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MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:18 PM Oct 2017

I just heard that we lost my brother this afternoon.

He had been very ill and was in the liver transplant program at UCLA Medical Center, but his condition simply was not good enough to survive until that could happen. I'll be flying out to California sometime this week for his memorial service and to provide whatever comfort I can to the rest of the family.

It's very hard to lose your younger brother. He was only 67 years old. It is a sad, sad time for everyone who knew him, and especially for my sister and I. My parents, who are 92 and 93 years old, are heartbroken.

Uff da!

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I just heard that we lost my brother this afternoon. (Original Post) MineralMan Oct 2017 OP
Very sorry Historic NY Oct 2017 #1
I am sorry for your loss. redwitch Oct 2017 #11
Damn that's really hard malaise Oct 2017 #32
My heartfelt sympathies, Mineral Man Siwsan Oct 2017 #2
I'm sorry MM LeftInTX Oct 2017 #3
Deepest sympathy. Scarsdale Oct 2017 #154
I am so sorry, MM. You have my thoughts and prayers/ Raven Oct 2017 #4
I am so sorry. redwitch Oct 2017 #5
I'm so sorry MineralMan. My thoughts are with you. shraby Oct 2017 #6
I'm very sorry to hear that. RKP5637 Oct 2017 #7
I am so sorry to hear that Mineral Man. My heart goes out to you and your family. smirkymonkey Oct 2017 #8
Very sorry for you Mineral Man. delisen Oct 2017 #9
I am so very sorry, MM. sheshe2 Oct 2017 #10
I am very sorry. LuckyCharms Oct 2017 #12
Condolences to your family, MM csziggy Oct 2017 #13
I am very sorry. LisaM Oct 2017 #14
Peace to you and your family world wide wally Oct 2017 #15
I am so sorry for your loss meadowlark5 Oct 2017 #16
what a sad time for you and your family! CTyankee Oct 2017 #17
So so sorry MM. mahina Oct 2017 #18
Condolences MaryMagdaline Oct 2017 #19
My condolences left-of-center2012 Oct 2017 #20
My sympathy, MM. JohnnyLib2 Oct 2017 #21
Sorry for your loss. Paz. RestoreAmerica2020 Oct 2017 #22
My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of livetohike Oct 2017 #23
My condolences Mineralman. CentralMass Oct 2017 #24
Aw, man. Iggo Oct 2017 #25
I'm so sorry, MM -- my heart is with you. fierywoman Oct 2017 #26
Best wishes in dealing with the loss. Losing close relatives is difficult. guillaumeb Oct 2017 #27
Deepest sympathy to you and the rest of your family MineralMan malaise Oct 2017 #28
... defacto7 Oct 2017 #29
67 is young these days JI7 Oct 2017 #30
Sending you love and support. cilla4progress Oct 2017 #31
I am so sorry iamateacher Oct 2017 #33
that is so sad, MM. I am very sorry to hear that. hlthe2b Oct 2017 #34
I am sorry for your loss Gothmog Oct 2017 #35
... spanone Oct 2017 #36
I am so sorry for your loss, MM. badhair77 Oct 2017 #37
How very sad. At any age. It sucks. 3catwoman3 Oct 2017 #38
Condolences leftstreet Oct 2017 #39
So, so sorry. madamesilverspurs Oct 2017 #40
He was far too young. I'm so sorry, MM. Hortensis Oct 2017 #41
I'm Very Sorry for Your Loss Leith Oct 2017 #42
My condolences to you and family. oasis Oct 2017 #43
My condolences for your loss. TexasTowelie Oct 2017 #44
:( very sorry to hear it. sharedvalues Oct 2017 #45
Very sorry to hear dalton99a Oct 2017 #46
Very sorry for your loss. mac56 Oct 2017 #47
Condolences to you and yours MM JHan Oct 2017 #48
Sorry Mineralman for your loss kimbutgar Oct 2017 #49
I am sorry to hear this, MM. Since I just turned 67 myself, I know it is much too young to die. tblue37 Oct 2017 #50
Thanks to everyone for your thoughts and good wishes. MineralMan Oct 2017 #51
so very very sorry about your brother diva77 Oct 2017 #141
I'm so sorry cate94 Oct 2017 #52
my heartfelf condolences heaven05 Oct 2017 #53
Sorry for your loss. Ken Burch Oct 2017 #54
Very sorry to hear GaryCnf Oct 2017 #55
I am very sorry for your loss. irisblue Oct 2017 #56
... longship Oct 2017 #57
I am so sorry for your loss and wish you a safe trip. n/t phylny Oct 2017 #58
I'm very sorry. Sending out my heartfelt condolences mvd Oct 2017 #59
