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getdown

(525 posts)
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:27 PM Dec 2011

What changed in your life this year?

Hopefully, you and yours are well, safe, reasonably happy.

How has the Depression and/or depression changed your life?

Any bright spots?

New ideas? New attitudes about who and what is important in your life? How you spend your time?

New ways to survive the "downturn;" share with others; build community?

Please share your ideas and discoveries.

May your new year be full of creative awakenings and joyful connections.

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What changed in your life this year? (Original Post) getdown Dec 2011 OP
The people and Democrats of my great state of Wisconsin. PeaceNikki Dec 2011 #1
fantastic getdown Dec 2011 #3
Teachers are waking up proud2BlibKansan Dec 2011 #2
Yes, same in Florida HockeyMom Dec 2011 #4
oh yes getdown Dec 2011 #5
one loss JustAnotherGen Dec 2011 #6
. getdown Dec 2011 #17
My age. n/t cherokeeprogressive Dec 2011 #7
hahahahaha getdown Dec 2011 #11
A tough year for me... Yooperman Dec 2011 #8
more fishin! getdown Dec 2011 #12
Getting laid off nt cowcommander Dec 2011 #9
the Golden Dream getdown Dec 2011 #13
My business of twenty years pretty much shriveled up and died... rfranklin Dec 2011 #10
My husband survived mainstreetonce Dec 2011 #14
more good news getdown Dec 2011 #16
WELL PUT. getdown Dec 2011 #15
Lost my business (bookseller for 45 years), lost a beloved pet to cancer, Mac1949 Dec 2011 #18
oh my getdown Dec 2011 #21
Thank you. Places like this and people like you make it easier. Mac1949 Dec 2011 #24
Every winter, my alphabet soup of diseases act up Warpy Dec 2011 #19
there's a haiku in there somewhere getdown Dec 2011 #23
My Favorite Web Site! Motown_Johnny Dec 2011 #20
ROFL getdown Dec 2011 #22
I filed a lawsuit against my mortgage servicer on a new issue and problem with property Titles. ms.smiler Dec 2011 #25
that's great, i hope your work helps many others getdown Dec 2011 #26
I got fatter, poorer, and older. provis99 Dec 2011 #27
. getdown Dec 2011 #29
.. GoCubsGo Dec 2011 #39
Not much, really. Life is good. Jean V. Dubois Dec 2011 #28
esp getdown Dec 2011 #30
I got a job I love!> Survivoreesta Dec 2011 #31
helping others getdown Dec 2011 #42
Making an escape from the MRI room at the local hospital. HopeHoops Dec 2011 #32
sounds like a good move getdown Dec 2011 #43
It at least amused/confused three security guards and about 15 other workers. HopeHoops Jan 2012 #87
Moved back across the pond Solly Mack Dec 2011 #33
isn't that getdown Dec 2011 #49
I don't know. Solly Mack Jan 2012 #81
brilliant getdown Jan 2012 #82
Went without health insurance for the first time in my entire life. nt NorthCarolina Dec 2011 #34
lucky! getdown Dec 2011 #50
Zombie apocalypse. Warren DeMontague Dec 2011 #35
how can anyone vote Republican ever again?!@!! getdown Dec 2011 #51
I guess that depends Warren DeMontague Dec 2011 #53
Worked a full year at full time customerserviceguy Dec 2011 #36
good for you getdown Jan 2012 #83
Let's see..... whistler162 Dec 2011 #37
up and down getdown Dec 2011 #45
