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If you want to confess (Original Post) mercuryblues Feb 2017 OP
I gave to three people shenmue Feb 2017 #1
Thank you mercuryblues Feb 2017 #3
That's a good point. In previous years I have let them know by PM because: UTUSN Feb 2017 #2
Thank you mercuryblues Feb 2017 #4
I usually search for individuals who have yet to have a heart question everything Feb 2017 #5
Giving out hearts is fun! Never considered telling the recipient though. I will confess that I gave seaglass Feb 2017 #6
A solution to telling them without the appearance of "fishing" UTUSN Feb 2017 #7

UTUSN

(70,691 posts)
2. That's a good point. In previous years I have let them know by PM because:
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 09:55 PM
Feb 2017

(because: ) this represents something very sincere, a thinking back over the past year's kindness from those DUers.
And the anonymity doesn't fulfill the connection, the appreciation, the gratitude.

The problem is that contacting them makes it look like fishing for reciprocity, which it absolutely isn't. I'm in the process of spreading my love, but just a hint, somebody in this thread is one of the sweet ones.

question everything

(47,479 posts)
5. I usually search for individuals who have yet to have a heart
Fri Feb 10, 2017, 12:36 PM
Feb 2017

perhaps low post counts, perhaps not even a star.

Thus I often go away from the big forums - there are so many listed on the side - to find someone.


seaglass

(8,171 posts)
6. Giving out hearts is fun! Never considered telling the recipient though. I will confess that I gave
Fri Feb 10, 2017, 12:58 PM
Feb 2017

a heart each to 2 people who are flagged because I miss their voices. And I see I am not the only one

And my thanks to those who gave me hearts.

UTUSN

(70,691 posts)
7. A solution to telling them without the appearance of "fishing"
Fri Feb 10, 2017, 07:24 PM
Feb 2017

is to wait until after the holiday closes down to tell them. Then they can't do a thing about it except be their sweet selves for another year.

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