Sorry for your loss my friend. Wellstone ruled Oct 2017 #60
So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to your parents. appleannie1943 Oct 2017 #61
Deepest condolences AmandaRuth Oct 2017 #62
My condolences, MM. brer cat Oct 2017 #63
. cry baby Oct 2017 #64
So very sorry for your loss MM, my younger brother is not well either and I dread the monmouth4 Oct 2017 #65
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Mrs. Overall Oct 2017 #66
i'm so sorry for your loss. barbtries Oct 2017 #67
I am very sorry for your loss. yardwork Oct 2017 #68
I am very sorry for your loss, MineralMan. mnhtnbb Oct 2017 #69
Condolences . I too have lost a younger brother . It puts everything out of order besides the grief lunasun Oct 2017 #70
condolences... uponit7771 Oct 2017 #71
My condolences. lpbk2713 Oct 2017 #72
My sincere condolences to you and your family. bluedigger Oct 2017 #73
grief never goes away DonCoquixote Oct 2017 #74
Oh dear, I am so sorry. annabanana Oct 2017 #75
You have my deepest condolences, MM. TheBlackAdder Oct 2017 #76
I am so sorry for your loss MM, what a terrible sadness to bear. FM123 Oct 2017 #77
So sorry for your loss Mineral Man. They_Live Oct 2017 #78
I'm sorry shenmue Oct 2017 #79
Much sympathy to you and your family. madaboutharry Oct 2017 #80
I'm very sorry for your loss DesertRat Oct 2017 #81
My condolences snowybirdie Oct 2017 #82
Oh my gawd MM..... a kennedy Oct 2017 #83
So sorry for your loss Mineral Man awesomerwb1 Oct 2017 #84
So sorry mcar Oct 2017 #85
Be good to yourself. tavernier Oct 2017 #86
May your brother rest in peace, MineralMan democrank Oct 2017 #87
I'm deeply sorry. nolabear Oct 2017 #88
Sad indeed... KT2000 Oct 2017 #89
I am so very, very sorry. Silver Gaia Oct 2017 #90
Yours is a loss I actually can relate to. BobTheSubgenius Oct 2017 #91
So sorry to hear this SHRED Oct 2017 #92
Deepest condolences to you and your family. sinkingfeeling Oct 2017 #93
I'm so sorry for your family. chowder66 Oct 2017 #94
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. liberalnarb Oct 2017 #95
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your familly.... chillfactor Oct 2017 #96
Please accept sincere condolences. I lost my older brother last year Enoki33 Oct 2017 #97
I'm sorry for your loss lunamagica Oct 2017 #98
Sorry to hear this. Thor_MN Oct 2017 #99
... Lucinda Oct 2017 #100
Very hard, dark, hurtful, stressful time. One love. ancianita Oct 2017 #101
I am so sorry. MuseRider Oct 2017 #102
Oh, I'm so sorry TuxedoKat Oct 2017 #103
I'm so sorry for your loss - and for your parents.' The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2017 #104
So sorry, MineralMan. spiderpig Oct 2017 #105
So sorry for your loss. Glorfindel Oct 2017 #106
Your news brought me up short. SO sorry for you to lose a brother. What was his FailureToCommunicate Oct 2017 #107
.. Turbineguy Oct 2017 #108
Sympathy and Peace to you & Family, It's very hard to lose your brother. Sunlei Oct 2017 #109
... Duppers Oct 2017 #110
Sorry for your family's loss. Stay strong. ATL Ebony Oct 2017 #111
very sorry, MM bigtree Oct 2017 #112
So sorry for your loss Maeve Oct 2017 #113
My deepest condolences to you and your family. (eom) StevieM Oct 2017 #114
I'm so very sorry MineralMan. montana_hazeleyes Oct 2017 #115
I'm so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy Oct 2017 #116
My condolences to you and yours. Doreen Oct 2017 #117
My sympathy to you bdamomma Oct 2017 #118
My sincere condolecences MM nt jaysunb Oct 2017 #119
I am very sorry for your loss. Your parents are heartbroken. Not easy for them. boston bean Oct 2017 #120
I'm sorry for your loss, MM JHB Oct 2017 #121
Deepest condolences n/t DonaldsRump Oct 2017 #122
So very sorry for your loss. revmclaren Oct 2017 #123
Condolences Mineral Man. ((((hugs)))) Quayblue Oct 2017 #124
Condolences to you and your family, MineralMan n/t Permanut Oct 2017 #125
So sorry. FuzzyRabbit Oct 2017 #126
I add my condolences as well. spooky3 Oct 2017 #127
My sympathies to you and your family in this time of loss. davsand Oct 2017 #128
{} California_Republic Oct 2017 #129