The sciatic flairs up every few years but is whistler162 Dec 2011 #55
don't know about the particulars getdown Dec 2011 #56
Not much I can believe in. bemildred Dec 2011 #38
ah, belief getdown Dec 2011 #44
I'm on Dialysis now..... lunamagica Dec 2011 #40
sorry to hear that getdown Dec 2011 #41
not a good year dana_b Dec 2011 #46
i hope so too getdown Dec 2011 #57
My big thrill this year was when Glenn Greenwald MineralMan Dec 2011 #47
kudos! getdown Dec 2011 #52
I had a good year in all tammywammy Dec 2011 #48
wonderful getdown Dec 2011 #54
I lost 30 pounds. Brickbat Dec 2011 #58
feels good eh? getdown Dec 2011 #60
I resisted it for a long time, but I finally started counting calories and it worked. Brickbat Dec 2011 #62
Fave sport? getdown Dec 2011 #63
Running (or, as I call it, moving forward in a non-walking fashion) in the non-snowy months, Brickbat Dec 2011 #64
ha ha sounds good getdown Dec 2011 #65
Ah, NYE. A time for beginnings and endings. Alphas and Warren DeMontague Dec 2011 #59
deep getdown Jan 2012 #94
relationships getdown Dec 2011 #61
Got a new job in a small (28 employees) entrepreneurial venture and have my first kid on the way... Lucky Luciano Dec 2011 #66
a la familia! lucky! getdown Dec 2011 #67
Congrats on the baby - TBF Dec 2011 #68
Kind of a so-so year TBF Dec 2011 #69
good, getdown Dec 2011 #70
Democratic Underground. NT William769 Dec 2011 #71
DUly noted!! getdown Dec 2011 #73
Occupy nadinbrzezinski Dec 2011 #72
Great Shot! getdown Dec 2011 #74
Nope, all I did was move it nadinbrzezinski Dec 2011 #76
you know getdown Dec 2011 #77
Obviously, #Occupy. Fire Walk With Me Dec 2011 #75
yup getdown Dec 2011 #79
You too Fire Walk With Me Jan 2012 #84
I saw a revolution happen, the environment thrown under the rug, and Libertarians... joshcryer Dec 2011 #78
not evil getdown Dec 2011 #80
Well, THAT's funny...... eridani Jan 2012 #85
hilarious!! getdown Jan 2012 #93
That is what I intend to devote my my remaining days to fighting for n/t eridani Jan 2012 #108
thank you!!! getdown Jan 2012 #110
No bright spots. I don't see any looking forward either. mmonk Jan 2012 #86
I see getdown Jan 2012 #90
May the New Year bring you blessings. mmonk Jan 2012 #106
thank you mmonk getdown Jan 2012 #107
I got a new fridge.... ThatsMyBarack Jan 2012 #88
cool!! getdown Jan 2012 #91
The biggest change to our daily life in 2011 bvar22 Jan 2012 #89
awwwwwwwww getdown Jan 2012 #92
AWWW! Bambi! Odin2005 Jan 2012 #96
What a beautiful picture! n/t sendero Jan 2012 #113
I got a new job at a thrift store. Odin2005 Jan 2012 #95
nice getdown Jan 2012 #98
I'm the book guy, there! Odin2005 Jan 2012 #102
great gig! getdown Jan 2012 #103
Very little FreeJoe Jan 2012 #97
all good!! getdown Jan 2012 #99
Positives and negatives tabbycat31 Jan 2012 #100
sorry bout kitty getdown Jan 2012 #104
It's been mixed. MoonRiver Jan 2012 #101
and right backatchaL Health Hope and Joy! getdown Jan 2012 #105
I am trying to focus on the bright side. femmocrat Jan 2012 #109
wow getdown Jan 2012 #111
My husband of 21 years rhiannon55 Jan 2012 #112
... getdown Jan 2012 #115
I moved to another town. Brigid Jan 2012 #114
love it! getdown Jan 2012 #116

