 2016

Women protest after man says they should not wear yoga pants in public

Source: Associated Press

Women protest after man says they should not wear yoga pants in public

Associated Press in Barrington, Rhode Island
Sunday 23 October 2016 18.57 BST

A Rhode Island man who wrote to a newspaper complaining about women wearing yoga pants said on Saturday his letter was meant to be humorous and he did not have an issue with yoga pants – and even owned a pair.

Alan Sorrentino’s explanation came too late, however, to stop a march through his neighborhood on Sunday afternoon, by women dressed in yoga pants and protesting misogyny and men dictating how women should dress.

Alan Sorrentino told WPRO-AM he had hoped the letter, which was published on 19 October in the Barrington Times, would be enjoyed as a break from the heated rhetoric of the US presidential election.

In the letter, he wrote: “The absolute worst thing to ever happen in women [sic] fashion is the recent development of yoga pants as daily wear outside the yoga studio.

“Not since the mini-skirt has there been something worn by so many women who should never have it on in the first place.

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Read more: https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/oct/23/yoga-pants-women-protest-fashion-rhode-island-letter
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Women protest after man says they should not wear yoga pants in public (Original Post) Eugene Oct 2016 OP
Not the worse thing, but not that great either. I'm a women and yeah, I own some too. Foggyhill Oct 2016 #1
I'm a woman and I don't own any Warpy Oct 2016 #9
What an ass gollygee Oct 2016 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author gollygee Oct 2016 #30
There is an ugly stereotype that women are touchy and fashion obsessed AngryAmish Oct 2016 #3
His letter sure doesn't read as if it were written in a humorous vein -- I'd expect some Nay Oct 2016 #5
The guy is a Genius ... NashuaDW Oct 2016 #7
Post removed Post removed Oct 2016 #8
You mean like some Christian sects? Warpy Oct 2016 #10
I dont like what those religions do either davidn3600 Oct 2016 #12
Nah, in the orthodox sects they just shunned. dhol82 Oct 2016 #28
No, it isn't. And since we don't live in Iran La Lioness Priyanka Oct 2016 #18
You sir, are worse than Hitler Bok_Tukalo Oct 2016 #11
That's more stretch awoke_in_2003 Oct 2016 #44
What ARE yoga pants, and how do they differ from leggings? TygrBright Oct 2016 #13
A LOT of these types of clothing are practical duffyduff Oct 2016 #17
I love both yoga pants and leggings malaise Oct 2016 #19
If you read the misogynist's original letter, athena Oct 2016 #43
Actually, I agree that he is a misogynist, but I read in the Boston papers that he is a gay smirkymonkey Oct 2016 #45
Interesting. athena Oct 2016 #47
I bet he wrote that letter in his underwear. Rex Oct 2016 #14
Ha! nt JanMichael Oct 2016 #31
I love yoga pants ! stonecutter357 Oct 2016 #15
What's all this fuss about yogurt pants? pinboy3niner Oct 2016 #16
We used to wear sweatpants HockeyMom Oct 2016 #20
Well, for myself, he's right - but he's still an idiot. KentuckyWoman Oct 2016 #21
When men walk around with beer bellies that are not left to the imagination milestogo Oct 2016 #22
Alan Sorrentino shrugs as the Curb Your Enthusiasm theme plays Oneironaut Oct 2016 #23
This and the fucking cargo shorts. Fashion cops and busybodies can go eff 'emselves. Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #24
Leisure Suit Man says what? pinboy3niner Oct 2016 #25
I was a child in the early-mid 70s, lucky me. Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #27
Wholly (see) shit that's funny! Gettin real in the parking lot....nt JanMichael Oct 2016 #32
I'm actually familiar with that whole foods in question. Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #37
I often see people out in public dressed in a way PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2016 #26
One of the best movies EVER! JanMichael Oct 2016 #34
To Alan: No one cares about your boner. sarae Oct 2016 #29
Well Hell. I also wear leggings as pants if I want to ismnotwasm Oct 2016 #33
What's all this fuss about Yoda pants? pinboy3niner Oct 2016 #35
This is ridiculous melman Oct 2016 #38
My understanding from the Boston media is that this was not so much a protest against him smirkymonkey Oct 2016 #40
I hate when morons back track by saying that something they wrote was actually "humorous" Javaman Oct 2016 #39
Where are these protesters? jcgoldie Oct 2016 #41
That letter is so misogynistic. athena Oct 2016 #42
people who think they have the right to tell other people what to do can go fuck themselves. Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #46
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Foggyhill

(1,060 posts)
1. Not the worse thing, but not that great either. I'm a women and yeah, I own some too.
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 05:44 PM
Oct 2016

The reaction seems a bit strong for that kind of opinion piece.