This is really sad news FakeNoose Oct 2017 #130
Sorry Man. I lost my kid brother to cancer when he was only 40. Seems like they got ripped off... JoeOtterbein Oct 2017 #131
My condolences to you and your family. mobeau69 Oct 2017 #132
So sorry SixString Oct 2017 #133
Condolences MM . .. ucrdem Oct 2017 #134
Sorry to hear that... you have my sincere condolences. InAbLuEsTaTe Oct 2017 #135
Sending you love, comforting vibes, and solace. calimary Oct 2017 #136
Sorry for your loss MM. nothing is worse than a parent losing a child still_one Oct 2017 #137
I am sorry for your loss. Willie Pep Oct 2017 #138
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. herding cats Oct 2017 #139
Oh, MineralMan, I am so sorry. Laffy Kat Oct 2017 #140
What a shock for you and yours. Horrible news. Best wishes for your gradual healing, in time. n/t Judi Lynn Oct 2017 #142
Safe travels Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #143
I really feel for you and your family. IndianaDave Oct 2017 #144
I'm so sorry Raine Oct 2017 #145
Im sorry for your loss. BainsBane Oct 2017 #146
My sympathies. I don't know if I could have taken such news very calmly. DFW Oct 2017 #147
So sorry Mineral Man...I wish could say something better. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #148
My deepest sympathies BlueMTexpat Oct 2017 #149
I'm very sorry for your loss. no_hypocrisy Oct 2017 #150
My heartfelt condolences. Ilsa Oct 2017 #151
I'm so sorry janterry Oct 2017 #152
Very sorry to hear that treestar Oct 2017 #153
I am very sorry to hear that!!! My thoughts with you & family. Madam45for2923 Oct 2017 #155
Deeply sorry to here this news PJMcK Oct 2017 #156
I'm so sorry to hear you lost your brother!!!!! onecent Oct 2017 #157
I am SO sorry about your brother..... samnsara Oct 2017 #158
Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Oct 2017 #159
So sorry riverbendviewgal Oct 2017 #160
Once again, thank you so much, everyone. MineralMan Oct 2017 #161
My condolences MineralMan ismnotwasm Oct 2017 #162
Sorry for your loss. PatrickforO Oct 2017 #163
Deepest condolences---- panader0 Oct 2017 #164
I am sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester Oct 2017 #165
So sorry, MM... Phentex Oct 2017 #166
I'm so very sorry, MineralMan catbyte Oct 2017 #167
I'm so sorry. MoonRiver Oct 2017 #168
Oh Mineral Man I am so sorry for your loss. Maraya1969 Oct 2017 #169
Sorry to hear that. geardaddy Oct 2017 #170
So sorry to you and your family for your loss. VaBchTgerLily Oct 2017 #171
God bless you and yours, MineralMan. sandensea Oct 2017 #172
Accept my condolences Skidmore Oct 2017 #173
Im sorry for your loss lunatica Oct 2017 #174
Lost my youngest brother also to liver problems, So sorry MM........... Old Vet Oct 2017 #175
Condolences, Mr. Man... Raster Oct 2017 #176
Holding you, your parents, and your brother's family in the Light, and in my heart. TygrBright Oct 2017 #177
Just to add . . . peggysue2 Oct 2017 #178
So sorry to hear MM. KPN Oct 2017 #179
so very sorry to hear this, MM. you and your loved ones are in my thoughts for peace niyad Oct 2017 #180
Deepest sympathy to you and yours mate arthritisR_US Oct 2017 #181
Sorry for your loss Bettie Oct 2017 #182
So Sorry DownriverDem Oct 2017 #183
So sorry pandr32 Oct 2017 #184
Very sorry to hear it. MarvinGardens Oct 2017 #185
I send my blessings to your family. It is sad to lose someone you love.Be careful on your trip. The Wielding Truth Oct 2017 #186
It's saddening ,take care MineralMan Wash. state Desk Jet Oct 2017 #187
I'm so sorry, Mineral Man. GoCubsGo Oct 2017 #188
I'm so so sorry MineralMan Tumbulu Oct 2017 #189
Lost my youngest brother Patrick kpete Oct 2017 #190
So very sorry for your loss Mountain Mule Oct 2017 #191
So sorry to hear it man ... mr_lebowski Oct 2017 #192
I am sorry for the devastating loss peacebuzzard Oct 2017 #193
Condolences to you and your family! mfcorey1 Oct 2017 #194
So sorry for your loss! LongTomH Oct 2017 #195
Hekate asked me to send you her condolences, Mineral Man, pnwmom Oct 2017 #196
Thanks so much! MineralMan Oct 2017 #197

