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NBachers

(17,108 posts)
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 04:12 PM Mar 2017

I just walked past our local Planned Parenthood. There was the usual desultory group outside,

with *whatever* gripe against Planned Parenthood.

Oh a whim, I took a $20 bill out of my wallet and waved it at them. "Hey, I'm going in and making a contribution," I told 'em.

I walked in and told the woman behind the window that I was making a contribution. "I love what you do, I admire you, and I want you to stay here." Her response was a big smile and, "Awww, thank you!"

As I walked out, I noticed the couple who had been walking behind me was coming in the door, and opening their wallet.

I let the people outside know I'd given Planned Parenthood the money.

And off into the rest of my day . . .

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I just walked past our local Planned Parenthood. There was the usual desultory group outside, (Original Post) NBachers Mar 2017 OP
Interesting, if a people regularly, publicly, repeatedly did this ... PsychoBabble Mar 2017 #1
That's a great idea. I only had a one & a twenty in my wallet, and the one just wouldn't have cut it NBachers Mar 2017 #2
That's what I was thinking... kag Mar 2017 #51
I will give a link to this thread to one of my friends DFW Mar 2017 #3
Well, that puts me in outstanding company, doesn't it? NBachers Mar 2017 #9
It certainly put ME in outstanding company. What an evening THAT was! DFW Mar 2017 #12
tell her to run for something, will ya. mopinko Mar 2017 #24
She could follow in her mom's footsteps DFW Mar 2017 #40
i'm sure she feels like her job is the most important thing mopinko Mar 2017 #48
You sure know some good peeps! lastlib Mar 2017 #17
Those three are extra special DFW Mar 2017 #19
(I THOUGHT that was Ms. van den Heuvel!) lastlib Mar 2017 #20
That makes two of us! DFW Mar 2017 #36
Great photo!!! eom BlueMTexpat Mar 2017 #47
Good for you Moral Compass Mar 2017 #4
" As far as I'm concerned those who are against Planned Parenthood... 3catwoman3 Mar 2017 #6
Because it's really not about abortion. Dulcinea Mar 2017 #10
exactly! I wish people were aware of the history of these pro-life groups flygal Mar 2017 #11
Pro-life is a myth. keithbvadu2 Mar 2017 #33
Very much so DFW Mar 2017 #37
Vegetarian is pro-life? Think again. oldcynic Mar 2017 #52
Bravo! smirkymonkey Mar 2017 #5
K & R ...... nt Wounded Bear Mar 2017 #7
We do not have a shortage of babies. SCVDem Mar 2017 #8
I think you hit on the perfect counter protest. mercuryblues Mar 2017 #13
Thank you for walking the walk. Boomerproud Mar 2017 #14
Thanks - it made a good day even better! NBachers Mar 2017 #15
K&R ismnotwasm Mar 2017 #16
Brilliant k & R bronxiteforever Mar 2017 #18
Why is Mr.Bill Mar 2017 #21
Thank you NBachers. sheshe2 Mar 2017 #22
Nice to hear from you, sheshe2! NBachers Mar 2017 #28
I Love You!! ailsagirl Mar 2017 #23
pssst- mopinko Mar 2017 #25
Yes, more donations would certainly help. NBachers Mar 2017 #27
K&R. dchill Mar 2017 #26
I always thank them for being there & making it easy for to young people to find PP. displacedtexan Mar 2017 #29
They need one of those inflatable columns with the air blowing through & the arms waving all over. NBachers Mar 2017 #31
Awww.. Mahalo, NBachers! Cha Mar 2017 #30
Thank you Cha! NBachers Mar 2017 #32
I went in the other day and donated. My mother and I Doreen Mar 2017 #34
K & R SunSeeker Mar 2017 #35
I'll do it. Hulk Mar 2017 #38
You're doing what you can, man. Sometimes, the time when life should let up on you, is the time it NBachers Mar 2017 #39
K&R! Kudos to you! Rhiannon12866 Mar 2017 #41
... and the only reason I'm singing you this song now ... mr_lebowski Mar 2017 #42
That is such a sweet story. Kath2 Mar 2017 #43
K&R. Outstanding job! VOX Mar 2017 #44
Waving it their faces was an especially great idea! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2017 #45
This was indeed the best way BlueMTexpat Mar 2017 #46
Nice! colsohlibgal Mar 2017 #49
Good for you! My hero of the day! KPN Mar 2017 #50

PsychoBabble

(837 posts)
1. Interesting, if a people regularly, publicly, repeatedly did this ...
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 04:20 PM
Mar 2017

As in telling them, "every week that I walk by and see you out here, I am going to go inside and make a donation."

