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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMonstrous father admits to putting his 22 pound daughter alone in the backyard at 3 a m
as punishment for not drinking her milk -- and discovering she was gone 15 minutes later -- and not contacting the police for 5 more hours.
That's what he admits to. The 3 year old, developmentally disabled girl is still missing.
https://www.dallasnews.com/news/missing-person/2017/10/07/amber-alert-issued-3-year-old-richardson-girl-believed-grave-danger
Sherin's father, Wesley Mathews, 37, was arrested on a charge of abandoning or endangering a child. He was released from custody late Sunday after posting $250,000 bond.
Mathews told police he put Sherin outside and told her to stand next to a large tree about 3 a.m. Saturday, an arrest-warrant affidavit said. The tree was behind a fence, about 100 feet south of the family's home and across an alley. Mathews admitted to police that he knew coyotes had been seen in the alley, the affidavit said.
The Humane Society of the United States says coyote attacks are rare and has recorded only two human fatalities since the 1980s.
Mathews told police he checked on Sherin about 3:15 a.m. and she was gone, the affidavit said. Police reportedly weren't alerted to her disappearance until hours later.
"Why was the last sighting at 3 o'clock and the parents not call us until after 8 a.m., that's the question we want answered as well," Perlich told KXAS-TV (NBC5). "As far as why she was out there, how long she was out there, that's the questions we have for the parents."
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)pnwmom
(108,977 posts)yardwork
(61,607 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Aren't the protocols pretty rigorous?
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)and this poor little girl was mentally disabled and tiny, from lack of nutrition.
Mariana
(14,856 posts)Probably don't tell the organizations that they'll do stuff like this, while they're being checked out. If they have no record or history of abuse or neglect, how do you divine that they're dangerous?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)According to the article.
Had to be some red flags, no?
Mariana
(14,856 posts)Church people are apparently still saying he's a good parent, so abuse or neglect wouldn't have been all that obvious, if it happened at all.
FTR, I think the child is dead. Pure speculation on my part. It's entirely possible he was a decent parent until he killed her, maybe accidentally, maybe in a rage, who knows. Parents who kill kids don't always have a history of problems. I think his story is utter BS.
womanofthehills
(8,703 posts)JI7
(89,249 posts)Initech
(100,070 posts)Something is very wrong with this picture.
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)B2G
(9,766 posts)Borchkins
(724 posts)draw a circle 2.5 hours around the house and that's where you'll find the body. Poor baby.
Phoenix61
(17,003 posts)Let alone drinking milk. Sadly, it's more likely he lost his temper with her at dinner when she wouldn't drink her milk and something really, really bad happened.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)pnwmom
(108,977 posts)of the night to eat. And if she WAS so hungry, then why wouldn't she drink her milk?
The whole story sounds phony.
phylny
(8,380 posts)I work with kids with feeding disorders. The doctors insist, "They'll eat (drink) when they're hungry." Not necessarily.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)extremely strong food aversions. They might be averse to textures, strong flavors, or even the mild flavors of comfort foods.
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)be done so carefully. Then she learned to feed herself it was better but the real turning point was medical marijuana at about 40 years old. Even tho we have stopped the med marijuana, she now eats with a good appetite after taking it only 4 years. But I knew that putting her outside in the middle of the night would not have any good result. This case is abuse..
Lithos
(26,403 posts)So eating is a bit of a challenge and they are on the low end of the developmental scale w/r to weight and height.
That said, this is, IMHO, clear abuse. Such behavior would have zero positive effect on a problem eater.
Also, I live in a coyote area where lots of pets are attacked. Coyotes are not perfect killers (such as a mountain lion which can kill quickly) in that it takes them some effort - the girl likely would have screamed. They also tend to "talk" when they are actively attacking, something you can easily hear inside of a house. (I've had to go out and rescue other neighbors animals who were left out.)
No proof other than my own experience. Either she wandered away - I think unlikely, or this is a case where he killed her and is trying to cover it up.
L-
JI7
(89,249 posts)Connection to the country it can be easier.
The father looks Indian so i wonder if they were not as careful in looking into this.
Plus they might have wanted to just get rid of the girl with health problems.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)MontanaMama
(23,314 posts)with sociopaths. The poor child. WTF was the child sent outside at 3am? 3AM?!?!?!?! I don't believe the father for a minute either.
Mariana
(14,856 posts)Sometimes parents harm their kids. Sometimes they kill them. This isn't something that just started happening recently.
MontanaMama
(23,314 posts)but it doesn't make it any less shocking and horrible.
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)benld74
(9,904 posts)Members of their church were looking for the child. A member stated, He is a good parent.
Unbelievable
Doreen
(11,686 posts)If the dogs could not find her then there is foul play. If she had just wandered they would have found her. Somebody is lying or somebody took her. You do not force kids to eat.
JI7
(89,249 posts)He should kill himself
LisaL
(44,973 posts)He supposedly put her out in the middle of the night as punishment? What kind of punishment is that? And then he doesn't report it for hours?
JI7
(89,249 posts)Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)He found out the toddler he adopted was likely to be mentally disabled and he can't "return her to the store", so his only choice is to make the girl vanish and claim a terrible tragedy happened...
Iggo
(47,552 posts)JI7
(89,249 posts)Weekend Warrior
(1,301 posts)Tatiana
(14,167 posts)So he supposedly knew coyotes had been spotted and STILL set his developmentally-disabled daughter outside?
No "time out" indoors?
Why did the father choose this form of punishment? Was the mom OK with this? Is this what was taught at their church?
This family has had previous contact with child protective services. Unless I'm missing something, this child should probably not be returned to this household until there is a reasonable guarantee that the child will be safe and the parents have been educated on how to care for children.
JI7
(89,249 posts)Tatiana
(14,167 posts)They need to bring the dogs in and search the property.
I can't believe the father was granted bail. He seems like a flight risk.
JI7
(89,249 posts)And that's why he took long to report it
womanofthehills
(8,703 posts)a four yr old girl.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Poor baby girl.
greytdemocrat
(3,299 posts)Flaleftist
(3,473 posts)Tavarious Jackson
(1,595 posts)Yes, he is overweight. I plan on putting him in wrestling or football.. I would never leave him alone outside at any hour let alone 3am!!
Exultant Democracy
(6,594 posts)The data on what football does to young mens brains is very disturbing. Even if he wants to play football pro the best plan would be to wrestle all through college and then go to training camp. There are a whole bunch of former colleges wrestlers playing pro ball.
nini
(16,672 posts)And yes.. I am serious.
He should never be allowed to father another child or even be near one for that matter.
and Lorena Bobbit him too
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)is all the evidence needed to show he was an unfit parent.
nini
(16,672 posts)and yes.. he is not worthy. That poor kid
One of my cousins was a social worker.. some of the stories have scarred me for life. I can't even begin to understand how someone could harm a child like people do.
rainin
(3,011 posts)No one takes a small child outside at 3AM and leaves her there. Three-year-olds can walk. I've seen preschool children who carefully protect their little siblings and keep them from walking away...because small children wonder off if unsupervised. A grown man would now that.
This man is too stupid to invent a plausible story. End of story.
NickB79
(19,236 posts)There would be signs in the area if she were attacked: blood, marks in the dirt and grass, bits of clothing and hair.
If she were eaten by a coyote, it happened after she was already dead.