redwitch

(14,944 posts)
11. I am sorry for your loss.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:24 PM
Oct 2017

Love and light to you, I hope you are surrounded by people who love you and will lift you up.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
2. My heartfelt sympathies, Mineral Man
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:21 PM
Oct 2017

I lost my younger sister, so I can empathize, with you. I will keep you in my heart and thoughts.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
154. Deepest sympathy.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 07:10 AM
Oct 2017

There is no pain for a parent that is worse than losing a child, at any age. I lost my 45 year old son, I speak from experience. So very sorry for what you and the family must be going through.

redwitch

(14,944 posts)
5. I am so sorry.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:22 PM
Oct 2017

This time spent with your remaining family will be very powerful. Love and light to you and yours.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
8. I am so sorry to hear that Mineral Man. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:22 PM
Oct 2017

That was just too young and I know you must all be heartbroken. Please accept my condolences.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
13. Condolences to your family, MM
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:25 PM
Oct 2017


Take care of your parents - I know from experience how losing a child takes a toll on parents.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
17. what a sad time for you and your family!
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:27 PM
Oct 2017

I lost my brother to a sudden stroke and heart attack when he was only 68. I had to break it to my mother who was then in a nursing home. I flew to Dallas and made all the funeral arrangements but then had to tell my mother that her son had died. It damn near finished me off to do it, but I helped her through the ordeal and the burial. What a sad, sad time.

Hope you will be OK thru such a difficult time, MM...

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
20. My condolences
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:30 PM
Oct 2017

I have lost three brothers, but they were all older than me.

That didn't make it any easier,
and I miss them very much.

livetohike

(22,140 posts)
23. My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:31 PM
Oct 2017

your brother. May every good memory bring you comfort .

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
27. Best wishes in dealing with the loss. Losing close relatives is difficult.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:34 PM
Oct 2017

As a parent myself, I sympathize with your parents.

badhair77

(4,217 posts)
37. I am so sorry for your loss, MM.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:43 PM
Oct 2017

I’m sure your presence will bring comfort to your family at this heartbreaking time. I hope you all can find a way to some peace together.

3catwoman3

(23,975 posts)
38. How very sad. At any age. It sucks.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 08:44 PM
Oct 2017

I have been without my younger brother, who was my only sibling, since 1976. He was only 23.

Wishing you both the inner strength when family members need to lean on you, and strong people around you when you need to do the leaning.

tblue37

(65,340 posts)
50. I am sorry to hear this, MM. Since I just turned 67 myself, I know it is much too young to die.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:02 PM
Oct 2017

I especially feel bad for your parents. It must be the worst sort of grief to outlive your child.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
60. Sorry for your loss my friend.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:20 PM
Oct 2017

Lost my friend Two months ago while waiting for a Kidney. Nine years of Dialysis.

monmouth4

(9,694 posts)
65. So very sorry for your loss MM, my younger brother is not well either and I dread the
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:24 PM
Oct 2017

day. Peace and comfort to your family.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
70. Condolences . I too have lost a younger brother . It puts everything out of order besides the grief
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:28 PM
Oct 2017

you all feel. Spend what time you can with your parents. That has to be worse than losing a younger sibling (for thier own child to pass before they do )
Take care MM
*
Not sure of the circumstances for your brother, but he was not alone in early death from liver issues
Death from liver diseases has been on the rise the last 20 years
I can't find a good article right now and this one only mentions weight diet and alchohol
but I've read our daily exposure to just more chemicals adds to the rate increase no matter how hard you try to avoid by keeping other healthy habits - uff da !

http://news.sky.com/story/dramatic-rise-in-liver-disease-deaths-10373239

bluedigger

(17,086 posts)
73. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:30 PM
Oct 2017

I also lost my younger brother to liver disease earlier this year.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
74. grief never goes away
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:31 PM
Oct 2017

but you do get better at handling it, and i say this as someone who is admittedly getting his sea legs after his late sister died.

