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Otto's dad on tv (Original Post) FM123 Jun 2017 OP
oh I can't watch....too sad :( luvMIdog Jun 2017 #1
People need to stop sharp_stick Jun 2017 #2
will the kid recover? And why did his crazy church want him to steal a flag? Demsrule86 Jun 2017 #3
If he's been in a coma as long as they say sharp_stick Jun 2017 #5
Veiled comments MichMary Jun 2017 #6
Especially when he looked up to the heavens when he said "Otto we love you" FM123 Jun 2017 #12
The crawler said there is neurological damage. Also, Ilsa Jun 2017 #8
That is horrible. Demsrule86 Jun 2017 #21
After thinking about it for awhile, I doubt much negotiating went on. Ilsa Jun 2017 #26
I am very sad for his parents and him. Demsrule86 Jun 2017 #35
Absolutely heartbreaking. So unnecessary. Ilsa Jun 2017 #36
He may have been tortured ...water boarded...which caused a lack of oxygen to give up Demsrule86 Jun 2017 #37
The dad just said that! FM123 Jun 2017 #4
If you look on the web at all the sharp_stick Jun 2017 #9
If you smile, nod, bow and do what's expected, no problem jberryhill Jun 2017 #27
Unless you're Dennis Rodman deliving a copy of Donald Trump's book to Dear Leader. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2017 #13
Bill Richardson of NM. He was quite active for awhile. irisblue Jun 2017 #41
Pretty much a Trump love fest. MichMary Jun 2017 #7
Actually, I think he's held it back quite a bit. Ilsa Jun 2017 #10
Near the end he mentioned the phone call MichMary Jun 2017 #14
Yeah, and I can understand that. He was asked, but didn't praise trump, or get political. Ilsa Jun 2017 #17
Early on there was a question re: Obama admin attempts to get him released hlthe2b Jun 2017 #11
"The results speak for themselves" nt B2G Jun 2017 #15
In Latin, "post hoc ergo prompter hoc..." nt part II LanternWaste Jun 2017 #18
"Strategic patience" MichMary Jun 2017 #16
By the same toekn, wtf was the kid doing there? Adrahil Jun 2017 #31
Kids do stupid things MichMary Jun 2017 #32
Yes, of course.... Adrahil Jun 2017 #33
Not sure . . . MichMary Jun 2017 #34
Without saying it, I think he believes the previous State Dept Ilsa Jun 2017 #19
Well, and to be blunt... renegade000 Jun 2017 #39
I am very upset over this get the red out Jun 2017 #20
Keep in mind that there is a lot we don't know about in terms of how hard Ilsa Jun 2017 #28
True on that part get the red out Jun 2017 #29
I am having a hard time giving a shit about people .. nini Jun 2017 #22
agreed gopiscrap Jun 2017 #23
Exactly.... HipChick Jun 2017 #25
(1) Don't go to North Korea. (2) When you're in North Korea, don't piss them off dalton99a Jun 2017 #38
going there is one thing.. nini Jun 2017 #40
Sounds like the family is full of fucking republicans gopiscrap Jun 2017 #24
Who knows what that poor kid went through. leftyladyfrommo Jun 2017 #30

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
2. People need to stop
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:08 AM
Jun 2017

travelling to North Korea. It's not a tourist or adventure destination it's a dangerous shithole where the government will not hesitate to use anyone as leverage.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
5. If he's been in a coma as long as they say
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:16 AM
Jun 2017

I wouldn't put money on him ever coming out of it. As for the flag, my best guess is that he did it on a lark, forgetting exactly where he was.

Did he go with a church group? That's not just dangerous, it's incredibly stupid. I'm surprised the US doesn't ban travel to NK. American citizens are simply pawns over there.

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
6. Veiled comments
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:18 AM
Jun 2017

"We want to be part of our son's life."

Maybe I'm reading too much into it, but that sure sounds like they don't expect him to improve a lot.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
8. The crawler said there is neurological damage. Also,
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:20 AM
Jun 2017

the family was told he's been in a coma for a long time, but no one had notified them.

Thank goodness Ambassador Yun got the ball rolling on this.Yun has been in the State Dept for at least a few years, but for some reason, nothing appears to have been achieved in getting him home during the prior administration.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
26. After thinking about it for awhile, I doubt much negotiating went on.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 11:33 AM
Jun 2017

1. You're right: they probably didn't want to take care of him any more;
2. No telling what little bribe or ransom tillerson threw at them to release him.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
36. Absolutely heartbreaking. So unnecessary.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 07:07 PM
Jun 2017

My guess is he got hurt or sick at his labor camp and they didn't do anything significant to help him.

I really hate that regime.

Demsrule86

(68,703 posts)
37. He may have been tortured ...water boarded...which caused a lack of oxygen to give up
Fri Jun 16, 2017, 10:40 AM
Jun 2017

other missionaries working in North Korea.

FM123

(10,054 posts)
4. The dad just said that!
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:15 AM
Jun 2017

He said they lure tourists to visit them thinking it will be an exciting adventure.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
9. If you look on the web at all the
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:20 AM
Jun 2017

"inside North Korea" blogs and stories they make it look like an interesting glance at a completely cut off part of the world.

Few people from this part of the world, especially kids, ever considers the possibility that they could wind up in a prison camp where people are murdered because they don't move quickly enough.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
27. If you smile, nod, bow and do what's expected, no problem
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 11:45 AM
Jun 2017

The problem is that it's become something of a contest to try to "get away with something" there.

If this kid had wanted a copy of a propaganda poster, he could have simply asked if he could have one, instead of trying to steal one.

Not that the death penalty for stealing a propaganda poster is in any sense "okay", but as you point out - this was the country he decided to visit.