Warpy

(111,256 posts)
9. I'm a woman and I don't own any
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 06:12 PM
Oct 2016

yoga pans or Jeggings or anything of the sort. I just don't make the rules for anybody else and I can't say that I give a damn about what even the lumpiest woman of my own vintage feels comfortable in. FWIW, I'm tastelessly dressed in LL Bean jeans, a black t shirt with nothing printed on it, and a black cardigan.

This guy seems to be pulling a Limbaugh, "I'm just an entertainer" once the shit hit the fan.

One reply pointed out that he didn't choose the best time to criticize women's appearance. He's going to have to live this one down for some time.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
2. What an ass
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 05:45 PM
Oct 2016

I'm always asking random men what they think of the clothing I wear, because I care so very much. /sarcasm

Response to gollygee (Reply #2)

Nay

(12,051 posts)
5. His letter sure doesn't read as if it were written in a humorous vein -- I'd expect some
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 05:50 PM
Oct 2016

gross exaggerations, etc., to indicate it was all in good fun.

NashuaDW

(90 posts)
7. The guy is a Genius ...
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 06:00 PM
Oct 2016

Two sayings come to mind:

Only one percent of women wearing yoga pants go to yoga and 99% of men don't care
and
Yoga pants - because sometimes imagination isn't enough

Response to Eugene (Original post)

Warpy

(111,256 posts)
10. You mean like some Christian sects?
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 06:15 PM
Oct 2016

You should have heard the nuns talking dress codes when I survived Catholic school.

And don't get me started on the Mormons.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
12. I dont like what those religions do either
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 06:25 PM
Oct 2016

But Christians and Mormons are not putting women in jail, or worse, for not wearing those religious clothes.

For the record, I'm agnostic. I don't have a horse in the race. But I see pretty clearly which religion is worse on this issue. If you choose to ignore it, then you are letting cultural relativism override feminism. That's your choice, of course.

dhol82

(9,353 posts)
28. Nah, in the orthodox sects they just shunned.
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 08:15 PM
Oct 2016

Do you think that is benign?

Just as an FYI - all religions have a weird thing about women.

TygrBright

(20,759 posts)
13. What ARE yoga pants, and how do they differ from leggings?
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 06:37 PM
Oct 2016

Or other lower-half garments?

I have some loose cotton drawstring trousis, I wear them mostly for comfort around the house but they're perfectly respectable for running to the store or the post office.

I have some cotton leggings I wear sometimes, too.

And regular jeans, both narrow at the ankles and looser at the ankles.

And cotton twill and wool straight-leg trousis.

And some wide-leg rayon/cotton trousis.

Most of them have a little spandex in the mix- hard to find trousis without that these days. I've worn pretty much all of them except (I think?) the wool dress trousis when I do my yoga and/or my joint mobility exercises.

So which ones are the "yoga pants" and why shouldn't I wear them?

confusedly,
Bright

 

duffyduff

(3,251 posts)
17. A LOT of these types of clothing are practical
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 07:12 PM
Oct 2016

if you are a runner or you bicycle. Practicality is a lot more important there than how one looks to others, especially men.

malaise

(268,997 posts)
19. I love both yoga pants and leggings
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 07:19 PM
Oct 2016

Clearly I wouldn't wear them to a meeting, but no one can stop me wearing them.

athena

(4,187 posts)
43. If you read the misogynist's original letter,
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 09:54 AM
Oct 2016

you will see that it's not just yoga pants he has a problem with. In fact, he doesn't have a problem with yoga pants as long as they're worn by a young woman under the age of 20. He thinks all women over 20 should avoid yoga pants and short skirts.

http://eastbayri.com/stories/letter-please-women-put-away-the-yoga-pants,27761?

He actually tells women exactly what to wear to look pleasing to him:

A nice pair of tailored slacks, jeans, or anything else would be better than those stinky, tacky, ridiculous looking yoga pants. They do nothing to compliment a women over 20 years old. In fact, the look is bad. Do yourself a favor, grow up and stop wearing them in public.