TheBlackAdder

(28,189 posts)
76. You have my deepest condolences, MM.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:33 PM
Oct 2017

My heart goes out to you and your family during this sad and stressful time.

Your parents are now at a delicate age, where this type of stress can really affect them.

a kennedy

(29,655 posts)
83. Oh my gawd MM.....
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:39 PM
Oct 2017

soooooo sorry for you. May he Rest In Peace, and you and your family have only the happiest of remembrances.

tavernier

(12,383 posts)
86. Be good to yourself.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:42 PM
Oct 2017

You have an open wound. Allow yourself time to heal. I lost hubby in May. Talking to him helps and that's when I feel him around me.

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
89. Sad indeed...
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:47 PM
Oct 2017

don't know what I would do if it were by brother or sister so my condolences to you and yours.

Silver Gaia

(4,544 posts)
90. I am so very, very sorry.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:48 PM
Oct 2017

I know what it is like to lose a younger sibling. It has been 10 years since I lost my younger brother unexpectedly. The pain becomes less acute with time, but it is still painful. My heart is with you.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
91. Yours is a loss I actually can relate to.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:51 PM
Oct 2017

Instead of reflexively saying "I know how you must feel," I actually do have some idea. I lost my sister almost 3 years ago to PSP, and she was 7 years younger.

I wish you the best.

 

liberalnarb

(4,532 posts)
95. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 09:59 PM
Oct 2017

We recently had a loss in my family. An uncle of mine. He was around the same age.

Enoki33

(1,587 posts)
97. Please accept sincere condolences. I lost my older brother last year
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 10:02 PM
Oct 2017

and the emptiness is still there at times. Wishing all that’s good.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
103. Oh, I'm so sorry
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 10:14 PM
Oct 2017

for the loss of your beloved brother. If you haven't already bought a ticket, some of the airlines offer bereavement fares. They won't volunteer the info, so ask them. Again, so sorry.

spiderpig

(10,419 posts)
105. So sorry, MineralMan.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 10:17 PM
Oct 2017

Our siblings are the people with whom we are likely to have the longest relationships in our lives.

Despite fighting like hell when we were kids (oh, c'mon - we all did!), we develop a bond over time that is like no other.

My sister is my best friend. But don't tell her.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,013 posts)
107. Your news brought me up short. SO sorry for you to lose a brother. What was his
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 10:34 PM
Oct 2017

name?

I lost my younger brother, John, to pancreatic cancer a while ago. Miss him so.

The band is geting smaller, but, we play on.

Wishing you strength in the coming days.

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
120. I am very sorry for your loss. Your parents are heartbroken. Not easy for them.
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 11:12 PM
Oct 2017

I send them and your entire family my thoughts of sympathy and condolences.

May your parents stay strong. Loss of a child at any age is a parents worst fear and heartache.

JHB

(37,160 posts)
121. I'm sorry for your loss, MM
Sun Oct 15, 2017, 11:31 PM
Oct 2017

I'm not exactly the prayerful type, but my rancorous family has managed to settle on "sending good vibes" as an acceptable nondenominational expression of support, and you and your family have mine.

FakeNoose

(32,634 posts)
130. This is really sad news
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 12:23 AM
Oct 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a good time to gather around with family & friends and reminisce the good tmes with your brother.
That's the only good thing about it that I can think of.

JoeOtterbein

(7,700 posts)
131. Sorry Man. I lost my kid brother to cancer when he was only 40. Seems like they got ripped off...
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 12:27 AM
Oct 2017

...of time. The most precious element.

mobeau69

(11,143 posts)
132. My condolences to you and your family.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 12:44 AM
Oct 2017

Seems like the worst things happen to the best people. Take care, MineralMan.

calimary

(81,238 posts)
136. Sending you love, comforting vibes, and solace.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 01:17 AM
Oct 2017

So sorry to hear this, MM. All my sympathy. Use DU for strength during this rough time. Many strong shoulders here for you to lean on, at least figuratively.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
139. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 02:02 AM
Oct 2017

I can't imagine losing my younger sibling before me. My heart hurts for you and yours tonight.