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
1. The people and Democrats of my great state of Wisconsin.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:27 PM
Dec 2011

I was just going to put together a post on that, as a matter of fact.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
4. Yes, same in Florida
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:35 PM
Dec 2011

and it's nice to see that the PUBLIC supports them, even where the State (Republicans) don't. Also, nice to see that in a Right to Work State that UNIONS can pull together and work to defeat the agenda of the extreme right wing.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
5. oh yes
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:35 PM
Dec 2011

from watching this, looks like this is where the class was is being fought

teachers are FEISTY!!!

JustAnotherGen

(32,171 posts)
6. one loss
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:36 PM
Dec 2011

My father died. And I learned as a result - that this country can do the right thing ... Every on in awhile.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
17. .
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:51 PM
Dec 2011

May he rest in Peace.

sounds like a good story there. good to know "that this country can do the right thing ... Every on in awhile."

Yooperman

(592 posts)
8. A tough year for me...
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:39 PM
Dec 2011

The end of a 30 year marriage.... moved back to my home area of the U.P. of Michigan... that was good. Did more fishing this summer than I had in the previous 2 decades.

Still under employed after running out of unemployment insurance.... but I am debt free... just got into an affordable apartment with my sister. Moving forward... one day at a time.

Peace Love

YM

 

rfranklin

(13,200 posts)
10. My business of twenty years pretty much shriveled up and died...
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:43 PM
Dec 2011

I am fortunate that I am at an age and situation where I don't have to start over. But I am saddened when I see small businesses and shops folding up. I am outraged at the fat cats who have pillaged and looted the economy and then tell the displaced that they should get more education or work for less or just chew on their bootstraps for sustenance.

mainstreetonce

(4,178 posts)
14. My husband survived
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:48 PM
Dec 2011

serious cancer surgery that wouldn't have happened a few years ago. We sold the house that we moved out of for a good price. 2011 was much better than 2010 . I hope good news keeps going in 12.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
15. WELL PUT.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:49 PM
Dec 2011


glad you're okay. i have some friends being Mr. Pottered by their landlord of their business. Crazy mofo thinks he can squeeze blood from a turnip, or their parents have money cuz his daddy set him up in business.

Mac1949

(389 posts)
18. Lost my business (bookseller for 45 years), lost a beloved pet to cancer,
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:55 PM
Dec 2011

lost a very close friend of 35 years because of her ultra-conservative ideology, and I learned that the forces trying to drag this country under never take a break and never give you one. We've got to keep our ideals and keep fighting for them no matter what we're hit with.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
21. oh my
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 04:01 PM
Dec 2011

wow

we've got to and somehow, we find we can. survivors inspire others. thank you for sharing this.

and thanks for being a bookseller for 45 years!!

metta

Warpy

(111,581 posts)
19. Every winter, my alphabet soup of diseases act up
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:58 PM
Dec 2011

Last year, it was a hip that made it hard to walk and nearly impossible to sleep.

This year, it's my hands, making it hard to spin and work with the spun fiber.

Winter sucks.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
23. there's a haiku in there somewhere
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 04:03 PM
Dec 2011

thanks Warpy, somehow the image of hands spinning thru pain is just beautiful and brave

ms.smiler

(551 posts)
25. I filed a lawsuit against my mortgage servicer on a new issue and problem with property Titles.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 04:08 PM
Dec 2011

I had been researching mortgage/foreclosure fraud and the knowledge I gained motivated me to find a fine attorney and file suit. The lawsuit has already succeeded in saving homes from foreclosure for other homeowners, but it is an opportunity for me to clear my property Title, obtain my Deed, relieve myself of a fraudulent mortgage and obtain damages.

The trial is presently scheduled for May of 2012 and I’m wondering what impact the suit will have for other homeowners with such invalid and fraudulent documents filed on their property Titles. I’d like to see many other homeowners relieved of their fraudulent mortgages while obtaining their Deeds and compensated for the harm done to them.

I had never sued anyone, so this is quite a change for me. It feels fabulous to be fighting the banksters and working to hold them accountable.

http://www.scribd.com/mssmiler

I read here every day, but because of my research and my lawsuit, I find myself posting more often and engaging more with other DU members and that has enriched my life.

 

Survivoreesta

(221 posts)
31. I got a job I love!>
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 05:46 PM
Dec 2011

I'm working at a female psychiatrist's office. She specializes in survivors of sex abuse. Like me.

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
87. It at least amused/confused three security guards and about 15 other workers.
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 09:48 AM
Jan 2012

I'm a stubborn son of a bitch when I want to be.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
50. lucky!
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:14 PM
Dec 2011

lasted that long, eh?

wonder if more and more good healthy alternatives, web resources, solutions will come out of this DEBACLE?

Unfortunately, Monsanto wants control of the food supply, herbs, gardens, anything people can grow to sustain themselves.

tHAT's sick

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
36. Worked a full year at full time
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 07:49 PM
Dec 2011

I went from PT to FT only in August of 2010, it really does help my finances to have a full year of 40 hour union wages.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
37. Let's see.....
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:29 PM
Dec 2011

Got laid off at the end of June after 25 years or 2 years depending on how you count the last layoff, and 26 weeks later got my last pay check(part of the package)

Sciatica flaired up on July 1st

Started volunteering at a local hospital

Got a new job(civil service), better health insurance, actually had two job offers to chose from. A salary reduction but with a car to drive the 300+ miles per week.