In other words, when he sees a pair of shapely legs, he doesn't want to have to look up and find that they belong to a 40-year-old. Clearly, he wants those of us over 20 to make ourselves invisible so that he can freely enjoy the view of the young legs of teenagers.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
45. Actually, I agree that he is a misogynist, but I read in the Boston papers that he is a gay
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 06:37 PM
Oct 2016

man, so I don't think it's as much of a sexual thing for him. He's still disgusting.

I wonder if a woman had written a letter to the editor complaining about certain things that men wear who are over the age of 20 and not built like Ryan Lochte if the paper would have dared printed it. It's not just the writer that was misogynistic, but the editorial board that thought that this kind of crap deserve to be published.

athena

(4,187 posts)
47. Interesting.
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 08:43 PM
Oct 2016

You make excellent points. I must say I'm stunned that he is a gay man. I guess sexism is not the sole domain of heterosexual men and women.

It is also very true that most heterosexual men over 20 or 30 don't make much effort at all to look pleasing to heterosexual women; but that never seems to be a topic anyone considers worth discussing.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
20. We used to wear sweatpants
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 07:21 PM
Oct 2016

Morons complained about those. It's too hot in Florida for sweats anything.

I have NO bootie at 98 lbs. Sexy? Not unless one thinks a 10 year old is. Even though, I always make sure to wear long tops with both yoga pants and leggings. All three pants are very, very comfortable. More so than jeans.

KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
21. Well, for myself, he's right - but he's still an idiot.
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 07:25 PM
Oct 2016

Who in the blue ass hell does he think he is dictating what anyone else wears in public?

Personally I would not be caught dead in yoga pants anywhere on the planet. I'm not even sure they come in my size.... and if they do, I can't imagine those ladies look any better in them than I do.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
22. When men walk around with beer bellies that are not left to the imagination
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 07:25 PM
Oct 2016

do women write letters to the editor complaining about it?

And if they did would those letters even be published?

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
25. Leisure Suit Man says what?
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 08:08 PM
Oct 2016


Once upon a time in the '70s I actually had two "leisure suits." And I actually wore them on Capitol Hill while doing an internship with a Dem Rep.

I'm not even sure what yoga pants are, but they surely can't be worse than some of the guy stuff I've worn in my day.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
27. I was a child in the early-mid 70s, lucky me.
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 08:15 PM
Oct 2016

So you can only imagine the sorts of ugly, corduroy nightmares I got dressed in. Don't even get me started on the haircuts.

Go to Whole Foods, you'll see more yoga pants than you can shake a 4 dollar celery stick at.





for the record, I'm pro-yoga pant

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,856 posts)
26. I often see people out in public dressed in a way
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 08:12 PM
Oct 2016

that makes me go, "WTF?"

Beyond that, I'm not going to offer my opinion about what should and should be worn in public.

However, a word to the wise:

ismnotwasm

(41,980 posts)
33. Well Hell. I also wear leggings as pants if I want to
Sun Oct 23, 2016, 09:02 PM
Oct 2016

Got yoga pants on right now. Anything that allows freedom of movement, protection of skin and comfort is a good thing.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
38. This is ridiculous
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 01:22 AM
Oct 2016

Protesting a letter - it's not even an op-ed, just a friggin' letter. And they protest at his house? Unbelievable.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
40. My understanding from the Boston media is that this was not so much a protest against him
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 09:35 AM
Oct 2016

in particular, but against the misogyny and the fact that women are tired of men telling them how to dress in public. His letter was just a catalyst.

Javaman

(62,530 posts)
39. I hate when morons back track by saying that something they wrote was actually "humorous"
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 08:18 AM
Oct 2016

when it was nothing of the sort.

jcgoldie

(11,631 posts)
41. Where are these protesters?
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 09:43 AM
Oct 2016

Come to think of it, it offends me when women go naked in public. Let me know if anyone needs my address to teach me a lesson.

athena

(4,187 posts)
42. That letter is so misogynistic.
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 09:45 AM
Oct 2016

Please read it if you haven't done so already.

http://eastbayri.com/stories/letter-please-women-put-away-the-yoga-pants,27761?

So many misogynistic and ageist tidbits in there. The whole underlying philosophy is that women are here mainly to please men, not to live their lives. That's why this person thinks he has the right to tell an entire population of women how they should dress.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
46. people who think they have the right to tell other people what to do can go fuck themselves.
Mon Oct 24, 2016, 06:49 PM
Oct 2016

Seriously.

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