I'm not great at times like this like I wish I were, but I wish you all love and peace to guide you through this painful event.

IndianaDave

(612 posts)
144. I really feel for you and your family.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 02:58 AM
Oct 2017

My younger brother is not in great health, and I have sometimes played that same scenario in my head. I simply can't imagine what you're going through, but I know it's numbingly painful. I send you my prayers and hope that you find the strength to get through this difficult experience. - Dave

DFW

(54,370 posts)
147. My sympathies. I don't know if I could have taken such news very calmly.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 04:03 AM
Oct 2017

I have a younger brother, too. Our parents are gone, but it would be a staggering blow. My wife had a younger brother, and lost him nearly ten years ago.

I hope you and your parents find your way to cope with the loss, because no words from anyone else will quite get you there.

Uff da verkligen!

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
151. My heartfelt condolences.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 06:26 AM
Oct 2017

A sibling is usually a person you've known longer than anyone else in the world. May he rest in peace, and may your family find comfort in one another.

PJMcK

(22,035 posts)
156. Deeply sorry to here this news
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 07:40 AM
Oct 2017

From your previous posts, it sounded like you had a health problem in your family.

I hope you and your family find some solace, MineralMan.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
161. Once again, thank you so much, everyone.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 09:03 AM
Oct 2017

Your outpouring of sympathy and condolences helps to ease the pain of this loss. I'll be flying out to CA on Wednesday to provide whatever comfort I can to my family, and to get whatever comfort I can from family.

I wish I could reply to everyone's replies. However, I'll have to let this post express my sincere gratitude to the DU community.

Thank you all!

Maraya1969

(22,479 posts)
169. Oh Mineral Man I am so sorry for your loss.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 10:23 AM
Oct 2017

I hope there is someway you and your family can find a peace that passes understanding at this time.

sandensea

(21,627 posts)
172. God bless you and yours, MineralMan.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 11:14 AM
Oct 2017

Your brother is in a much better place than this crazy world of ours.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
173. Accept my condolences
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 11:25 AM
Oct 2017

to you and your family on the passing of your brother. May the memories he left you comfort and sustain you.

TygrBright

(20,759 posts)
177. Holding you, your parents, and your brother's family in the Light, and in my heart.
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 12:11 PM
Oct 2017

The sister of a close friend is terrified that she will be kicked off the waiting list for her transplant if she loses her subsidized ACA insurance.

Modern transplant technology has given so much hope to so many, it's a cruel disappointment when the hope is unfulfilled for any reason.

sadly,
Bright

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
178. Just to add . . .
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 12:14 PM
Oct 2017

my condolences. A loss like this is heartbreaking for family members. Blessings to you and yours. Have a safe journey.

niyad

(113,284 posts)
180. so very sorry to hear this, MM. you and your loved ones are in my thoughts for peace
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 12:56 PM
Oct 2017

and healing and comfort.

DownriverDem

(6,228 posts)
183. So Sorry
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 01:25 PM
Oct 2017

So sorry to hear about your brother. No parent should have to bury a child. My brother died from cancer related to his Agent Orange exposure last December at the age of 67 too. My parents are long gone (mom 1989 & Dad 1994), but I can only imagine how your parents must feel. So sorry.

pandr32

(11,581 posts)
184. So sorry
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 01:51 PM
Oct 2017

Condolences to you and your family. May you comfort each other, and know that we here at DU value you here.

Tumbulu

(6,278 posts)
189. I'm so so sorry MineralMan
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 06:03 PM
Oct 2017


It just seems way too young to go, and all I can say is that I am so sorry for you and your families loss.

peacebuzzard

(5,170 posts)
193. I am sorry for the devastating loss
Mon Oct 16, 2017, 07:18 PM
Oct 2017
Of your younger brother. I extend my deep sympathies to you and your parents. That is a tough one, my dear poster. I will be thinking of you and your family these days.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
196. Hekate asked me to send you her condolences, Mineral Man,
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 01:53 AM
Oct 2017

and I'm sending mine along, too!

We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother.

(Hekate has gotten accidentally locked out and is working on getting back in.)

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