Do this every week

Do this with many people.

Not necessarily large amounts, to tax one's ability to pay. But to consistently make THEM pay for their cruelty -- repeatedly.

You continue to stand here = We continue to repeatedly donate, in your face.

kag

(4,079 posts)
51. That's what I was thinking...
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:09 PM
Mar 2017

Whenever I see someone protesting a PP, I should thank them for reminding me that it's time for me to make a donation, and then go in and do just that.

DFW

(54,370 posts)
3. I will give a link to this thread to one of my friends
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 05:03 PM
Mar 2017

The lady in red, to be precise!
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DFW

(54,370 posts)
12. It certainly put ME in outstanding company. What an evening THAT was!
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 05:53 PM
Mar 2017

It was a virtual who's who of "if there were someone living I could hang with for an evening." It was where I first asked Rev. William Barber if he would speak at the Democratic Convention in Philadelphia, and he said he'd be honored (and he did!). First time I saw Senator Warren in person, Rep. Grijalva, Kucinich, EJ Dionne--except for the people I already knew, it made me feel VERY small. Katrina, who has been a good friend for many years, introduced me to Cecile that evening. She is a treasure.

I did send the link to the thread on to Cecile. She gets a TON of email, as you might imagine, so even though I sent it to her personal account, she may not replay for days or even weeks, but she'll see it. If she replies and says it's OK to post, I will.

DFW

(54,370 posts)
40. She could follow in her mom's footsteps
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 03:30 AM
Mar 2017

But I think she loves her work at PP too much. Remember how she destroyed Jason Chaffetz when he tried to use some Breitbart/Fox lie as "evidence" against her on some congressional hearing? She blew him away on national television when one of her assistants reminded her that what Chaffetz was claiming was a lie, and she called him on it right away, and while the cameras were rolling.

Maybe if the national mood were to swing a little farther to the left, she might consider it. Texas is a tough nut to crack.

mopinko

(70,090 posts)
48. i'm sure she feels like her job is the most important thing
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 10:56 AM
Mar 2017

now. fersher. but you know what i think? i think she is the kind of boss who grows great talent and there are equally awesome women behind her who can do the job, too.

but yeah, tx...
maybe run for congress from a nice blue district?

i bet a lot of folks down there ended up sorry they voted her mother out.

DFW

(54,370 posts)
19. Those three are extra special
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 08:33 PM
Mar 2017

Cecile, you know, of course. Katrina in not only editor of The Nation, but a wit, and one HELL of a great person to spend an afternoon with. Brilliant, too, as you probably gathered from her TV appearances. Jerry Nadler is, of course, one of our heroes in the House. ALso one hell of a great guy to hang with. He is another deep-thinking intellectual who never runs out of subjects he is knowledgeable about. A real gem to have on our side in the House.

Moral Compass

(1,520 posts)
4. Good for you
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 05:05 PM
Mar 2017

I make a monthly contribution, but I like what you did and how you did. Planned Parenthood is why I wasn't a father at 16 and my high school sweetheart a mom at 15.

As far as I'm concerned those who are against Planned Parenthood and are against their mission are pro-abortion.

3catwoman3

(23,975 posts)
6. " As far as I'm concerned those who are against Planned Parenthood...
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 05:20 PM
Mar 2017

...and are against their mission are pro-abortion."

Exactly! The planned part of Planned Parenthood is the whole point. So very much better than unplanned parenthood. Especially if you are a teenager.

Fewer unplanned pregnancies should mean fewer abortions. Why is that so hard for them to undertand?

Dulcinea

(6,629 posts)
10. Because it's really not about abortion.
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 05:45 PM
Mar 2017

It's about control over women and their bodies. Period. Always has been, always will be.

flygal

(3,231 posts)
11. exactly! I wish people were aware of the history of these pro-life groups
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 05:53 PM
Mar 2017

They are just doing the biding of the right wing to win elections.

keithbvadu2

(36,788 posts)
33. Pro-life is a myth.
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 12:34 AM
Mar 2017

Pro-life is a myth.