So a down and up year.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
45. up and down
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:56 PM
Dec 2011

hope it balances out.

and the sciatica gives you a break. chronic pain is awful

health insurance !!!

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
55. The sciatic flairs up every few years but is
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:23 PM
Dec 2011

better than the arthritis in the back that caused me to have three vertebrae opened up and removal of a disc.

Good health insurance at least until the next contract, depending on what the Cuomo administration tries to negotiate down.

Thanks.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
56. don't know about the particulars
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:25 PM
Dec 2011

but have you tried swimming to help this or something else? health ins cover acupuncture?

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
40. I'm on Dialysis now.....
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:40 PM
Dec 2011

My life just keeps getting harder and harder to live.

2011 was the worst year of my life. I went throuhg so much that it amazes me sometimes I'm still alive.

Every new year I have the hope that this year will be better, but each one has been worse than the previous one....so now I'm left wondering what new horrors await me...

 

getdown

(525 posts)
41. sorry to hear that
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:47 PM
Dec 2011

"I went throuhg so much that it amazes me sometimes I'm still alive."

2011 has kicked a lot of folks in the ass ... sometimes that amazement is all that's left ...

I wish you a peaceful and painfree new year

dana_b

(11,546 posts)
46. not a good year
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:56 PM
Dec 2011

for our family. I pray that 2012 will be better otherwise I don't know where we will end up.

I do know people that are doing better though. Some got jobs and some are getting the help they need. That is hopeful.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
57. i hope so too
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:30 PM
Dec 2011

and this is what i wonder about (new) survival skills, people pushed to the wall, who recover with help and re-turn to help others.

wondering how far the rings of sharing and gratitude extend, from friends, families, neighborhoods, communities.

as many folks as say they have crowded closets, could sort out and set up clothes swaps, freecycling. This is what our one "great" nation has become. So let there by light!! some shred of dignity and integrity come out of it, as we lean on each other to SURVIVE

MineralMan

(146,371 posts)
47. My big thrill this year was when Glenn Greenwald
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:00 PM
Dec 2011

called me simple-minded in a column. He was referring to a DU thread. I felt so...you know...honored that he took notice of a lowly anonymous poster on a discussion forum in that special way.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
48. I had a good year in all
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:01 PM
Dec 2011

I received a good raise at work and expect another good one next year (my annual review was excellent). We had a big event at work that went well and had a good celebratory party for it. I'm still doing well in school (I graduate with my bachelor's in May 2012). I've already received hints at a possible job move after I get my degree.

The only downside to the year was that my grandfather passed away. We knew it was coming, he had gangrene in his foot, but it was still very very sad. He was 90, and he would tell you that he had a good life. I miss him terribly though.

The year to come is full of good things. I'm graduating in May and starting a MBA program in the fall. Work is going well.

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
58. I lost 30 pounds.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:46 PM
Dec 2011

Thirty more, and I'll be back to college weight. BAM! It was much easier than I thought it would be.

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
62. I resisted it for a long time, but I finally started counting calories and it worked.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 10:46 PM
Dec 2011

I found an app where I could track calories on my iPhone and started exercising a lot more, and got a heart-rate monitor to find out how many calories I was burning. By counting calories, I was able to eat foods I wanted to -- just less of them. I didn't have to go low-carb or cut out ALL sugar or something. I didn't want to do it, but I'm glad I did.

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
64. Running (or, as I call it, moving forward in a non-walking fashion) in the non-snowy months,
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 10:53 PM
Dec 2011

snow-shoeing in the snow, and ice hockey when I can.

Although, it's only been since July since I lost the 30. I haven't been out on the ice yet, and I'm looking forward to it.

Lucky Luciano

(11,272 posts)
66. Got a new job in a small (28 employees) entrepreneurial venture and have my first kid on the way...
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:17 PM
Dec 2011

Still trying to figure out to make it so my wife and I can still enjoy the restaurants that NYC has to offer once he is born.

TBF

(32,208 posts)
68. Congrats on the baby -
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:25 PM
Dec 2011

and take the baby out with you. It is easy when they are small because you can carry him/her in a stroller or car seat. They will get used to the environment and often sleep right through it. When they get to be toddlers you'll get a babysitter and go out occasionally - and the break will be welcome. My best advice - sleep now.