But, yah, tools like this guy don't help:

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,209 posts)
13. Unless you're Dennis Rodman deliving a copy of Donald Trump's book to Dear Leader.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:25 AM
Jun 2017

Our North Korean backchannel is Dennis Rodman.

Just think about that for a second.

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
7. Pretty much a Trump love fest.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:19 AM
Jun 2017

Much praise for the efforts Trump and Tillerson made, while bashing PBO and Kerry.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
10. Actually, I think he's held it back quite a bit.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:22 AM
Jun 2017

I think he's found ways to express his frustration and anger with the Obama Administration without namecalling. He has expressed gratitude to Tillerson, but I haven't heard him praise trump.

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
14. Near the end he mentioned the phone call
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:26 AM
Jun 2017

from Trump, said it was very kind, expressed concern for the family. Blah, blah, blah.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
17. Yeah, and I can understand that. He was asked, but didn't praise trump, or get political.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:35 AM
Jun 2017

If the phone call made this family feel better, then good. If trump can act like a decent human being for five mintes, then I'm happy for the innocent family who benefits from the rare emotional largesse.

The people in office we despise do not behave like pure evil 100% of the time, just as good people, even "saints", are not 100% without meanness or selfishness.

hlthe2b

(102,405 posts)
11. Early on there was a question re: Obama admin attempts to get him released
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:23 AM
Jun 2017

I didn't hear the answer, but it seemed like he seemed to suggest Obama admin didn't try hard enough or something... Was that what he was saying or did I miss it with too much multi-tasking?

Regardless, I'm not blaming him if he did say something to that effect... His son's release is both parts wonderful and tragic.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
18. In Latin, "post hoc ergo prompter hoc..." nt part II
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:38 AM
Jun 2017

In Latin, "post hoc ergo prompter hoc..." nt part II

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
16. "Strategic patience"
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:30 AM
Jun 2017

Sounds like they were advised to maintain a very low profile, in order not to upset the Norks. It didn't work out very well.

I can understand the bitterness. As a citizen of the US, I would expect my government to do everything possible to bring my kid home ASAP. When it didn't happen for a year and a half, it's kind of natural to blame someone.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
31. By the same toekn, wtf was the kid doing there?
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 03:54 PM
Jun 2017

Reminds me if folks who climb dangerous mountains in bad weather.... and then expect everyone to drop everything and riak themselves to save the idiot.

Don't get wrong... i feel sorry for the kid and his family, but he isn't entitled to anything under the circumstances.

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
32. Kids do stupid things
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 04:04 PM
Jun 2017

Sometimes they do monumentally stupid things. He assumed he wouldn't get sentenced to 18 years hard labor for stealing a poster. He thought he'd get a cool little souvenir, but instead he has suffered permanent profound brain damage.

On the Stupid Scale, this was off the charts. I hope it serves as a warning for other stupid kids.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
33. Yes, of course....
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 04:25 PM
Jun 2017

But the parents have to carry some responsibility here, right? Presumably, they paid for his trip.

I'm sure tState did what they thought they could within the context of the situation....

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
34. Not sure . . .
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 04:36 PM
Jun 2017

It seems I read that he was in Asia, and this was a little side trip. IIRC, he called from wherever he was and told his parents just before he went there.

And, who knows? He may have been paying for the trip himself. My son used a lifetimes worth of Christmas and birthday savings bonds to pay for a trip to Eastern Europe.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
19. Without saying it, I think he believes the previous State Dept
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:40 AM
Jun 2017

didn't try hard enough. They stayed quiet believing it would help their son survive. After hearing nothing from DPRK for over a year, they felt it was time to act. Frankly, it is possible that Kerry's State Dept. was also right: that the young man would have been killed if the family had been too vocal. I doubt Tillerson said anything, other than making promises, that got him released. All of those details will probably kept quiet.

renegade000

(2,301 posts)
39. Well, and to be blunt...
Fri Jun 16, 2017, 10:57 AM
Jun 2017

Your value as a hostage/bargaining chip drops significantly if you're in a vegetative state .

get the red out

(13,468 posts)
20. I am very upset over this
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:49 AM
Jun 2017

My thinking isn't very kind regarding NK today, to say the least. And I am very disappointed that President Obama's administration didn't get him out, now he comes home like this.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
28. Keep in mind that there is a lot we don't know about in terms of how hard
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 11:45 AM
Jun 2017

the State Dept tried, no matter what Otto's sweet dad thinks. (And that family has my best hopes for them.)

For one thing, Obama and Kerry took it on the chin when they got the hostages in Iran released. They were accused of paying ransom. Okay, then, so the American people don't want to bail out people naive enough to go to dangerous places? Maybe there wasn't anything they could offer Kim Jung Ill to get him to move on this, short of giving them all of our nuclear weapons or missile technology. We don't know why talks broke down. I doubt it was because Kerry was timid.

Two, WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TILLERSON PROMISED THEM other than to send them Dennis Rodman. That would be a good trade, IMO.

nini

(16,672 posts)
22. I am having a hard time giving a shit about people ..
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 10:55 AM
Jun 2017

.. who put themselves in those positions. As a parent I understand the pain but let's get real - the son went into the country where the leader is well known for torture etc..

Now if he's blaming Obama... fuck him. Don't be blaming Obama when the kid went into hostile territory like that in the first place.

dalton99a

(81,632 posts)
38. (1) Don't go to North Korea. (2) When you're in North Korea, don't piss them off
Fri Jun 16, 2017, 10:46 AM
Jun 2017

The kid made two very bad choices.

nini

(16,672 posts)
40. going there is one thing..
Fri Jun 16, 2017, 12:57 PM
Jun 2017

pissing them off? not smart at all.

I'm surprised he wasn't shot for that. They are not rational after all with things.

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