The supposed pro-lifers cared not when the state of Texas (republican gov) deliberately killed living baby Sun Hudson against the mother's wishes because he was an inconvenience to the state.

It is not a matter of life to the supposed pro-lifers.

It is a matter of control.

DFW

(54,370 posts)
37. Very much so
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:13 AM
Mar 2017

Unless someone is a vegetarian and are against the death penalty as much as they are against abortion, the title "pro-life" is a perverse (and false) label of political convenience.

oldcynic

(385 posts)
52. Vegetarian is pro-life? Think again.
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:24 PM
Mar 2017

plants recognize their kin, communicate, protect, defend and die for one another. There is an unrecognized law: If we do it, they do it. If they do it, we do it. Apologize to your lettuce before you cannibalize it.

NBachers

(17,108 posts)
27. Yes, more donations would certainly help.
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 10:57 PM
Mar 2017

I've set it up so that all my Amazon purchases contribute to that Southeast Kentucky Planned Parenthood that was being disparaged by that nazi racist hillbilly, whoever he was.

displacedtexan

(15,696 posts)
29. I always thank them for being there & making it easy for to young people to find PP.
Sat Mar 18, 2017, 11:08 PM
Mar 2017

They're like free advertising for people who pass by.

I tell them that their signs are like those inflatables at used car lots. And I say it with a great big smile!

They look mad, and then they look confused.

I enjoy messing their little heads up.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
34. I went in the other day and donated. My mother and I
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 12:51 AM
Mar 2017

made sure we walked through their stupid little lineup. I will go donate next month also. Here is a really stupid thing on their side, they were protesting on Tuesday and Thursday also....the damn place is shut on those days...as in nobody home...no clients...no nothing.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
38. I'll do it.
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:43 AM
Mar 2017

It's about all I can afford...but g'damn it, I'll do it.

Never thought I'd see the day when I had to scrimp like I do. Retired teacher, Vietnam Vet...did all the right things..and I'm still living in poverty. When I get all these emails to contribute $25, $5, $3, etc...I just can't do it. I'm already eating food that should be tossed and have zero social life outside the home. Driving for Uber and Lyft to try to make my life less than poverty..but it sucks being too old to get work, and really not wanting to work any longer either.

But I'll damn sure swing by and drop off my $20.

NBachers

(17,108 posts)
39. You're doing what you can, man. Sometimes, the time when life should let up on you, is the time it
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:49 AM
Mar 2017

doubles down. Keep moving at the pace you can move, and I hope there's a bright present and future out there somewhere for you.

Rhiannon12866

(205,307 posts)
41. K&R! Kudos to you!
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 04:03 AM
Mar 2017

I've seen the same thing, old men with religious paraphernalia blocking the sidewalk when I've been in that part of town. And it angers me, too. I'd also support a DU donation week or two for Planned Parenthood - like we did before.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
42. ... and the only reason I'm singing you this song now ...
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 04:16 AM
Mar 2017

is cause you may know somebody in a similar situation, or you may be in a similar situation, and if your in a situation like that there's only one thing you can do ...

and that's walk into the shrink, wherever you are, just walk in say:

"Shrink?!? You can get anything you want ... at Alice's Restaurant".

And walk out.

You know, if one person, just one person does it they may think he's really sick and they won't take him.

And if two people, two people do it, in harmony?

They may think they're both f***ots and they won't take either of them.

And three people do it, three, can you imagine, three people walkin' in, singin' a bar of Alice's Restaurant and walking out?

They may think it's an organization.

And can you, can you imagine fifty people a day ... I said FIFTY people a day (!) ... walkin' in, singin' a bar of Alice's Restaurant and walking out?

And friends?!? They may think it's a MOVEMENT!

And that's what it is, the Alice's Restaurant Anti-Massacree Movement

And all you got to do to join is sing it the next time it come's around on the guitar ...

With FEELING ...

So we'll wait for it to come around on the guitar, here and sing it when it does.

Here it comes ...

(for those perhaps too young to get the reference ... we all need to do this very thing )

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
45. Waving it their faces was an especially great idea!
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 08:51 AM
Mar 2017

Loved how you inspired someone else, too. The first to go out on the dance floor idea.

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