TBF

(32,208 posts)
69. Kind of a so-so year
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:28 PM
Dec 2011

nothing terribly bad, some health challenges but all meds working ok

I'm hopeful for 2012

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
72. Occupy
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:37 PM
Dec 2011


Been covering them for a couple local papers. (Yes that is my photo)

and on a personal level dad passed, RIP.
 

getdown

(525 posts)
74. Great Shot!
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:40 PM
Dec 2011

Thanks for sharing photo and adding OWS

is that cropped? really well composed in frame. Need to make date go away and frame it.

RIP papa.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
76. Nope, all I did was move it
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:43 PM
Dec 2011

from memory card in camera to computer drive.

Bear in mind I take a LOT of photos when I cover these things for the local papers. MOST suck.

I should charge my batteries again, now that I think about it.

joshcryer

(62,287 posts)
78. I saw a revolution happen, the environment thrown under the rug, and Libertarians...
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:48 PM
Dec 2011

...given more platform on DU than ever in the entire history of posting here (going on a decade).

It's been a wild ride, to be sure.

And I am now 100% certain evil exists. I didn't think so before, but I do now.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
89. The biggest change to our daily life in 2011
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 11:31 AM
Jan 2012

....was the addition of a new critter to our little family in The Woods.



http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=268x5178

She has brought us much more than we have given her,
and her company has become a daily source of fascination and pleasure.


Socially & Politically, the collective protests of OWS has inspired some Hope that we can have Change.
Americans are NOT as dumb and complacent as I believed, and that is reassuring.



 

getdown

(525 posts)
92. awwwwwwwww
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 12:27 PM
Jan 2012

sweet

beautiful reply, thank you
Happy 2012

yeah can't put that genie back in the bottle ...

 

getdown

(525 posts)
103. great gig!
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 02:39 PM
Jan 2012

at the one I go to most, I call the book room "dangerous" and go in there last ($$) ... they get some rilly good stuff.

just found classic Layout book with dust jacket for $2.75. Worth it! And helps the animals

FreeJoe

(1,039 posts)
97. Very little
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 02:01 PM
Jan 2012

and that is a good thing. Life has been in a really nice groove for a while now. Great wife. Wonderful kids. Good friends. Good job. Good community. I'm happy.

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
100. Positives and negatives
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 02:17 PM
Jan 2012

For the worse-- I was screwed over royally by someone who I thought I loved. After spending my 20s not dating at all, I fall for this guy thinking that he liked me (he did at the time). It took me half the year to realize that he screwed me over. I'm now on the verge of asking someone else out.

My beloved Tabby had to be put to sleep at the age of almost 18. He was the one consistent in my life since 8th grade, and life without him was painful. I was on the road then and did not even get the chance to say goodbye.

For the better

I was able to see a part of the country that I never have been to and participate in democracy at its finest. I was very lucky to be able to spend the spring in Wisconsin working on a state senate recall. I contemplated going back for the Walker recall but ultimately decided I needed a work/life balance. Had they started two weeks later I would have been all over it.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
101. It's been mixed.
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 02:21 PM
Jan 2012

Good = retired from what became the nightmare career of all time.
Bad = got cancer, but it is early stage and highly curable (guess that qualifies for good too!

Here's to a New Year full of health, hope and joy for All!

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
109. I am trying to focus on the bright side.
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 11:12 PM
Jan 2012

I am happy to still have a good-paying job with benefits, especially at my age. I have two adult sons who are also self-supporting (at last!) No major financial problems, thanks to careful planning, living moderately and still having that good job. I am truly thankful for those blessings.

But we had a family tragedy this year that has just been too hard to accept. It totally took all joy out of the holidays for me. I'm not sure when I will feel "normal" again. I am just praying for some peace in the New Year. Just taking it one day at a time....




 

getdown

(525 posts)
111. wow
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 11:37 PM
Jan 2012

everything is a good place and wham

as far as i know this year has kicked everyone's ass BIGTIME one way or another ...

Focus on the bright side. Well put.

Peace

rhiannon55

(2,673 posts)
112. My husband of 21 years
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 11:41 PM
Jan 2012

had a heart attack and died in August. He was my soulmate and best friend.

I'm glad 2011 is over.

 

getdown

(525 posts)
115. ...
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 11:59 PM
Jan 2012

i called my old friend in a distant town today, who lost her husband "suddenly" this year of a 7 mon. illness.







peace to you and your husband.

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