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pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
Tue Apr 11, 2017, 02:45 PM Apr 2017

Why white people can't face up to racism

Robin DiAngelo is the author of the book, What Does It Mean to Be White? Developing White Racial Literacy.

http://crosscut.com/2017/04/white-fragility-robin-diangelo-race/

Robin DiAngelo grew up poor and white. But it was years before she realized that despite living in poverty, she still had privilege because she was white.

“I had a very deep sense of shame and otherness growing up… But I had never looked at how, where in my life did I have an advantage? And where might I have been actually benefiting from the oppression of somebody else?” she says.

DiAngelo has been working on race and social justice issues for more than 20 years as a lecturer, consultant and trainer. She’s the author of the book, What Does It Mean to Be White? Developing White Racial Literacy.

She came to understand her advantage and privilege when she took a job as a diversity trainer. It was eye opening as she worked with mainly white clients who were uncomfortable with having to deal with the issue of race. It was through that work that she developed the concept of “white fragility” to explain why white people have such difficulty in talking about racism.

DiAngelo and I talked about her work and why it is important for white people to have a serious conversation about race in America today.

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Why white people can't face up to racism (Original Post) pnwmom Apr 2017 OP
I really thought racism was over in the mid 60's angstlessk Apr 2017 #1

angstlessk

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1. I really thought racism was over in the mid 60's
Tue Apr 11, 2017, 03:09 PM
Apr 2017

when I went to have my taxes done and there was a good looking white woman with a good looking black guy waiting together to have their taxes done.

I felt good...

Being white, I didn't have to think about it again for many years.

Then I dated (then married) a black man. I was in for a surprise!

We used to meet at a bar after work, and a white guy came to the table and offered me some or dueves. and my boyfriend said "Don't eat that, you don't know what he did to it"...I realized then that racists still existed!

We went to a bookstore, as I was looking for a book by Dorothy Parker, and saw the owner following my boyfriend around the store...He was just walking around, while I was picking up books...I could have stolen him out of business as he feared the black guy was the problem...

Needless to say I did NOT purchase my book at THAT store!

That and many other instances told me racism was still a large part of the USA, sorry to say, but glad I became aware.

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